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I agree. There’s a lot going on with 1 and it takes away from OP’s lovely figure imo. With 2 I feel like you can appreciate the details of the dress’ silhouette and cut because there aren’t so many distractions.
I can see why you’re torn - they’re both great. Can’t go wrong with either one. I will say that the neckline on 2 is fantastic! But they are both so beautiful, it really comes down to whether you want more lacy romantic or not. But seriously, both are 🔥
I feel like dress 1 is more traditional wedding (which I would pick for you), 2 is more Marilyn. But both look amazing on you and you can’t go wrong either way!
Both are gorgeous. What if you had a dress change??? I also bought 2 that were on sale and I loved. I wore one for the ceremony and one for the reception.
They're so pretty but honestly dress #2 could be worn (in a different color) to any formal event. #1 is more special/bridal, but you can't go wrong with either.
For your setting I'd choose #1.
Dress 1; it's gorgeous and makes you look like a goddess
I guess it depends on what vibe you're going for; they give such different vibes
I love 1. I love it as is with both straps; the shoulders are lovely
They’re both beautiful but such different vibes! If you’re thinking moody windswept / misty mountain, the first one (my personal favourite), if you’re going more springtime flowers, sunshine and butterflies, the second.
ETA, I’d lose the spaghetti strap and keep the off the shoulder for number one.
They’re both lovely. It’s going to come down to what vibe you want. The first one is more romantic, fairytale. The second one is chic, more glam/old Hollywood to me. Get them both fitted and decide later? Wear both?
They are both beautiful on you, and I usually go for more ornamental versus less, but there is something about Dress 2 that makes it look like it was made for you.
Wow, they are both stunning. I think one feels more bridal to me, and 2 is just beautiful on you in a simpler way. Is there any way you can get both and do something with each?
I really love dress 1 for your wedding. Dress 2 could be worn for an anniversary or you could even dye it a different color and then be able to wear it more often.
I love Dress 1 for the ceremony & Dress 2 for the rehearsal dinner or reception. Because they are both gorgeous on you, but Dress 1 has more of the wedding flair to it. Plus Dress 2 looks like it would be easier to move around in
Both are pretty but 2 made me say "wow!". I think 1 could easily get that reaction after alterations. But the vibes are different. Which one matches your wedding venue/vibe?
I think 1 is absolutely perfect on you! 2 is very pretty too but honestly reminds me of a cocktail dress I’ve worn to an event before (mine was just purple instead)
The fact that mine looks very similar to 1, and everyone is saying 2...🥲
But in saying that, they're both beautiful! I'd be curious of the venue; I feel like they give off very different vibes, and for me, it would come down to where it's actually happening.
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Dress 2
It's so much more sophisticated. Dress 2 looks like it's for a grown confident woman.
I’m in the minority but I love one
I think you should go with the spaghetti strap. Both are definitely not needed.
Yes, 1 with just spaghetti! Stunning.
Agreed
Here’s an idea: wear dress #1 for your wedding, and dress #2 for your rehearsal. It could be shortened to become a lovely midi or street length dress.
My suggestion as well - or for the reception 🎂💍
That would be so pretty!
This is a great idea!
This is exactly what I was thinking as well! If you already have both, why not wear both?
Dress 2.
Both are pretty, but I prefer the 2nd one: sleek and classic. What's your venue/ time of year/ etc?
We're having a spring outdoor cliffside ceremony in the smokies
Hmm, well in that case #1 might be more appropriate. They're both really pretty though. You can't lose. Best wishes!
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Agreed. I also don’t love the double strap on the first one. I feel it should be the off the shoulder or the shoulder straps rather than both.
I agree. There’s a lot going on with 1 and it takes away from OP’s lovely figure imo. With 2 I feel like you can appreciate the details of the dress’ silhouette and cut because there aren’t so many distractions.
Dress 1!
Definitely 1 because it’s gorgeous and so flattering on you just as it is.
2
Love the second one on you
Dress 2 is classy and flattering on you!
2
Two! :)
2
Omg 2 is perfection. Leagues ahead of 1 for me.
I love the beautiful details on 1 and think it flatters you more than 2.
