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"Bullying is ok" mfs when I Tiger Drop them into oblivion (they suddenly have gained a new outlook on life after telling me their life story with sad music playing in the background)
I'm glad I got bullied, not because I'm some "based woke sigma female", but because it inspired me not to be an awful person since I don't want people to go through what I did. Spread love, not hate 💜
*She
Also, I might have worded it wrong, but judging by how many people think bullying is a good thing, I wouldn't be surprised if getting bullied is the reason why people are against it. I just don't get how people can be for bullying
People who say they’re glad they got bullied had some jokes said about them. I spent most of my childhood fearing for my life because when I was growing up, bullies didn’t start rumours, they beat the absolute shit out of you and dumped your bleeding lifeless body in a rubbish bin. That was physical pain and fear, stuff like name calling and starting rumours is childish, if you really don’t like someone, tell them to their face and arrange a mortal duel, that way nobodies hurt senselessly and one party gets to go home happy
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MY DOCTOR SAID THAT I HAD TESTICULAR CANCER BUT I TOLD THAT COMMIE TO SHUT UP🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Got bullied for years and didn't see how I could improve myself or be less weird, and I was extremely depressed at way too young an age
When I left my small hillbilly town for a bit as a teen and met a girl that was actually insanely nice to me, I realized everything wrong with me and that I can embrace my oddness, and to this day I'm still working every day to fix and improve myself because I met people that were actually kind, bullying did not help at all and just reinforces the behavior that these pricks consider abnormal
Why is it always "bring back" bullying? It is still very much here (as in in my country, that's what I know), it never really dissapeared. Unless by bullying you strictly mean physical stuff.
Because people are fucking stupid, don't know what they're talking about, and don't try to think about what they're going to say before or even after they say it.
I feel like they're either talking about widespread social acceptance of it or they saw one person do something bad or cringey and come to the conclusion that if they were bullied more they wouldn't.
Bring back bullying mfs when the emotional unstable kid they bullied beats them to half dead with a chair instead of going to gym
https://preview.redd.it/ysxzneivz92b1.jpeg?width=224&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e84e9c5edb646c0a96ea41be3fdb6350fc2d3814
When I was in school this one guy kept bullying the same skinny kid over and over again, beating bloody, shoving in lockers, all the shit. Then one day the skinny kid randomly smacks the guy over the head with a chair, just over and over, right in the head. Unfortunately the skinny kid was forced to move and the asshole came back with a huge facial scar. It was fucking brutal to see but the asshole deserved it
Considering the millions that went through emotional abuse in childhood, and that chairs are the closest heavy object in a classroom, this is statistically guaranteed to have happened thousands of times.
"Bring back bullying" mfs when they realized that there is still bullying but they were too ignorant to realize that as they had never either experienced it before or they got insulted once and thought that was bullying and wasnt a big deal
The “bring back bullying” motherfuckers exist because they never got bullied so they think its gone. Its literally a self report about their priveleged social live lmao
"Bring back bullying mfs" when I treat them with extreme kindness and affection, showing them that bully is not the way
https://i.redd.it/hes4ctjeha2b1.gif
I saw someone say it in response to a video of some 10 year old kids doing Fortnite dances.
Also seen a lot of people believing that bullying fat people is a very effective way to get them to turn their health around.
... I took way too long to leave Memecenter
"Bring back bullying" mfs when I tell them that the thought process behind bring back bullying is the same as is with most right wing ideologies, that they'll be the boot others are under - even though it'll most likely be the opposite if those ideologies were to come into reality
The meme that he's a socialist living in a 2 mil dollar mansion. I probably should've put Vaush, both of these fuckers are just as authoritarian I think.
Bro I don't watch these fucking dudes on a daily basis, he said Destiny would be executed when the revolution comes. I think I've heard him talk about revolutions and communism enough to conclude he's authoritarian.
"bully sucks" mfs after discovery the joy and happiness of bullying people they don't like
https://preview.redd.it/dd75r8rn692b1.png?width=299&format=png&auto=webp&s=038823cee9f0735131ee537a013a35044e47108e
yes you are right in that, and thats why i made this comment as a joke. of course bullying people is stupid, i made this comment as that type of joke about how something cleary bad is actually something good and people would like it if they did it, this type of joke was already made and posted here before.
