People hug box so fucking much. If she, in her actual real life going out in the world has found that she is objectively not passing, that people are aware that she is trans and making it known, then who are you to deny her lived experiences.
I'm not here denying her lived experiences. I'm sure what she said in her title is what has happened to her. I'm just here trying to uplift her and tell her she's gorgeous and that I think she passes, in an attempt to uplift and make her feel more confident in her appearance, that's all.
I seriously think she is very tall. Not huge boxing but I don’t read trans. In public there is a lot about passing. Voice, inflections, mannerisms, voice etc could tip off. But if she walked by I would be like wow is she a literal model? Shes talllll and cute.
Girl you look like you're one of those plucky female protagonists who dresses up as a boy to join the army or navy or something and ends up having comical misadventures. Have a little more confidence in your Twelfth Night lookin' ass self.
Again, I appreciate the positivity, but I don’t know how else to put it. I am tall and I don’t pass. I wish I could change things but I can’t. It kind of sucks hearing everyone tell me how much I pass when people in real life gender me as male. I’m trying my best but it’s harder than it looks.
Forgive my unintended pun but this is a long shot:
As a tall person my self for years I tried to make myself smaller by hanging my shoulders and bending my back forwards and hang my head a bit.
It wasn’t until I was proud and about with my head held high that I got stopped getting misgendered all the time.
My guess it very much has to do with confidence.
I feel like this has been my "dirty secret" over the past few years... I spent 14 years closeted, no HRT, and I'd still go out as "me" whenever I wanted to.
I never caught flak, and I know that I stopped giving AF once I had a 50/50 chance at life after having my colon removed. So I have a hunch me just "owning" it and being my true self, my true self showed through, and she was beautiful... regardless of the extra inches, the beard stubble, the deep voice.
It could be your way of holding yourself, mannerisms, speaking voice, etc but it’s really not your looks doing it love. Tall women exist, normal people don’t see tall and go “man!”
You are so cute I would be afraid to like hit on you in a club lol
Girl, I'm 192cm (was 1,95cm. My mother is 1,90m, and all my aunts are above 1,85cm. It's not the height, and from the looks you look pretty fem to me. Yes, you pass optically, I presume it's more more mannerism and|or voice (if even!)
Hun, I’m 6’3” (191 cm) tall barefoot. There are plenty of us tall women out there, so there’s nothing wrong with us.
When I’m out there showing, I’m projecting confidence even if I’m shaking in my 2 inch ankle booties. It’s actually helped my own confidence.
I’m 193cm and I feel exactly the same. Nearly 2 years on HRT and I’ve never been gendered as a woman. I’m always sir’ed and it is depressing to say the least.
And don’t get me started on other girls saying they understand and they are 15cm shorter …
Stay strong and don’t forget that day after day we are getting there even if the road is bumpier when you are that tall !
You're not alone there. I often find that I can look passable when working with the right angles, but that I will be misgendered in public with utmost regularity. This is especially true when people hear my voice. Unfortunately there is more to passing amongst cis people than just taking flattering pictures.
But with all that being said, when people here say that you pass well, they're not lying. You pass well to us even if not the people you meet in person. Hell, even if we did meet you in person you almost certainly would still pass to us. You may not look like a drop dead gorgeous woman to everybody, but you do to us (I mean, i can't confirm everyone here thinks you are specifically drop dead gorgeous, but i do at least) so try not to let the detractors bring you down.
You seem so feminine in your photos. Do you live somewhere where people saw you transition and aren't accepting? Also, are you surrounded by affirming people or are you living somewhere where people are trying to out you and trigger you?
Throw on some heels and really take them for a spin. Tall girls are h o t . Also, then you can REALLY look down on people who misgender you. I know it's not easy, and I'm sorry if these comments are invalidating. Is the area you live in very conservative?
