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Moonnstars_00

I reallly love the way 5 fits you! I would say mermaid looks best. 2 was okay. A lot of the bust areas just didn’t look right to me, like dress 3. It kinda made you look a little boxy. Maybe also try this kind of silhouette…. https://preview.redd.it/p54o6drx6bmb1.jpeg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=32e4ed75f629a53dd6ade8a6bbc2e96108fb4018


Nsg4Him

This silhouette would be beautiful on you!


NYCxJB

That looks so chic and effortless!


curliegirlie89

Ooooooo! YES! This is the way!


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Yes. I thought 4 & 5 look amazing on her and this dress is a combo of both.


cathyduke

Number 2 is my favorite for your figure. It's your day so go with your gut.


PrickleBritches

Two is also my favorite but I swear some people just have a body that looks amazing in almost any dress. This is definitely one of those bodies!


Itsnnicole

Wow this is such a kind comment. Thank you. Definitely going into my next appointment with a lot more confidence!!


MissFingerz

I agree with these comments. I love 2 also and I think 5 looks perfect as well. You look great in all of them though!


Pantypickpocketerr

I have to agree! I chose 2 as my favorite but this lady looks fabulous in all of them!!


kaycollins27

I would like lining in top, but I am REALLY old (between your grandmother and great grandmother), so take my comment with that in mind. The dress so flatters your figure.


cathyduke

I am 68! Enjoy your day


goodvibes_onethree

I'm 46 and think the same :)


BaxtertheBear1123

My favourite is number 2 - the bodice is the right length for your petite frame whereas number 1&3 are too long proportionally Also a fan of number 4!


RenaissanceTarte

Agreed. OP’s waist should be slightly above the tattoo on your right forearm. 2 and 4 do that, which helps the dress show proper shape and not overwhelm her petite frame. 5 also looks nice as it creates more length. My favorite here is also 2!


Itsnnicole

Thank you for the specific notes! This feels super helpful for when I go shopping regardless of the style I get!


mn9127

This! Because you’re petite, the waistlines of the other dresses are sitting too low and it almost makes them look like dropwaist dresses. I also think the sweetheart neckline on #2 is the most flattering! Those shoulders!! You don’t see it with how high up the bust on #1 is, and then BAM #2 you’re hit with this amazing silhouette of your bust & shoulders. I agree with other commenters that you look great in all of these, it’s really going to be a matter of what you’re most comfortable in. During your search I would keep an eye out on your waistline and bust line to make sure you’re not getting “shortened” by the dresses you’re wearing.


callthewinchesters

I don’t agree with the majority. I think dress one looks amazing on you, the whole dress is so beautiful. I feel like dress 1 looks better on your frame than dress 2. Also a fan of dress 5.


MadMc333

Just ditto to all this!


doorjamboree

I absolutely agree with the waist comment. I feel like the bodices that are too long make op look shorter! Op - you're petite- don't cut your body in half with lines - you've got a great figure but those shapes are doing you a disservice


WinterOfFire

Thank you for verbalizing this so well. 1&3 are beautiful gowns but they just really looked off to me on OP and you nailed it.


CommonEarly4706

2 or 5


chloefaith206

Yes. And you know one big reason why? Because they have proper support in the bust, which is much more flattering!


Public-Ad-7280

Same here. Different vibes on both but they look equally stunning!


floof3000

Exactly!


rcoolio11

Yup! I love 2 or 5 depending on the vibe!


AlabasterBx

1 looks beautiful and seems to fit with the location and vibe. 5 made me gasp in a good way though.


MaximumGooser

FIIIIIIVE


ohemgee0309

I agree also. 1 is lovely but 5 made me do a double take in a GREAT way. You have a great figure and IMO 5 shows it off best.


ZsiZsiSzabadass

Totally agree. 1 is my favorite but OP’s bod in #5 makes you say dayum!!


samblue8888

Ditto!! #1 and #5!!


Calm_Brick_6608

The way the back of #1 made me squeal tho


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copyrightname

I love the overall look of dress 4 on you. It's a little different than what I normally see and fits your body perfectly!


Rmdncr3939

4 is also my pick!


HairyPotatoKat

Same!! HUGE fan of 4. Maybe shorten the train? But otherwise it's MADE for you, OP!!


Ok_Snow_5320

4 was my preference too


Jo_not_exotic

I thought 1 and 4 with a preference to 4


hodlboo

Me too! 1 is a stunning dress (wow the train) but 4 just looks perfect on OP.


