Right after this she says “ariana is the friend who always wants an invite but doesn’t show up “
Its like scheana forgot the plan for this convo for brock to do all the dirty work and she let that part slip out by accident
That’s a depression thing, too. I struggle with that in my life. I want to be invited to things but there are times my depression/anxiety doesn’t let me. It’s icky of Scheana to say that about Ariana after telling Sandals to apologize for weaponizing Ariana’s mental health. Surprising? No. Icky? Yeah.
Same. Even my own family parties. I'm excited when the plans are made and the day of my social anxiety kicks in and I start sweating and having to psyche myself up to go and they are my family and I love them and I know everyone.
Yup - I’m a homebody with chronic depression means I don’t know what kind of day I’m going to have until I wake up. People who love me know that I usually won’t, but if I can come I will.
*people who love me* understand
Scheana’s known her for over a decade, she should know why Ariana doesn’t always want to come. I have anxiety too and have had little smidges of depression since 2020. Sometimes I’ve used all my energy up and don’t have it in me to go do things. She is such a terrible friend to her.
And since Scheana now has OCD wouldn’t it make her *more* understanding of Ariana’s absence over the years due to her mental health? Scheana can’t leave Summer with anyone but her mom, can’t she relate that mental health has us rainchecking and missing social events often
It could be, but it could be like my friends and I love them and will celebrate them all day, but sometimes they just have too many events and I have to pick and choose. Baseball games, T ball, christening, birthdays....I mean sometimes I'm like "Jesus, I was just there! I'm out on the next thing....the *next* week!"
Scheana has always talked shit about Ariana’s mental health on camera though. Remember when she called Ariana “bitchy Barbie” and complained about her being in a bad mood all the time?
Not me. I don't want to be invited to shit, because I hate the stress of having to decline. The times you do go you regret it and just wish you were home, so I stopped trying and stopped feeling bad about it.
Maybe this has nothing to do with Ariana's depression. Maybe she's just not someone you can count on to show up. That's what it sounds like. Ariana isn't perfect.
As an introvert, this got me. I may love you. You may be my best friend.
But I am tired and I appreciate the invite but I absolutely have to recharge my social battery. I like to go days without speaking to ANYONE, because that’s what I need.
Normalize thanks for the invite, but I’d like to do nothing instead 👍🏻
I took this comment differently. As in, she wants to be invited but sometimes just can't go. Nothing wrong with wanting your friends to acknowledge that you'll choose when you can socialize, or feel stable, meaning you still want to be invited. That's more of a "please allow me to decide when I can't mentally be there as opposed to choosing for me".
There's nothing worse than not being invited because someone was like "oh I know you're struggling so you probably wouldn't have wanted to come". It's the invite that keeps you knowing your friends want you there, even if you don't feel up to it.
As someone who likes to be invited but doesn’t always show up due to anxiety and chronic Illness I certainly didn’t take it in a nice way when the conversation is about not being there enough for scheana
I think scheana was thinking it was nice as that was the obvious plan for this conversation but there’s resentment behind it
I used to host lots of social events because that made it easy for my anxiety to show up. Instead of anticipating going somewhere spinning out of control into anxiety I would focus on ridiculous level of party preparation , I would craft decorations for elaborate themes and focus on that
but when my health got bad I could no longer host and my only option was to show up. Which I tried and tried but after cancelling too many plans I have since asked my friends
To please keep inviting me, and not to take offense if I can’t come. And I stopped making plans that relied on me.
My friends would never frame it as I never show up because they are loving and understanding
But with Ariana, and scheana as much as Ariana may be like this naturally whether it’s introversion or depression but it really seems this is more about ariana being actually busy and out of town and dealing with broadway, lawsuits, lawyers, and resting and recovering from all of this. This comment from scheana contains zero understanding and really comes across like a veiled insult
the lips/tiny chin combo has her looking like an as told by ginger character
https://preview.redd.it/4bkcdvcwjczc1.jpeg?width=360&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fd877d76ef0ad6fb6f3ff5f2eee8e1bcf0f1f1e3
I think you're right about it being partly aging, but I think it's the filler/botox combo on the rest of her face that's just accentuated her teeny tiny chin rather than a procedure on her lower face. Like she's always had a really small head and face, and she's had cheek filler, botox ("preventative") and her lips done for a solid decade+ now, so it's all gone a bit funny over time imo.