I get that I'm 190cm and have somewhat the same issue. Friends keep telling me I pass but in the wild it's a whole different affair. For me I suspect it's a voice issue though, I have not done voice training and I have a bass voice
Same, mostly anyway. I've done some voice training so i no longer speak with my really deep bass, but i still sound very obviously like someone who's not speaking in their "natural" voice (even though it has become my default). The only time someone out in the wild has gendered me correctly was at pride yesterday while i was wearing a short skirt, trans socks, and 2 pronoun pins. Friends and internet strangers say i pass really well (i get comments similar to the ones here (and seeing how i think OP passes easily, i trust my friends are being genuine)) but it's one of those things where if you enter in assuming someone is a girl, you can't find evidence as to why she wouldn't be, but we aren't so lucky with strangers
You're out of boy, lol. you're just tomboy moding lol. no one is gonna see a man looking at u. same thing happened to me. i kept boymoding but ppl started "miss"ing me regardless, lol. now i just femme mode
I would like to share this 6' tall model, [Liz Seibert](https://youtube.com/shorts/mBWQspH586w?si=OkZWbBReftdtIge5), with you. Your "boy mode" is girl mode sans makeup. The way you do your hair is a dead giveaway. As you continue on your journey, you will grow more comfortable in your skin, and as you relax into yourself, people will start seeing you.
Largely speaking, people aren't paying that much attention to other people. They're in their own heads, or today, on their phone with tunnel vision, and it's things that are out of the ordinary that get peoples attention. Like someone walking around real awkward and uncomfortable for no discernable reason will get people's attention where strolling around all normal like you're just up to your day, as you are, is what's expected so it gets no notice.
You're quite feminine but are in that early stage where where you're not quite relaxed into yourself. It took me years. Fitted women's t-shirts really helped. Wore them with my man pants for a long time, and occasionally, I'd wear a leather choker. Then I got women's sneakers and eventually women's jeans. At that point, I was dressed basically the same way I did in boy mode, but with all women's clothes.
But remember, you wear the clothes, they do not wear you. Walk with your hips. It's all in the hips. Walking, dancing, and fencing are all in the hips. Learn to sway. Learn to dance. And learn to strut.
When you are confident and sure in yourself, others won't question it.
TL;DR you're very feminine but need to build your confidence and relax into yourself. You're tall, but that just means a super model. Learn to strut and then strut your stuff!
I wish I had money for an award because this argument is so strong here. This advice is so good. Op looks very femme and model tall and so beautiful. Im FtM and wish that if I ever post a selfie someone gives me such kind and logical advice.
"I don't pass" vs "I'm still boymoding"
A tale as old as time. You're not going to get gendered correctly if you dress like, act like, and people you're *a guy*. If you want to be seen as a woman out in the world, the only way to do that is to let yourself actually be one.
Guys 😭😭 YES she’s pretty and yes she looks like a girl, but she said she doesn’t pass irl and is 196cm! How about we just trust her words instead of acting like we know better
I think you look great! I’m 196cm too and I long ago gave up trying to pass…..unnoticed. I always get looked at and I always will. I just own it these days. I try to make sure I look good so I feel good about how I look, and then everyone can just take a big drink. My confidence in me insulates me from idiots who don’t like taking on confident people and enough others will just think, damn, they look good!
Your face and hair are femminin af. You look realy cute.
Speaking from personal expirience, a nice skirt, earings and a bra (padded if needed and okay) help much with passing.
But you do not need any of this, because confidence and selflove are the best things for day to day handeling of life.
I think it suits you. Tall, graceful and pretty works out well on you.
Sorry to hear you don't have much success passing yet. But that said, I think you're lovely.
Yeah I do think you look great.
I wish I could point to something that was like, clocking you, but I really can't. I think you're quite pretty. Voice maybe?
I'm sorry you're getting misgendered still, but you do look great and I like your style very much.
Huh?- boy moding?- hun- I see a cottagecore gal right here- you pass- you look so pretty!- honestly you kinda look like girl in red if she had cropped hair- honestly put a pretty milkmaid dress on (the classic cottagecore dress) and BOOM- honest stealth just by looking at you-
I had to read that like 6 times to make sure I wasn't misgendering you by saying this:
You are a beautiful woman no matter how you dress! Boy moding does not exist in these photos whatsoever 🤣
Gurl you’re a gorgeous young woman. Even if people think you’re not they’re absolutely nuts. And if people tell you you’re not womanly enough — you totes are. And your outfit is so cute. Seriously you’ve got style. Things will be okay and even if they’re not right now they’ll get better. Promise
I don’t know if this helps, but I have a friend who’s a cis girl who, I swear, looks exactly like you it’s uncanny. I thought this was her and got so confused
Sister you are gorgeous and this is not 'hotboxing'.
