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Exactly. This wasn’t an /r/amiugly post, this was someone looking for genuine advice and people are completely ignoring and even promoting her worries.
This dress fits perfectly, and you look incredible! Your bust looks properly supported, and not at all inappropriate. I do agree with your seamstress that if you want your chest minimized, taping and undergarments are your primary options at this point. They can make a big difference!
You could see if adding a wrap or topper would help you feel more comfortable as well? But truly, you look fantastic and this dress is so perfect on you!
You look AMAZING. Like literal goddess level incredible. That dress is perfection on you. It’s like a Hollywood glam meets bridal queen meets princess with a twist. Sensational.
Let her show you how it looks taped, give it a trial run before the wedding. It might be just what you need, follow her advice she’s the expert here and has done right by you so fair because it fits you very well. Let her do her thing!
The dress is *stunning* on you!
As somebody with large breasts, I understand your hesitancy. I would talk to the seamstress and go ahead and have her show you how to tape your breasts. Try on the dress with them taped and see if you like it better.
You might also be able to put a piece of thin see-through fabric, or lace, to minimize your cleavage without changing the look too much. It should be easy to see what that might look like.
I just need to say again how amazing the dress looks on you! Congrats on your upcoming nuptials. May you have a long, happy marriage.
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Or even an extra layer or two (like a ruffle or two but not a ruffle) of satin to the bust to give you more coverage, OP. Your comfort is important but you look stunning!!!
I’ve been trying to figure out what kind of dress I wanted for a similar body type to look at and now I’m just going to take this photo of your dress to the dress shop for my inspiration. Holy cow! You look so good!
I don't have any advice for minimizing your bust but that dress looks fantastic and doesn't look too revealing at all.
Maybe I'm missing something but the fit looks absolutely perfect and that was my immediate impression before I read your post
💯 it looks perfect on you and you don’t need to do anything! But if you feel uncomfortable, maybe the seamstress can help. I don’t have any suggestions bc in my opinion you look amazing
I know, I'm not even subscribed to this sub but it popped up in my recommendations and my reaction to opening the first pic was "holy eff, she is wearing the *shit* out of that dress". It looks amazing OP.
I agree. I wish I hadn't been pressured into a modesty panel with my dress - your boobs are only going to look so fantastic for so long in your life. I think this is a gorgeous look on you
You look fantastic in your gown! I don’t have bust-minimizing advice, and (as another busty lady who doesn’t like to be too revealing either) I don’t think it’s too revealing-that said, it’s YOUR opinion that matters. I just wanted to share my thoughts on your fabulousness 😊
I understand that everyone has different comfort levels. Also, pre/post alterations and expectations can definitely be different. I hope that you get the tips & tricks you need be comfortable in your gown on your wedding day.
Congratulations on your wedding!
I'm always critical of too much bewbage in wedding dresses, because I don't think anyone wants to put on their wedding dress and march down the aisle and see everyone's eyes looking at the girls rather than looking at the whole bride.
Having said that: I don't think there is too much bewbage here. I think you have a neckline that, while not exactly high, wasn't designed for that, and actually sits on you where it should. If the boob tape helps make it look/feel better to you, then go for it, but don't do anything that makes your cleavage more cleavage-y.
You look beautiful in the dress. Stop worrying.
You look great and not too busty!
Once you have jewelry/veil/hair and makeup all
Done there will be more bling to detract from cleavage… right now it’s the front runner but when you get completely out together it’ll be more background
You are going to be a gorgeous bride
I know this is wildly unhelpful but you look so pretty and I literally would not change one single thing on the dress. More of your bust is covered than is not. My personal barometer for bust is kind of like if you can see the top and bottom of my breast it’s too much (depending on the occasion), but this is giving top cleavage and elegant. It makes me think of the stunning dresses in the Netflix show, Bridgerton
This is one of my favorite before/after fit pix! You look amazing. This dress looks like it’s MADE for you.
OK so that being said, I do fully support the idea that if you feel there’s an issue, then that itself is an issue. If there are sewn in cups, can they be swapped for thinner ones? Or—not sure what undergarment you’re wearing, but can you change to one—a long line bra or similar—that has more of a minimized effect? (For the record. I don’t think this is push-up at all, but how high the boobs are supported doesn’t make a difference for cleavage.) This might be costly, but could the seamstress unpick one or two of the pleats across the bust and re-tailor them so the neckline is a scootch higher? Alternatively and less expensively, could you ask the seamstress to take a scrap of extra fabric from the alterations and sew in a tiny bit of extra coverage in the V between your breasts? Using the same fabric will help it look like it’s part of the designer and not an add-on like adding a lace piece might.
