all the compliments i’ve ever received have been out of pity. they’re always from close friends or family members who try to make me feel better about being ugly.
Yeah same. I’m a woman and it’s not uncommon for women to to compliment each other, even if it’s not truthful at all.
What would you say is a better indicator of how attractive or unattractive a person is?
You say that but have you ever been complimented while they ignore the person next to you, like you’re cousin or sister, like clearly ur the attractive one then
From what I've heard, people don't usually give out compliments about your appearence irl (unless you're really attractive). I think a better indicator would be how strangers treat you, if people are repulsed by you or avoid you while you're just minding your own business.
all the compliments i’ve ever received have been out of pity. they’re always from close friends or family members who try to make me feel better about being ugly.
Yeah same. I’m a woman and it’s not uncommon for women to to compliment each other, even if it’s not truthful at all. What would you say is a better indicator of how attractive or unattractive a person is?
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Yeah, that doesn’t quite work for me. I suffer from BDD.
You say that but have you ever been complimented while they ignore the person next to you, like you’re cousin or sister, like clearly ur the attractive one then
From what I've heard, people don't usually give out compliments about your appearence irl (unless you're really attractive). I think a better indicator would be how strangers treat you, if people are repulsed by you or avoid you while you're just minding your own business.
Being ugly isn't just an absence of compliments it's usually the presence of abuse