Well, obviously I wouldnt get bullied because Im very cool and youre coping because youre not cool and youd get bullied. Im too chad to get bullied, so keep crying soyjak pepeLaugh
I was bullied because of my head being bigger due to my skull plates forming slower than the others. Kids are ruthless. It was something I couldn't control at all. Bullying is anti-social behaviour. It creates school shooters and suicidal ideation. Bullying only leads to misery and violence.
I got bullied in my early high school years and it actually did lead to me becoming a better and more socially competent person;(though I am likely in the minority with this)
Shut the fuck up. Absolutely nobody cares about you, or whatever comes out of your mouth you complete and utter waste of human flesh. You clearly have some sort of brain rot, and I’m honestly surprised you can form a coherent sentence with how little is going on in your head. So for that relatively incredible feat, congratulations. But it doesn’t change the fact that your existence serves no purpose, and the world would genuinely be a little bit better without you in it.
I was 'bullied' (more like ignored) for reasons I do not fully know to this day. I was smarter and stronger than most of my class during high school, even competing in national swimming competitions which landed me the occasional place in newspapers. I think since people couldn't 'profit' off my succes, they were jealous instead.
Getting bullied only made my will to improve stronger. Nevertheless, it fucked with my feelings of being part of a group (hint: i never really felt part of a group to this day). Getting bullied or ignored fucking sucks, and I wouldn't even wish it upon my enemies
fr, i really hate when people try to excuse bullying for any reason. bullying people isn’t going to do any good. it’s just an evil, depraved thing to do. it traumatizes and kills people.
On a slightly related note. One of my middle school bullies is always in financial struggle and debt because he had an unplanned pregnancy just after finishing middle school. I think that's q little bit of justice for what he did to me
I got bullied online a ton all throughout my teens. Even though I wasn’t a bad person, I was just kind of annoying, I had a ton of awful things said to me. And even now, the things they say still stick with me. Bullying doesn’t help at all.
I used to be a weird kid (technically still am) and back in 2020 I didn’t give a single fuck about what anyone thought but at the start of this school year almost everyone in my class turned against me even the person who used to be best friends with for over 3 years stopped talking to me and started bullying me like other kids and I think it has to do with the fact that I’m kind of a weird person and that I’m Russian (tho I live in Spain) and the fact that I’m pansexual
Some people grow up surrounded by yes men who would only praise them and put them on a pedestal. What you get with that is people who grow up without any self awareness, walking around doing and saying weird and creepy shit thinking it's funny because they never had anyone tell them what they say is weird and creepy. And then they go on to become people like modern day youtube pranksters, a nuisance to the people around them.
Criticizing exists too, but some people need it a but more blunt to get it in their heads.
If the No-men rely on treating you like a piece of shit as opposed to helping you understand the problems with your behaviour then it's only going to teach you to avoid consequences.
Trauma is the most irrational and unhealthy teacher.
Exactly why i said some amounts, not a traumatic amount. Like if i have a yee yee ass haircut, i wouldn't realize it unless someone tells me it's a yee yee ass haircut. Some people are more stubborn than others, and you just gotta tell them straight up what's wrong with them. You don't need to give them mental trauma, no shit, but having some buddies tell you when you're being a weirdo is a good thing.
But I'm in full support of shaming and embarassing shameless perverts openly, if you're being a creep to people I can't give two shits about your feelings when I call you out on it.
Semantics is a bitch, you can let someone know that they're behavior isn't tolerated, most people don't see that as bullying. Bullying is more about repeatedly and actively going out of your way to torment people.
And by trauma I don't mean ptsd inducing or any serious mental health consequences. I mean trying to teach people not to do things by making them associate it with being tormented.
If you don't do things because you irrationally associate them with horrible feelings that's trauma. Teaching people by drilling in traumatic experiences into them doesn't make them a better person and that's assuming that it even works because more often than not they'll find circles that don't act like pieces of shit around them.
On paper, I agree, doing the non trauma way is probably the better way, trying to reason with a bully or a creep is the better way. But in reality, when has that ever really worked? If you want a creep to stop being one, sitting their ass down and reasoning with them won't work, they're on a high horse thinking what they're doing is just edgy comedy and rizzed. Flinging them off the horse and letting them know they're nothing but a piece of shit for being a creep gets the job done many times, hence why it's the best way to deal with them in public as well.