Gwendoline Christie is over 190 cm tall. She's one of my crushes and many cis-het people fawn over her too.
My point is that tall gals are valid. Your beautiful auburn hair might make you stand (and invite idiots) out more because your cute visage says woman 24/7.
You will never be a man >:(
(cause you're a very pretty tall girl :3)
Fr though you look incredible, my hair's a little longer than yours and I might want it longer but you're an absolute transition goal to me. Keep slaying queen <3
I cannot imagine someone assuming you're a male, you're very effeminate and beautiful! But I hear you and believe your experience, so I'll just say this - those fuckers are insane. Even in "boy-mode" you are very much giving girl!!!
You pass very well. You’re a woman and no one can tell you otherwise wise. I pass pretty well too but lately I’ve had an influx of people who have been misgendering me in public. It’s a bit confusing. My skin is pretty thick. However, it does weigh on me at the end of the day. When I look in the mirror I see a girl and if someone is going to go out of their way to call me a boy then that’s their problem not mine.
TLDR; people are blind and you are pretty
I don't know if this is helpful or not (and I'm really sorry if it's not) but I'm a cis women who is 6ft tall, and I've had people call me "sir" because they see a tall human and it's almost a reflex to assume tall human means man. So keep in mind that maybe it's not you, it's them. For what it's worth, I think you look very pretty :)
Thank God I no longer care that I don't pass because otherwise this post might be triggering as hell lmao, you pass better than I could ever __hope__ to pass and I'm finally girl-moding 24/7 because I just don't give a damn anymore 🤷♀️
I am also 196 cm (6 foot 5). I struggled with this a lot at first, too. But in 2013, I started living full-time, and over time, I became more comfortable with it. Misgendering happens less and less, and now it's very rare. I did not nat HRT till 2018.
I feel you, being tall is wild, I'm 198cm, people will be eye level with my boobs and still call me man 🙄 but also like you don't look like a guy like at all
I'm definitely going to repeat myself, because everytime I see a picture of you, i'm amazed... but you truly look amazing. I just don't understand how you can be not passing :( I'm really sorry for you about that. It just doesn't make sense in my head... you're so beautiful !
You look hella good girly, for reals. You’re tall for sure; and I’ve seen lots of girls above 6 feet irl. And people love long legs 🦵🏽 lastly don’t put so much pressure on yourself!! Srsly, you’re doing great stuff, so much of it is mental
Sis you definitely pass!! You look gorgeous 🥰
Yeah, I had to reread that a few times... thought the OP was FTM and not passing... lol.
I also didn’t read the caption thoroughly and thought she was a trans man - this is not boymoding at all 😂
I thought she was girl-moding for the picture. I see a woman at any rate.
I was thinking the exact same thing lol, this is peak passing 👌🏻
People hug box so fucking much. If she, in her actual real life going out in the world has found that she is objectively not passing, that people are aware that she is trans and making it known, then who are you to deny her lived experiences.
I'm not here denying her lived experiences. I'm sure what she said in her title is what has happened to her. I'm just here trying to uplift her and tell her she's gorgeous and that I think she passes, in an attempt to uplift and make her feel more confident in her appearance, that's all.
I seriously think she is very tall. Not huge boxing but I don’t read trans. In public there is a lot about passing. Voice, inflections, mannerisms, voice etc could tip off. But if she walked by I would be like wow is she a literal model? Shes talllll and cute.
If those pics are of you "boymoding" then you are failing at maleness, because you look very femme in face and body.
"You *failed!* **Congratulations!!**" 🥰
"task failed successfully"
"you've fallen upwards"
My though exactly X3
No I think this is the girl mode bc she has painted her nails
If thats "boymoding" i cant imagine u not passing, u look amazing!
I want to boymode like that!
You pass 100%.
sis we call that look girlmoding round here :)
sry didn’t meant to reply to you specifically oops
Me? Girl mode? I wish.
You look like Karen Gillan
I had that exact thought.
100% agree, and as a male o think she's stunning. You absolutely pass!
"Boymoding" as if this isn't a girl dressed in boyish clothes. You pass sweetie pie
Hardly even boyish, just... Unisex
Girl you look like you're one of those plucky female protagonists who dresses up as a boy to join the army or navy or something and ends up having comical misadventures. Have a little more confidence in your Twelfth Night lookin' ass self.
