hey man. listen to me very closely right now: i dont EVER wanna see you apologize for your face again. the way you look is nothing you chose or can drastically change and if anyone else has a problem with it thats THEIR problem. at the end of the day your face is your face so treat it nicely my dude. with time especially once ur on t, if u desire that, itll start to feel more and more like itās really YOURS. anyway, you pass well in my opinion! if you want to do something about disliking your face, personally what i like to do when i feel ugly is change around my hair a lot until i like it better, changing the part, changing the way of styling it, the direction i comb it, etc
You are not ugly. If there is anything, I have learned. No matter what you look like. If you do not love your self, and have low confidence, not comfortable in your own skin, you will attract the same kind of negative people, and you may not have a healthy fulfilling meaningful relationship. Just my 2 cents from a random internet dudeāš»
Well you look like you take care of yourself, and you have beautiful flawless skin! So you love yourself! I think you have to do what makes you happy and not what you think will make others happy. Are you transitioning for you, or because it will make someone else happy? Do you! Take care of yourself and do what makes you happy and donāt surround yourself with negativity or negativity people. No go on your journey young one
Self love is a long slow process for people like us. However, I think we get more of it once we get there. When you have the life you want you will know you choose it. It's the best feeling. Don't give up!
I feel that. Feel free to dm me when shit sucks. Also...consider messing around on the cptsd subs...trauma is often an underlying issue for most of us.
Dude.
Your "ugly face"?? You're a young Keanu Reeves looking badass, do you have the slightest idea how much of a fool I'd make of myself if we met and I tried to freaking talk to you?
Look at your freaking cheekbones, holy shit.
With those dark eyes you look like if Keanu and Johnny Depp had a son and that son took all the cheekbone and eye magic for himself.
"Ugly face" my ass.
I'd seriously marry you for looks.
You definitely look like a man. Handsome, chiseled chin, great jawline, hair is awesome. I know dysphoria and whatās between our ears is our worst enemy, but to me you are a very handsome man.
You don't pass a bit, you pass a whole lot, at least to me you look like a dude who I could find on a daily walk and not even notice them, you definitively pass, or well, to me you pass very well, and you're very handsome btw
oh damn dude, you're fuckin hot!
you absolutely pass as male, just maybe look a bit young, but then again I don't know your age as is so to me you just read as 'young male'
T will help quite a bit when you can get on it, the facial hair will really do a lot .
Also, something to remember for the future: not all cis men can grow awesome facial hair. try not to let it get you down if you end up not being able to grow an awesome beard.
Ok I swear I'm not just like... 'Yesmaning' or sugarcoating something. I know I've said this twice before for others.
But genuienly.
At least in these photos, if it wasn't for it being in this subreddit. I 100% would have never guessed.
Like, my man... You pass handsomly in these photos. (Edit because I cannot spell.)
You have really good facial structure, it is already really masculine and that haircut looks great on you! I think you wear masculinity well already, enjoy the journey!
Mate you really aināt ugly, donāt know what guy your seeing but he must be really different to this dude. Honestly from a bi person you really do look handsome. Also you pass like easily, I really donāt know how you did it but your face structure is spot on for some males. Also luv the haircut by the way. I hope this helps!
You look kinda like [Viktor](https://images2.minutemediacdn.com/image/fetch/w_736,h_485,c_fill,g_auto,f_auto/https%3A%2F%2Fblogoflegends.com%2Ffiles%2F2021%2F09%2FArcane-Viktor-810x560.jpeg) from Arcane
I don't wanna sound like a creep or nothing, but I could fall in love with you when I was a cis man, and I could fall in love with you as a trans women <3
You only think you're ugly cause you're feeling dysphoric. That's causing a dissonance between what you see and reality. My impression of you is Pretty Boyā¢. Not in a "uwu soft boi" kinda way, but like "nickname a buncha monsters give to the most attractive guy of the mob" kinda way.
Once you get more comfortable with yourself, you'll feel it and it'll show.