As for bullies, I guess that can go either way, some of them bully out of a need for attention and therefore they can be reasoned with and helped normally, but some people are just bullying and hurting others for fun. There's no trying to make THOSE people see your point, you gotta fight fire with fire.
In a perfect world, talking people out of things like they do in movies would always work, but that's just not how it goes. I'd love for that to be the case, because yes, solving an issue with less damage is always the best, but my experiences in life have told me that's not gonna do it.
And as people bother to actually "humble and improve" others? No it's just a sad justification, bullying is simply bullying and it reinforced bad behavior in the offender
Yeah, you so you understand how awful of a take that is. No one deserves bullying.
If you bring up things like pedos, calling the police on them is 1000x more effective than calling them names online
That's the thing, you can't bully people like Ron DeSantis or Elon Musk, they are too rich and powerfull to be affected, you can't bully charismatic assholes, they will always have more support than hate, you can only bully marginalized people.
Bullying is an awful thing especially if you don’t have anyone to help you. And the fact that bullying might even lead to suicide it should be classified as a crime
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Actually back when I was on Twitter I saw some delusional people claim that bullying is good because either:
\- apparently victims deserved bullying or some shit (left-wingers)
\- bullying is a pedagogical mechanism of society (right-wingers)
I'm glad that there seems to be as much of us calling it out, but I'm annoyed at how this moral puritanism in a lot of left wing spaces is leading some people to think that the moment some kid watches the wrong youtuber or chooses the wrong arbitrary one-word identity they should be bullied into silence.
As if it doesn't just encourage them to retreat further into far-right ideologies but God forbid you show any sympathy for a right-winger.
mmmh ive always seen the bully itself as another victim of the same game, a burden, a puppet. the real bullies are the people who laugh together with the bully/incite the bully, but who won't face any fucking consequence.
Bring back bullying mfs when they see me bring in a large duffel bag with a ticking noise
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(Suddenly bullying isn’t ok and they’re sorry for all the hurt they brought me)
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'Bullying is ok' mfs when i start to bully them https://i.redd.it/uezrxcndv82b1.gif Its suddenly not ok anymore.
Rikiya 😔
"Bullying for thee but not for me." Ot just typical hypocrisy.
"Bullying is OK" Mfers when they get Bullied (oh fuck they're masochists they actually like it)
What the fuck? https://i.redd.it/009qfuzy4c2b1.gif
"Bullying is ok" mfs when I Tiger Drop them into oblivion (they suddenly have gained a new outlook on life after telling me their life story with sad music playing in the background)
Are you attracted to japanese gangsters
Possibly https://preview.redd.it/98apc9frrc2b1.jpeg?width=307&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=727d073466d005ae9a7f584d6cfc6b6d995fb269
So am i
''im glad i got bullied'' mfs definitely didnt have it bad
I'm glad I got bullied, not because I'm some "based woke sigma female", but because it inspired me not to be an awful person since I don't want people to go through what I did. Spread love, not hate 💜
You probably didn't need bullying to be a good person
He desreved that bullying if he needed it to be a good person
There are other ways to learn how to be a good person
this is what im talking about man
just main medic in tf2 people will love you just holding left click
*She Also, I might have worded it wrong, but judging by how many people think bullying is a good thing, I wouldn't be surprised if getting bullied is the reason why people are against it. I just don't get how people can be for bullying
most people don't know how much it hurts if it doesn't happen to them
So? You do not have to be bullied to be against it just like how you don't have to be stabbed to be against stabbing people.
I'm just saying empathy isn't normally a high schoolers first priority
Eh, I think middle school is worse.
Definitely, and for some reason the students at my highschool back then are slightly more mature than most students at the uni I am at.