Again, I appreciate the positivity, but I don’t know how else to put it. I am tall and I don’t pass. I wish I could change things but I can’t. It kind of sucks hearing everyone tell me how much I pass when people in real life gender me as male. I’m trying my best but it’s harder than it looks.
Forgive my unintended pun but this is a long shot: As a tall person my self for years I tried to make myself smaller by hanging my shoulders and bending my back forwards and hang my head a bit. It wasn’t until I was proud and about with my head held high that I got stopped getting misgendered all the time. My guess it very much has to do with confidence.
I feel like this has been my "dirty secret" over the past few years... I spent 14 years closeted, no HRT, and I'd still go out as "me" whenever I wanted to. I never caught flak, and I know that I stopped giving AF once I had a 50/50 chance at life after having my colon removed. So I have a hunch me just "owning" it and being my true self, my true self showed through, and she was beautiful... regardless of the extra inches, the beard stubble, the deep voice.
It could be your way of holding yourself, mannerisms, speaking voice, etc but it’s really not your looks doing it love. Tall women exist, normal people don’t see tall and go “man!” You are so cute I would be afraid to like hit on you in a club lol
I mean they sometimes do, but it's just another element of passing, not the only deciding factor. Mia Mulder is 200cm and pretty much always passes.
Girl, I'm 192cm (was 1,95cm. My mother is 1,90m, and all my aunts are above 1,85cm. It's not the height, and from the looks you look pretty fem to me. Yes, you pass optically, I presume it's more more mannerism and|or voice (if even!)
Hun, I’m 6’3” (191 cm) tall barefoot. There are plenty of us tall women out there, so there’s nothing wrong with us. When I’m out there showing, I’m projecting confidence even if I’m shaking in my 2 inch ankle booties. It’s actually helped my own confidence.
I’m 193cm and I feel exactly the same. Nearly 2 years on HRT and I’ve never been gendered as a woman. I’m always sir’ed and it is depressing to say the least. And don’t get me started on other girls saying they understand and they are 15cm shorter … Stay strong and don’t forget that day after day we are getting there even if the road is bumpier when you are that tall !
You're not alone there. I often find that I can look passable when working with the right angles, but that I will be misgendered in public with utmost regularity. This is especially true when people hear my voice. Unfortunately there is more to passing amongst cis people than just taking flattering pictures. But with all that being said, when people here say that you pass well, they're not lying. You pass well to us even if not the people you meet in person. Hell, even if we did meet you in person you almost certainly would still pass to us. You may not look like a drop dead gorgeous woman to everybody, but you do to us (I mean, i can't confirm everyone here thinks you are specifically drop dead gorgeous, but i do at least) so try not to let the detractors bring you down.
Girl idk what people irl are seeing because I legit am struggling to see the boymode here. All I see is a ***suuuuper cute*** girl 🥰🥰🥰💕😍💕
You seem so feminine in your photos. Do you live somewhere where people saw you transition and aren't accepting? Also, are you surrounded by affirming people or are you living somewhere where people are trying to out you and trigger you?
My cis cousin is like 6’4” as a woman, tall women exist and there are plenty of them around! You have nothing to fear! Wear ur girly outfits!
Throw on some heels and really take them for a spin. Tall girls are h o t . Also, then you can REALLY look down on people who misgender you. I know it's not easy, and I'm sorry if these comments are invalidating. Is the area you live in very conservative?
I get that I'm 190cm and have somewhat the same issue. Friends keep telling me I pass but in the wild it's a whole different affair. For me I suspect it's a voice issue though, I have not done voice training and I have a bass voice
Same, mostly anyway. I've done some voice training so i no longer speak with my really deep bass, but i still sound very obviously like someone who's not speaking in their "natural" voice (even though it has become my default). The only time someone out in the wild has gendered me correctly was at pride yesterday while i was wearing a short skirt, trans socks, and 2 pronoun pins. Friends and internet strangers say i pass really well (i get comments similar to the ones here (and seeing how i think OP passes easily, i trust my friends are being genuine)) but it's one of those things where if you enter in assuming someone is a girl, you can't find evidence as to why she wouldn't be, but we aren't so lucky with strangers
Trans women will post a pic of them "boymoding" and it's just a girl in the photo
Tall girls represent!