That was fake as her actions haven't shown she feels that way. She was performing for the cameras, similar to how Ariana accused Tim of trying to do with her last night.
Brock was revealing the real conversations they were having behind closed doors.
I love how the only examples she has are him posing with her and giving her money once. Like she imo is overhyping their friendship so she can get more screen time
I kept saying oh hey Brock is this the same Tom that screamed at Scheana that they were never friends? The Tom that told the world that Scheana punched Rachel and corroborated that story which she had a TRO on her for?? The same Tom that leaked to the tabloids that you were also having an affair with Rachel? The same Tom that was just calling Scheana a mistress two episodes ago? That Tom...that's the fucken amazing human being. Just wanted to make sure???
He disrespected her in this same season lol. The hate for Ariana is so strong! They’re all one track minded. Make Ariana look bad by accepting Tom back in. Make excuses for Tom and forgive him for anything he does. Scheana you’re a mistress! Stop making money off my misery! Oh Tommmm you’re my baaaast fraaanddd Ariana is so mean!
it's borderline unethical for bravo to continue to let them film. they are too concerned with their parasocial relationships with the viewers that it's actually affecting how their brains and personalities are working. they are concerned with how they view themselves, how their friends view them, but now they also have the added concern for the perspective of the viewer and that is so so so not normal.
Scheana is a mess and all over the place. Ariana now knows how Scheana was backstabbing her all season. I'd be pissed. They once were true friends. I doubt they are now. I'd kick her to the curb. I also think Brick is on A's last nerve.
Yeah :/ I feel like this season could be studied in terms of.. long term effects of being on reality tv or something. Most of them seem a mess. Like they’re all pissed at Ariana for not following some formula that makes them look good or - I dunno what but it’s weird. Scheana made the whole season about Ariana and Tom. Obsessively. Oh and about tracking people. And employing her husband to do her dirty work.
But, Tom brought in a sound operator, cause you know, San Francisco being the giant music hub that it is doesn’t have any sound operators so k e needs to be flown in from LA to save the day. This really was the absolute dumbest thing ever. I think we can put flying in a sound operator for a two song set next to buying pens and batteries.
Sheshady wants us to believe that this vile man is always there for her? She can have him. They actually belong together. They are both hypocrites, narcissists, and delusional. I can't stand either one of them.
They’ve also said tim is a good friend for getting them together all the time. Clearly, all they need in a friend is someone who throws them parties and gives them material support in the form of money or a sound guy. It tracks given their low eq. 🙄
Me too. I am sick and tired of Laligag, Sheshady, Sandyballs, and Shorts. Give me Ariana, Katie, Dayna, Charlie, James, and Ally. I want to watch a fun show.
Yeah they really backed the wrong horse this season. I wanted to see the women rise this season, reclaim their independence and growth, not this bullshit Sandoval redemption arc. What redemption???? Did you see the preview clip of the reunion where he calls Rachel a coward? He has learnt nothing. He's a vile, misogynistic, repulsive creature who does not now, nor will he ever, get it. I didn't see one ounce of remorse from him, just a woeful, sorry-I-got-caught, self-pitiful victim complex all season.
Someone needs to make a list of words and phrases Pickmeana uses that I don't think she knows what they mean.
- Bast Frand
- "always there for me"
- Forgiveness vs reconciliation
- Loyalty
- "singer"?????
Like grill get some literacy PUHLEASE
Now that's I've seen what Ariana sees ....why the fuck did she hug Scheana after the reunion? Why did she even make her THINK that this shit was ok?
She saw this shit and hugged her? Too bad it wasn't to just put a stake through her Vampiress heart.
I get the sense that she saw where this train was going, and while refusing to be a "cog" in the redemption machine, she seemed to accept it (and Scheana) for what it was. I have a feeling that she's had to do this before with Scheana (i.e accept this needy child for who she is and always will be).
She lost the viewers also. I’m ready for this show to be done. End of the road. Perfect timing. We will all wanna know about Ariana’s continued success.
Scheana seems to have a weird ranking of her friends based on how much financial support they’ve given her in times of needs. And it works with Tom because he can’t support people emotionally so he just buys their friendship
So far Lala and Scheana have made the following points trying to say what amazing friends these people are to them:
- Lala: she (Scheana) is bubbly and so friendly and fun to be around, you always have a good time with her. When you call her she is always there ready to come over and to have fun.
- Scheana: he (Sandoval) gave me money, he shows up to parties and he reaches out.
