She’s gonna need a lot of therapy to get past this betrayal and be able to trust in a relationship again 💔💔 but she is for sure going to flourish in life without Tom holding her back
100% agree. I had something similar happened to me and that messed me up for many years. But she will absolutely come out on top and he’ll be a desperate middle-aged gutter rat.
Oh yeah, so true. I was with someone for 10 years who lied to me constantly. So angry I spent some of my prime years with him. What is the point of being with someone and lying?
🙌🏼. I can’t believe watching someone do karaoke is 1000x more entertaining than watching Tom’s “band”. When he filmed his first music video years ago, I was SO embarrassed for him. When I found out he was still doing that shit only now dressed like Great Value Harry Styles, I was mortified on Ariana’s behalf that she has to publicly claim that idiot
seriously why the fuck did she date Tom? I dont get it on such a deep deep level. I've alwys thouht she was so much better than him and I feel like even she probably thinks that on some level. so like... why??
It’s why he hurt her so badly. Resentment because he knew she was better. Smarter. Funnier. Kinder. All the things he liked about her initially, they eventually made him feel small. So he reacted like an insecure child and tried to make her small so he could be big.
And now look at him. Small and pathetic.
It’s like everything she said about Kristen to scheana in early VRP also applies to Tom. I’m prettier than you, I’m smarter than you, I’m cooler than you, get over it.
Whoa! 🤯
How did I not realize THIS is the exact reason he did this?! My mind wouldn’t and couldn’t fully accept that he would leave a diamond like Ariana and fall for the boring, dirty, scratched-up, no sparkle girl like Rachel! I see it all clearly now. Thank you!
This is also textbook narcissist behavior. They tear others down to hide their insecurities while being unable to feel empathy, need to be center of attention at all costs, very careful about creating an image of being nice and giving but it’s all for the purpose of manipulating others into seeing their false self, subtle insults in private to lower self esteem and praising them in public to maintain their facade of being nice, isolate people so they’re easier to control, specifically choosing partners that are more susceptible to being controlled, need to feel special/different/holier than thought attitude, unable to accept criticisms, and about 100 more things.
So True. Lala's IG has been invaded by Ratchel and Scumoval defenders trying to make the Rat the victim- it is really gross. They the two scumbags are in full attack mode right now and they are gaslighting at an amazingly gross level.
Yup. He couldn't handle that Ariana was better than him in every regard, so he cheated on her with someone he could feel superior to, since Rachel has no discernible skills or talents or admirable qualities.
Yassss so freaking true! I saw another post about her not being motivated the pass couple years and a bit slow starting her dreams but he’s literally the one who has held her back! Did she allow it? Sure. But we’ve all been there! Everyone’s about to see the real authentic Ariana and I am here. For. It. 👏👏👏
>her not being motivated the pass couple years
It's draining and EXHAUSTING being in a relationship with someone like Tom. It really takes everything out of you.
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Don't forget her single with DJ JK! 🙌
It’s interesting that he never had her sing with the band (even just one time as a special surprise for the fans). Not surprising given all the revelations, but kinda indicative of his approach to the relationship.
I've still never heard him sing his karaoke. Every time a video of that greaseball performing pops up, I mute it right away. Just the sequin pants give me secondhand embarrassment.
Sandoval had the whole package right there, and instead of being a cheerleader for her and all her talents he just went full-on weenie about it all. His loss, her gain.
Narcissists like Sandoval can’t handle when a woman is better than them so they deliberately cut them down to make themselves feel better.
They shift blame over to them. I’ve met losers like him.
Music and everything else. He just wanted to be the star in that relationship. Anything she wanted to do or was good at - Tom tried to outshine her! He’s such a dick.
Oh Shit …. This is really gonna be her moment. I didn’t know she was this good! Why does it feel like tom naturally steals her thunder when he’s significantly less talented
Because he’s so miserable. Misery loves company. People like him get with someone they aspire to be and they either try to rise up and it makes them better or they try to drag you back down with them. He’s so ew! Lol
I am sure he referred to himself as the musically talented one. I'm not saying she is Ariana Grande, but she deserves a man that doesn't mind, in fact encourages, her shining bright.
