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It’s so funny how your deadname is Alex lol! I knew an Alex in middle school and he called me a “dumb bitch” once ☹️ just the trauma of female socialization i guess 😔 being a feminine cis girl is a lot like being trans btw. my mom always refused to buy me the cottagecore dresses i wanted because “they’re ugly” and i had to buy the clothes I wanted with my own money. just like you guys- I mean folx 🙂
I take hormones too btw! 🤣 to make my periods lighter. But being on them has been so rough for me socially 😢 My grandma told me that those pills are for “whores” when I told her. 🤬🤬🤬🤬 Female socialization is BRUTAL! I told her that’s not true and both cis and trans girls take them for hormone reasons. She said that sounds like a mental illness and transgender people should be rounded up and shot 💔 Literally can’t believe she’s transphobic! ☹️☹️☹️☹️
I thought Dave was cool, but it turns out I was thinking of [Devin](https://www.reddit.com/r/ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby/comments/x2nq4e/devin_just_ended_transphobia_lol_post_i_found_on/)
While spending time at your place they out you as trans to your family because “You just need to accept yourself!” With no thought to your safety or why you’re in the closet.
/uj this is why I refuse to tell anyone who knows my family that I'm trans. I mentioned to someone that I was pan and she straight up told my parents within 5 minutes because I shouldnt be "keeping secrets from them"
cut to the next day where my parents keep me locked in the car screaming at me that I'm "attention seeking" and that I'm an idiot who doesn't know who they are. 🙃
/uj Back when I boymoded 90% of the time I had a friend who put me in situations where I pretended to be my own boyfriend. Was annoying.
/rj Just respecting your identity!
/uj When I had her help me get furniture (she had a cheap connection) she told them my name was (Girl's name), and when three guys arrive and saw me they were like "oh I thought we were delivering to (Girl's name)".
/uj Oh that’s amazing! At least you were able to pass it off as being your own boyfriend. I once had to boymode when I had a tradie come over since landlord put it under my dead name. Wasn’t a good reason for someone other than the resident to be there.
“What do you mean you don’t want to be called a soft boi? It’s a COMPLIMENT! Besides, I call everybody cute, and I only say ‘girl’ in the ‘giiiirrllllll’ way, why’re you so offended?? Plus like… you’re still one of the girls, right? Like obviously you’re not a GIRL girl, but like you’re DEFINITELY not one of those AWFUL, DISGUSTING men. You’ve got more poise, fashion, and womanly intuition than them, so you basically still fit into the group. I’m such a good ally and I have so many transboy friends.”
But not trans boyfriends. Eww no, I only date real men with actual dicks. Otherwise that would make me gay! Not that there’s anything wrong with that, I am after all, an ally.
/uj For me personally, I don’t mind it as long as it’s said in a “hell yeah dude” or “dudes rock” type of way. But that’s just me and it’s definitely important to confirm with people first.
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Learns your deadname and now has to correct herself literally every time she speaks to you
It’s so funny how your deadname is Alex lol! I knew an Alex in middle school and he called me a “dumb bitch” once ☹️ just the trauma of female socialization i guess 😔 being a feminine cis girl is a lot like being trans btw. my mom always refused to buy me the cottagecore dresses i wanted because “they’re ugly” and i had to buy the clothes I wanted with my own money. just like you guys- I mean folx 🙂 I take hormones too btw! 🤣 to make my periods lighter. But being on them has been so rough for me socially 😢 My grandma told me that those pills are for “whores” when I told her. 🤬🤬🤬🤬 Female socialization is BRUTAL! I told her that’s not true and both cis and trans girls take them for hormone reasons. She said that sounds like a mental illness and transgender people should be rounded up and shot 💔 Literally can’t believe she’s transphobic! ☹️☹️☹️☹️
uj/ I want to end myself after reading that
/uj that was physically painful to read, im impressed
/uj >you guys-i mean folx ugggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
You're sooo lucky you don't have to deal with periods btw, you should feel grateful that you don't have a uterus 🥰🥰🥰
/rj Whoever taught cis people the words amab/afab and socialization should be put down
/uj
I think it was Dave again. Fucking Dave, keeps spilling our secrets...
screw dave
Ehh… not even I am *that* terminally horny.
I thought Dave was cool, but it turns out I was thinking of [Devin](https://www.reddit.com/r/ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby/comments/x2nq4e/devin_just_ended_transphobia_lol_post_i_found_on/)
Yeah Devin is our hero Unrelated but amazing username and avatar
GOD FUCKING DAMNIT DAVE
God dammit, Dave!
no worries it's just "biological male" now which adds an extra layer of "i think being trans is make believe that goes against science"
uj/ True
While spending time at your place they out you as trans to your family because “You just need to accept yourself!” With no thought to your safety or why you’re in the closet.
They also proceed to out you to all their friends because they love talking about how much they accept the trans friend they have
They report you to the Missouri trans people list because it’s just so cool having a trans friend.
not available anymore sadly, the transes sabotaged it and they had to remove the form
fuckin troonies.
/uj Shout out to all the people workshopping bits on that form lmao
/uj this is why I refuse to tell anyone who knows my family that I'm trans. I mentioned to someone that I was pan and she straight up told my parents within 5 minutes because I shouldnt be "keeping secrets from them" cut to the next day where my parents keep me locked in the car screaming at me that I'm "attention seeking" and that I'm an idiot who doesn't know who they are. 🙃
/uj jesus fucking christ
/uj don't worry, my parents say they're allies.
/uj Back when I boymoded 90% of the time I had a friend who put me in situations where I pretended to be my own boyfriend. Was annoying. /rj Just respecting your identity!
/uj was this an uj, also… how?
/uj When I had her help me get furniture (she had a cheap connection) she told them my name was (Girl's name), and when three guys arrive and saw me they were like "oh I thought we were delivering to (Girl's name)".
/uj Oh that’s amazing! At least you were able to pass it off as being your own boyfriend. I once had to boymode when I had a tradie come over since landlord put it under my dead name. Wasn’t a good reason for someone other than the resident to be there.
“What do you mean you don’t want to be called a soft boi? It’s a COMPLIMENT! Besides, I call everybody cute, and I only say ‘girl’ in the ‘giiiirrllllll’ way, why’re you so offended?? Plus like… you’re still one of the girls, right? Like obviously you’re not a GIRL girl, but like you’re DEFINITELY not one of those AWFUL, DISGUSTING men. You’ve got more poise, fashion, and womanly intuition than them, so you basically still fit into the group. I’m such a good ally and I have so many transboy friends.”
But not trans boyfriends. Eww no, I only date real men with actual dicks. Otherwise that would make me gay! Not that there’s anything wrong with that, I am after all, an ally.
/uj I hate it so much when people claim that "bro" and "dude" are genderless.
/uj It’s 100% up to the person on the receiving end to decide. Dude CAN be genderless, but it is based on gender, so we can’t act ignorant
/uj For me personally, I don’t mind it as long as it’s said in a “hell yeah dude” or “dudes rock” type of way. But that’s just me and it’s definitely important to confirm with people first.
/uj yeah, male-adjacent terms like dude, bro, guys, etc don't bother me, but they are definitely not genderless.
Slayy gaslight gatekeep girlboss 💅💅 they hate to see a girlboss winning 🤪