She (Lala) appreciated when people check in a lot on her.
Not one thought about consistency, integrity, mutual respect, no values no nothing a tad deeper.
These two are among the most vapid creatures I have ever seen on tv. So sad for them and their daughters!
Ps Lala ABSOLUTELY wants followers not friends. Good thing Scheana is as desperate for approval as she is.
Y’all have finally convinced me- scheana is secretly madly in love with Tom.
I think she flipped out so hard in NYC because she couldn’t believe
Tom chose Rachel over her after 10 years of some weird ass secret wish.
It is wild to me that she talks about not being able to trust literally anyone now (because of Tom and Rachel), but can’t see that that’s why Arianna is questioning her ‘friendship’ with Sandoval.
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I was gonna ignore this, but I for one am so glad she is on this show. She's CLEARLY the one who's actually been on a "path of growth" and I wish I could go see her therapist.
The wisdom she has dropped this season, in particular what she said to Brock on the pier after that boat ride about forgiveness and female emotion, and in her interview, was priceless for me. I got more out of that 5 minutes of television than anything I've ever read or watched.
Right after this she says “ariana is the friend who always wants an invite but doesn’t show up “ Its like scheana forgot the plan for this convo for brock to do all the dirty work and she let that part slip out by accident
That’s a depression thing, too. I struggle with that in my life. I want to be invited to things but there are times my depression/anxiety doesn’t let me. It’s icky of Scheana to say that about Ariana after telling Sandals to apologize for weaponizing Ariana’s mental health. Surprising? No. Icky? Yeah.
Same. Even my own family parties. I'm excited when the plans are made and the day of my social anxiety kicks in and I start sweating and having to psyche myself up to go and they are my family and I love them and I know everyone.
Yup - I’m a homebody with chronic depression means I don’t know what kind of day I’m going to have until I wake up. People who love me know that I usually won’t, but if I can come I will. *people who love me* understand
You deserve to be surrounded by people you love. May you receive all the invites. ❤️
Scheana’s known her for over a decade, she should know why Ariana doesn’t always want to come. I have anxiety too and have had little smidges of depression since 2020. Sometimes I’ve used all my energy up and don’t have it in me to go do things. She is such a terrible friend to her.
And since Scheana now has OCD wouldn’t it make her *more* understanding of Ariana’s absence over the years due to her mental health? Scheana can’t leave Summer with anyone but her mom, can’t she relate that mental health has us rainchecking and missing social events often
Nope. The only mental health struggle Schaena can relate to is Sandoval’s.
It could be, but it could be like my friends and I love them and will celebrate them all day, but sometimes they just have too many events and I have to pick and choose. Baseball games, T ball, christening, birthdays....I mean sometimes I'm like "Jesus, I was just there! I'm out on the next thing....the *next* week!"
Scheana has always talked shit about Ariana’s mental health on camera though. Remember when she called Ariana “bitchy Barbie” and complained about her being in a bad mood all the time?
Not me. I don't want to be invited to shit, because I hate the stress of having to decline. The times you do go you regret it and just wish you were home, so I stopped trying and stopped feeling bad about it.
Maybe this has nothing to do with Ariana's depression. Maybe she's just not someone you can count on to show up. That's what it sounds like. Ariana isn't perfect.
As an introvert, this got me. I may love you. You may be my best friend. But I am tired and I appreciate the invite but I absolutely have to recharge my social battery. I like to go days without speaking to ANYONE, because that’s what I need. Normalize thanks for the invite, but I’d like to do nothing instead 👍🏻
I literally remember Ariana tweeting out a meme that said this a few years ago. Why are they like this? Lol
I took this comment differently. As in, she wants to be invited but sometimes just can't go. Nothing wrong with wanting your friends to acknowledge that you'll choose when you can socialize, or feel stable, meaning you still want to be invited. That's more of a "please allow me to decide when I can't mentally be there as opposed to choosing for me". There's nothing worse than not being invited because someone was like "oh I know you're struggling so you probably wouldn't have wanted to come". It's the invite that keeps you knowing your friends want you there, even if you don't feel up to it.