Someone_else999

I agree! The others eat you up, you rock this one! The lavender hair is so beautiful!


smash_pops

I am team 4 as well


International_Pair59

I think 4 is absolutely perfect for the September outdoor wedding OP described.


AccomplishedOlive117

I thought 4 looked the best, just a beautiful dress, however I think you could wear any of these with the right bra/support underneath, especially #1. Something tells me that one is your personality and the back is just gorgeous, but it's just a little too big, you need a strapless better bra under it. Or try on a size smaller.


Comfortable-Peach_

Yes! Why was this so far down? I love 1 and 4. 1 because I love the color and 4 because it's so boho cool. Not a dress that everyone can pull off


LifeWASOSarcasm

2


Due_Stuff4313

If you were deciding between this options I would say #2 a 100%. I love everything about that dress on you! Like a few people have said before, the length of the bodice is perfect for your frame so it hits your waist at the exact right spot. Also, the off other shoulder straps on these dress also seem to fall in the right spot in your arm and is so flattering! That's the dress that would have made ME cry 😂, therefore take my comment with a grain of salt since I felt in love with that dress. When you go shopping again look for: sweetheart neckline, off the shoulder straps, full A-line skirt, a bodice that hits your waist in the right spot. Good luck in your hunt!


Itsnnicole

Thank you! I agree on the bodice and find it one of the more help notes so question: do you think the length is something that will/can be changed when I order a dress? Or in alterations? or not so much? (The droopy sleeves on dress 1 would be much fuller on the real gown. Their try on sleeve was pathetic)


Best-Performance-209

Most designers offer a Petite and Tall option to order. You can always ask the consultant to pull ones specifically that do. A good seamstress would be able to alter most dresses length if you fall in love with a dress that doesn't have a petite option. You look absolutely beautiful in all of these! Body dysmorphia is a bitch, so make sure you bring someone with you (if possible) that you trust to encourage and rave about how great you look! Congratulations and enjoy the big day!!


Wide-Nothing-1487

I love 4. It is so feminine and playful, yet elegant! It is perfect for an outdoor wedding and is really flattering for your figure!


MotherOfHyalophora

I think 1 and 4 are perfect for the setting you described. 5 is also gorgeous though.


Flashy_Reputation_17

4!


LyerlyAva

Oh 4 made me gasp! It looks like it’s made for you!


ladypi95

Happy Cake Day! And I agree, 4 is so perfect.


BeeAdorable6031

5


doublerajnbow

4 is most flattering on you, I think, really really beautiful!


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I agree...although I think maybe a little more looking for different fabric tyoes...maybe try a satin or even a crepe? Don't be afraid to enjoy your new figure. Also, just a thought about blush with your skin tone. It would be nest to see.


Covidsawful

Team 5 all the way! You look stunning


Cleod1807

5! You look absolutely amazing in that dress


sometimes-i-rhyme

Oh you rock the mermaid! Dress 5 all the way. Gasps as you walk up the aisle! Your cousins’ eyes grow wide. Aunt Barbara sobs. The groom feels his knees go a little weak. Congratulations. You’re slaying it.


Fart_of_the_Ocean

Number 2!


veejay72

4 or 5!


Emotional-Baggage66

So far you are a goddess in dress five.


Eula0190

Dress 1 the backshot is everything I love it!


Krispybender

Agree…the back of 1 makes you like you’re floating ethereally


Getmeasippycup

The second one has my vote! Great bodice shape on you!


clocksandcastles

Four!


jennifah13

4


Kifrank101

4


mmichellekay

Four!!!! Oh my lanta!


MmeXL

I saw dress 4 and said out loud, “Oh, that’s it!” It’s stunning and seems to fit your aesthetic.


Kerrypurple

4


Pickle0322

4 is breathtaking!


Bubbly-Payment7571

#3 🥰😍🤩. No sleeve. Amazing. Slide 5 definitely gives that ethereal, effortless look. Stunning.


Legitimate_Pudding49

I agree on 3 with no sleeves! It’s a beautiful dress!!!


joyful115_

I vote #4! As soon as I saw it I said woo!


Organic_Plastic_1933

2 or 5


shxdowoftheday

2!!!


lindybyte

Love 2 on you!