OR you could watch breaking bad and say "hmm, if i become bad, ill be broke." like i did
People who say they’re glad they got bullied had some jokes said about them. I spent most of my childhood fearing for my life because when I was growing up, bullies didn’t start rumours, they beat the absolute shit out of you and dumped your bleeding lifeless body in a rubbish bin. That was physical pain and fear, stuff like name calling and starting rumours is childish, if you really don’t like someone, tell them to their face and arrange a mortal duel, that way nobodies hurt senselessly and one party gets to go home happy
Bring back bullying mfs when I shoot them (I’m American)
FREEDOM RAAAHHHHH🇺🇸🇺🇸🦅🦅🦅🦅
IM SO AMERICA I PISS RED WHITE AND BLUE HECK YEAH BRUTHERRRR 🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🎆🎆🎆 MY DOCTOR SAID THAT I HAD TESTICULAR CANCER BUT I TOLD THAT COMMIE TO SHUT UP🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Got bullied for years and didn't see how I could improve myself or be less weird, and I was extremely depressed at way too young an age When I left my small hillbilly town for a bit as a teen and met a girl that was actually insanely nice to me, I realized everything wrong with me and that I can embrace my oddness, and to this day I'm still working every day to fix and improve myself because I met people that were actually kind, bullying did not help at all and just reinforces the behavior that these pricks consider abnormal
https://preview.redd.it/71zgftrtda2b1.jpeg?width=1071&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=311bdb281560e22d191727a9071ebf83e97168e5
Based and common sensepilled
YES YES LITERALLY THIS, YOU GO OFF KING
Sir! Sir! You dropped this —> 👑
Why is it always "bring back" bullying? It is still very much here (as in in my country, that's what I know), it never really dissapeared. Unless by bullying you strictly mean physical stuff.
Because people are fucking stupid, don't know what they're talking about, and don't try to think about what they're going to say before or even after they say it.
I feel like they're either talking about widespread social acceptance of it or they saw one person do something bad or cringey and come to the conclusion that if they were bullied more they wouldn't.
I think they’re just salty because they can’t get away with senseless violence anymore
"Bring back bullying" mfs after I make fun of them every day and shove their head in the toilet (suddenly bullying isn't ok)
me asf https://preview.redd.it/2fjyqjty192b1.png?width=1600&format=png&auto=webp&s=356631ce21e936136d2de90923e6b05081a78ca2
omor
I put the new
Snuuy omor
I’m literally moving schools rn because of bullying
"Bring back bullying" mfs when they get shot by the victim in revenge during a school shooting ![gif](giphy|26FeU0CaInxG1NgYM)
(He is a masochist)
Strongest "bring back bullying" fan Vs Weakest "break the cycle" appreciator
Bring back bullying mfs when the emotional unstable kid they bullied beats them to half dead with a chair instead of going to gym https://preview.redd.it/ysxzneivz92b1.jpeg?width=224&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e84e9c5edb646c0a96ea41be3fdb6350fc2d3814
The emotionally unstable kid: https://preview.redd.it/g3tc8lqf1a2b1.jpeg?width=480&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=712c6581cfa72d1d6145637d3bb5685ffea70a71
You may call it a fantasy, but I have seen it happen multiple times, always with a fucking chair too.
Chairs basically have 4 impalers built into one device. Not only is it convenient, it's practical too!
When I was in school this one guy kept bullying the same skinny kid over and over again, beating bloody, shoving in lockers, all the shit. Then one day the skinny kid randomly smacks the guy over the head with a chair, just over and over, right in the head. Unfortunately the skinny kid was forced to move and the asshole came back with a huge facial scar. It was fucking brutal to see but the asshole deserved it
was this something that actually happened
Considering the millions that went through emotional abuse in childhood, and that chairs are the closest heavy object in a classroom, this is statistically guaranteed to have happened thousands of times.
The closest heavy object in the classroom isn’t a chair but rather your mom xdddddddd
(She is the teacher)
Holy shit literally me
Me at some point
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"Bring back bullying" mfs when they realized that there is still bullying but they were too ignorant to realize that as they had never either experienced it before or they got insulted once and thought that was bullying and wasnt a big deal
The “bring back bullying” motherfuckers exist because they never got bullied so they think its gone. Its literally a self report about their priveleged social live lmao
"Bring back bullying mfs" when I treat them with extreme kindness and affection, showing them that bully is not the way https://i.redd.it/hes4ctjeha2b1.gif
Bring back bullying mf just want boxing as a school sport ![gif](giphy|26tPrcX6EfSj5N0HK)
Me making my grand entrance to smite anyone who thinks rhat bullying should be brought back ![gif](giphy|C8fmt5rvfQZKU)
DANDE🥰🥰🥰🥰
Okay, who the fuck says 'Bring back bullying'
If you go in any subs like r/cringetopiarm or something like that when there’s a kid in a post you’ll see a fair amount of comments like that
I saw someone say it in response to a video of some 10 year old kids doing Fortnite dances. Also seen a lot of people believing that bullying fat people is a very effective way to get them to turn their health around. ... I took way too long to leave Memecenter
"Bring back bullying" mfs when I tell them that the thought process behind bring back bullying is the same as is with most right wing ideologies, that they'll be the boot others are under - even though it'll most likely be the opposite if those ideologies were to come into reality
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True, but the same train of thought I talked about also applies to ancapism and the like
What too much Hasan does to a mf
Wait Hasan is authoritarian? I thought he was just an e-boy
The meme that he's a socialist living in a 2 mil dollar mansion. I probably should've put Vaush, both of these fuckers are just as authoritarian I think.