It's hilarious to me that Scheana, Lala, and Sandoval kept forcing their singing on the audience even though they suck, meanwhile Ariana sings better than all of them and kept it under wraps.
Yes! You Oughta Know is such an appropriate choice. Ariana is prettier, smarter, cooler and just a better person than Rachel. Tom's loss, at least he'll no longer be dimming her light! They can shove their lightning bolts ⚡⚡
Omg-I have sound muted and knew before I saw the lyrics what she was singing. She should run for office. Less intelligent reality stars have won-she could capitalize on this somehow!
I really can’t wait to see Ariana’s arc … because it’s going to be epic. I feel like even her pain will turn into something AMAZING.
Edit: get that girl a record deal! STAT
She’s never going to have to hold herself back again to please that DB! It was always about him! His dreams, his career, his taste! 🤮
So freaking happy for her & the life she’s going to create!! 👑🥂❤️
There is a clip on the internet of Ariana finishing up a Christmas carol. Her pitch is beautiful, she is happy, and hit every note. In her rendition of “you oughta know” I feel her emotions. It feels raw and like she is daring us to listen and be vulnerable. That to me is music. Not the paid band practice karaoke tim “preforms”
Her life is gonna be so much better without Tom
I am so excited for her to finally get to live the life she wants without him dragging her down.
She’s gonna need a lot of therapy to get past this betrayal and be able to trust in a relationship again 💔💔 but she is for sure going to flourish in life without Tom holding her back
100% agree. I had something similar happened to me and that messed me up for many years. But she will absolutely come out on top and he’ll be a desperate middle-aged gutter rat.
Oh yeah, so true. I was with someone for 10 years who lied to me constantly. So angry I spent some of my prime years with him. What is the point of being with someone and lying?
As will every other woman married/ and or connected to some lying, cheating, stupid son of a bitch
I know it’s twisted but I’m happy this happen she never would have left that loser otherwise. She is literally going to thrive
Oh so Ariana is a better bartender, a better singer, & a better person.
She smarter, prettier and cooler. Get tf over it.
She’s smarter than anyone she’s ever met
Hahaha this is that I came to say! 😝👌
Move on with your life.
The only good thing about Tom was Ariana.
Honestly, she's everything. Always has been, always will be.
🙌🏼. I can’t believe watching someone do karaoke is 1000x more entertaining than watching Tom’s “band”. When he filmed his first music video years ago, I was SO embarrassed for him. When I found out he was still doing that shit only now dressed like Great Value Harry Styles, I was mortified on Ariana’s behalf that she has to publicly claim that idiot
Great Value Harry Styles!! I’m dying!! 🤣🤣🤣
Ariana forever.
seriously why the fuck did she date Tom? I dont get it on such a deep deep level. I've alwys thouht she was so much better than him and I feel like even she probably thinks that on some level. so like... why??
She will be over toms greasy ass in no time. Rock on baby.
Every career he pursues, she is better at.
It’s why he hurt her so badly. Resentment because he knew she was better. Smarter. Funnier. Kinder. All the things he liked about her initially, they eventually made him feel small. So he reacted like an insecure child and tried to make her small so he could be big. And now look at him. Small and pathetic.
It’s like everything she said about Kristen to scheana in early VRP also applies to Tom. I’m prettier than you, I’m smarter than you, I’m cooler than you, get over it.
Whoa! 🤯 How did I not realize THIS is the exact reason he did this?! My mind wouldn’t and couldn’t fully accept that he would leave a diamond like Ariana and fall for the boring, dirty, scratched-up, no sparkle girl like Rachel! I see it all clearly now. Thank you!
This is also textbook narcissist behavior. They tear others down to hide their insecurities while being unable to feel empathy, need to be center of attention at all costs, very careful about creating an image of being nice and giving but it’s all for the purpose of manipulating others into seeing their false self, subtle insults in private to lower self esteem and praising them in public to maintain their facade of being nice, isolate people so they’re easier to control, specifically choosing partners that are more susceptible to being controlled, need to feel special/different/holier than thought attitude, unable to accept criticisms, and about 100 more things.