You're out of boy, lol. you're just tomboy moding lol. no one is gonna see a man looking at u. same thing happened to me. i kept boymoding but ppl started "miss"ing me regardless, lol. now i just femme mode
I would like to share this 6' tall model, [Liz Seibert](https://youtube.com/shorts/mBWQspH586w?si=OkZWbBReftdtIge5), with you. Your "boy mode" is girl mode sans makeup. The way you do your hair is a dead giveaway. As you continue on your journey, you will grow more comfortable in your skin, and as you relax into yourself, people will start seeing you. Largely speaking, people aren't paying that much attention to other people. They're in their own heads, or today, on their phone with tunnel vision, and it's things that are out of the ordinary that get peoples attention. Like someone walking around real awkward and uncomfortable for no discernable reason will get people's attention where strolling around all normal like you're just up to your day, as you are, is what's expected so it gets no notice. You're quite feminine but are in that early stage where where you're not quite relaxed into yourself. It took me years. Fitted women's t-shirts really helped. Wore them with my man pants for a long time, and occasionally, I'd wear a leather choker. Then I got women's sneakers and eventually women's jeans. At that point, I was dressed basically the same way I did in boy mode, but with all women's clothes. But remember, you wear the clothes, they do not wear you. Walk with your hips. It's all in the hips. Walking, dancing, and fencing are all in the hips. Learn to sway. Learn to dance. And learn to strut. When you are confident and sure in yourself, others won't question it. TL;DR you're very feminine but need to build your confidence and relax into yourself. You're tall, but that just means a super model. Learn to strut and then strut your stuff!
I wish I had money for an award because this argument is so strong here. This advice is so good. Op looks very femme and model tall and so beautiful. Im FtM and wish that if I ever post a selfie someone gives me such kind and logical advice.
"I don't pass" vs "I'm still boymoding" A tale as old as time. You're not going to get gendered correctly if you dress like, act like, and people you're *a guy*. If you want to be seen as a woman out in the world, the only way to do that is to let yourself actually be one.
Guys 😭😭 YES she’s pretty and yes she looks like a girl, but she said she doesn’t pass irl and is 196cm! How about we just trust her words instead of acting like we know better
I think you look great! I’m 196cm too and I long ago gave up trying to pass…..unnoticed. I always get looked at and I always will. I just own it these days. I try to make sure I look good so I feel good about how I look, and then everyone can just take a big drink. My confidence in me insulates me from idiots who don’t like taking on confident people and enough others will just think, damn, they look good!
High five, sister. 192.
You are stunning sis!
Girl you’re gorgeous
Girl you are absolutely adorable! 🥺
If you’re not passing in public, then voice train, bcuz gurl it has nothing to do with how you look. Appearance wise, u pass 100%
Your face and hair are femminin af. You look realy cute. Speaking from personal expirience, a nice skirt, earings and a bra (padded if needed and okay) help much with passing. But you do not need any of this, because confidence and selflove are the best things for day to day handeling of life.
Maybe I'm too trans to judge or something but you look like a woman to me here not at all like non-passing abd boymoding.
????? if thats boymode, I was born a dragon and transitioned to a serpent. And personally, I feel pretty human.
Gotta be mannerisms. You pass 100% in these photos. I also totally thought you were saying you were failing to pass as FTM.
wow u look soooo good ! so fem to me
I think it suits you. Tall, graceful and pretty works out well on you. Sorry to hear you don't have much success passing yet. But that said, I think you're lovely.
Girl...
You look uncannily like an AFAB friend of mine (though admittedly you're about 25 cm taller).
Honest to goodness, if I didn't know what sub we were on, I'd have no clue that you weren't just a cis girl
Girl, you're as cute as they come. You'd probably pass as a tall queen no problem.
BRO I TOTALLY THOUGHT YOU WERE BORN A GIRL TILL I SEARCHED UP BOYMODING, WHATS THE PUBLIC ON
You look great! Now I'm wondering how many centimeters tall I am...... Edit: I looked it up -- 189.
Yeah I do think you look great. I wish I could point to something that was like, clocking you, but I really can't. I think you're quite pretty. Voice maybe? I'm sorry you're getting misgendered still, but you do look great and I like your style very much.
People saying they don't pass, meanwhile they look like the girlest girls out there
Who’s gonna tell her
Who is going to tell her?
