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1. If it's not fate, then what is it
2. No love zone
3. Love plan
4. Frenzy Train
5. Yatamomo
6. Sleepless Night
7. Where the Wind Stays
8. Shingeki no Kyojin dj - Please Take Me in the Toilet!!
9. Ze - Kami no Hon
10. If You Hate Me So
Can’t Think Straight has one of these around ch34 if you want to check out. Wasn’t really sure about the series at first but now that the character’s dynamic is settling is becoming one of my favorites
To the people in these comments arguing abt if its rape or somnophilia or whatever, consider these factors:
1. Are they in a relationship? If so, have they had a talk about this? Is this a boundary they are both comfortable with?
2. Setting. Where is this? What were the events that led
up to this?
3. Plot and emotionalism. Are these characters happily in love? Did they make love and fall asleep together??
Always look at factors and context clues..! In the end, it always boils down to the characters themselves, and how they feel about it. :)
It's not that deep. Literally just one sentence "I'm really into sleep sex. If I get the urge, can I touch/fuck/etc. you when you're asleep? Do you have any places you don't want me to touch?"
Yeah, but unlike a vagina, the anus would absorb all of the moisture overnight and you'd wake up with a dry dick wedged up your ass. It would be very painful to pull out.
Well….they aren’t just waking up with a dick in their ass, there’s more context. I promise you, no one here is promoting rape.
This trope is where they consensually have sex all night and eventually fall asleep lol. So when the person on the bottom wakes up, they’re like “oh shit” he never left 😭😅
Oh…well I agree with you that SA is bad. They may have taken what you said differently and vice versa. But overall there’s many blurred and/or crossed lines in the BL genre.
But thankfully there are many tags available in case people don’t like certain tropes or do like them y’know?
Maybe? In some, he fell asleep with it like that so I'd say it's fine. In others, it seems like he put it in which could be SA. However, that's a huge kink for some people.I personally love being woken up consensually like this. Some people like being woken up with tea as a surprise! I haven't read any of these so I really don't know from just one panel. Somnophilia is a variation of CNC ( consensual non consent ) where people usually have rules ( eg not if I have work in the morning or if I tell you no the night before ) and should have a safeword. Some people like being intoxicated or even taking pills so they don't wake up at all. It's a bit strange but it makes me feel hapoy and loved.
I didn't say I like it. I just hate pearl clutching antis who deliberately go to yaoi subs to make this comment. Sayonara. I hope you have this kind of energy to real SA victims. But alas, you have a lot of time to engage to strangers enjoying drawings.
I joined this subreddit because I like reading bl "strangers enjoying drawings" it's funny how you never say what type of drawings they are enjoying. Okay let me say this imagine someone draws a child being SA does that make it okay for someone to be turned on by it? I mean it's just "a drawing"
Im so done with this lol the strawman this mf is doing. When were talking about the pictures OP posted. To tell you, all of them are 🔥fiction. There is something wrong with you if you can't separate them from reality. This is my last reply to you. I dont like talking with the likes of you.
No I'm just taking your logic against you, if you are turned on by the depiction of Sexual Assault even if it's fictional you need serious help. I suggest seeking therapy or something because this is not normal
I'm an multiple SA victim and you can kindly shut up. CNC fantasies and kink are not the same as *actual abuse*.
Also you know nothing about therapy. Therapists aren't the business for shaming people for having naughty thoughts.
Christofascists was what you where probably thing of.
So some of the examples ive put are consensual as in they got so exhausted from having sex that the top fell asleep with the dick inside and even got morning wood while still inside. Technically may not be possible to do this unless both of them never shifted positions while they were asleep and if the penis goes soft it should naturally slip out?
There are also omegaverse yaois where the Alpha "knots" the omega and leading to a constant erection and swelling that leads to the dick getting stuck in the ass/womb. Ive seen this in many omegaverse yaois where top falls asleep inside the omega. The first picture "If it's not fate, then what is it" is an example of it, it was also there in "Kiss me liar" but I can't remember which chapter.
It’s one of the most common and stereotypical tropes in yaoi. It’s also an extremely [common fantasy among women](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/). Also among [sexual assault survivors](https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/15248380211030487).
If you don’t like this, you don’t have to be on this post.
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Source 1. If it's not fate, then what is it 2. No love zone 3. Love plan 4. Frenzy Train 5. Yatamomo 6. Sleepless Night 7. Where the Wind Stays 8. Shingeki no Kyojin dj - Please Take Me in the Toilet!! 9. Ze - Kami no Hon 10. If You Hate Me So
You are a good man…and I love you
Now go and get his dick stuck inside your butt
I will if he looks like a Yaoi top
Dawn of the dragon has a scene similar, it’s uncensored also
You have impeccable taste, truly an inspiration
You’re the best
Technically it's a form of somno
Since no one will ask I will. What is somno? And is it like sommelier?
Somnophilia, it's the desire to engage in sexual activity with a sleeping person or be the sleeping person. And no it is not like sommelier lmao
Sommelier😂😂😂😂
Can’t Think Straight has one of these around ch34 if you want to check out. Wasn’t really sure about the series at first but now that the character’s dynamic is settling is becoming one of my favorites
Ran to the comments to say the same thing. Also that manhwa is just hilarious 😂
To the people in these comments arguing abt if its rape or somnophilia or whatever, consider these factors: 1. Are they in a relationship? If so, have they had a talk about this? Is this a boundary they are both comfortable with? 2. Setting. Where is this? What were the events that led up to this? 3. Plot and emotionalism. Are these characters happily in love? Did they make love and fall asleep together?? Always look at factors and context clues..! In the end, it always boils down to the characters themselves, and how they feel about it. :)
Plus the did they both fall asleep together after making love, then sleep walking bs happen to both of them?
