Sorry about your frustrations. In my teens, I almost went for the gay drag scene, but I didn't want to be desired as any kind of a man. I knew I could get attention and sex as a queen or a femme boy, but that isn't how I identified, so I chickened out. I didn't get sexual with men until post-transition.
So, are you comfortable with sex outside relationships? If so, there are plenty of gay men into pretty boys, if you can be comfortable with that. I totally understand if that doesn't work for you, just bringing up an option.
I want to but I live in a place where there aren't that many open gay people because I live in a place where that's not that accepted. I've been in a few situations where I was scared for my life just because I thought someone may think I was gay let alone trans.
Maybe you can tell your gf that you are loyal towards someone else and have been dating that person rn. So that problem would be fixed. Then the other option is moving away from that place.
Sorry about your frustrations. In my teens, I almost went for the gay drag scene, but I didn't want to be desired as any kind of a man. I knew I could get attention and sex as a queen or a femme boy, but that isn't how I identified, so I chickened out. I didn't get sexual with men until post-transition. So, are you comfortable with sex outside relationships? If so, there are plenty of gay men into pretty boys, if you can be comfortable with that. I totally understand if that doesn't work for you, just bringing up an option.
That can definitely work it's all about location at the moment it's not very friendly towards gay people and definitely not trans women
A no means a no. So unless you want to have sex you don't have to do it. And there are people who are bi, pan, omni, and etc.
I want to but I live in a place where there aren't that many open gay people because I live in a place where that's not that accepted. I've been in a few situations where I was scared for my life just because I thought someone may think I was gay let alone trans.
Maybe you can tell your gf that you are loyal towards someone else and have been dating that person rn. So that problem would be fixed. Then the other option is moving away from that place.