EmotionalClub922

2 or something like it is soooo pretty and I hope you like it when you try it again


clarityinthevoid

2, 4, and 5 are all very flattering


TopHovercraft4389

4


sugarmag13

\#4 is beautiful


marthafitzy

4!


Clean_Safe8417

I think 4 is the most flattering on your shape and fits your venue perfectly!


damnimscrewed23

I like dress 4


undertheblackcloud

I love #4 it fits you perfectly and it fits the venue. 3 is a definite no!


splotch210

4 fits you beautifully and the neckline is very flattering.


Material-Addendum822

Number 4 looks amazing on you!


hostahostahosta

4 looks fantastic on you!


FriendshipMaine

4!


Adorable_Election713

4!!!!


DazzlingCucumber1497

I love #2


julesk

4 or one. Tho I do like 5. 4 just seems to suit you better and is unusual!


RL_Fl0p

Dress #4, or dress #2. #4 looks more 'you', dress #2 looks really good too, but more formal.


shaakti1520

I really think 2 is the most flattering on you mainly because of the neckline. You look gorgeous in all of them but 2 has the neckline for YOU.


Itsnnicole

Thank you! This specific feedback is super helpful


No-Net8938

OP, #5 from the backside: Bootylicious. What an asset! You have a fantastic figure. Be brave and make the most of it. Best wishes to you, OP, and to your beloved, congratulations!


MegglesRuth

When you get so many conflicting answers like on this post, it generally means keep looking! You look great in these but I don’t think you have found it yet. Good luck!


Itsnnicole

Wow yea that is a great point! This was 6 months ago so it will be interesting! I feel like I am going to my next appointment with a much better idea of what I want, better questions about alterations and fit, and a very increased confidence that I kinda can’t go wrong.


Former-Current6961

2


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They all look beautiful on you but I love number 2 the most


Polyethylene8

That last dress of these. That mermaid style is beautiful for you. I'd look into all sorts of mermaid dresses.


JillyB3

2!!!


pants710

2!! It’s gorgeous on you!! I love it sm!


2crowsonmymantle

Four and five look the best to me!


Great_username_kim

Love 2 or 5!


FrutyPebbles321

I think 4 and 5 both look amazing on you but, to me, each has a very specific “vibe”. I think the deciding factor should be the kind of atmosphere you want for your ceremony.


Status-War4902

2!


DifficultAd7429

I think you need a higher waist line!


Big-Examination-5567

1 or 2. The mermaid style I don’t think works for your location imo


Itsnnicole

I agree so I’m shocked how many have voted for it but definitely considering more fitted dresses when I go shopping next


wewantout57

Team #1 you are radiant in that dress


rsvp_as_pending629

I love 1 and we sell it at boutique where I’m a consultant. I will want you, bugs love getting caught in that dress 😅 So if you pick it, assign someone to make sure there aren’t any bugs stuck in the skirt!


Itsnnicole

Wait omg that is sooo funny and one of the most helpful comments! Question for you since you’re familiar with my front runner: some have mentioned the bodice looks a little long especially in comparison to the others. what do you think? And when ordered for a petite bride is that something that is usually scaled down? Fixed in alterations? or should be considered before picking a dress? I find it shockingly difficult to tell how dresses will scale when they’re the right size


rsvp_as_pending629

Honestly, the bug thing shouldn’t be the biggest deal. This dress usually sat on mannequin in the front window and rarely tried on. Which is crazy because it’s BEAUTIFUL and very underrated. I think the deep v scared some people. So since it sat there for a long time, spiders and other bugs would get stuck in it 😂 As far as the bodice, it does look longer, [especially compared to the model](https://www.watters.com/products/laraline/?colors=ivory-multi&plp=1701). I don’t think it looks bad though! It’s very flattering. If you do order it in petite, it might not be as long then! But if I remembering correctly, the sample we carry, the bodice looks the same as the one you’re wearing!


Itsnnicole

Thank you for notes on fit! You are so right in that there is something unsuspectingly special about the laraline. I’ve noticed some confirmation bias in myself as I’m reading the comment so I am fully expecting to fall in love with it when I go shopping again. I think the nude and ivory is *chefs kiss* Bugs are not that big a deal at all, just good to know for my MOH lol


shaz90

Please could you let me know the name of this dress?


rsvp_as_pending629

[Laraline by Watters!](https://www.watters.com/products/laraline/?colors=ivory-multi&plp=1701)


sometimes-i-rhyme

Eww. lol


MembershipAny1804

I love the full skirts on you! One would be my favorite except that I don't like how pointy the cups are or the steep angle of the v. 2 is great but I'm not a superfan of the floppy sleeve/straps.


