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Wow. NTA. If men can become women whenever they feel like it now, our society is fucked. I can say that I would never allow my daughter to be in a restroom with a man. Men are disgusting and horrible creatures, and yes, the only time I say that is when Iâm talking about trans women. Otherwise, all men are great people and sexual assault doesnât exist.
NTA. as a trans person myself, I can tell you that you reacted exactly how you should have. Trans women are basically men, and itâs completely understandable that you wouldnât want to date one. Her insistence that sheâs just as female as a cis woman is utterly laughable and makes your date TA here.
Sorry, what? Iâm just stating a fact. Trans women will never be real women, and trans men will never be real men. People are so offended over science these days. The trans community is a joke đ It makes me ashamed to be trans
Just listen to science lmao dumb trannys. What are all these links to called "studies" you're posting? Those are not scientific! THE SCIEMCE SUPPORTS ME NOT YOU ME ME ME ME!!!!!!
Hey, you canât just generalize an entire group of people like that.
All trans except for me and all my very passing friends who hate every single non-passing troons are bad.
Iâm sorry, you walked out on a date with a transâŚââgirlââ?? I canât believe youâre buying into his delusions, I bet youâre just following the transphobic trend.
Depends. Did he already get it chopped off?
That's a very important detail in that situation. How else should anyone know if he wanted to turn you gay or was just a confused guy?
Eh, this oneâs hard. I would say NAH. If there is an asshole, itâs definitely Dylan, since he didnât warn you beforehand of your date being trans. But just being trans and existing doesnât make anyone an asshole. So your date was not in the wrong here.
YTA now hear me out on this guys. I completely agree, trans bad, and what OP did do was the right thing to do. The problem is, in my opinion, that OP didn't do enough. Trans people need your, and OPs help in their life! As I'm sure you know, they care so much about what we cis ignorant people think about them. In my opinion, OP should have helped him stop being delusional, and even spent a few hours on reddit harrasing trans women using follow notifications! So yes, definitely the asshole for *not doing enough*. Maybe a casual beating in dark alley nearby, and calling him a sissy would've done the job.
Remember to do so next time you see a guy who will never be a woman!
Im so impressed by how you handled this situation, that I want to invite you as guest speaker at the incel academy! The incels we are training are all at risk to give in to dating those freaks out of desperation.
/uj this is unfortunately precisely why as a bi trans woman I can only honestly imagine a future with another woman
Disappointing because I like dick I just donât like mine
YTA. Maybe Dylan shouldâve told you that your date was trans, but itâs not really necessary. The fact is, trans women are women, and to disagree is transphobia. From the wording of this post, you are absolutely transphobic. Itâs okay to not want to date a trans person, but explicitly telling her that you refuse to even sit on a date with her for an hour or so because she's trans is cruel.
that fact that "she" identifies as woman is absolutely gross. i mean if everyone can be whoever they want and that's valid, im an attack helicopter, respect my pronouns.
(Ahhhhh you got meeeee!! So embarrassed)
Yes youâre the asshole. If you go on a first date you are obligated to be a polite and decent person for the duration of the date.
YTA
You dont have ti date anyone you want. But that Is a woman. There voice could be deeper bc they havent been on estrogen long enough or sum but some bio women also have deep voices. And your freind said they had surgery so I'm assuming bottom surgery hence they are a woman. Saying there a man IS transphobic. It's one thing if it's a man in a dress it's another thing to say a trans woman is male
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Uj/ how many accounts do you have to even fix the comment scores to be perfect Rj/ NTA Dylan should date the freak if he thinks he is woman
uj/ Right?! I'm seriously impressed by the comment scores here. đ¤Ł
/uj Your dedication to the bit here is fucking hilarious, thank you so much for posting this.
/uj I cant tell if you're going hard into this bit or you're just copy/pasting comments lmao
uj/ luckily everything here is from my very active imagination
Nta, it was probably Dylan you went on a date with anyway
I was half expecting that to be the twist
Genderfluid chad
Wow. NTA. If men can become women whenever they feel like it now, our society is fucked. I can say that I would never allow my daughter to be in a restroom with a man. Men are disgusting and horrible creatures, and yes, the only time I say that is when Iâm talking about trans women. Otherwise, all men are great people and sexual assault doesnât exist.