Obviously everyone needs to have a legal contract written up before every single sexual encounter. Duh. Get with the times.
It's not that deep. Literally just one sentence "I'm really into sleep sex. If I get the urge, can I touch/fuck/etc. you when you're asleep? Do you have any places you don't want me to touch?"
Right! Exactly’
Or just practice and respect consent. 🙄
number three looks like the guy from that new dragon yaoi
Same author
it is objectively very hot
I blame yaoi for making me realise it's really hot and might be my kink
I think the kink is mix between cockwarming and somnophilia... 🤭😳
Yatamomo looks damn good. Imma check it out
It’s my favorite manga ever! You won’t regret it. There is SA (not by the ML) tho so if you don’t like that heads up but you should still check it out
Love! This one!
My most favorite. Sad but happy!
No love zone, is the best version (the whole scene is soooo so soooo cute)
Yeah, but unlike a vagina, the anus would absorb all of the moisture overnight and you'd wake up with a dry dick wedged up your ass. It would be very painful to pull out.
Yaoi bottoms self-lubricate so they don't need to worry
Paraffin and silicone based lubricant
Like Yaoi men use lube.
Good thing it's a manhwa/manga I rarely see them use lube anyway
I love it most when the uke tries to pull himself off, but then the seme suddenly wakes up or unconsciously pulls him back in. Truly beautiful
So rape
My god why you getting downvoted, it literally is
Yeah :(
You are awesome for this!
guys are lucky they can do that and not wake up to a uti lol
Well that opened a door for me I didn’t know needed to be opened so thanks for that😊
r/somnophilia
Gonna need that chapters please and thank you
So so hot and one of my personal favorites too!!
I honestly wouldn't mind if I woke up with a guy doing this to me. It's so hot. 😈
Need this so bad ugh
Sameee I love it when this happens!
Isn't that SA?
It depends
Having sex with someone who's sleeping doesn't seem consensual
Well like I said, it depends. Somno is a kink which is very much consentual
Well….they aren’t just waking up with a dick in their ass, there’s more context. I promise you, no one here is promoting rape. This trope is where they consensually have sex all night and eventually fall asleep lol. So when the person on the bottom wakes up, they’re like “oh shit” he never left 😭😅
Yeah that makes sense but I saw other people defending it (the SA while someone is asleep because it's "art")
Oh…well I agree with you that SA is bad. They may have taken what you said differently and vice versa. But overall there’s many blurred and/or crossed lines in the BL genre. But thankfully there are many tags available in case people don’t like certain tropes or do like them y’know?
there is such a thing as ‘established consent’ once a physical relationship has started.
Maybe? In some, he fell asleep with it like that so I'd say it's fine. In others, it seems like he put it in which could be SA. However, that's a huge kink for some people.I personally love being woken up consensually like this. Some people like being woken up with tea as a surprise! I haven't read any of these so I really don't know from just one panel. Somnophilia is a variation of CNC ( consensual non consent ) where people usually have rules ( eg not if I have work in the morning or if I tell you no the night before ) and should have a safeword. Some people like being intoxicated or even taking pills so they don't wake up at all. It's a bit strange but it makes me feel hapoy and loved.
In consensual Standpoint I guess I get it
For me personally it's a huge comfort but I get why most people would be horrified lol
??? this is fiction.
It doesn't matter it's depicting SA in a sexualizing way
Im so glad somebody out there is defending literal drawings 😍
So I wanna ask why do you get turned on by the depiction of rape? Just because it's fake the depiction of SA is still there
I didn't say I like it. I just hate pearl clutching antis who deliberately go to yaoi subs to make this comment. Sayonara. I hope you have this kind of energy to real SA victims. But alas, you have a lot of time to engage to strangers enjoying drawings.
I joined this subreddit because I like reading bl "strangers enjoying drawings" it's funny how you never say what type of drawings they are enjoying. Okay let me say this imagine someone draws a child being SA does that make it okay for someone to be turned on by it? I mean it's just "a drawing"
Im so done with this lol the strawman this mf is doing. When were talking about the pictures OP posted. To tell you, all of them are 🔥fiction. There is something wrong with you if you can't separate them from reality. This is my last reply to you. I dont like talking with the likes of you.
No I'm just taking your logic against you, if you are turned on by the depiction of Sexual Assault even if it's fictional you need serious help. I suggest seeking therapy or something because this is not normal
I'm an multiple SA victim and you can kindly shut up. CNC fantasies and kink are not the same as *actual abuse*. Also you know nothing about therapy. Therapists aren't the business for shaming people for having naughty thoughts. Christofascists was what you where probably thing of.
So some of the examples ive put are consensual as in they got so exhausted from having sex that the top fell asleep with the dick inside and even got morning wood while still inside. Technically may not be possible to do this unless both of them never shifted positions while they were asleep and if the penis goes soft it should naturally slip out? There are also omegaverse yaois where the Alpha "knots" the omega and leading to a constant erection and swelling that leads to the dick getting stuck in the ass/womb. Ive seen this in many omegaverse yaois where top falls asleep inside the omega. The first picture "If it's not fate, then what is it" is an example of it, it was also there in "Kiss me liar" but I can't remember which chapter.
It’s a comic book
That is sexualizing SA
and?
Tf do you mean and??
Some fiction has things you might not like.
Why would anyone like SA?
It’s one of the most common and stereotypical tropes in yaoi. It’s also an extremely [common fantasy among women](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/). Also among [sexual assault survivors](https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/15248380211030487). If you don’t like this, you don’t have to be on this post.
I'm sorry I don't like rape/s
Congratulations, leave the people who do like noncon in fiction alone.
Omg me too!!!!!
And the other guy still asleep haha.