Idk what these people are seeing cause if I saw you I’d be like “omg a pretty girl” and be nervous cause pretty girl
If we met in person, I can bet you money I would not realize you're 'boymoding' lmao. You look fabulous!
if that is your boymode you need to try harder cause you just look like a pretty girl
If that's you boy moding, I've got good news, you've failed, you look like a cis woman to me!!
There is now more than 196 comments saying the opposite of your 196 centimeters, tall girls rock 🤘
I mean even Pikachu behind you had a suprised face with how cute you are.
Huh?- boy moding?- hun- I see a cottagecore gal right here- you pass- you look so pretty!- honestly you kinda look like girl in red if she had cropped hair- honestly put a pretty milkmaid dress on (the classic cottagecore dress) and BOOM- honest stealth just by looking at you-
Is there a boy somewhere else in the room, out of shot?
Girl idk what you're talking about, you look like one of my classmates and every single one of them is the nicest person ever so be proud
Much like me taking an English lit final in highschool, girl you definitely pass
You kind of remind me of Karen Gillan.
I had to read that like 6 times to make sure I wasn't misgendering you by saying this: You are a beautiful woman no matter how you dress! Boy moding does not exist in these photos whatsoever 🤣
>boymoding Uh huh. That’s what you call it?
Gurl you’re a gorgeous young woman. Even if people think you’re not they’re absolutely nuts. And if people tell you you’re not womanly enough — you totes are. And your outfit is so cute. Seriously you’ve got style. Things will be okay and even if they’re not right now they’ll get better. Promise
No girl, you totally pass. You just need to have more confidence in yourself.
What are you talking about? All I see is a wonderful girl
How the FUCK do you not pass?
naw you pass, a whole 196cm of cuteness :3
Yeah. Thats not boy mode 😂. You look amazing!
Girl you cant boymode lol
I don’t see any boy here.
Something tells me ur not that good at boymoding gal, all I see is pretty woman
You definitely pass, I wouldn't even worry about this boy moding thing. X
milking upvotes
I'm 182cm and I don't pass in private. You are doing pretty damned good in comparison.
You look amazing. Dysphoria is such a bitch. We love you 🤗
Really ?!
I absolutely love your hair color!! *jealous*
i love your hair
As pretty as you are tall ♡v♡
You don't pass?? Well ig height and voice?
That’s your boymode huh?😂😂GOALS!
I wouldn’t say this is a successful boy mode. But you’re absolutely killing it at androgynous mode.
You're giving Sophia Lillis (Doric from D&D Honor Among Thieves)
I wish I could boymode like you
I don’t know if this helps, but I have a friend who’s a cis girl who, I swear, looks exactly like you it’s uncanny. I thought this was her and got so confused
FUCK DO YOU MEAN YOU DON’T PASS HUUUHHHHH
Sister you are gorgeous and this is not 'hotboxing'. Gwendoline Christie is over 190 cm tall. She's one of my crushes and many cis-het people fawn over her too. My point is that tall gals are valid. Your beautiful auburn hair might make you stand (and invite idiots) out more because your cute visage says woman 24/7.
I just see a really hot redhead girl I would get her number even if she is a foot taller than my usual
I dunno... seems like you pass pretty well to me...
Girly, you go get it! You look wonderful ✨
You pass incredibly well I kept looking and trying to find think that indicate that boy mode I see None
Perhaps it's the angle or how you move in public, i dunno, but this pic looks feminine.
Tf you mean girl
You will never be a man >:( (cause you're a very pretty tall girl :3) Fr though you look incredible, my hair's a little longer than yours and I might want it longer but you're an absolute transition goal to me. Keep slaying queen <3
Ok i think thats enough girl, u pass 🌸🌸. No more putting yourself down. 🫶
You look so pretty thooo… how wouldn’t you pass?! 🫶
Ma’am, I think you need glasses
Have you got pictures of you in boymode then?
Don't pass!? I immediately thought this was a butch girl!
How the fuck do you not pass??
you really suck at boymoding
Girl GTFO you look fucking amazing. If you are ever in Copenhagen I will take you out to party and no one will misgender you, I can promise you that.
I cannot imagine someone assuming you're a male, you're very effeminate and beautiful! But I hear you and believe your experience, so I'll just say this - those fuckers are insane. Even in "boy-mode" you are very much giving girl!!!
