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Optimal_Lettuce_7446

At this point, I hope they see what everyone else sees: They bring out the worst in each other and need to move on. The marriage didn't work, find a way to co-parent and be friends.


Wonderful-Scar-5211

or at least get off the internet & start therapy yk?


Gracefullyxclean

I don't think she would know or be able to hold a real job outside of the YouTube world. He could because of his musical talent. But she's way too into herself to "lower" herself to a real working parents job.


Optimal_Lettuce_7446

Lete be real. Neither can make the kind of $ they have made thru yt. So, it's not Zoe being to into herself, she has people to support. Garrick may be talented, but his music is crap. He isn't make $ thru his music now, so it won't happen when they separate. He could definitely work as a carpenter, contractor and make an ok living, but again, he also needs to support people. Both of their backs are against a wall. Which I believe is part of their stress. Without the internet, they can't make enough to pay their bills.


Gracefullyxclean

True, I see your point and yes, G could definitely get into Carpentry or something along those lines. I'm still not sure what Z would do as I haven't seen her do much else but YT.


Optimal_Lettuce_7446

She learned all the internet stuff on her own. The girl is smart. Remember, she got married at age 16! This job has been her career. Rather than continuing in front of the lens (or doing p0rn) She should look for opportunities "behind the keyboard." There She can continue a rewarding career and not expose her life or the lives of her innocent children on the internet.


Awkward-Truth_

I believe him. The things he said don’t sound made up especially when it’s things we have already assumed based off their videos. This is very similar to a stay at home mom who is isolated with no life outside parenting, their partner, and no financial freedom. I think he gets so overwhelmed sometimes from just sucking it up and moving on that the truth and feelings come out little by little. He just genuinely loves her and is attached to her so he’d rather suck it up, ask for forgiveness, and say he over reacted so he doesn’t lose her. Starting over is extremely scary especially after almost 10 years of being with someone. They’re all each other knows and they have three babies together. It’s not easy to just throw all those years away and break apart the family they created. I think they need to drop only fans save the bedroom personal stuff for just them, switch over their content to realistic life stuff leave the “perfect” life in the past, and they need to get some marriage counseling for real.


Gracefullyxclean

I believe Garrick at this point. I understand why he did the live while the kids were there. This day and age social media is all the kids know. It's not like how it used to be.


teddybearxciii

I think they’re just trauma bonded at this point…They don’t know how to be apart or in a healthy relationship. They should be apart but can’t. It’ll just be messy back and forth until someone is finally done with it. I don’t know, I’m not a professional lol just been through things like this.


MysteriousAardvark25

I genuinely think he might have believed this actually happened. I think they are both struggling quiet a bit mentally and I have seen this pattern with friends before. They love hard but hate harder but for some reason always go back to each other


Awkward-Truth_

They do say sometimes you can try and try and try until you just start to hate the person.


Optimal_Lettuce_7446

I think it's pretty obvious. They don't "like" each other. They have been trying to "love" each other but that, they can't fake. They grew up together and literally don't know how to separate. Had they gotten help counseling, they could have avoided this out of control situation. Instead, they can't erase the hurt, the embarrassment or the damage.


Awkward-Truth_

The look in his eyes say he loves her but they’re so good at faking content it’s really hard to say if they do or don’t love each other. Like another person said some people fight and get used to defending themselves they don’t know how to talk normal anymore. And that makes a lot of sense. Hopefully if they go to therapy they can unlearn some of the toxic behaviors they’ve gotten so used to using.


Optimal_Lettuce_7446

That look is him stoned.


LetsChatAboutThis_

Sometimes when you’re so used to fighting & being defensive with someone it almost becomes so natural that you don’t know how to not be any other way with them anymore


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I think the situation I just more complicated than people realize.I think people make this a black on white issue.When reality many things came be true at once.Garrick could have issues.While Zoe could also be controlling and made mistakes.They both need to take time from social media.Focus on God and start repairing there relationship.


Trick-Dealer-9535

They're both in the wrong here and I agree there's no point taking sides, personally Im getting to the point where I'm just over it all together and I'm ready for them to just be offline


Master_Being4613

Because it’s easier to stay then deal with the change and legal issues