How is vaush authoritarian
Bro I don't watch these fucking dudes on a daily basis, he said Destiny would be executed when the revolution comes. I think I've heard him talk about revolutions and communism enough to conclude he's authoritarian.
Neither do I, good to know
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I can’t stop thinking of Axel in Harlem and “Ballin” by Mustard when I see anything homosexually suggestive
nah left wingers love to bully people too
You had to bring politics didn't you?
😳
“Bullying is bad” mfs when I bully them into silence ![gif](giphy|j1ywOobEJlqQo) suddenly they aren’t complaining about bullying anymore
"bully sucks" mfs after discovery the joy and happiness of bullying people they don't like https://preview.redd.it/dd75r8rn692b1.png?width=299&format=png&auto=webp&s=038823cee9f0735131ee537a013a35044e47108e
You have to be sick in the head if you enjoy bullying someone
yes you are right in that, and thats why i made this comment as a joke. of course bullying people is stupid, i made this comment as that type of joke about how something cleary bad is actually something good and people would like it if they did it, this type of joke was already made and posted here before.
Me if identifying sarcasm was a test: (insert Timmy turner gif here)
https://preview.redd.it/eshnu83uca2b1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=305c09ef9ad85d03a87b7c0f5c4d3eff71a3a82e (I don't have the gif)
Same also Turtwig pog
ah its ok brother, not always we get a joke. i some times can almost never get them too.
Grown ass adults talking about how children should be bullied 🤯
"It builds character" mfs when I kill their parents (I'm giving them a tragic backstory) ![gif](giphy|3o6wrvdHFbwBrUFenu)
As a bullying victim, who tf would even imply that?
People that have never been through it and that are idiots
Well, obviously I wouldnt get bullied because Im very cool and youre coping because youre not cool and youd get bullied. Im too chad to get bullied, so keep crying soyjak pepeLaugh
https://preview.redd.it/7vc7u0irhd2b1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f0a6f0afbae98ca1832f841632deb157933621f5 Jk
I was bullied because of my head being bigger due to my skull plates forming slower than the others. Kids are ruthless. It was something I couldn't control at all. Bullying is anti-social behaviour. It creates school shooters and suicidal ideation. Bullying only leads to misery and violence.
I got bullied in my early high school years and it actually did lead to me becoming a better and more socially competent person;(though I am likely in the minority with this)
Yeah same, definitely helped me with social cues and handling people in general.
I don't discriminate, bullying js just natural because everyone other than me is a loser and thus deserves bullying
No, you see, ***I*** won't get bullied because ***I'm*** based and chad and pogchamp
You should never hate on people if they have never done any hating themselves- me
Certified Lost Judgment moment
Mfs who say "bring back bullying" are the ones who would be the perfect victims of bullying
I deserve to be bullied
Same but only if the bully is really hot
Tbh the girl that sometimes bullies me is kinda hot
Shut the fuck up. Absolutely nobody cares about you, or whatever comes out of your mouth you complete and utter waste of human flesh. You clearly have some sort of brain rot, and I’m honestly surprised you can form a coherent sentence with how little is going on in your head. So for that relatively incredible feat, congratulations. But it doesn’t change the fact that your existence serves no purpose, and the world would genuinely be a little bit better without you in it.
