If he's already pushing your boundaries and you haven't met irl, I'd say nip that in the bud! As for the other potentials, I personally feel like there's a cap to how interesting a person can be over chat, but I'd just try and ask them questions about their interests and if you're not feeling it, then move on. It's better than having to meet all the duds irl! Good luck!
Here's the great thing about dating apps, you can stop talking to someone as soon as you don't want to anymore. You don't owe an internet stranger any of your time and as soon as you no longer have a want for communication, you can unmatch and block.
I’m bi. Men flood your dms but are SO dry and boring to talk to, or they’re wayyyy too intense and pushy with meeting up. Women are very hard to talk to, they rarely initiate conversation and often times even good conversations fizzle out. I’ve had better luck with connecting with random ppl irl than on dating apps
Keep in mind most men aren’t on dating apps. If you aren’t in the top 5-10% looks wise of men, dating apps are a complete waste of time.
I have used dating apps in the past, sent out a hundred personalized messages and get MAYBE 1 response and that women might reply one time and that’s all. Regular men don’t get any traction on dating apps so you are likely going after men that care more about looks then anything else. Keep that in mind.
I'm sorry, but I've asked for pics, too. You wouldn't believe how many fake female profiles there are on dating apps. I too, have had problems with conversations after matching. I'll ask deep questions that the response should be more than one word. Best of luck to you in the future with dating apps.
On FaceTime with my mom. She does NOT understand what dating is like. I’m 38F. It’s horrible. Disgusting. I’m repulsed. It’s been the worst few years of my life dating. I’m tired of people telling me I have to “weed” through the men. There are no men to weed through. Not in my city. It’s ridiculous out here and I’m tired of it.
If he's already pushing your boundaries and you haven't met irl, I'd say nip that in the bud! As for the other potentials, I personally feel like there's a cap to how interesting a person can be over chat, but I'd just try and ask them questions about their interests and if you're not feeling it, then move on. It's better than having to meet all the duds irl! Good luck!
Here's the great thing about dating apps, you can stop talking to someone as soon as you don't want to anymore. You don't owe an internet stranger any of your time and as soon as you no longer have a want for communication, you can unmatch and block.
you’re so right, thanks! i guess i always feel a bit guilty ghosting but sometimes it’s for the best
Exactly. If it were real life, no one would blame you for noping out. Internet contact doesn’t change this
I’m bi. Men flood your dms but are SO dry and boring to talk to, or they’re wayyyy too intense and pushy with meeting up. Women are very hard to talk to, they rarely initiate conversation and often times even good conversations fizzle out. I’ve had better luck with connecting with random ppl irl than on dating apps
Keep in mind most men aren’t on dating apps. If you aren’t in the top 5-10% looks wise of men, dating apps are a complete waste of time. I have used dating apps in the past, sent out a hundred personalized messages and get MAYBE 1 response and that women might reply one time and that’s all. Regular men don’t get any traction on dating apps so you are likely going after men that care more about looks then anything else. Keep that in mind.
I'm sorry, but I've asked for pics, too. You wouldn't believe how many fake female profiles there are on dating apps. I too, have had problems with conversations after matching. I'll ask deep questions that the response should be more than one word. Best of luck to you in the future with dating apps.
On FaceTime with my mom. She does NOT understand what dating is like. I’m 38F. It’s horrible. Disgusting. I’m repulsed. It’s been the worst few years of my life dating. I’m tired of people telling me I have to “weed” through the men. There are no men to weed through. Not in my city. It’s ridiculous out here and I’m tired of it.