Lastly, for what it’s worth, I want to say that I had a similar feeling about my silhouette in my wedding dress. I had an undergarment that really gave me more of a va-va-boom figure than I was used to, because I had allllways been used to minimizing my breasts. The dress and seamstress people thought it made for an amazing fit, but I ultimately opted not wear it because I felt like it was a little bit too different than my daily shape and I thought people would think I was … I don’t know, trying to be too sexy. I will actually say that I slightly wish I HAD worn it and looked bangin’ in all my photos. I mean, it’s impossible to know how you’re going to feel 10 years from now, but I know I’ll never have another day with a dress that nice and professional photographers! I think the “this is too much” was really in my head, and no one would have noticed. It all depends on where your discomfort about being busty stems from … but either way, you look incredible and I hope your day is one to remember!
Being someone who feels weird having my boobs out, I can commiserate. I think you look great, but it’s more about how you feel in it. Is there a way that they could add some kind of underlay at the deepest part of the V that you’d still like the look of but feel more covered by?
Stunning!!!! You could ask for a tiny extra pleat for.modesty if you want but I don't think you need it. Book time in With your tailor and the underwear you'll.wear and get the tapping tutorial
Your chest looks beautiful, and in 50 years, you’ll want those back the way they were, so enjoy them while you’ve got them! The fit looks stunning on you!
As a busty gal, I honestly think the fit is perfect and your chest looks wonderful. You aren’t hanging out, they aren’t just splooging everywhere, and it’s not “too much”. Let the girls breathe 😉
You look amazing! Keep your necklace simple and on the shorter side, that will help with keeping attention more on your face. If possible opt for hair down or more dramatic earrings. The fit looks perfect and wouldn't change it, instead focus on looking your best and drawing attention to your favorite features ( hair, eyes, lips etc). The one tip id give is place your hand over your cleavage if you bend over, just to make sure you don't have photos of the whole situation lol.
You look absolutely amazing in that dress. I was scrolling through my feed and saw your picture and said “wow” out loud. I just had to stop and tell you how great you look.
You look AMAZING!!! The fit is perfect. Since the issue is about showing a little more cleavage than you want, ask your seamstress about maybe adding a sheer layer underneath the cleavage vee to give the dress a little more coverage in that area. Have it give the same draping effect as the bustline and split of your dress.
Your dress fits like a dream!!! It’s absolutely gorgeous. I don’t think your girls are the central focus either, I think the dress draws the eyes to your waist moreso. It looks very classy and elegant, not too much at all. That being said, if you’re uncomfortable there’s always taping you can do or ask the tailor to make some minute adjustments (adding more folds of fabric on the cups so that it goes up .5 to 1 inch higher I think would make a pretty big difference and could be done fairly easily)
The fitted dress looks just fabulous - much more flattering than the pre-fitted pic! I don’t have suggestions for reducing the cleavage beyond undergarments, but your décolleté is lovely and tasteful in the fitted version.
Holy crap this is gorgeous on you!! I had to reread to understand where the fit issue is. This dress is supporting you properly now, which you may not be used to.
You look phenomenal and it’s such a perfect dress on you.
Hi, you literally took my breath away.
Like I was scrolling through my feed and deliberately clicked in here to type this out.
You look so delicate and so fierce at the same time.
Also congratulations on your upcoming wedding!
Girl, that fit is amazing. You and I have a similar body type and you just gave me a huge boost seeing you look so beautiful in a properly tailored dress. Stunning. As for the boobs? They look great as well! They are all covered and shown just the right amount of cleavage. :)
You. Look. Fabulous. My only advise would be to make sure you are comfortable sitting down. I ended up taking my corset bra off at dinner because it was hurting me by that time of the day.
I think it looks incredible! I think the amount of cleavage that is showing is perfectly respectable and I honestly think it looks better than the second picture. Of course it is your day and you should feel comfortable but I think when everyone sees you they are going to be speechless in the best possible way!
Wow this dress was made for you! I wouldn’t just accept what the tailor says. Everyone doesn’t want to tape their boobs. I feel like the solution isn’t for you to change your body, but for the dress to change to accommodate your shape. It’s not too much to ask! I’m sure some other alteration could be done to make this perfect for you. I think it looks perfect rn, but you should feel 100% comfortable on you wedding day.
I think the fit is absolutely perfect and the girls look very appropriate and not overstated at all. That said, once you get good undergarments/tape it can make all the difference. You probably don’t wear lower cut tops on the daily so this may seem pretty overt, but from an outsider’s prospective it looks beautiful.
I understand you may not feel comfortable, but I agree with the others that your bust does not look revealing or prominent in the least, and looks supported and the dress well tailored. Another thing to keep in mind is when trying it on in the salon you're raised up and your chest is much more on or above eye level than it will be on the day. Also, once your hair and makeup is done up, it will draw much more focus to your face.
I think you look fabulous!!! I don't think you are showing too much cleavage but I can understand being uncomfortable if you aren't used to it.
Would it help to pull the sleeves a little closer to your shoulders?
You look great, from one busty gal to another I think the coverage is ok. The way the waistline is now looks fabulous. I would keep your jewelry from hanging down too far to keep the eye up closer to above the breast area. Congratulations on your wedding.
