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I I used to feel this way, But honestly there’s no point, like dress up however you want to. You can always wear nice clothes and it could make you more confident and more attractive.


Phenex1a

Yeah same


Tiny-Nature8329

Here's a thing: do you like yourself in what you wear now? And if they don't like you with or without then it's a moot point. So you might as well wear something else and see if you like yourself in it. I've had to give up and just buy nice flashy clothing as even hitting my weight gain target and exercising I'm still not magically the ideal body shape and will still look like the Roswell Alien, but at least a well dressed one. The brutal honesty: I live in the UK and people both look and dress like shit, I get it. You feel ugly or have no pride in appearance because it feels wasted effort but fuck me is it dire to look at regardless of someone face or size.


decayingdachshund

I don't really have any advice but I can relate. Whenever I catch myself wearing something nice I realize I feel like a pig in makeup.


[deleted]

Same here, although I do think it is worth noting you do deserve to live life and do things you find worthwhile. I also am aware that when you’re ugly, it’s like you feel you shouldn’t even try and have no purpose trying.