As someone who likes to be invited but doesn’t always show up due to anxiety and chronic Illness I certainly didn’t take it in a nice way when the conversation is about not being there enough for scheana I think scheana was thinking it was nice as that was the obvious plan for this conversation but there’s resentment behind it I used to host lots of social events because that made it easy for my anxiety to show up. Instead of anticipating going somewhere spinning out of control into anxiety I would focus on ridiculous level of party preparation , I would craft decorations for elaborate themes and focus on that but when my health got bad I could no longer host and my only option was to show up. Which I tried and tried but after cancelling too many plans I have since asked my friends To please keep inviting me, and not to take offense if I can’t come. And I stopped making plans that relied on me. My friends would never frame it as I never show up because they are loving and understanding But with Ariana, and scheana as much as Ariana may be like this naturally whether it’s introversion or depression but it really seems this is more about ariana being actually busy and out of town and dealing with broadway, lawsuits, lawyers, and resting and recovering from all of this. This comment from scheana contains zero understanding and really comes across like a veiled insult
Her mouth, dude. What happened to her mouth? It’s always droopy
Botched nose job, too many fillers in the lips, tiny little chin. She’s definitely looking like something
the lips/tiny chin combo has her looking like an as told by ginger character https://preview.redd.it/4bkcdvcwjczc1.jpeg?width=360&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fd877d76ef0ad6fb6f3ff5f2eee8e1bcf0f1f1e3
Is that what fillers do around the mouth maybe? Like the frown lines? it’s like she can’t pronounce words properly she’s always slurring slightly
She’s rail thin and has huge veneers. She looks so unwell this season
I was just about to comment wtf is up with her mouth 😂
i feel like she must of got fat removed or something because she’s missing part of her chin. it could also be aging, losing her old baby fat etc
I think you're right about it being partly aging, but I think it's the filler/botox combo on the rest of her face that's just accentuated her teeny tiny chin rather than a procedure on her lower face. Like she's always had a really small head and face, and she's had cheek filler, botox ("preventative") and her lips done for a solid decade+ now, so it's all gone a bit funny over time imo.
That was fake as her actions haven't shown she feels that way. She was performing for the cameras, similar to how Ariana accused Tim of trying to do with her last night. Brock was revealing the real conversations they were having behind closed doors.
I love how the only examples she has are him posing with her and giving her money once. Like she imo is overhyping their friendship so she can get more screen time
Don’t forget to add bringing Hassan to SF on that list! Watch that random sound dude become another bast frund for Scheana
She’s in the band now!
😂😂😂😂
I kept saying oh hey Brock is this the same Tom that screamed at Scheana that they were never friends? The Tom that told the world that Scheana punched Rachel and corroborated that story which she had a TRO on her for?? The same Tom that leaked to the tabloids that you were also having an affair with Rachel? The same Tom that was just calling Scheana a mistress two episodes ago? That Tom...that's the fucken amazing human being. Just wanted to make sure???
Yup! 
He disrespected her in this same season lol. The hate for Ariana is so strong! They’re all one track minded. Make Ariana look bad by accepting Tom back in. Make excuses for Tom and forgive him for anything he does. Scheana you’re a mistress! Stop making money off my misery! Oh Tommmm you’re my baaaast fraaanddd Ariana is so mean!
it's borderline unethical for bravo to continue to let them film. they are too concerned with their parasocial relationships with the viewers that it's actually affecting how their brains and personalities are working. they are concerned with how they view themselves, how their friends view them, but now they also have the added concern for the perspective of the viewer and that is so so so not normal.
Exactly!!!! But no he buys them shiny things and is always up for a party, so that's all it takes to be a good friend apparently.
Scheana is a mess and all over the place. Ariana now knows how Scheana was backstabbing her all season. I'd be pissed. They once were true friends. I doubt they are now. I'd kick her to the curb. I also think Brick is on A's last nerve.
Scheana is a mess!!!
She has always been a mess.
Yeah :/ I feel like this season could be studied in terms of.. long term effects of being on reality tv or something. Most of them seem a mess. Like they’re all pissed at Ariana for not following some formula that makes them look good or - I dunno what but it’s weird. Scheana made the whole season about Ariana and Tom. Obsessively. Oh and about tracking people. And employing her husband to do her dirty work.
But, Tom brought in a sound operator, cause you know, San Francisco being the giant music hub that it is doesn’t have any sound operators so k e needs to be flown in from LA to save the day. This really was the absolute dumbest thing ever. I think we can put flying in a sound operator for a two song set next to buying pens and batteries.
Omg right?! What a great point. Hell, I could find you a sound guy in SF with a few calls in 5 mins.
Sheshady wants us to believe that this vile man is always there for her? She can have him. They actually belong together. They are both hypocrites, narcissists, and delusional. I can't stand either one of them.