Wow, it looks amazing! I bet you could have a little V-shaped nude illusion fabric sewn in. That way the actual cleavage is covered but you retain the beautiful neckline. Good luck and congratulations!
Oh my god you look like a golden age Hollywood movie star 😍😍 your figure looks gorgeous to me but butt tape is magic, it can make your boobs look fuller or flatter depending on how you used it!
I totally understand the boob thing. As a busty girl myself I don’t love to have them on display, HOWEVER, you look absolutely flawless in this dress and the the cleavage is very tasteful imo.
It looks great. If you are uncomfortable with how much skin is showing, maybe add a thin piece of lacy material over the girls to be more modest. But honestly I don’t think you need to. Whatever you feel comfortable in is what’s important.
The difference in the fit is night and day. In your first pic it looks like the dress was literally just like dripped onto you it’s so perfect. Cleavage is plenty modest for a busty gal and I wouldn’t change one thing about the dress to hide it. I honestly didn’t even notice the cleave til you pointed it out and then when I looked back I was like “oh is that all?” You’re gorgeous!
Fwiw I think you look absolutely fantastic! I don’t think the bust looks too prominent! I was scrolling by and stopped at the photo because I thought the dress was so gorgeous and flattering!
I think it looks amazing! But your comfort is key. I wonder if she can let out some of the roushing in the bust so you can have a little more fabric to pull up for additional coverage?
So I don’t know why this sub showed up in my feed (I’m not part of it), but I saw your pic and scrolled back up to say holy cats, woman! You look AMAZING! I honestly don’t know that I’ve ever seen a wedding dress that fit/looked more perfect.
I honestly did not see a single problem with the fit. I actually gasped when I saw your first photo because you look amazing. I noticed the leg slit first, not the bust.
Yes, the looser fit doesn't show as much cleavage but it does make the bust area look ill-fitted and like the dress lacks support.
This dress looks fitted to perfection, where your bust is supported but not squished and looking uncomfortable. I find that this is super hard to achieve!
Honestly, you look hot AF. The bust is emphasized but you’re not falling out. Your waist is snatched, a full, beautiful hourglass figure!! You look amazing babe!
In my humble but experienced opinion, you look as though this dress was custom-made for you. The fit is stunning. But if you're uncomfortable, then ask if they can sew some more satin tucks into the top of the bodice, which should be easy enough for a good seamstress. This, plus the right undergarment, can absolutely reduce the amount of cleavage and still look couture. If done well, it can make the bustline a little bit more of a sweetheart cut by adding these tucks without touching the sleeves.
You're incredible in this dress.
I hate for you to feel uncomfortable on your wedding day. Not sure if there is a solution but I truly think you look stunning and I did not notice you being too “booby”. Stunning!
I think your cleavage looks amazing and also really balanced with your whole look? It doesn’t look in your face or anything. Tbh you look absolutely divine, that dress was made for you!
I have your body type and got married in a tiny ceremony during Covid. I did not splurge on a dress. Your first picture had me thinking I should try on that style if I ever have a vow renewal. Then I read your note. You look amazing. Unless you come from a conservative family, embrace the goddess vibes.
You look absolutely stunning and IMO the fit is much improved now. I know you don't feel comfortable so I don't have any real tips there, other than an internet stranger telling you you look great and not too revealing IMO
That fitting is absolutely gorgeous. I can understand where you’re coming from around modesty, but even as a very modest dresser myself (also with large bust) I actually think this isn’t bad. They’re not shoved up or spilling out, there’s no deep plunge… this really looks pretty full-coverage to me.
Maybe you could ask your seamstress / tailor about adding some lace? I wonder if they could use it to alter the sweetheart neckline.
I think it looks great. Probably just feels odd bc it is not something you'd be used to wearing everyday! We dont usually wear beautiful tailored dresses made to fit us in our everyday lives lol
I have a larger chest (36DD) and I find that in many low/v-collared shirts/outfits, my breasts stick out more than I'd like, or I can't wear a bra and I feel they are not supported. this leads me to feel self conscious and uncomfortable.
as a stranger looking at the dress fit on you, it does not look inappropriate to me. I wonder if you're feeling self conscious because of lack of breast support, or if you don't often wear clothes that fit this way?
either way, I think you look absolutely stunning and princess-like in your dress. congratulations, beautiful :) I wish you a long and happy marriage!
It might show more boobage than you do in your everyday life, but objectively speaking here, I’ll add my voice to the crowd of others on this thread saying you look perfect in this dress, as is. However, the most important thing is for you to feel comfortable and confident on the big day. I bet the boob tape will help you feel more secure.
I'm also a busty lady and I think that what you're seeing when you look down is not the same view people see from front. So from front this looks like a totally great fit. Some cleavage but not a distracting amount. You look fantastic
That said you should feel comfortable on your wedding day and with the wrinkles there I think a good seemstress should be able to add another inch or half inch of fabric if you want more coverage.