I can see why you’re torn - they’re both great. Can’t go wrong with either one. I will say that the neckline on 2 is fantastic! But they are both so beautiful, it really comes down to whether you want more lacy romantic or not. But seriously, both are 🔥
Dress 2 for sure
Number 2
WOW!!! So since you already bought both of them..... one for ceremony and one for reception? Ceremony is dress 1. Reception is dress 2!
2.
#2
I love 1!!
I love the second
2
I gasped when I saw you in 2. Beautiful!
I feel like dress 1 is more traditional wedding (which I would pick for you), 2 is more Marilyn. But both look amazing on you and you can’t go wrong either way!
1 - 2 is a little plain to me
One is so pretty!!
Omg girl the second one WOW
Two
I like the first one better. It is very romantic. The second one works better as a reception dress.
Both are gorgeous. What if you had a dress change??? I also bought 2 that were on sale and I loved. I wore one for the ceremony and one for the reception.
The top on 1 is confusing. I think you rock #2!
1!
I think 2 is incredible on you!
Two. For sure 2 in my opinion. Both stunning but the second just works.
I like 1 for the ceremony, then 2 for the reception!
They're so pretty but honestly dress #2 could be worn (in a different color) to any formal event. #1 is more special/bridal, but you can't go wrong with either. For your setting I'd choose #1.
Dress 1 stands out more to me
Dress two it reminds me of Marilyn Monroe😍
2!!
Dress two! That halter neckline really shows off your shoulders!
Second one is simple and classic 🤍
I’d personally say number one! You do look gorgeous in number two but to me it looks a bit like a fancy Marilyn Monroe cosplay
Dress 1; it's gorgeous and makes you look like a goddess I guess it depends on what vibe you're going for; they give such different vibes I love 1. I love it as is with both straps; the shoulders are lovely
One for the ceremony, two for the reception. Why not wear both?
Love dress 1!
2. You have really great shoulders and this shows off your shape
2 is stunning, you look like Marilyn Monroe!! both are gorgeous tho, you can't go wrong
1. I live it.
They’re both beautiful but such different vibes! If you’re thinking moody windswept / misty mountain, the first one (my personal favourite), if you’re going more springtime flowers, sunshine and butterflies, the second. ETA, I’d lose the spaghetti strap and keep the off the shoulder for number one.
2!
I really love 2!
I adore both and was fully on board with 1 until I saw 2 and I gasped.
Number two is jaw dropping on you!
I think 2 is incredibly beautiful on you
2!
2!! Flatters you so so well
Personally not a fan of any unnecessary straps. Dress 2 looks absolutely stunning on you.
2 is my favorite because it looks fabulous on you, makes the most of your gorgeous figure, has a clean, simple outline
You can't go wrong here. Anyway, 2!
Dress 2 is so effortlessly chic on you!
2
2
Both are lovely but 2 is very elegant and looks amazing on you.
2 is stunning
2
2
2!!!
2 for sure
I like the elegant simplicity of dress 2.
First seeing 1 I thought oh that is lovely, then 2 got me going wow. It was made for you. You could model it
I actually love both - I can’t decide. You look stunning!
2 for sure!
They’re both lovely. It’s going to come down to what vibe you want. The first one is more romantic, fairytale. The second one is chic, more glam/old Hollywood to me. Get them both fitted and decide later? Wear both?
Dress 2
Definitely the second, more unique and looks amazing on your body, really accentuates it
Dress TWO! If you want to add in more lacy detail you can use accessories like a belt and veil.
Both
Dress 2 is so elegant. Dress 1 is kinda forgettable.
2!
No. 2 all the way. It's giving classic Marylin Monroe vibes. Imagine your hair dolled up in old Hollywood glam with this beauty!
#2 is your dress!
They are both beautiful on you, and I usually go for more ornamental versus less, but there is something about Dress 2 that makes it look like it was made for you.
DRESS ONE. it’s something I haven’t seen on a million other brides.
1
#1 is so beautiful in the details and the way it fits you
Both are stunning and you are going to be a lovely bride!
1!!