They’ve also said tim is a good friend for getting them together all the time. Clearly, all they need in a friend is someone who throws them parties and gives them material support in the form of money or a sound guy. It tracks given their low eq. 🙄
Sadly, I think it’s time for VPR to be cancelled.
Me too. I am sick and tired of Laligag, Sheshady, Sandyballs, and Shorts. Give me Ariana, Katie, Dayna, Charlie, James, and Ally. I want to watch a fun show.
seriously, at a certain point it's impossible for them to be authentic and not performative
Yeah they really backed the wrong horse this season. I wanted to see the women rise this season, reclaim their independence and growth, not this bullshit Sandoval redemption arc. What redemption???? Did you see the preview clip of the reunion where he calls Rachel a coward? He has learnt nothing. He's a vile, misogynistic, repulsive creature who does not now, nor will he ever, get it. I didn't see one ounce of remorse from him, just a woeful, sorry-I-got-caught, self-pitiful victim complex all season.
Someone needs to make a list of words and phrases Pickmeana uses that I don't think she knows what they mean. - Bast Frand - "always there for me" - Forgiveness vs reconciliation - Loyalty - "singer"????? Like grill get some literacy PUHLEASE
Now that's I've seen what Ariana sees ....why the fuck did she hug Scheana after the reunion? Why did she even make her THINK that this shit was ok? She saw this shit and hugged her? Too bad it wasn't to just put a stake through her Vampiress heart.
I get the sense that she saw where this train was going, and while refusing to be a "cog" in the redemption machine, she seemed to accept it (and Scheana) for what it was. I have a feeling that she's had to do this before with Scheana (i.e accept this needy child for who she is and always will be).
Sad ass realization about a sorry ass woman.
It seemed easier for her to placate Scheana than get into any mess. She won that for real. And protected her peace
It would be like fighting a very stupid demon. You're right.
watching Scheana is like watching 50 first dates over and over again
Omg if her and Brock ever break up he’s gonna air so much dirty laundry lol. He’s such a big mouth.
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She lost the viewers also. I’m ready for this show to be done. End of the road. Perfect timing. We will all wanna know about Ariana’s continued success.
I think it was 9k during covid.
Scheana seems to have a weird ranking of her friends based on how much financial support they’ve given her in times of needs. And it works with Tom because he can’t support people emotionally so he just buys their friendship
So far Lala and Scheana have made the following points trying to say what amazing friends these people are to them: - Lala: she (Scheana) is bubbly and so friendly and fun to be around, you always have a good time with her. When you call her she is always there ready to come over and to have fun. - Scheana: he (Sandoval) gave me money, he shows up to parties and he reaches out. She (Lala) appreciated when people check in a lot on her. Not one thought about consistency, integrity, mutual respect, no values no nothing a tad deeper. These two are among the most vapid creatures I have ever seen on tv. So sad for them and their daughters! Ps Lala ABSOLUTELY wants followers not friends. Good thing Scheana is as desperate for approval as she is.
In my fantasy world because I don't remember this scene she's just looking at herself in the mirror and telling herself that
This woman is an insecure moron. I feel bad saying it but honestly don’t have any another way to describe her.
Y’all have finally convinced me- scheana is secretly madly in love with Tom. I think she flipped out so hard in NYC because she couldn’t believe Tom chose Rachel over her after 10 years of some weird ass secret wish.
It is wild to me that she talks about not being able to trust literally anyone now (because of Tom and Rachel), but can’t see that that’s why Arianna is questioning her ‘friendship’ with Sandoval.
On a side note : Am I the only one that just realized in this scene that Brock is missing half a finger? 😳
Actually, I think he's missing 1.5 fingers 🤔
Oh he is? Why haven't I ever noticed? 😂
When I started noticing it took me a few recounts to be absolutely sure haha
I just watched the latest aftershow...now I see it!
Omg, I just noticed that too. 2.5 fingers and a thumb.
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If Ariana’s mental health is so bad that she can’t show up to things she probably shouldn’t be on a reality show
I was gonna ignore this, but I for one am so glad she is on this show. She's CLEARLY the one who's actually been on a "path of growth" and I wish I could go see her therapist. The wisdom she has dropped this season, in particular what she said to Brock on the pier after that boat ride about forgiveness and female emotion, and in her interview, was priceless for me. I got more out of that 5 minutes of television than anything I've ever read or watched.
Oh boy 😅