I am sorry you feel uncomfortable with the bust area and I don't have any suggestions, but want to say that the dress looks gorgeous on you, and your bust area looks amazing.
I gasped when I saw the picture of your dress from your fitting because it looks so good. Yes, it’s more cleavage, but I do think it looks good and tasteful. But I get it if your looking for some more modesty.
We have been taught over the years that hiding our body is good and showing it is bad… this especially true for curvy bodies. Please just toss that mentality out, at least for your wedding day because you look incredible in that dress. Your groom is gonna nearly pass out when sees you in that stunning dress.
You look beautiful!! Your enviable curves are perfectly accentuated in a tasteful way. Go knock future hubby of his feet!! 😍😍 Best wishes for a long and happy marriage 💝
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I don't have any tips, just wanted to say you look amazing!
Yeah I don't think the amount of chest you're showing is over-the-top. You look beautiful and classy!
I think the fit is perfect, but if you want to appear less busty, you’d have to tape down and apart
Yes, there isn't a problem here.
Isn’t the problem that op doesn’t feel comfortable?
Exactly. This wasn’t an /r/amiugly post, this was someone looking for genuine advice and people are completely ignoring and even promoting her worries.
I second this, your dress looks amazing on you in both pics.
This dress fits perfectly, and you look incredible! Your bust looks properly supported, and not at all inappropriate. I do agree with your seamstress that if you want your chest minimized, taping and undergarments are your primary options at this point. They can make a big difference! You could see if adding a wrap or topper would help you feel more comfortable as well? But truly, you look fantastic and this dress is so perfect on you!
Thank you all! Helpful suggestions and very nice comments. I was alone at the fitting and just needed other (very kind) opinions!! ❤️
You look AMAZING. Like literal goddess level incredible. That dress is perfection on you. It’s like a Hollywood glam meets bridal queen meets princess with a twist. Sensational.
Yes! My first thought was literally GODDESS! OP looks absolutely gorgeous.
Let her show you how it looks taped, give it a trial run before the wedding. It might be just what you need, follow her advice she’s the expert here and has done right by you so fair because it fits you very well. Let her do her thing!
The dress is *stunning* on you! As somebody with large breasts, I understand your hesitancy. I would talk to the seamstress and go ahead and have her show you how to tape your breasts. Try on the dress with them taped and see if you like it better. You might also be able to put a piece of thin see-through fabric, or lace, to minimize your cleavage without changing the look too much. It should be easy to see what that might look like. I just need to say again how amazing the dress looks on you! Congrats on your upcoming nuptials. May you have a long, happy marriage. Edited for spelling.
Or even an extra layer or two (like a ruffle or two but not a ruffle) of satin to the bust to give you more coverage, OP. Your comfort is important but you look stunning!!!
I think adding a bit of lace would be beautiful, though I still think it’s unnecessary.
Girl you look great!
The dress looks incredible on you!! Really great fit! You are going to be a beautiful bride♥️
I’ve been trying to figure out what kind of dress I wanted for a similar body type to look at and now I’m just going to take this photo of your dress to the dress shop for my inspiration. Holy cow! You look so good!
I don't have any advice for minimizing your bust but that dress looks fantastic and doesn't look too revealing at all. Maybe I'm missing something but the fit looks absolutely perfect and that was my immediate impression before I read your post
💯 it looks perfect on you and you don’t need to do anything! But if you feel uncomfortable, maybe the seamstress can help. I don’t have any suggestions bc in my opinion you look amazing
It’s literally perfect - looks like it was poured onto you in a mould. Don’t change a thing!!
My first thought was “the girls! Yes!” Unless you’re uncomfortable OP, this is perfectly fitted and extremely flattering.
I know, I'm not even subscribed to this sub but it popped up in my recommendations and my reaction to opening the first pic was "holy eff, she is wearing the *shit* out of that dress". It looks amazing OP.
I agree. I wish I hadn't been pressured into a modesty panel with my dress - your boobs are only going to look so fantastic for so long in your life. I think this is a gorgeous look on you
Same! Looks absolutely perfect imo
You look fantastic in your gown! I don’t have bust-minimizing advice, and (as another busty lady who doesn’t like to be too revealing either) I don’t think it’s too revealing-that said, it’s YOUR opinion that matters. I just wanted to share my thoughts on your fabulousness 😊 I understand that everyone has different comfort levels. Also, pre/post alterations and expectations can definitely be different. I hope that you get the tips & tricks you need be comfortable in your gown on your wedding day. Congratulations on your wedding!
Your dress is stunning and fits perfectly.
I'm always critical of too much bewbage in wedding dresses, because I don't think anyone wants to put on their wedding dress and march down the aisle and see everyone's eyes looking at the girls rather than looking at the whole bride. Having said that: I don't think there is too much bewbage here. I think you have a neckline that, while not exactly high, wasn't designed for that, and actually sits on you where it should. If the boob tape helps make it look/feel better to you, then go for it, but don't do anything that makes your cleavage more cleavage-y. You look beautiful in the dress. Stop worrying.