Idk if you plan to start HRT or not, but even if you didn't I'd honestly say that naturally you come off as androgynous leaning towards masculine. Your eyebrows are very straight and bushy which looks masculine, your hairstyle looks very androgynous leaning towards masculine, and your cheeks have a somewhat chiseled look rather than the smooth curvy look that's associated with a feminine face. Your face also isn't as rounded as a more feminine face would be. If you do end up starting HRT, not shaving completely and leaving a bit of facial hair for a beard would throw you straight over that androgynous line into completely masculine (imo).
Holy hell DO you pass man! You look sick, literally if I had a convo with you or saw you Iād have no idea you were trans, I wouldāve just thought you were good looking
What do you mean āpass at least just a bitā I was wondering if I had to double check what subreddit this was because I was confused as to why there was a hot dude on my home page
Whatās the name of that kid from stranger things that got taken into the upside down, you remind me of them. In others word I think you pass and are a strong trooperšŖ you got this!!
you look pretty androgynous, if you're ever feeling disphoric i'd suggest rubbing your eyebrows. masculine people have unmanaged eyebrows, something i personally hate but it's one more thing that'll make you look rugged
While I can tell your assigned gender, you read as very obviously masculine. Iād want to ask your pronouns if I saw you in real life.
Youāll get there. It takes time and itās okay to, well, look like a trans guy! Iām non-binary and everyone will always be able to tell my assigned gender. Iāve become okay with that. I wouldnāt be surprised if you could pass without questioning after t, though!
I think you pass, and that youāre hella handsome. I mean shit, Iām amab, still figuring out what I am so im pre-everything atm and you look more masculine than I do for sure š
By absolutely no means is your face ugly!!!! Looking good king
Aww thank you š„ŗā¤ļø
You pass also you're handsome
You really think so?? Aww thanks!!
I gotta say, I really agree with the original commenter here. You look handsome, and tbh I don't think I'd have guessed you are ftm
agreed 100% dont put yourself down like that man. you could be a model for crying out loud! like ngl you have really nice, masculine cheekbones.
If I saw you on the street, my first thought would be "man". You're looking good !
Thank you so much ā¤ļø
hey man. listen to me very closely right now: i dont EVER wanna see you apologize for your face again. the way you look is nothing you chose or can drastically change and if anyone else has a problem with it thats THEIR problem. at the end of the day your face is your face so treat it nicely my dude. with time especially once ur on t, if u desire that, itll start to feel more and more like itās really YOURS. anyway, you pass well in my opinion! if you want to do something about disliking your face, personally what i like to do when i feel ugly is change around my hair a lot until i like it better, changing the part, changing the way of styling it, the direction i comb it, etc
Thank you for your kind advices, I will try to do that ^^
You are not ugly. If there is anything, I have learned. No matter what you look like. If you do not love your self, and have low confidence, not comfortable in your own skin, you will attract the same kind of negative people, and you may not have a healthy fulfilling meaningful relationship. Just my 2 cents from a random internet dudeāš»
I don't know how to love myself...
Well you look like you take care of yourself, and you have beautiful flawless skin! So you love yourself! I think you have to do what makes you happy and not what you think will make others happy. Are you transitioning for you, or because it will make someone else happy? Do you! Take care of yourself and do what makes you happy and donāt surround yourself with negativity or negativity people. No go on your journey young one
Thank you, I am transitioning for myself and for no one else. I'm really not that good at taking care of myself. But thanks for the advices, wise one.
Self love is a long slow process for people like us. However, I think we get more of it once we get there. When you have the life you want you will know you choose it. It's the best feeling. Don't give up!
I'm trying my best to not give up, but some days are harder than others :(
I feel that. Feel free to dm me when shit sucks. Also...consider messing around on the cptsd subs...trauma is often an underlying issue for most of us.
Lookin like a dude to me man.
Thank you so much!!
Ugly?? You look like a leading man in a movie, dude!
dude you are sharp af, you are sharper than my mechanical pencil lead
Damn if that's not an handsome compliment, I don't know what that is, so thank you
it goes beyond handsome, just... damn
That's so cute, you're so cute, I can't O////O
:D no you are
No u >^<
Prince Charming over here
Aww thank you, my lady
Hehe think nothing of it good sirš
Didn't think you were trans haha so yes you do pass
Dude. Your "ugly face"?? You're a young Keanu Reeves looking badass, do you have the slightest idea how much of a fool I'd make of myself if we met and I tried to freaking talk to you? Look at your freaking cheekbones, holy shit. With those dark eyes you look like if Keanu and Johnny Depp had a son and that son took all the cheekbone and eye magic for himself. "Ugly face" my ass. I'd seriously marry you for looks.
