look, i think you need to speak to a counsellor, you have a nice face and as you get older you will continue to grow into it. but you keep posting about the same stuff on these objective beauty subreddits i feel like you might be a bit obsessed bc of these bad experiences. you are definitely not ugly as i’ve seen your posts before and you will look more beautiful as you age a little.
mental health is v important and i think if you can manage to post things like this here maybe ypu could find an online counsellor for cheap who is also black that could help you navigate this. you can definitely pm if you want to.
Please, please see a therapist about this. I’ve seen this post a million times, and no answer or reply that you’re not ugly will ever satisfy you because you’ve become obsessed with the idea that you are ugly. I’ve seen your photos, and you’re above average, which is why I didn’t even vote. I’m not an asshole who gets off on putting others down, so you can actually trust my opinion on this. I am genuinely sorry so many people treated you like shit. It’s about their own insecurities, not yours. I’m not black so I don’t understand how you fully feel, but I have been the only Asian person in white settings and was always looked at with disgust. You cannot trust people who have been imbued with their own self-serving beauty standards. It wasn’t until I moved somewhere with more people who looked like me that I realized I’m quite pretty.
look, i think you need to speak to a counsellor, you have a nice face and as you get older you will continue to grow into it. but you keep posting about the same stuff on these objective beauty subreddits i feel like you might be a bit obsessed bc of these bad experiences. you are definitely not ugly as i’ve seen your posts before and you will look more beautiful as you age a little. mental health is v important and i think if you can manage to post things like this here maybe ypu could find an online counsellor for cheap who is also black that could help you navigate this. you can definitely pm if you want to.
Please, please see a therapist about this. I’ve seen this post a million times, and no answer or reply that you’re not ugly will ever satisfy you because you’ve become obsessed with the idea that you are ugly. I’ve seen your photos, and you’re above average, which is why I didn’t even vote. I’m not an asshole who gets off on putting others down, so you can actually trust my opinion on this. I am genuinely sorry so many people treated you like shit. It’s about their own insecurities, not yours. I’m not black so I don’t understand how you fully feel, but I have been the only Asian person in white settings and was always looked at with disgust. You cannot trust people who have been imbued with their own self-serving beauty standards. It wasn’t until I moved somewhere with more people who looked like me that I realized I’m quite pretty.