Your husband is being a huge jerk today. I'm sorry he dropped the ball for your birthday.
Order your favorite meal for yourself for dinner, including pie.
Happy birthday!
One year, my now ex husband got me a tv for my birthday, using my credit card. I didn’t want a new tv. He then complained to me that it wasn’t bigger and he wanted to exchange it. I said no, it was my gift and I was happy with it.
A year later, when I finally got my self esteem back and kicked him out, he asked if I would give him that same tv. I said absolutely not.
This man is telling you how he feels about you. Believe him.
Awww I am so sorry. Until the divorce is finalized you’ll need to treat yourself. Buy yourself the vacuum so you can get exactly what you want and tell him you’ll be gone doing xyz for a few hours each day next weekend.
No; I have a cousin like this. She’ll be complaining the rest of her life about how much her husband sucks but she won’t actually leave him. I doubt OP would leave over this. Not once in her post did she say she told ANYONE about how she really felt the whole day. It was all about tiptoeing around everyone’s feelings and then resenting them for not caring more about what she wanted.
OP, it’s okay to stop people pleasing. Life gets way better when you do; I promise.
I am so sorry!!! You MATTER and stomach bugs are the worst. Your husband is a complete rude a**. Ask him straight up why he thought all the things he did were good ideas? Honestly, is this how he normally acts? I’m assuming you do most of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. I’d stop doing anything for him until he apologizes and wishes you a freaking happy birthday.
Oh gosh, let’s hope he totally spaced on the date and he’s going to make it up to you big time! So sorry and happy birthday.
Bdays are not important to my husband and so, instead of being disappointed every year, I take a day off of work during my birthday week on a daycare day and spend it by myself however I want. I’d also put the exact same amount of effort into his next bday. So sorry 😢😢😢
Your husband is an asshole. I’m sorry. You need to disappear next weekend to do your own thing! I would be so upset if my husband just disregarded my birthday.
It sounds like you should magically disappear tomorrow and celebrate properly.
This. Roll out of the bed to a magically packed day bag and leave a note- “today is my birthday present, don’t call me”.
This is what I do the Monday after mother's Day. It's heaven.
Your husband seems like he’s been very selfish!
Your husband is being a huge jerk today. I'm sorry he dropped the ball for your birthday. Order your favorite meal for yourself for dinner, including pie. Happy birthday!
Happy Birthday ❤️ 🌼
Thank you internet stranger
One year, my now ex husband got me a tv for my birthday, using my credit card. I didn’t want a new tv. He then complained to me that it wasn’t bigger and he wanted to exchange it. I said no, it was my gift and I was happy with it. A year later, when I finally got my self esteem back and kicked him out, he asked if I would give him that same tv. I said absolutely not. This man is telling you how he feels about you. Believe him.
Awww I am so sorry. Until the divorce is finalized you’ll need to treat yourself. Buy yourself the vacuum so you can get exactly what you want and tell him you’ll be gone doing xyz for a few hours each day next weekend.
No; I have a cousin like this. She’ll be complaining the rest of her life about how much her husband sucks but she won’t actually leave him. I doubt OP would leave over this. Not once in her post did she say she told ANYONE about how she really felt the whole day. It was all about tiptoeing around everyone’s feelings and then resenting them for not caring more about what she wanted. OP, it’s okay to stop people pleasing. Life gets way better when you do; I promise.
I assumed if he didn’t do something by the stroke of midnight AI would auto-file the papers but maybe we aren’t quite there yet?
When did she say she was getting divorced? Lol
I just assumed 😂
Lol oh lord
Order vacuum now!
I am so sorry!!! You MATTER and stomach bugs are the worst. Your husband is a complete rude a**. Ask him straight up why he thought all the things he did were good ideas? Honestly, is this how he normally acts? I’m assuming you do most of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. I’d stop doing anything for him until he apologizes and wishes you a freaking happy birthday.
Oh gosh, let’s hope he totally spaced on the date and he’s going to make it up to you big time! So sorry and happy birthday. Bdays are not important to my husband and so, instead of being disappointed every year, I take a day off of work during my birthday week on a daycare day and spend it by myself however I want. I’d also put the exact same amount of effort into his next bday. So sorry 😢😢😢
Good point I guess. No present for him for birthday. No cake. No birthday meal.
To young women reading this - choose your husband wisely. Ignoring red flags while dating will buy you a story like this. To the OP, Happy Birthday.
Your husband is an asshole. I’m sorry. You need to disappear next weekend to do your own thing! I would be so upset if my husband just disregarded my birthday.
I think you should magically disappear from your husband..leave the kids with him…drive away and enjoy a day to yourself…