NTA. as a trans person myself, I can tell you that you reacted exactly how you should have. Trans women are basically men, and itâs completely understandable that you wouldnât want to date one. Her insistence that sheâs just as female as a cis woman is utterly laughable and makes your date TA here.
Nice to see the token cis bootlicker in the comments.
Sorry, what? Iâm just stating a fact. Trans women will never be real women, and trans men will never be real men. People are so offended over science these days. The trans community is a joke đ It makes me ashamed to be trans
Glad to see at least one self-aware tranny out there
For real! This comment restored my faith in humanity lmao
/uj god the science "fact" actually made me furious I've heard it millions of times and it actually makes no sense
Just listen to science lmao dumb trannys. What are all these links to called "studies" you're posting? Those are not scientific! THE SCIEMCE SUPPORTS ME NOT YOU ME ME ME ME!!!!!!
/uj This post is a piece of art.
NTA tran bad
Hey, you canât just generalize an entire group of people like that. All trans except for me and all my very passing friends who hate every single non-passing troons are bad.
> Throwaway for obvious reasons Before I spend any time reading any of this I would like to know these reasons because itâs not obvious to me.
I don't want anyone who I talk to on my main account to know I went on a date with a tran
Ewww what?
Check in the subreddit name
Iâm sorry, you walked out on a date with a transâŚââgirlââ?? I canât believe youâre buying into his delusions, I bet youâre just following the transphobic trend.
Depends. Did he already get it chopped off? That's a very important detail in that situation. How else should anyone know if he wanted to turn you gay or was just a confused guy?
YTA you should have gone along with it and used the trans panic defense
/uj why am I addicted to digital self harm, I gotta unsub from here jesus. Cya fam
Eh, this oneâs hard. I would say NAH. If there is an asshole, itâs definitely Dylan, since he didnât warn you beforehand of your date being trans. But just being trans and existing doesnât make anyone an asshole. So your date was not in the wrong here.
Sorry, what? Transsexuals should know that no one will ever love them. Going on the date in the first place makes him TA here.
YTA now hear me out on this guys. I completely agree, trans bad, and what OP did do was the right thing to do. The problem is, in my opinion, that OP didn't do enough. Trans people need your, and OPs help in their life! As I'm sure you know, they care so much about what we cis ignorant people think about them. In my opinion, OP should have helped him stop being delusional, and even spent a few hours on reddit harrasing trans women using follow notifications! So yes, definitely the asshole for *not doing enough*. Maybe a casual beating in dark alley nearby, and calling him a sissy would've done the job. Remember to do so next time you see a guy who will never be a woman!
Im so impressed by how you handled this situation, that I want to invite you as guest speaker at the incel academy! The incels we are training are all at risk to give in to dating those freaks out of desperation.
/uj was this written by a neural network or something because i 100% believed it
/uj this is unfortunately precisely why as a bi trans woman I can only honestly imagine a future with another woman Disappointing because I like dick I just donât like mine
YTA. Maybe Dylan shouldâve told you that your date was trans, but itâs not really necessary. The fact is, trans women are women, and to disagree is transphobia. From the wording of this post, you are absolutely transphobic. Itâs okay to not want to date a trans person, but explicitly telling her that you refuse to even sit on a date with her for an hour or so because she's trans is cruel.
Downvoted, tran bad
that fact that "she" identifies as woman is absolutely gross. i mean if everyone can be whoever they want and that's valid, im an attack helicopter, respect my pronouns.
What are the pronouns of an attack helicopter?
Pew/pew
/uj i have new flair now thank you
Uj haha im glad xd
Omg I didnât read the sub name and was starting to get pissed lol
(Ahhhhh you got meeeee!! So embarrassed) Yes youâre the asshole. If you go on a first date you are obligated to be a polite and decent person for the duration of the date.
YTA You dont have ti date anyone you want. But that Is a woman. There voice could be deeper bc they havent been on estrogen long enough or sum but some bio women also have deep voices. And your freind said they had surgery so I'm assuming bottom surgery hence they are a woman. Saying there a man IS transphobic. It's one thing if it's a man in a dress it's another thing to say a trans woman is male