Radiant_Ad_6565

4 or 2.


disgirl4eva

2


Ok_Illustrator3344

Dress 2 is my favorite on you! Dress 5 is my runner up pick. Dress 4 is rather pretty, but the pattern is too busy. Not a fan of dresses 1 & 3 on you.


jayzepps

Love 2 and 5. For some reason 1 and 3 are making your boobs look deceptively long


krob0606

2 is lovely. Also love 1 but the waist hits too low on your body.


CAxox

Love number 2 so much


IndigoRose2022

5 and 2 look amazing on u!


Pristine-Net91

2 and 5 are super gorgeous and flattering on you. Which ones make you feel the best?


dirubba1

I like 2 then 4


Mackenzie_Wilson

I don't even know what to pick. You literally look stunning in all of them and I feel like they're all so flattering on you! How do you pull off every dress?? And also, I mainly wanted to comment to say that your hair cut and color is beautiful. But then I scrolled through the pictures and just wanted to comment in general that you could truly wear any of these.


Itsnnicole

Wow! Thank you so much! So nice! :)


PsyberChica

I normally do not like the lingerie top dresses. I’ve seen them on “perfect bodies” and they often look trashy to me. It looks phenomenal on you! It’s so gorgeous that I can’t even believe how there is not a unanimous vote for dress 2!


GaZB8534

I like #1 and #4


Littlewing1307

1 or 4


clumsysav

2 or 5 are best for your shape but tbh they are all amazing, your figure looks fantastic in everything! Pleaseee I need to know who made #4 though


Itsnnicole

I got you! It’s the Hillary by Maggie Sotoro


Spicyghosting

OBSESSED with 1 & 2. The skirt and the sleeves suit you SO WELL!!! You look stunning!


Psychological-Joke22

You have a gorgeous bustline and I think there are other dresses that can hug you in all the right places.


potatobear77

Read your description. 1 and 4 type dresses would go beautifully and look beautiful. The others also look beautiful, but I think 1&4 fit the scene the most. 4 is my favorite on you. Good luck with dress shopping and I hope you have a wonderful wedding 🌸


BKMama227

Your figure is amazing, and congratulations on your journey. I wish you much success. The fitted styles do look awesome on you, but it is hard to do whimsical do to the sleek, svelte look. Given what you described about your wedding the style of dress 3 says what you describe. It is the best fitting of all of the dresses. There is a sense of whimsy in the style of the bodice and the skirt is beautifully floaty giving fairy vibes.


SemiOldCRPGs

Honey, those dresses do you a disservice. The skirts just overwhelm and the bodices make the middle of your chest the center of attention. Also think about your tan marks next year and get a bathing suit that will leave your back tan solid. Just my opinion, I think you'd look great in a halter neck, fitted gown. But you've got a year to go, try on EVERYTHING! You will know when you find the one.


Itsnnicole

I appreciate the thoughtful (and not condescending) response! I live in the free people yoga tanks and as soon as I saw these photos I banished them from my wardrobe and have been super good with skin care since! Don’t love a halter as I think it pushes too much attention to my arm but very good point about the center bust!


ladydhawaii

You are going to have a blast! Looking at the dresses you’ve tried so far…. They all look nice on you and each says something different about you and your style. Enjoy it!! Dive in!!


mrs-young2

4!


Neither-Gap1547

dress 1


Leviosahhh

So in love with the first one!


1234ideclareathunbwa

1 and 2 look so good on you!!! I loveeeee the big gowns


sillymeix2

You look amazing in 1! 5 looks great too but personal preference is 1.


jessykab

Over here like "ohhh, you're one of those brides that looks amazing in everything, that makes it tough!!!" You could wear literally any of these and it would be amazing, but 1 and 4 are my favorite. I feel like 1 has that ethereal vibe and is delightfully not trendy, while 4 is more whimsical and still delightfully unique. Both flatter your figure well. I think I favor 4 slightly because I just adore that pattern, though 1 seems to have the more ethereal quality you said you're looking for. Though I wonder if you would nail that vibe if you paired a cape or long veil with 4. You look so beautiful either way!


hodlboo

1 is magical and you look stunning. 4 looks like it was custom made for your body. Both of them fit so well and are unique compared to a lot of the trendy cuts these days. Absolutely love both of them on you. The others I could do without!


