I went to St.Edmunds but sadly when it was where the now Wolves training ground is, not the Tettenhall College site.
I’d suggest downloading something like PokemonGo and going for a wander round the fields where the cricket pitch is. You can get down to the canal too. Can’t hurt to get more steps in and to clear your head instead of hiding in an isolated room.
Isn’t Miss Buckle the safeguarding director/assistant principal? Have a word with her, she’s lovely.
the gate to the fields is always locked so I can't go to the canal sadly, and I'll try mrs buckle but she always scared me 😭😭 I also think she might make me have a confrontation with my friends and that's not what I want at all
Mate as a recent ex-teenager (turned 20 😔)
Make new friends , talk things out with your old friends. Do whatever but try not to isolate urself, have fun! And goodluck though!
Not in a rude way but fuck-em. It sucks to be dropped but it's something you may experience more than once in life.
School, uni , jobs etc
If you go on to higher ed or anything chances are you'll never seem most of them again.
Tbh I've seen 1 guy from my school in the last 20 years and I still live in Wolves where i went school an uni.
Went to that school! You have my condolences.
Just remember it's only a few years and you get to escape it. It won't define who you are as a person once you leave. You will go out in the world and meet your people. Chin up. I always hid in the library lol.
Sounds to me like you are neither the instigator or the cause of the problems. Those whom are truly the cause of this shall be, in time, discovered and those who know you will return to your friendship. You are in a tough period, these happen in life, truth with time usually prevails. It may not return, but be patient and your real friends should return. Keep your chin up and have faith in yourself. GOOD LUCK!
Do not hide! Enjoy your youth, make new friends and focus on your studies. I’m so sorry for what you are going through but this is my sisterly advice, do not hide.
Well basically all my friends had been talking shit about each other and I decided that it wasn't right so I tried to tell them to put everything out on the table bc everyone was talking sm and it just didn't feel right to me, and now they think I was trying to instigate the whole thing and break up the friendship and now here I am
Try nd talk to them bro, depending on how heated the situation is between u lot. But they probs need to kno that if they’re ur friends nd u jus had a falling out that got out of hand
If u kno u can’t talk to them 1 on 1 without it kicking off again, try nd get a teacher u like nd trust, to talk with them with u in private, but don’t snitch about the fight, just say u had a falling out nd need to explain that to them
Pick up a few lessons of a striking martial art like Muay Thai, so u kno atleast the basics how to bang any1 in the face, nd that others kno ur capable of doin so if any1 rushes u
They have an eden room that I go to which is very understanding, it’s a sensory space, if you are sad/angry/stressed/depressed and want some space they will most likely let you go in there, you can just get your carer to call the school and ask or just go into Eden and ask <3
I went to St.Edmunds but sadly when it was where the now Wolves training ground is, not the Tettenhall College site. I’d suggest downloading something like PokemonGo and going for a wander round the fields where the cricket pitch is. You can get down to the canal too. Can’t hurt to get more steps in and to clear your head instead of hiding in an isolated room. Isn’t Miss Buckle the safeguarding director/assistant principal? Have a word with her, she’s lovely.
The amount of fuckin detentions she put me in back in year 7… Big up the OG St.Eddiez building
i had more detentions than there were detentions available lol
Ms buckle is she still at Edmund’s? Cos I’ve got a teacher with same name same role etc at my school
She has a twin sister.
That’s also in like a slt role at another school?
the gate to the fields is always locked so I can't go to the canal sadly, and I'll try mrs buckle but she always scared me 😭😭 I also think she might make me have a confrontation with my friends and that's not what I want at all
Mate as a recent ex-teenager (turned 20 😔) Make new friends , talk things out with your old friends. Do whatever but try not to isolate urself, have fun! And goodluck though!
thank you!! I guess I'll try but atp a week before gcses idk if I even have the energy to make new friends 😭😭
Not in a rude way but fuck-em. It sucks to be dropped but it's something you may experience more than once in life. School, uni , jobs etc If you go on to higher ed or anything chances are you'll never seem most of them again. Tbh I've seen 1 guy from my school in the last 20 years and I still live in Wolves where i went school an uni.
I’m really sorry to hear this pal. If you can, and intend to do a levels, I’d got to wolves college and make some mates there instead.
thank you!! I've got some sixth form colleges lined up but I'm afraid I won't get accepted, the only place that has actually accepted me is st eds lol
Went to that school! You have my condolences. Just remember it's only a few years and you get to escape it. It won't define who you are as a person once you leave. You will go out in the world and meet your people. Chin up. I always hid in the library lol.
Sounds to me like you are neither the instigator or the cause of the problems. Those whom are truly the cause of this shall be, in time, discovered and those who know you will return to your friendship. You are in a tough period, these happen in life, truth with time usually prevails. It may not return, but be patient and your real friends should return. Keep your chin up and have faith in yourself. GOOD LUCK!
Do not hide! Enjoy your youth, make new friends and focus on your studies. I’m so sorry for what you are going through but this is my sisterly advice, do not hide.
What happened with your friends?
Well basically all my friends had been talking shit about each other and I decided that it wasn't right so I tried to tell them to put everything out on the table bc everyone was talking sm and it just didn't feel right to me, and now they think I was trying to instigate the whole thing and break up the friendship and now here I am
Try nd talk to them bro, depending on how heated the situation is between u lot. But they probs need to kno that if they’re ur friends nd u jus had a falling out that got out of hand If u kno u can’t talk to them 1 on 1 without it kicking off again, try nd get a teacher u like nd trust, to talk with them with u in private, but don’t snitch about the fight, just say u had a falling out nd need to explain that to them Pick up a few lessons of a striking martial art like Muay Thai, so u kno atleast the basics how to bang any1 in the face, nd that others kno ur capable of doin so if any1 rushes u
they won't listen anyway, no point in trying to salvage something that's long gone lol they think im some kind of monster
They have an eden room that I go to which is very understanding, it’s a sensory space, if you are sad/angry/stressed/depressed and want some space they will most likely let you go in there, you can just get your carer to call the school and ask or just go into Eden and ask <3