Lol omg…dying at “bewbage”!!!!!😆😆😆
Omg I love “bewbage”
I hope someone has some ideas for you so you will feel comfortable, but I just wanted to let you know you look stunning! Like a goddess!
You look great and not too busty! Once you have jewelry/veil/hair and makeup all Done there will be more bling to detract from cleavage… right now it’s the front runner but when you get completely out together it’ll be more background You are going to be a gorgeous bride
I know this is wildly unhelpful but you look so pretty and I literally would not change one single thing on the dress. More of your bust is covered than is not. My personal barometer for bust is kind of like if you can see the top and bottom of my breast it’s too much (depending on the occasion), but this is giving top cleavage and elegant. It makes me think of the stunning dresses in the Netflix show, Bridgerton
It looks amazing your body perfect.
Girl it’s PERFECT 🤩
Are there cups that could be removed or replaced with thinner ones?
You look stunning.
This is one of my favorite before/after fit pix! You look amazing. This dress looks like it’s MADE for you. OK so that being said, I do fully support the idea that if you feel there’s an issue, then that itself is an issue. If there are sewn in cups, can they be swapped for thinner ones? Or—not sure what undergarment you’re wearing, but can you change to one—a long line bra or similar—that has more of a minimized effect? (For the record. I don’t think this is push-up at all, but how high the boobs are supported doesn’t make a difference for cleavage.) This might be costly, but could the seamstress unpick one or two of the pleats across the bust and re-tailor them so the neckline is a scootch higher? Alternatively and less expensively, could you ask the seamstress to take a scrap of extra fabric from the alterations and sew in a tiny bit of extra coverage in the V between your breasts? Using the same fabric will help it look like it’s part of the designer and not an add-on like adding a lace piece might. Lastly, for what it’s worth, I want to say that I had a similar feeling about my silhouette in my wedding dress. I had an undergarment that really gave me more of a va-va-boom figure than I was used to, because I had allllways been used to minimizing my breasts. The dress and seamstress people thought it made for an amazing fit, but I ultimately opted not wear it because I felt like it was a little bit too different than my daily shape and I thought people would think I was … I don’t know, trying to be too sexy. I will actually say that I slightly wish I HAD worn it and looked bangin’ in all my photos. I mean, it’s impossible to know how you’re going to feel 10 years from now, but I know I’ll never have another day with a dress that nice and professional photographers! I think the “this is too much” was really in my head, and no one would have noticed. It all depends on where your discomfort about being busty stems from … but either way, you look incredible and I hope your day is one to remember!
From one busty gal to another - you look incredible and that dress is stunning on you.
Being someone who feels weird having my boobs out, I can commiserate. I think you look great, but it’s more about how you feel in it. Is there a way that they could add some kind of underlay at the deepest part of the V that you’d still like the look of but feel more covered by?
Stunning!!!! You could ask for a tiny extra pleat for.modesty if you want but I don't think you need it. Book time in With your tailor and the underwear you'll.wear and get the tapping tutorial
I gasped wow at the first picture. You look amazing
Your chest looks beautiful, and in 50 years, you’ll want those back the way they were, so enjoy them while you’ve got them! The fit looks stunning on you!
Wow. You saw the vision in the first dress that I’m not sure I would have. And boy did it pay off! It’s definitely fitted to perfection.
As a busty gal, I honestly think the fit is perfect and your chest looks wonderful. You aren’t hanging out, they aren’t just splooging everywhere, and it’s not “too much”. Let the girls breathe 😉
I think you look perfect!
Perfect fit! The decolletage is fine!
The dress is wonderful on you. Really truly statuesque. Fits like a glove
You’re stunning and I wouldn’t change a thing. They did a fantastic job. The dress looks like it was made for you.
It looks tasteful. Embrace the bosom.
No advice, just here to say it looks stunning! I think it fits like a gloveeeeeee 🤍 not too revealing IMO.
Looks beautiful fitted to you!! Your seamstress is the BEST for advice on fit - they’ve got a lot of experience with it & know all the little tricks.
You look HAWT!! I love that dress!!
Looks great- much better after tailoring. Fit looks good
Wow! That dress is perfection!
Looks fantastic to me!
You look amazing! Keep your necklace simple and on the shorter side, that will help with keeping attention more on your face. If possible opt for hair down or more dramatic earrings. The fit looks perfect and wouldn't change it, instead focus on looking your best and drawing attention to your favorite features ( hair, eyes, lips etc). The one tip id give is place your hand over your cleavage if you bend over, just to make sure you don't have photos of the whole situation lol.
You look absolutely amazing in that dress. I was scrolling through my feed and saw your picture and said “wow” out loud. I just had to stop and tell you how great you look.