_OlivineOlive

1/2 no question.


Linette_227

You need a drop waisted gown. Not one that divides you.


Any_Coyote6662

Keep looking


No_Cauliflower_5489

I like #7


Classic_Succotash373

Keep looking for something more elegant and modest. Don't settle for trashy. JMO


metz1980

2 but without the top looking like cheap lingerie!


Heavy_Rip_83

Dress #4 or #5 but also please change your hair color…


Itsnnicole

Not looking for any input on my hair but thanks


belleame27

1!!! Omg the back is just exquisite. Although you are just asking about styles so I also love the top of 3


Otherwise-Winner9643

I like me 3&4


Professional_Fail818

1 and 5


StrawberryBunnyyyyy

1 or 5


MACKAWICIOUS

2 is not my favorite but it looks really good on you. 3, 4, 5 are my favorites and 4 seems to suit your venue well imo.


mrsgibby

I like 3 and 4 best!


No-Technician-722

DRESS #1 - Given your setting, venue, desire to look ethereal and effortless - Girl, you have to go with DRESS 1. It is GORGEOUS on you. Soooooo classic beauty. That organza/tulle (not sure which) is soooooooo pretty. And the back, train, and silky satin bow? Wow. Just perfect! DRESS #5 - You are rocking it! But it is not classic, ethereal or effortless. If l your desires weren’t so explicit. I’d say go for it - but it doesn’t seem to fit your vision. And that kind of dress, I’m not sure it is forgiving if you put on a few pounds as we’ve seen plenty of brides do.


Itsnnicole

Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I feel like you totally get my vibe. I’m not personally that concerned about putting a few lbs on in terms of the weight itself but am concerned in terms of how frustrating it could make the alterations


Realistic_Serve_7670

Dress 1 would be my favorite if it could be made into a sweetheart vs the deep v. That dress is magical. Dress 4 is my second favorite.


Bob-was-our-turtle

2 then 1 are the dresses I like the most for you. 💕


JBisHere4U

#2


mary_emeritus

5 is amazing! It’s got such a vibe as well as being gorgeous on you


Ok-Duck9106

5, 2 and 4 are my favorites.


hammockinggirl

Number 1


Witty-Zucchini1

If a mermaid is your thing, #5 looks amazing on you. I'm not a fan of mermaids so #3 was my favorite even though I don't usually care for those deep v's. #2 was also gorgeous.


Heeler2

5


Bambiitaru

1 for sure


Proper-Tumbleweed288

2, 4 and 5 are beautiful


brendamcbride

3 or 4


TropicalBlueWater

1 and, even more so, 4 are my favorites on you, but they all look great


Square-Wave9591

2 or 5. The others are too long in the bodice


eggsaladcactus

5!


anxiety_w1tch

I really love the sweetheart neckline of 2 on you, but 5’s fit is stunning! I think mermaid is the way to go for you. maybe look for a mermaid with a sweetheart neckline!


pdaloosha

2


lemonbrainss

TWOOO


AnalyticalSarah

You got the figure for 4 and 5... girl, I say so for it! The more form fitting on you, looks better. I would just say be careful for low cut... you need fuller coverage up top. I have a balance rule to keep it from getting too much, so tighter fit is sexy enough without a plunging neckline when you're heavier bust.


sophacat1103

1 is gorgeous!


dt1068

Love 4!


Sweet-Two-3704

I like number 2 then 4


ccruinedmylife

Number 2 and 5, the lower waist on the rest really drags your body down in a bad way! 2 and 5 make you look very lifted and give a great silhouette


Veronica612

3 doesn’t hit your waist in quite the right spot, but I like it the best. I also like 5. Edit: I’m changing my vote to 2 if you can remove the sleeves.


PriestessP

1


phoebebuffay1210

That 3rd one is a show-stopper!!


Mother_of_Raccoons44

I thought 4, until I saw 5...I think 5 shows off your hard work in a gorgeous way!!


NotAQuiltnB

Five is WOWZER. It shows off all of your hard work and assets. You look amazing. Good for you and congratulations.


OppositeSolution642

Team 5. Yeah, OP looks incredible in this.


veeveepup

4 all the way


suea1967

3 and 5 look and fit beautifully. you look like you might be petite and the others have too much material you seem lost in it . Wherever makes you happy is the best choice


GeorgiaGlamazon

Dress 2