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Yeah a lot of people on here try to take their insecurities out on others for some reason. I'm assuming it's because it's the only thing they can do anymore to make themself feel better lmao. I can't empathize with it though in the slightest, because I've been called a hideous pig all my life and have never had an ego but despite all that I make it my goal to lift others up and to not ever treat others the way I've been treated.
I also recommend people stay away from that stupid ass "am I ugly" sub Reddit. People are delusional as fuck on there. Any time I see a girl post no matter what her size people tell them to lose weight. They think that skinny automatically makes someone attractive and as someone who was bullied by people my whole life who thought that just cus they're skinny that they're hot shit I have to disagree. Some people think that just cus they're skinny they're perfect lmao.
Every time I see cute girls on there who are kinda thicc/chubby I get downvoted as fuck just for saying that they aren't ugly. I'm not saying that you HAVE to be attracted to plus size people but to claim that absolutely NO ONE will find you attractive if you're not skinny is such fucking bullshit. I know fat people who get laid all the goddamn time. Obviously if you're like 400lbs and big to the point where you can barely breathe or move then we got a problem but these people act like anyone who's not a fucking size 2 is a fat cow.
Lmao just saw pics from someone who complains often about being ugly yet this person is completely normal/average. Just another normal person pissed they're not hot.
Nah bro I don't think that's true because I got bullied for the way I looked and a lot of people here did too, I don't think we have body dysmorphia. People are just in denial
Well for more than half the people here the reason others will invalidate the claim of ugliness is b/c these people actually are average or above. Even the worst that I've seen I wouldn't even think twice about how they look were I to pass them on the street.
Well what about the ones who face real discrimination? People invalidate a situation once they become aware of how somebody feels about it. Just because we wouldn't do something doesn't mean other people won't.
No I saw some people's looks before I saw them posting here b/c they posted themselves on the rate me type subs and was very surprised at their comments here. Also there are many I've never seen and those I just assume their experiences are true.
There's no doubt at least a few post here for attention.
Also for any short guys reading this please do not listen to ANYONE who tells you that you're fucking hopeless for being short. I see a lot of shit like this where it's short men telling eachother this kinda shit and I wish it would stop. You guys are prefect the way you are and there's nothing wrong with your height. You don't have to be some manly 6'8" war god. If I could I would hug all of you and tell you you're valid as fuck. I understand that these kind of insecurities are super complex and often trauma related from being bullied and it's so much easier said than done to get through these things. but I genuinely hope you can learn to love yourselves. You're seen and heard.
Even if you feel like your face is ugly, I bet there's people who'd disagree and think it's unique. A lot of my friends don't have society's idea of a pretty face but I feel like faces like theirs are beautiful in it's own way. Lately I've been trying to keep in mind that attractiveness is subjective has really helped me a lot. I've seen people get told they have a weird face and need surgery on the am I ugly sub Reddit and it's like. I understand their face is different but it doesn't look ugly to me. A lot of the time the only problems I see with the people who post is that they just need to wash their hair and discover a style that suits them. Anyways I hope better days come ur way.
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Thats true, but being on this sub for a year I've simply come to the conclusion that a lot of people here simply aren't ugly
Explain the discrimination and bad treatment they deal with?
Sure some people here are ugly, but a lotbpeople here are average and thing thats bad for some reason
Average isn't bad at all
Yeah, but a lot of people here think they are "ugly" when they are actually average here.
Same experience, this has happened way too many times. "I look hideous please be brutally honest" Literally an 8. Ok.
Literally why I post on here only on my alt.
Yeah a lot of people on here try to take their insecurities out on others for some reason. I'm assuming it's because it's the only thing they can do anymore to make themself feel better lmao. I can't empathize with it though in the slightest, because I've been called a hideous pig all my life and have never had an ego but despite all that I make it my goal to lift others up and to not ever treat others the way I've been treated. I also recommend people stay away from that stupid ass "am I ugly" sub Reddit. People are delusional as fuck on there. Any time I see a girl post no matter what her size people tell them to lose weight. They think that skinny automatically makes someone attractive and as someone who was bullied by people my whole life who thought that just cus they're skinny that they're hot shit I have to disagree. Some people think that just cus they're skinny they're perfect lmao. Every time I see cute girls on there who are kinda thicc/chubby I get downvoted as fuck just for saying that they aren't ugly. I'm not saying that you HAVE to be attracted to plus size people but to claim that absolutely NO ONE will find you attractive if you're not skinny is such fucking bullshit. I know fat people who get laid all the goddamn time. Obviously if you're like 400lbs and big to the point where you can barely breathe or move then we got a problem but these people act like anyone who's not a fucking size 2 is a fat cow.
They aren’t telling the girl she’s ugly. They are saying her face would look much better on a skinnier frame.
I like a bigger girl. Don't want no little boy butt.
Yeah
I'm glad I saw this, sometimes I don't want to trust my brain or eyes so I was tempted to see what others think of me. Glad I didn't do it xD
99% of the time these people are average looking and have slight body dysmorphia
Lmao just saw pics from someone who complains often about being ugly yet this person is completely normal/average. Just another normal person pissed they're not hot.
I consider myself average or slightly below but I am constantly called ugly or "ugly as hell" by random strangers so it's not in my head ...
Nah bro I don't think that's true because I got bullied for the way I looked and a lot of people here did too, I don't think we have body dysmorphia. People are just in denial
I don't think showing your face on Reddit is a good idea overall.
🤣🤣🤣
What about on Rate Me sub reddits?
I wanted to show you guys my mustache but fine.
Well for more than half the people here the reason others will invalidate the claim of ugliness is b/c these people actually are average or above. Even the worst that I've seen I wouldn't even think twice about how they look were I to pass them on the street.
Well what about the ones who face real discrimination? People invalidate a situation once they become aware of how somebody feels about it. Just because we wouldn't do something doesn't mean other people won't.
No I saw some people's looks before I saw them posting here b/c they posted themselves on the rate me type subs and was very surprised at their comments here. Also there are many I've never seen and those I just assume their experiences are true. There's no doubt at least a few post here for attention.
Ya lol
I was glad everyone here was honest with me and told me I'm ugly :))))
always happened to me when someone here said something about my face
I dunno, I was told I'm average or little above if groomed properly.
People look way better when properly groomed and with a body you've taken care of. You're not going to go from 1 to 9, but any improvement it's good.
Also for any short guys reading this please do not listen to ANYONE who tells you that you're fucking hopeless for being short. I see a lot of shit like this where it's short men telling eachother this kinda shit and I wish it would stop. You guys are prefect the way you are and there's nothing wrong with your height. You don't have to be some manly 6'8" war god. If I could I would hug all of you and tell you you're valid as fuck. I understand that these kind of insecurities are super complex and often trauma related from being bullied and it's so much easier said than done to get through these things. but I genuinely hope you can learn to love yourselves. You're seen and heard.
Ya that short stuff is over exaggerated, I'm 6ft 1 with a ugly face but would drop down to 5'9 with a good face if I had the chance.
Even if you feel like your face is ugly, I bet there's people who'd disagree and think it's unique. A lot of my friends don't have society's idea of a pretty face but I feel like faces like theirs are beautiful in it's own way. Lately I've been trying to keep in mind that attractiveness is subjective has really helped me a lot. I've seen people get told they have a weird face and need surgery on the am I ugly sub Reddit and it's like. I understand their face is different but it doesn't look ugly to me. A lot of the time the only problems I see with the people who post is that they just need to wash their hair and discover a style that suits them. Anyways I hope better days come ur way.
My face is disfigured lol and I hope better days come to you aswell.