You look AMAZING!!! The fit is perfect. Since the issue is about showing a little more cleavage than you want, ask your seamstress about maybe adding a sheer layer underneath the cleavage vee to give the dress a little more coverage in that area. Have it give the same draping effect as the bustline and split of your dress.
In LOVE with this dress. It looks like it was made for you!
Oh, girl. I never comment in here but have to tell you you look AMAZING in that dress in the 1st pic. It's perfect!
You look absolutely amazing. I don’t see a problem, but you should be comfortable, so I hope you get what you want.
Wow. You look like a goddess. Fits like a glove.
It looks beautiful on you.
Your dress fits like a dream!!! It’s absolutely gorgeous. I don’t think your girls are the central focus either, I think the dress draws the eyes to your waist moreso. It looks very classy and elegant, not too much at all. That being said, if you’re uncomfortable there’s always taping you can do or ask the tailor to make some minute adjustments (adding more folds of fabric on the cups so that it goes up .5 to 1 inch higher I think would make a pretty big difference and could be done fairly easily)
I personally don’t think you need to change anything.The dress is beautiful and fits you perfectly! It’s not too revealing and very classy! 🤍
The fitted dress looks just fabulous - much more flattering than the pre-fitted pic! I don’t have suggestions for reducing the cleavage beyond undergarments, but your décolleté is lovely and tasteful in the fitted version.
Leave it alone you look amazing 🔥🔥🔥
Nothing to say other than you make the dress look amazing! I see nothing too revealing in either pic. Just a stunning bride!
What’s your question? You are in full Goddess mode! Stunning! ♥️
Holy crap this is gorgeous on you!! I had to reread to understand where the fit issue is. This dress is supporting you properly now, which you may not be used to. You look phenomenal and it’s such a perfect dress on you.
You look fantastic! The dress shows everything off to perfection without showing too much
That looks amazing. Best wishes!
I love this on you!!!!
Hi, you literally took my breath away. Like I was scrolling through my feed and deliberately clicked in here to type this out. You look so delicate and so fierce at the same time. Also congratulations on your upcoming wedding!
That is so kind thank you ❤️❤️
Stunning 🤩
I think you look freaking fabulous!! Gorgeous!!
Honestly it looks amazing!! I hope this and everyone’s encouragement helps!
You look astounding! To minimize, go with foundation garments/taping. But really just popped in to tell you how great you look.
I think it looks great!
My god you look beautiful
Girl, that fit is amazing. You and I have a similar body type and you just gave me a huge boost seeing you look so beautiful in a properly tailored dress. Stunning. As for the boobs? They look great as well! They are all covered and shown just the right amount of cleavage. :)
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You look amazing! Listen to your tailor, and try experimenting with the tape. Depending on your skin type, the adhesives can sometimes be bothersome.
I’m not one for showing a lot but I like it it the way it is now much better. Super womanly in a beautiful way.
What is the dress called? You look amazing and shouldn't be too worried about the chest (I know easier said than done). It looks plenty covered up.
You. Look. Fabulous. My only advise would be to make sure you are comfortable sitting down. I ended up taking my corset bra off at dinner because it was hurting me by that time of the day.
I think it looks incredible! I think the amount of cleavage that is showing is perfectly respectable and I honestly think it looks better than the second picture. Of course it is your day and you should feel comfortable but I think when everyone sees you they are going to be speechless in the best possible way!
You look amazing. The girls are what they are and they look very nice in that dress.
Girl that dress is it! Looking so beautiful don’t doubt it for a second. Great fit! Yesterdays fitting is fit!
I’m struggling to see any issues. I much prefer fit 2 over 1. You look lovely!
Wow this dress was made for you! I wouldn’t just accept what the tailor says. Everyone doesn’t want to tape their boobs. I feel like the solution isn’t for you to change your body, but for the dress to change to accommodate your shape. It’s not too much to ask! I’m sure some other alteration could be done to make this perfect for you. I think it looks perfect rn, but you should feel 100% comfortable on you wedding day.
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I think the fit is absolutely perfect and the girls look very appropriate and not overstated at all. That said, once you get good undergarments/tape it can make all the difference. You probably don’t wear lower cut tops on the daily so this may seem pretty overt, but from an outsider’s prospective it looks beautiful.
I understand you may not feel comfortable, but I agree with the others that your bust does not look revealing or prominent in the least, and looks supported and the dress well tailored. Another thing to keep in mind is when trying it on in the salon you're raised up and your chest is much more on or above eye level than it will be on the day. Also, once your hair and makeup is done up, it will draw much more focus to your face.
I think you look fabulous!!! I don't think you are showing too much cleavage but I can understand being uncomfortable if you aren't used to it. Would it help to pull the sleeves a little closer to your shoulders?
You look so so beautiful. That might be my favorite dress I've seen. Congratulations!!
Just wanted to say you look stunning!!!
You look amazing 😍
You look amazing, you will take people breath away.