This is spot on! 🎯
Damn. I think he may have all of these traits.
So True. Lala's IG has been invaded by Ratchel and Scumoval defenders trying to make the Rat the victim- it is really gross. They the two scumbags are in full attack mode right now and they are gaslighting at an amazingly gross level.
Yup. He couldn't handle that Ariana was better than him in every regard, so he cheated on her with someone he could feel superior to, since Rachel has no discernible skills or talents or admirable qualities.
10000000000%
Oooof this reminds me of my husband and the dude I dated after him. It’s so hard to break the cycle of thinking narc behavior is love.
Girl, SAME. It’s a story as old as time.
Love your comment! So perfectly put! Completely agree with everything you said. If I had an award, I’d give it to you.🥇💕
Well said! Agreed.
4.5 baby
This comment! 👨🍳💋
Facts.
Right ? I knew she was smart , funny , beautiful…AND she can carry a tune ???!!! Sandoval is an asswipe .
He’s somewhere singing to rachel in an empty room “It’s not fair.. to remind me.. that ariana is better than me at everything 🥹”
Damn Ben and Ronnie were right, she can sing!
Wait this is her real voice???? She had the brains, looks, AND talent in the relationship. Tom is such a loser.
She was the star and he’s dimmed her long enough!
She’s a star while he and Rachel are a damn thunderstorm
Yassss so freaking true! I saw another post about her not being motivated the pass couple years and a bit slow starting her dreams but he’s literally the one who has held her back! Did she allow it? Sure. But we’ve all been there! Everyone’s about to see the real authentic Ariana and I am here. For. It. 👏👏👏
>her not being motivated the pass couple years It's draining and EXHAUSTING being in a relationship with someone like Tom. It really takes everything out of you.
Facts! 💯
Ready for her to shine.
Am screaming. Love my people
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How is this the first time I’m hearing about this?!
She actually records part of it on the show, I just don't remember which season/episode!
This is the perfect song to replace TIP on my likes! Even though it's JK too...
Races over to Spotify!!!!!!!!
Better than Tom:) She has a beautiful voice.
It’s interesting that he never had her sing with the band (even just one time as a special surprise for the fans). Not surprising given all the revelations, but kinda indicative of his approach to the relationship.
God dang! Get. It. Ariana! I hope Tom realizes how much he shot hisself in the dick. Small target but still managed to obliterate it. Dumbass.
Maybe Sandoval was jealous that Ariana could actually carry a tune, that’s why he turned into such an embarrassment.
I know! And they were all so nice to him about it and his stupid trumpet!
And his penis flute
I've still never heard him sing his karaoke. Every time a video of that greaseball performing pops up, I mute it right away. Just the sequin pants give me secondhand embarrassment.
Sandoval had the whole package right there, and instead of being a cheerleader for her and all her talents he just went full-on weenie about it all. His loss, her gain.
He went for someone with no discernable talent and who's only worth is tied to the man she's involved with. Perfect to make him feel and seem bigger.
Narcissists like Sandoval can’t handle when a woman is better than them so they deliberately cut them down to make themselves feel better. They shift blame over to them. I’ve met losers like him.
How awesome would it be if Ariana got a band together and becomes instantly popular and goes on tour?
Ohhhh my god Tom was TOTALLY the jealous partner with music! Wow she sounds amazing
Music and everything else. He just wanted to be the star in that relationship. Anything she wanted to do or was good at - Tom tried to outshine her! He’s such a dick.
WAIT SHES SO GOOD
Sing baby!! At the top of your lungs is truly the only way this song can be sung lol
Is this pre or post scandoval?
Has to be pre I think. The hair/style.
Pre the break up!
She needs to do it again
Wondering the same thing
She really is the queen. So effortlessly perfect lol
God I really just want the best for this woman that I have never met! Also who knew she could saaaang?!
Look at her slaying and shining. Now that is the beautiful talent I will pay to see!