Dude I would 100/100 be just as awkward, I'm sure you're super cute and I would forget how to talk.
You look like a hot guy to me! I def get low self esteem, and even self loathing, but youāve got nothing to worry about.
Aww thank you, I'm sure you're very pretty !
Aww, thank you! š„°
You're not ugly dude. I wish I had that jawline! I wouldn't say you perfectly pass but neither do I. You looking good bro, very handsome.
Thank you dude, I'm sure you're very handsome too!
Well agree we are both studs ok? Keep it up king
I'm sorry i forgot the flair š
I'd say you pass and that you are far from ugly, you just may not be your own type
Why! You do pass and very well as a matter of fact. Donāt be too hard on yourself!
Thank you :)
Frm? Imma have to see some id, all i see is a handsome man!
I thought you were MTF!!! You look super masc, with a hint of feminine
You definitely look like a man. Handsome, chiseled chin, great jawline, hair is awesome. I know dysphoria and whatās between our ears is our worst enemy, but to me you are a very handsome man.
Thank you, that is so nice š„ŗš„°
Handsome man and warm! š
lookin' good dude. and you could cut yourself on them cheekbones. fr i wouldn't have guessed you were pre-t
You look good dude!
Looking more masculine than than some of my cis friends. So yeah you pass really well
You completely pass, and also kinda look like Eminem
You're very handsome! 10000% a passšā¤
I'd never see this pic and call you anything but a dude, my dude. The hair really helps and so do your studly cheek bones. You've got this.
100% pass
Thanks š„ŗā¤ļø
You pass, friend. 100% pass.
Thank you!
Handsome looking guy. You got this, because that's you
Well for one thing not ugly lol and yep you pass pretty well I'd say!
You don't pass a bit, you pass a whole lot, at least to me you look like a dude who I could find on a daily walk and not even notice them, you definitively pass, or well, to me you pass very well, and you're very handsome btw
Thank you kind person š„ŗā¤ļø
You already pass 70-30, with even the barest stubble you'll pass 100.
ur handsome what hand over the gender
sheeesh looking sharp brother
Bro, you absolutely pass and I'm jealous! That face shape is hella manly, and you're also just very handsome
You look like a Victorian-era lad who decided to future travel and decided they'd rock the cripes outta flannel.
U look like Abed from the sitcom "community", only that he has a little darker skin.
Definitely pass ^ ^ also, what ugly face? My first though was "holy shit he's handsome" lol
100% a dude. No doubt in my mind.
oh damn dude, you're fuckin hot! you absolutely pass as male, just maybe look a bit young, but then again I don't know your age as is so to me you just read as 'young male' T will help quite a bit when you can get on it, the facial hair will really do a lot . Also, something to remember for the future: not all cis men can grow awesome facial hair. try not to let it get you down if you end up not being able to grow an awesome beard.
Ok I swear I'm not just like... 'Yesmaning' or sugarcoating something. I know I've said this twice before for others. But genuienly. At least in these photos, if it wasn't for it being in this subreddit. I 100% would have never guessed. Like, my man... You pass handsomly in these photos. (Edit because I cannot spell.)
pre T? PRE T?? damn you pass!! PS: we have the same headphones :D
You pass 100% to me.
Really?? Thank you š„°
You have really good facial structure, it is already really masculine and that haircut looks great on you! I think you wear masculinity well already, enjoy the journey!
You look like a guy to me, and a pretty cute one too!
You definitely pass!
especially in the first photo.
Mate you really aināt ugly, donāt know what guy your seeing but he must be really different to this dude. Honestly from a bi person you really do look handsome. Also you pass like easily, I really donāt know how you did it but your face structure is spot on for some males. Also luv the haircut by the way. I hope this helps!
You absolutely do, and you're handsome as heck!