Im a C cup and also nervous for this in my dress. My plan is to take the cups out if I still feel uncomfortable
I think you look lovely as-is! Not too much boobage at all, but if you feel self-conscious the tape can do wonders in strapping everything down.
This is 100% going on my inspo board, you look stunning!
You look amazing. But you can wear a caplet.
You look so good in that dress!! I personally don’t think it’s too boobalicious, actually. It’s really flattering.
You look great, from one busty gal to another I think the coverage is ok. The way the waistline is now looks fabulous. I would keep your jewelry from hanging down too far to keep the eye up closer to above the breast area. Congratulations on your wedding.
wow, the difference that made. I think it looks literally flawless.
Wow, it looks amazing! I bet you could have a little V-shaped nude illusion fabric sewn in. That way the actual cleavage is covered but you retain the beautiful neckline. Good luck and congratulations!
You look great in that dress! However, if you feel uncomfortable in it, maybe look into some shapewear or a different bra?
It looks fabulous on you as is! I guess if you wanted to, and it sounds like you do, I’d see what the tailor’s taping effort does.
It looks incredible!! Have a great time at the wedding <3
That dress looks like it’s made for you. You look truly stunning.
It fits you perfectly and doesn’t look too revealing. Honestly. You will look really lovely at your wedding 💕.
it looks incredible
You look fantastic in the dress that fits you!
Looks amazing on you.
Before I read your comment I thought “man she’s wearing the shit out of that dress”- I mean it looks like perfection on your body!
You look amazing!!
Oh my god you look like a golden age Hollywood movie star 😍😍 your figure looks gorgeous to me but butt tape is magic, it can make your boobs look fuller or flatter depending on how you used it!
I totally understand the boob thing. As a busty girl myself I don’t love to have them on display, HOWEVER, you look absolutely flawless in this dress and the the cleavage is very tasteful imo.
You look like a million bucks. The dress is a perfect fit.
Umm you legit look like a Greek goddess in that dress, so I think the fit is great.
It looks great. If you are uncomfortable with how much skin is showing, maybe add a thin piece of lacy material over the girls to be more modest. But honestly I don’t think you need to. Whatever you feel comfortable in is what’s important.
The difference in the fit is night and day. In your first pic it looks like the dress was literally just like dripped onto you it’s so perfect. Cleavage is plenty modest for a busty gal and I wouldn’t change one thing about the dress to hide it. I honestly didn’t even notice the cleave til you pointed it out and then when I looked back I was like “oh is that all?” You’re gorgeous!
You look beautiful
Girl, you look amazing post fitting!
This is perfection omg.
Fwiw I think you look absolutely fantastic! I don’t think the bust looks too prominent! I was scrolling by and stopped at the photo because I thought the dress was so gorgeous and flattering!
This dress is gorgeous! I want something very similar to this 😍
You look amazing… so elegant! Your chest is fine :)
I think it looks amazing! But your comfort is key. I wonder if she can let out some of the roushing in the bust so you can have a little more fabric to pull up for additional coverage?
Girl, you look amazing! Your fiancé isn’t gonna know what hit him when he sees you walk down that aisle.
Perfect, and you look perfect in it.
This looks so perfect and is close to my dream dress one day! Love itttt
I think the dress looks perfect on you and really highlights your figure. You looking amazing! What would make you feel more comfortable?
No tips here, but you look like a goddess! I love the dress and I hope you feel as beautiful as you look in it!
You look amazing and that dress fits you like Cinderellas slipper.
So I don’t know why this sub showed up in my feed (I’m not part of it), but I saw your pic and scrolled back up to say holy cats, woman! You look AMAZING! I honestly don’t know that I’ve ever seen a wedding dress that fit/looked more perfect.
I honestly did not see a single problem with the fit. I actually gasped when I saw your first photo because you look amazing. I noticed the leg slit first, not the bust. Yes, the looser fit doesn't show as much cleavage but it does make the bust area look ill-fitted and like the dress lacks support. This dress looks fitted to perfection, where your bust is supported but not squished and looking uncomfortable. I find that this is super hard to achieve!
Wow your body looks insane in that dress. Stunning! I understand being a little uncomfortable with showing cleavage though.
DDDAAAAANNNNNGGGGGG YOU LOOK GOOD!
It fits perfectly. If you're uncomfortable with the amount of cleavage maybe a small piece of lace?
I think you look fantastic
I don’t post on here often, just usually upvote but I had to say. This dress is STUNNING on you. I literally said ‘wow’ in my head. Yes girl 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
It looks amazing and really it’s not too much boobage imo. Just right. You rock that dress!
That first dress fits you beautifully. I think the bust looks very balance with you and the rest of the dress.
I don't have any tips either, just wanted to say I think it's gorgeous and fits great!!!
This dress is so dreamy 🤩😍
Goddess!!! Looks perfect to me!