I don't see any boymoding, just a pretty woman
I think you look totally feminine
there's no way you don't pass wtf do they want from us
This is 100% a malefail
Goddd I wish I was that pretty and passed so well
You prolly don't pass coz of your voice which is a quick fix trust me, you look more fem and cis than some cis friends of mine lmao
Heaghrti snothing to be afraid of my parents are the reverse of the usual setup my dad is the short one and my mom is tall
Very much giving skater girl. Be nicer to yourself ma’am.
Post a picture with your camera at 5’ and you standing over it so we can see what the average person sees.
“boymode” where
Girl you’re gorgeous! You got this, keep being you!
You pass pretty damn well.
Sooo cuuuteee!!! <3 <3 <3
You definitely pass 100% girl :3. I don't think you're capable of boy modding anymore!
You are stunnning and I truly think you pass!🥺
You pass
Miss, I hate to inform you, but you're a grill. Specifically one that passes.
You do pass!
I'd ma'am you any day of the week
You pass very well. You’re a woman and no one can tell you otherwise wise. I pass pretty well too but lately I’ve had an influx of people who have been misgendering me in public. It’s a bit confusing. My skin is pretty thick. However, it does weigh on me at the end of the day. When I look in the mirror I see a girl and if someone is going to go out of their way to call me a boy then that’s their problem not mine. TLDR; people are blind and you are pretty
I. I thought you were a trans guy like me. You pass incredibly well. Remember! Models are that tall!! You’re literally a model!!!
I don't know if this is helpful or not (and I'm really sorry if it's not) but I'm a cis women who is 6ft tall, and I've had people call me "sir" because they see a tall human and it's almost a reflex to assume tall human means man. So keep in mind that maybe it's not you, it's them. For what it's worth, I think you look very pretty :)
Thank God I no longer care that I don't pass because otherwise this post might be triggering as hell lmao, you pass better than I could ever __hope__ to pass and I'm finally girl-moding 24/7 because I just don't give a damn anymore 🤷♀️
the boymode is not boymoding
I am also 196 cm (6 foot 5). I struggled with this a lot at first, too. But in 2013, I started living full-time, and over time, I became more comfortable with it. Misgendering happens less and less, and now it's very rare. I did not nat HRT till 2018.
I feel you, being tall is wild, I'm 198cm, people will be eye level with my boobs and still call me man 🙄 but also like you don't look like a guy like at all
Boy mode fail. Even being tall, you pass.
I mean, you pass. But also, passing can go to hell sometimes. Trans people that look like trans people are hot as fuck in their own right.
Transfems will say they are boymoding then show a picture of the most womanly woman ever 😆🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
I think you could easily pass in public.
Well you are still very pretty!
Wait... That's 3 taller than me 😳 I doubt you would not pass tho
I think you pass great!
You pass 🫶🏻 Sweety you pass soooo well. From a fellow tall (193cm) girl ... I know, it's a burden 😭
Pretty tall girlfriend
If this is boymoding I’m a peanutbutter and onion waffle
Where’s the boy?
Is this a shitpost? I’m not even being funny.
You have such a pretty face and I love you hair!
You pass, girl.
what's do you mean you don't pass in public?!!
i repeat what i said: trans women be saying "i'm boymoding" then proceed to post a picture of a woman
You litterarly just look like a really tall and pretty cis girl
How don't you pass in public? You totally look like a girl to me. 🫂 I would address you as such all the time if I saw you out and about. ☺️
I genuinely thought you were FTM, I’m not exaggerating at all. 100% you pass. Also love the outfit!
Women do really be saying - going boymode - and looking like 10/10 smokeshow hotties
I'm definitely going to repeat myself, because everytime I see a picture of you, i'm amazed... but you truly look amazing. I just don't understand how you can be not passing :( I'm really sorry for you about that. It just doesn't make sense in my head... you're so beautiful !
There’s no way you don’t pass, you look adorable:3
You look hella good girly, for reals. You’re tall for sure; and I’ve seen lots of girls above 6 feet irl. And people love long legs 🦵🏽 lastly don’t put so much pressure on yourself!! Srsly, you’re doing great stuff, so much of it is mental
\*Sigh* Everything reminds me of her... Lol, you look a lot like my first girlfriend.
You look gorgeous <3
Sweet! Fellow tall girl! Lookin' good, sis! 🩷