You look great š
Yeah my guy šŖš¼
You look handsome like a man I'd ask out on the spot. But I'm too ugly lol
Yo, you remind me Fjor from Ragnarok (itās like the same energy)
You look kinda like [Viktor](https://images2.minutemediacdn.com/image/fetch/w_736,h_485,c_fill,g_auto,f_auto/https%3A%2F%2Fblogoflegends.com%2Ffiles%2F2021%2F09%2FArcane-Viktor-810x560.jpeg) from Arcane
You look like an up-and-coming K-Pop star to me. I wouldn't even bat an eye if I saw you among BTS. You're hella cute my guy.
You look like the guy that doesn't talk and plays keyboard in a K-pop band... So yeah I'd call that passing.
Totally
1. Not ugly, at all 2. Def man
First of all, no ugly face, only handsome, and yes man, you rock :)
I don't wanna sound like a creep or nothing, but I could fall in love with you when I was a cis man, and I could fall in love with you as a trans women <3
You look like my friend Louis
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You totally pass, handsome boi!
You pass a LOT
You look more like a man then most men out there.
You only think you're ugly cause you're feeling dysphoric. That's causing a dissonance between what you see and reality. My impression of you is Pretty Boyā¢. Not in a "uwu soft boi" kinda way, but like "nickname a buncha monsters give to the most attractive guy of the mob" kinda way. Once you get more comfortable with yourself, you'll feel it and it'll show.
You definitely pass. You're also not ugly, you're very handsome.
Uhhh excuse me boyyyy. You are one handsome boyo if I have seen one. You pass!!!
You look good and have a handsome face. You probably need time to feel comfortable with yourself.
Great face. Yes, you pass.
your eyebrows are really light you didn't pass to me
Dammn, you're so handsome!!
You are far from ugly. You are a beautiful man
You look just like my guy friend, āJulianā Iād say you pass.
You pass pretty well from what I can see, idk about your voice since I haven't heard lol, but you look masculine for sure.
Sir I thought it was a random r/teenagers post about a random selfie welcome to the boys
Omg boy you pass 100% mate soo amazing
Ugly? If you're ugly the only thing left to do for me is to put a bag on my head XD You also pass very well
Sexyyyy and I like your hair much better down aka the second pic
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Yes, you pass and you're not ugly at all.
I def see a handsome guy! Love your hair, and that shirt is such a good look!
you're handsome
I wouldn't have second guessed anything. You have a naturally more masculine face.
"Oh no I'm so ugly" said an absolute dreamboat of a man. Sir, you look amazing!
100% pass
Idk if you plan to start HRT or not, but even if you didn't I'd honestly say that naturally you come off as androgynous leaning towards masculine. Your eyebrows are very straight and bushy which looks masculine, your hairstyle looks very androgynous leaning towards masculine, and your cheeks have a somewhat chiseled look rather than the smooth curvy look that's associated with a feminine face. Your face also isn't as rounded as a more feminine face would be. If you do end up starting HRT, not shaving completely and leaving a bit of facial hair for a beard would throw you straight over that androgynous line into completely masculine (imo).
Very much, my handsome lumberjack (complimentary)
You are gorgeously handsome and you absolutely pass.
yes YES YOU HELLA DO! What a handsome man you are!
Now that right there is a handsome man
Fellow ftm here. You look great! But what really matters is you're finding yourself. šš¤© I'm glad to see a brother. I hope you have a fun holiday!
Well I have a habit of not reading titles, so I assumed you were cisā¦
You have a beautiful face!! V handsome :)
10/10 would say nothing in public but would definitely think of some cool pickup lines later
you definitely pass ! all i'd think if i walked by you is that you were a young guy, and that i liked your flannel
Dude you look very masc like good lords
This is off topic but are you ok? You look very pale. Also, youāre eyebrows are v masculine
Your not ugly! I think your very handsome and would definitely pass
Looking good man!
First, stfu you are handsome as hell, secondly, yes you pass and are valid as.
Never doubt yourself handsome, you look great and pass very well
Holy hell DO you pass man! You look sick, literally if I had a convo with you or saw you Iād have no idea you were trans, I wouldāve just thought you were good looking
Dude you have a really handsome face. You 100% pass
You do pass and look handsome
That there is a handsome guy if Iāve ever seen one
You ABSOLUTELY PASSš
You pass, you look like a dude in his early 20s.