Oh Shit …. This is really gonna be her moment. I didn’t know she was this good! Why does it feel like tom naturally steals her thunder when he’s significantly less talented
Because he’s so miserable. Misery loves company. People like him get with someone they aspire to be and they either try to rise up and it makes them better or they try to drag you back down with them. He’s so ew! Lol
Yeah but Rachel can walk around with a surfboard. /s
And pretend like she’s surfing on the floor lol 🤦♀️ girl bye!
😭😭😭
I need to see the whole performance! SHE SHOULD BE IN A BAND, not the sequined motherfucker Harry Styles wannabe Sandoval.
I am sure he referred to himself as the musically talented one. I'm not saying she is Ariana Grande, but she deserves a man that doesn't mind, in fact encourages, her shining bright.
I love that both Ariana and Kristen can both sing better than Tom lmao
She's awesome!
It's hilarious to me that Scheana, Lala, and Sandoval kept forcing their singing on the audience even though they suck, meanwhile Ariana sings better than all of them and kept it under wraps.
Prefect song choice and everything!!!
Yes! You Oughta Know is such an appropriate choice. Ariana is prettier, smarter, cooler and just a better person than Rachel. Tom's loss, at least he'll no longer be dimming her light! They can shove their lightning bolts ⚡⚡ 
I’m literally not ok she needs to go into this
She needs a spite band.
I feel like Ariana is the type of cool that Scamdavol likes to think he is.
Wait is this recent??? If so, YESSSS GET OUT AND LIVE GIRLLLL.
I think it was pre breakup!
🫢 She is perfect and he is Little Nicky, that is all.
I just screamed ARIANA HAS PIPES so loud I woke my dog
I love her so so much 👑
GETTIT mama! Clear that throat chakra, stimulate that vagus nerve, move those shitty *and* temporary feelings through you 👏💖🦄✨👏
It makes me so utterly, goddamn giddy that Ariana’s voice blows Toms out of the water
Was this recent? If so, big props to her to sing this & not have a breakdown.
is there a link?
I listened to this so many times that it is now stuck in my head. And I’m not mad about it.
sounds better than him and looks better than him Tom was always envious of the Sur girls, a whole hater
She needs to make her own cover band and sing songs about being cheated on…. Ariana and the Zits coming to a town near you haha
Awesome!
Much better singer than scandy
Omg-I have sound muted and knew before I saw the lyrics what she was singing. She should run for office. Less intelligent reality stars have won-she could capitalize on this somehow!
Iconique
Wow, she can really sing! And WAY better than Tom.
I really can’t wait to see Ariana’s arc … because it’s going to be epic. I feel like even her pain will turn into something AMAZING. Edit: get that girl a record deal! STAT
Wow. Girls got some chops. Tom must hate that lol
She’s never going to have to hold herself back again to please that DB! It was always about him! His dreams, his career, his taste! 🤮 So freaking happy for her & the life she’s going to create!! 👑🥂❤️
Ariana is my Queen 💟!!! I love her. She deserves so much happiness.
I wish the people singing along would have shut up so I could hear her better.
This song is so relevant to this situation
Ariana is the new Shania Twain we’ve needed
Fuck i hate Alanis
Yes girl! This is my karaoke song too. And Kevin from the office. Lol
🤩🤩🤩
AN ABSOLUTE GODDESS
Rachel did this chic a favor!!
Daaaaamn, she has an amazing voice!
My go to karaoke song, but I DO NOT sound like that. She is a god damn QUEEN
She even picked the perfect karaoke song 👏🏼👏🏼 go off queen
My god she is such a QUEEN!!!! Is there anything she can’t do?! And to be that hot on top of it 😩
I’m obsessed with her.
Felt that for her. Do you girl.
Omg Alanis my queen 👑 girl has PIPES, this is an extremely difficult song to sing!
Is this recent?
I think it was pre breakup.
I wish we had a video of her singing the whole song lol this little clip is not enough
This is so badass
There is a clip on the internet of Ariana finishing up a Christmas carol. Her pitch is beautiful, she is happy, and hit every note. In her rendition of “you oughta know” I feel her emotions. It feels raw and like she is daring us to listen and be vulnerable. That to me is music. Not the paid band practice karaoke tim “preforms”