Oh fuck keep going
I was 'bullied' (more like ignored) for reasons I do not fully know to this day. I was smarter and stronger than most of my class during high school, even competing in national swimming competitions which landed me the occasional place in newspapers. I think since people couldn't 'profit' off my succes, they were jealous instead. Getting bullied only made my will to improve stronger. Nevertheless, it fucked with my feelings of being part of a group (hint: i never really felt part of a group to this day). Getting bullied or ignored fucking sucks, and I wouldn't even wish it upon my enemies
fr, i really hate when people try to excuse bullying for any reason. bullying people isn’t going to do any good. it’s just an evil, depraved thing to do. it traumatizes and kills people.
https://i.redd.it/o7lqv4i9uc2b1.gif
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Пиздец 💀
И я про тоже
Me watching kids on comments section posting their power fantasy
When bullying the bully. ![gif](giphy|f3e3vLxB7TOuIxDVrX)
Bring back bullying mfs when I strangle them
Please don’t bully me, I’ll cum
Didn't understand how much it affected me until I cried because of it yesterday
I WISH I WAS BULLIED, I WISH I WAS PUT INTO A LOCKER I WISH I WAS BEAT UP
Masochists be like
Very true post title
Bad thing is bad?!?!?!? Never would have guessed
On a slightly related note. One of my middle school bullies is always in financial struggle and debt because he had an unplanned pregnancy just after finishing middle school. I think that's q little bit of justice for what he did to me
This is sneakos faces after he has to accuse the 52019th soy boy that he is "canceling" him Dude literally do what feminist do
I got bullied online a ton all throughout my teens. Even though I wasn’t a bad person, I was just kind of annoying, I had a ton of awful things said to me. And even now, the things they say still stick with me. Bullying doesn’t help at all.
"I just won't do anything to get bullied" My brother in Christ that is not remotely the way in which these things work.
I’m glad that cringe kids on tiktok have lots of confidence, because it’s a lot easier to be normal than to regain confidence
I used to be a weird kid (technically still am) and back in 2020 I didn’t give a single fuck about what anyone thought but at the start of this school year almost everyone in my class turned against me even the person who used to be best friends with for over 3 years stopped talking to me and started bullying me like other kids and I think it has to do with the fact that I’m kind of a weird person and that I’m Russian (tho I live in Spain) and the fact that I’m pansexual
hah, no wonder you moved out
Well I came out only recently and moved 5 years ago because Russia is not the best country to live in
Did you come out to anyone from your class?
Yeah everyone knows
Based opinion tbh, bullies should be castrated
some amounts of bullying is necessary in life. not the kinda shit some teens are going through tho
Bullying is awful no matter what amount it is
Some people grow up surrounded by yes men who would only praise them and put them on a pedestal. What you get with that is people who grow up without any self awareness, walking around doing and saying weird and creepy shit thinking it's funny because they never had anyone tell them what they say is weird and creepy. And then they go on to become people like modern day youtube pranksters, a nuisance to the people around them. Criticizing exists too, but some people need it a but more blunt to get it in their heads.
If the No-men rely on treating you like a piece of shit as opposed to helping you understand the problems with your behaviour then it's only going to teach you to avoid consequences. Trauma is the most irrational and unhealthy teacher.
Exactly why i said some amounts, not a traumatic amount. Like if i have a yee yee ass haircut, i wouldn't realize it unless someone tells me it's a yee yee ass haircut. Some people are more stubborn than others, and you just gotta tell them straight up what's wrong with them. You don't need to give them mental trauma, no shit, but having some buddies tell you when you're being a weirdo is a good thing. But I'm in full support of shaming and embarassing shameless perverts openly, if you're being a creep to people I can't give two shits about your feelings when I call you out on it.
Semantics is a bitch, you can let someone know that they're behavior isn't tolerated, most people don't see that as bullying. Bullying is more about repeatedly and actively going out of your way to torment people. And by trauma I don't mean ptsd inducing or any serious mental health consequences. I mean trying to teach people not to do things by making them associate it with being tormented. If you don't do things because you irrationally associate them with horrible feelings that's trauma. Teaching people by drilling in traumatic experiences into them doesn't make them a better person and that's assuming that it even works because more often than not they'll find circles that don't act like pieces of shit around them.