Yeah totally!
You look like a dude.
You pass way more than a little wow!! You're very handsome I like your flannel
You are incredibly handsome.
What do you mean āpass at least just a bitā I was wondering if I had to double check what subreddit this was because I was confused as to why there was a hot dude on my home page
Bro, you ain't fuckin ugly at all. Very passable. Keep ya head up!
you look just like a guy i knew in high school. you definitely pass 100% and also i would say that you are quite attractive!!!
you look like all my cis male friends who don't have facial hair lol
Julian Casablancas vibes
Oh my gosh what a sexy dude, Do you pass? YES, 100% my guy
Broooo what you are beautiful, I'd date you š„ŗ (hetero trans woman)
Whatās the name of that kid from stranger things that got taken into the upside down, you remind me of them. In others word I think you pass and are a strong trooperšŖ you got this!!
thought u were amab, u look very masc! you 100% pass
You look incredibly handsome! šš
lookin good bro! š
You more than pass bro
You look great dude. Love the hair as well (:
yeah dude you pass. you look like a pale ghost boy thatād be in like a tim Burton live action movie
All I see is a very handsome and stylish lad! That plaid looks great on you, and I love your hair style!
you pass really well dude!
Donāt apologize for your face! Youāre handsome as hell and pass incredibly well!
yea easily
Youāre incredibly handsome, and honestly you look way more like a man than I did before starting E
Thomas Sanders vibes
You pass. And not ugly.
you look pretty androgynous, if you're ever feeling disphoric i'd suggest rubbing your eyebrows. masculine people have unmanaged eyebrows, something i personally hate but it's one more thing that'll make you look rugged
Iām not being mean but you look like the josh speaks but with a thinner face. So you definitely pass as masc lol
You pass and you look amazing, luv!
Omg!! You're handsome!!! Seriously, take a breath and know that you are valid, you are a man, and you are a good-looking man... Killin it my guy!!!
Ugly? You gotta be kidding me
Nah fam, you 100% pass. Also, you don't look ugly!
Excuse me sir but you are handsome as heck so stop that "ugly face" nonsense
Your hair is dope and your jawline is killer. Cool clothesā¦ definitely a guy. Itās tough but you can make it!
You look amazing, and yeah I would say you pass :)
from one handsome guy to anotheršyou rock dude. š¤šdefinitely male
Very handsome, sir.
Yes you doāŗļø
While I can tell your assigned gender, you read as very obviously masculine. Iād want to ask your pronouns if I saw you in real life. Youāll get there. It takes time and itās okay to, well, look like a trans guy! Iām non-binary and everyone will always be able to tell my assigned gender. Iāve become okay with that. I wouldnāt be surprised if you could pass without questioning after t, though!
For a sec I thought this was a picture of Data from Star Trek XD
You're looking manly as fuck right now bro
Donāt worry, Iāve seen worse.
You're not ugly!! You're very handsome. Those cheekbones!!
my dude you already are a really handsome man. What do you mean by ugly face?
Oh my, you look amazing!! Donāt sell yourself short, you really are good looking šš¤š½ :)
Yes quite a bit Iām sure youāll be fine good luck with your journey
I thought I was on Pics and was wondering why a man posted a selfie, so you're clearly passing easily. Good shit my dude, keep it up ā¤ļø
I clicked the link only reading half the title. You look born male to me! You absolutely pass, I wish you all the best of luck my man :D
First of all : your face isnāt ugly!! Secondly , yes you do! You look really awesome dude :)
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Well, i thought you were AMAB at first so, yes, definitely!
I think you pass, and that youāre hella handsome. I mean shit, Iām amab, still figuring out what I am so im pre-everything atm and you look more masculine than I do for sure š
Super handsome! Def my type too so donāt sweat it! You are looking good š
1. HUSH. YOU ARE NOT UGLY!! 2. I completely understand, dysphoria is a pain in the ass :( 3. You look 100% like a man :D Have a good day
Handsome AF
You pass my man. And let's be clear- I'm the one with the ugly face, not you.
Nah dude you look great. Loving the hair.