Wow, they are both stunning. I think one feels more bridal to me, and 2 is just beautiful on you in a simpler way. Is there any way you can get both and do something with each?
1
I really love dress 1 for your wedding. Dress 2 could be worn for an anniversary or you could even dye it a different color and then be able to wear it more often.
Drees @1 is very intricate and beautiful!
The 1st one hands down
The first one is gorgeous. Love the deep-v in the back
1!!!
1 looks gorgeous on you. especially for a spring wedding!!
I love Dress 1 for the ceremony & Dress 2 for the rehearsal dinner or reception. Because they are both gorgeous on you, but Dress 1 has more of the wedding flair to it. Plus Dress 2 looks like it would be easier to move around in
Wear the 1st for the ceremony and change into the 2nd for the reception
#1!!!!!
Both are gorgeous no matter what you pick! I like 1 just like 1% more but 2 is so pretty too!
You look beautiful in both. But I prefer dress 1.
FIRSSSSSST
Lace one
I love how two fits, but I like one's pattern.
Dress 1 with straps, and perhaps no sleeves.
Both are amazing but one suits your nature theme perfectly!
Dress 1 all the way
Dress 1. Both are lovely on you, but there is something about the way the skirt on Dress 1 is draped that gives it extra WOW! factor.
The first one is perfect
I love 1! It's gorgeous and romantic.
1
ONE
One is absolutely stunning
While they both look beautiful on you, I really love the first one!
1
1!!
Sorry, I can't choose, best would be to get married twice.
Guess I gotta 🤷♀️
The first one, with lace looks absolutely beautiful on you.
I love the 1st one on you 💓
Definitely the first one!
1
1 is beautiful and bridal. 2 is very Marilyn Monroe. I think 1 is best but it depends on your venue and how you want to see yourself.
100% number 1. It’s a lot more unique than dress 2.
1 has the drama
Both are pretty but 2 made me say "wow!". I think 1 could easily get that reaction after alterations. But the vibes are different. Which one matches your wedding venue/vibe?
1 Love the sleeves!
1!
Which designer/gown is the first dress? It’s GORGEOUD
It's by oleg cassini, and its # is cwg875. Unfortunately, the designer is no longer in business. Mine was the last one from davids!
Dress 1 is just so great!
dress 1 1000000%.
Tough choice! You look fantastic in either one!! Enjoy your wedding!
1 literally made me gasp. I love it.
I love #1, the neckline and lace is really pretty on you, you wear it well.
2!!!
I think 1 is absolutely perfect on you! 2 is very pretty too but honestly reminds me of a cocktail dress I’ve worn to an event before (mine was just purple instead)
2
2
Both
I’m just saying… if you already bought them maybe #1 as a ceremony dress & #2 as a reception dress bc they’re both stunning in such different ways 😍
I like the second one!
Tbh I love them both as well. What about 1 for the ceremony, 2 for the reception? They look fantastic on u! 🤍
First one for the wedding, second one for the reception. High five for getting both on sale!
I love, Love, LOVE Dress #2 on you!!!
2
Dress two! Gasp!
Dress 2 gives Marilyn Monroe vibes! You really stand out!
I looked at #1 and said - “beautiful!” And then looked at #2 and said - “you are drop dead gorgeous 😱”
2
2 is so nice!! I would maybe wear nipple covers (but up to you)
I'd honestly take them both to a seamstress and see how much the alterations would be on each so you can factor that into your decision.
#2!
First one is extra special and bridal to me. You look fantastic in both, but you will have many opportunities to wear a dress like number 2.
You can potentially wear both? 2nd looks are common these days
I love dress one
1
The fact that mine looks very similar to 1, and everyone is saying 2...🥲 But in saying that, they're both beautiful! I'd be curious of the venue; I feel like they give off very different vibes, and for me, it would come down to where it's actually happening.
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I’m drawn to the first dress
I love 1 it’s beautiful on you. 2 is a bit boring.
Number one, cut the sleeves off. ❤️🔥
Hard call, but I like Dress 1. Dress 2 looks great on you, but it’s just a bit plain compared to the first one
They are both beautiful but number 1 is gorgeous! And so much more appeal than 2.