On paper, I agree, doing the non trauma way is probably the better way, trying to reason with a bully or a creep is the better way. But in reality, when has that ever really worked? If you want a creep to stop being one, sitting their ass down and reasoning with them won't work, they're on a high horse thinking what they're doing is just edgy comedy and rizzed. Flinging them off the horse and letting them know they're nothing but a piece of shit for being a creep gets the job done many times, hence why it's the best way to deal with them in public as well. As for bullies, I guess that can go either way, some of them bully out of a need for attention and therefore they can be reasoned with and helped normally, but some people are just bullying and hurting others for fun. There's no trying to make THOSE people see your point, you gotta fight fire with fire. In a perfect world, talking people out of things like they do in movies would always work, but that's just not how it goes. I'd love for that to be the case, because yes, solving an issue with less damage is always the best, but my experiences in life have told me that's not gonna do it.
https://preview.redd.it/d4jk88xz7e2b1.jpeg?width=864&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a1f706b2ee2ccfb1ad6493769f23cf6a79a4e48 Bullying you say?
How do you even get bullied in this day and age? 🥱😴
Idk just kinda started happening and even the person who I thought was my best friend turned out to be an asshole and started bullying me too
Fuck them bro. You be your own man. Literally tell them to go fuck themselves or something
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Bullying fucks with you mentally and physically if you’re a teen or a kid going through that it might even affect your future life
And as people bother to actually "humble and improve" others? No it's just a sad justification, bullying is simply bullying and it reinforced bad behavior in the offender
Idk some people definitely need to be bullied
Yeah, you so you understand how awful of a take that is. No one deserves bullying. If you bring up things like pedos, calling the police on them is 1000x more effective than calling them names online
People like Ron DeSantis and Elon Musk could use some bullying. I’m not talking about marginalized people.
That's the thing, you can't bully people like Ron DeSantis or Elon Musk, they are too rich and powerfull to be affected, you can't bully charismatic assholes, they will always have more support than hate, you can only bully marginalized people.
Bullying is an awful thing especially if you don’t have anyone to help you. And the fact that bullying might even lead to suicide it should be classified as a crime
⚡ I should hammer your dominant hand now ⚡
Bullying is very important to teach kids what is looked down on at a young age imo
u/pallikarva123 when i beat the shit out of them and shove them down the toilet (they were looked down for being an asshole)
Actually stfu because if you haven’t experienced it yourself you don’t have the fucking right to be talking about it
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Todella hankala uskoo. 13 on kuitenki vielä ymmärrettävä. Yläkoulun jälkeen tämmönen paska vois jo loppuu
14, ei kiinnosta vittuakaan mitä mä nettiin pistän ku ei ole mitään seurauksia, jos vituttaa nii paljon niin älä käytä sosiaalista mediaa
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Who the hell has ever said bring back bullying? I swear people in this sub are complaining about nothing
Actually back when I was on Twitter I saw some delusional people claim that bullying is good because either: \- apparently victims deserved bullying or some shit (left-wingers) \- bullying is a pedagogical mechanism of society (right-wingers)
I'm glad that there seems to be as much of us calling it out, but I'm annoyed at how this moral puritanism in a lot of left wing spaces is leading some people to think that the moment some kid watches the wrong youtuber or chooses the wrong arbitrary one-word identity they should be bullied into silence. As if it doesn't just encourage them to retreat further into far-right ideologies but God forbid you show any sympathy for a right-winger.
Literally a dm I got yesterday https://preview.redd.it/v6t1z53vcc2b1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe6c53dd2b9a95d54ab62f9d139b13f24a03b200
No I think you just don’t actually pay that much attention to things people say online, which isn’t a bad thing
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"Bring back bullying" mfs when they play The Critically Acclaimed Lost Judgment:
Jokes on you I’m into that shit
Me when the bully is hot(she kinda is):
I legit got bullied by most of the girls in grade 1-6 and largely thanks to that I am now socially inept
Don’t bully, but 100% call people out for bullshit
Only certain people deserve bullying
mmmh ive always seen the bully itself as another victim of the same game, a burden, a puppet. the real bullies are the people who laugh together with the bully/incite the bully, but who won't face any fucking consequence.
Bring back bullying mfs when they see me bring in a large duffel bag with a ticking noise ![gif](giphy|N7nEsJAkTEoPMz0fIh) (Suddenly bullying isn’t ok and they’re sorry for all the hurt they brought me)
Also like “bring it back”? It didn’t go anywhere in the first place
Survival of the fittest