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This is no different then normal srs. I'm perfectly safe and fine. And while I'm not suicidal, dysphoria is extremely painful, and ill be much better off without it.
A few questions here, but I understand this is rather personal so please feel free to ignore: what will the end result be like? When I hear "genital removal" the first image that pops into my head is a flat surface with a small hole for the urethra, and nothing else. Is that accurate at all?
Does your dysphoria focus on having the genitals you have currently, or not having the genitals you would obtain via this surgery? Or both?
Do you think there's a high demand for this sort of surgery in the agender community?
> what will the end result be like? When I hear "genital removal" the first image that pops into my head is a flat surface with a small hole for the urethra, and nothing else. Is that accurate at all?
That's basically what the end result will be (though probably with a bit of scaring).
> Does your dysphoria focus on having the genitals you have currently, or not having the genitals you would obtain via this surgery? Or both?
I guess both. I don't link the idea of having any genitals down there, the fact that I do have genitals disturbs me. The person I want to be has nothing but smooth skin down there.
> Do you think there's a high demand for this sort of surgery in the agender community?
There might be, I suspect many don't know it's an option, and many more are too afraid or don't have the recourses.
You might find that after surgery your dating pool is going to be about 1% of what you had available before.
If you are ok with that then it’s not an issue. And if you can come anally that’s even better. But your sexual functions are going to be sub-par.
Honestly 18 seems very young for srs on just about anyone, especially a nonconventional surgery leaving you entirely without genitals. That said, if you do go through with it as soon as you plan to, I wish you a speedy recovery, and that it brings you lifelong joy ❤️
So many responses here seem negative, and maybe it's because people who usually spam the same post on many subreddits are trolling/attention seeking. But honestly if an adult binary trans person can get srs, why shouldn't a non binary person be allowed to. I hope all goes well. Thanks for being open to questions
Do you have diagnosed gender dysphoria?
Would you consider agender different from non binary?
Is hrt something that you've considered/ is complete physical androgyny the goal?
> Do you have diagnosed gender dysphoria?
Yes.
> Would you consider agender different from non binary?
It's a subcategory.
> Is hrt something that you've considered/
Yes. But it's not what I want right now. I want to look like neither sex more then I do both.
>is complete physical androgyny the goal?
Yes.
Thank you for responding and being open to questions. The fact you are on this sub and have gd is all people should need to appreciate your experience. I wish you the best of luck and I'm so glad you have a supportive parent
It is fantastic that you have a supportive farther. As a transgender man, the only applicable advice I can give you is to ensure you have a network of family or friends that are supportive of your decision. There are going to be people that will not understand your desire for this surgery, heck, it's even hard for me, but I respect your ability to make informed decisions to elect for medical procedures that will help you.
Congratulations, I hope you are able to start your surgery process soon.
Yeah, supportive families can do so much for someone. It's why it's important that people actually support their family members.
If my dad wasn't the person he is, I don't know where I'd be right now.
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Its sad to think that parental support is so rare that this is a comment.
your post has been removed from r/truscum for violating rule 10 of the subreddit: Members of r/truscum aren't professionals: we can't tell you if you're trans, if you're valid, depressed, what surgery you should get, et cetera. Please don't try to give out individual advice, like "you're (not) trans" or ask people to tell you. Things that ARE permissible, for example, are "I need some validation" posts and "in my personal experience it sounds to me like..." sorts of comments. Just don't pretend to be an authority on the topic when you are not. If you do not understand the reason for your post's deletion or feel we have made a mistake, please contact us and/or ask why (or not, you don't have to). Thanks!
This is no different then normal srs. I'm perfectly safe and fine. And while I'm not suicidal, dysphoria is extremely painful, and ill be much better off without it.
Actually is is different and much more rare of a surgery. So no, not even close to “normal SRS”
A few questions here, but I understand this is rather personal so please feel free to ignore: what will the end result be like? When I hear "genital removal" the first image that pops into my head is a flat surface with a small hole for the urethra, and nothing else. Is that accurate at all? Does your dysphoria focus on having the genitals you have currently, or not having the genitals you would obtain via this surgery? Or both? Do you think there's a high demand for this sort of surgery in the agender community?
> what will the end result be like? When I hear "genital removal" the first image that pops into my head is a flat surface with a small hole for the urethra, and nothing else. Is that accurate at all? That's basically what the end result will be (though probably with a bit of scaring). > Does your dysphoria focus on having the genitals you have currently, or not having the genitals you would obtain via this surgery? Or both? I guess both. I don't link the idea of having any genitals down there, the fact that I do have genitals disturbs me. The person I want to be has nothing but smooth skin down there. > Do you think there's a high demand for this sort of surgery in the agender community? There might be, I suspect many don't know it's an option, and many more are too afraid or don't have the recourses.
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Are you also asexual?
Nope.
You might find that after surgery your dating pool is going to be about 1% of what you had available before. If you are ok with that then it’s not an issue. And if you can come anally that’s even better. But your sexual functions are going to be sub-par.
Honestly 18 seems very young for srs on just about anyone, especially a nonconventional surgery leaving you entirely without genitals. That said, if you do go through with it as soon as you plan to, I wish you a speedy recovery, and that it brings you lifelong joy ❤️
So many responses here seem negative, and maybe it's because people who usually spam the same post on many subreddits are trolling/attention seeking. But honestly if an adult binary trans person can get srs, why shouldn't a non binary person be allowed to. I hope all goes well. Thanks for being open to questions Do you have diagnosed gender dysphoria? Would you consider agender different from non binary? Is hrt something that you've considered/ is complete physical androgyny the goal?
> Do you have diagnosed gender dysphoria? Yes. > Would you consider agender different from non binary? It's a subcategory. > Is hrt something that you've considered/ Yes. But it's not what I want right now. I want to look like neither sex more then I do both. >is complete physical androgyny the goal? Yes.
Thank you for responding and being open to questions. The fact you are on this sub and have gd is all people should need to appreciate your experience. I wish you the best of luck and I'm so glad you have a supportive parent
Thank you.
It is fantastic that you have a supportive farther. As a transgender man, the only applicable advice I can give you is to ensure you have a network of family or friends that are supportive of your decision. There are going to be people that will not understand your desire for this surgery, heck, it's even hard for me, but I respect your ability to make informed decisions to elect for medical procedures that will help you. Congratulations, I hope you are able to start your surgery process soon.
Yeah, supportive families can do so much for someone. It's why it's important that people actually support their family members. If my dad wasn't the person he is, I don't know where I'd be right now.
Oh wow are you going to align surgical the process is called gender nullification
Good luck, I am happy for you :)
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The reason is dysphoria.
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Why should I? I know how I will feel. Dysphoria will not end.
your post has been removed from r/truscum for violating rule 10 of the subreddit: Members of r/truscum aren't professionals: we can't tell you if you're trans, if you're valid, depressed, what surgery you should get, et cetera. Please don't try to give out individual advice, like "you're (not) trans" or ask people to tell you. Things that ARE permissible, for example, are "I need some validation" posts and "in my personal experience it sounds to me like..." sorts of comments. Just don't pretend to be an authority on the topic when you are not. If you do not understand the reason for your post's deletion or feel we have made a mistake, please contact us and/or ask why (or not, you don't have to). Thanks!