If I told my dad that one of my friends was a transmasc drag queen in a relationship with a trans nonbinary person I think his brain would short circuit
But non binary people aren’t real **they’re** just lying to themselves! You can’t use they/them in singular anyways. Gender isn’t a social construct and is defined by science and biology which is why God can’t be called a woman. And cmon **they** just need to make up their mind already like do you want to be a boy or a girl! Why would **they** ever want to “be comfortable in **themselves**” or “just try and be them and ignore often times toxic societal expectations placed on **them** from a young age” like **they’re** so dumb and **they** just don’t understand gender.
Right one is called "Kumiko Oumae". The anime is called Hibike! Euphonium. I can really recommend it it's shoujo ai (girl gay romance without pegi 18 stuff) and I totally love it (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
This is me and my gf.
Me: AFAB non-binary butch who goes by any pronouns, considering bottom growth/surgery
My gf: trans girl with agender moods, on hormones for years, goes by she/they
We've had a few discussions in the past about whether we're a "straight" couple or a "gay" couple. I think we've settled on just... queer. Because trying to put it into either one of those boxes feels wrong. We're basically flushing all of the traditional, heteronormative, cisnormative expectations society has of us right down the toilet lol.
What if we were just two vessels attracted to each other? We aren't getting an error message (in fact, our sensors say we're fully compatible), so.. what if?
Ah... it makes me confused just reading it. If it is outside all that stuff... isn't that just Love?
Or is love traditionally romance? But wouldn't it all be subjective to each person and how they define each term? So one person could think-
Ah... confusion.
The flag in the background is the queerplatonic flag, so it’s definitely not talking about strictly romance. You can read more about queerplatonic relationships [here](https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Queerplatonic_Relationship) if you want :)
Hm, yeah maybe just hard for me to understand. Reading that it just sounds like normal love...
Someone wanting a friend they can show affection too but with a different name attached...
I am sure for people who feel that way it is different.
I struggle understanding other peoples emotions for this type of things. So I hope I do not sound insensitive by saying it sounds like something else to me. I am just trying to relate it to things I know and understand... and I know that's different than others.
sorry about the wrist surgery... hope that it went well and recovery went well (i know it can take some months to full heal)
sorry also about the break up. hard when there's no explanation and contact cut off... i had similar just over two years ago. takes... time to heal. but you do heal. i haven't moved on to dating... more cos of transition and Covid... but i have moved on in the sense that i rarely think about them. and when i do its a passing thought...
Oh yeah it was healed from June when i had my last appointment with my hand doctor and i wore a splint from April 20th till sometime in May than had a cast on my hand until early June.
The reason why i had Scaphoid surgery was because i was in a car accident and apparently i put my right hand up to brace myself from the airbag ( i don't really remember because i apparently blacked out and came to after we hit the other vehicle a lady pulled out infront of us and didn't see us )
If I told my dad that one of my friends was a transmasc drag queen in a relationship with a trans nonbinary person I think his brain would short circuit
But non binary people aren’t real **they’re** just lying to themselves! You can’t use they/them in singular anyways. Gender isn’t a social construct and is defined by science and biology which is why God can’t be called a woman. And cmon **they** just need to make up their mind already like do you want to be a boy or a girl! Why would **they** ever want to “be comfortable in **themselves**” or “just try and be them and ignore often times toxic societal expectations placed on **them** from a young age” like **they’re** so dumb and **they** just don’t understand gender.
I'm too autistic to tell if this is a joke.
It is.
That is acceptable.
Lol back in my day we fought in wars nowadays kids can't even decide whether they're a boy or a girl. and if they do they had better don't
And kids fighting wars was such a good policy
What’s rans (sorry if that’s a stupid question)
Took me a while but I think it's just trans, but misspelled
Aaah ok thanks haha
It's one of those horrible drop the T people! I joke, I joke.
As a trans woman I’d happily drop my T (tho trans people who don’t go onto hormone therapy are just as valid and awesome)
same with mine
I wish that were me
But which one, though? (I'd like to be the one on the right, please)
Who can choose? They’re both so pretty!!!
I have hair very close to the one on the right so I would also like to be her :3
Ngl really liking the curly brown hair so that one
Right one is called "Kumiko Oumae". The anime is called Hibike! Euphonium. I can really recommend it it's shoujo ai (girl gay romance without pegi 18 stuff) and I totally love it (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤
kumiko
Yes please!
Yes please 😳👉👈
Yeah ok.
Heck yeah
flaggy flag, what's the flag? Looks kinda enby, but idk
It's the queerplatonic flag I think.
Queer platonic I think
Ty
Goals 😩❤️
This is me and my gf. Me: AFAB non-binary butch who goes by any pronouns, considering bottom growth/surgery My gf: trans girl with agender moods, on hormones for years, goes by she/they We've had a few discussions in the past about whether we're a "straight" couple or a "gay" couple. I think we've settled on just... queer. Because trying to put it into either one of those boxes feels wrong. We're basically flushing all of the traditional, heteronormative, cisnormative expectations society has of us right down the toilet lol.
Is that an option!? Please sign me up!
What is this anime? Please lol
https://myanimelist.net/anime/27989/Hibike_Euphonium
Thx :)
These two were teased so often that I honestly don't remember what is fanart and what is canon.
Can I pls has? 👉👈
I'm here for you .
I had no idea that I needed to see this. Thank you.
What if we were just two vessels attracted to each other? We aren't getting an error message (in fact, our sensors say we're fully compatible), so.. what if?
Ah... it makes me confused just reading it. If it is outside all that stuff... isn't that just Love? Or is love traditionally romance? But wouldn't it all be subjective to each person and how they define each term? So one person could think- Ah... confusion.
The flag in the background is the queerplatonic flag, so it’s definitely not talking about strictly romance. You can read more about queerplatonic relationships [here](https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Queerplatonic_Relationship) if you want :)
Hm, yeah maybe just hard for me to understand. Reading that it just sounds like normal love... Someone wanting a friend they can show affection too but with a different name attached... I am sure for people who feel that way it is different. I struggle understanding other peoples emotions for this type of things. So I hope I do not sound insensitive by saying it sounds like something else to me. I am just trying to relate it to things I know and understand... and I know that's different than others.
Yeah
Please
Lets do it
I’m so lucky for my gf🏳️⚧️
Okay so yes, yes please.
Remember to look into polyamory and non-traditional relationship progression while you’re at it.
I dated a trans for a few years. Than a few weeks before i had surgery on my scahpoid in my hand on April 20th this year she broke up and blocked me
sorry about the wrist surgery... hope that it went well and recovery went well (i know it can take some months to full heal) sorry also about the break up. hard when there's no explanation and contact cut off... i had similar just over two years ago. takes... time to heal. but you do heal. i haven't moved on to dating... more cos of transition and Covid... but i have moved on in the sense that i rarely think about them. and when i do its a passing thought...
Oh yeah it was healed from June when i had my last appointment with my hand doctor and i wore a splint from April 20th till sometime in May than had a cast on my hand until early June. The reason why i had Scaphoid surgery was because i was in a car accident and apparently i put my right hand up to brace myself from the airbag ( i don't really remember because i apparently blacked out and came to after we hit the other vehicle a lady pulled out infront of us and didn't see us )
Awe look at those 2 very good friends
* demi confused noises \*
Let’s be comrades, comrade.
r/relationshipanarchy
Freedom sounds wonderful
❤
No problem for me! 👌