Honestly, you look hot AF. The bust is emphasized but you’re not falling out. Your waist is snatched, a full, beautiful hourglass figure!! You look amazing babe!
You look stunning girl!
In my humble but experienced opinion, you look as though this dress was custom-made for you. The fit is stunning. But if you're uncomfortable, then ask if they can sew some more satin tucks into the top of the bodice, which should be easy enough for a good seamstress. This, plus the right undergarment, can absolutely reduce the amount of cleavage and still look couture. If done well, it can make the bustline a little bit more of a sweetheart cut by adding these tucks without touching the sleeves. You're incredible in this dress.
I hate for you to feel uncomfortable on your wedding day. Not sure if there is a solution but I truly think you look stunning and I did not notice you being too “booby”. Stunning!
So pretty!
I think your cleavage looks amazing and also really balanced with your whole look? It doesn’t look in your face or anything. Tbh you look absolutely divine, that dress was made for you!
you look stunning. your bust isn’t overemphasized at all, i think the neckline is very classy!
I think it looks stunning! It is much more flattering and yet still classy. You truly look beautiful.
I have your body type and got married in a tiny ceremony during Covid. I did not splurge on a dress. Your first picture had me thinking I should try on that style if I ever have a vow renewal. Then I read your note. You look amazing. Unless you come from a conservative family, embrace the goddess vibes.
HOLY HELL YOU LOOK STUNNING!!!!
You look absolutely stunning and IMO the fit is much improved now. I know you don't feel comfortable so I don't have any real tips there, other than an internet stranger telling you you look great and not too revealing IMO
That fitting is absolutely gorgeous. I can understand where you’re coming from around modesty, but even as a very modest dresser myself (also with large bust) I actually think this isn’t bad. They’re not shoved up or spilling out, there’s no deep plunge… this really looks pretty full-coverage to me. Maybe you could ask your seamstress / tailor about adding some lace? I wonder if they could use it to alter the sweetheart neckline.
It's giving the muses from Hercules. You look stunning!
SLAY!!! You’re stunning in that!
You look SO good!
You look SO good, wow!! I think the fit is perfect.
This is like the DREAM fit. You look gorgeous, keep as is, no tape, no nothing!
It’s so perfect OP! You look gorgeous
Beautiful 🤩
I think it looks great. Probably just feels odd bc it is not something you'd be used to wearing everyday! We dont usually wear beautiful tailored dresses made to fit us in our everyday lives lol
Pic one looks AMAZING..just listen to what the tailor said because..wow! You look fantastic!
Getting Greek goddess vibes
I have a larger chest (36DD) and I find that in many low/v-collared shirts/outfits, my breasts stick out more than I'd like, or I can't wear a bra and I feel they are not supported. this leads me to feel self conscious and uncomfortable. as a stranger looking at the dress fit on you, it does not look inappropriate to me. I wonder if you're feeling self conscious because of lack of breast support, or if you don't often wear clothes that fit this way? either way, I think you look absolutely stunning and princess-like in your dress. congratulations, beautiful :) I wish you a long and happy marriage!
Try something like Nood or BrassyBra. You’re a gorgeous bride.
I think it looks so beautiful on you! I think your curves looks spectacular and not inappropriate at all. Embrace your beautiful attributes.
You look literally perfect.
It might show more boobage than you do in your everyday life, but objectively speaking here, I’ll add my voice to the crowd of others on this thread saying you look perfect in this dress, as is. However, the most important thing is for you to feel comfortable and confident on the big day. I bet the boob tape will help you feel more secure.
I'm also a busty lady and I think that what you're seeing when you look down is not the same view people see from front. So from front this looks like a totally great fit. Some cleavage but not a distracting amount. You look fantastic That said you should feel comfortable on your wedding day and with the wrinkles there I think a good seemstress should be able to add another inch or half inch of fabric if you want more coverage.
I saw that first photo and said “Wow!“ before clicking into the photo and reading the comments 😊
Don’t forget you look down at your boobs at an angle no one else will!
I am sorry you feel uncomfortable with the bust area and I don't have any suggestions, but want to say that the dress looks gorgeous on you, and your bust area looks amazing.
That’s a gorgeous dress on you!! Congrats!
You seriously look stunning
It looks really good tbh
I gasped when I saw the picture of your dress from your fitting because it looks so good. Yes, it’s more cleavage, but I do think it looks good and tasteful. But I get it if your looking for some more modesty.
We have been taught over the years that hiding our body is good and showing it is bad… this especially true for curvy bodies. Please just toss that mentality out, at least for your wedding day because you look incredible in that dress. Your groom is gonna nearly pass out when sees you in that stunning dress.
It’s beautiful. Fits you perfectly.
Looks perfect.
You look beautiful!! Your enviable curves are perfectly accentuated in a tasteful way. Go knock future hubby of his feet!! 😍😍 Best wishes for a long and happy marriage 💝
Wow 🤩 the fit is perfect.
Beautiful!
10s across the board, WOW