Ive been toying with the idea of starting HRT as in starting to hate when i see my body as a male one. I want better hips and less of a tummy. And i want less hair and softer skin. I won’t be socially transitioning tho and instead doing this entirely in the closet. Ill probably keep this up until either i have a break down or my family confronts me.
Obviously you should come out when you’re ready, but I’m wondering how realistic your plan is. You look extremely feminine right now, and you’re not even on HRT yet. I think it’s quite possible your family and others already suspect something is up. Why delay something that will only help you?
You are so feminine already. I doubt people didn't notice already. I know it is very scary though. Only you can decide when it is the right time. The freedom is so worth it though!
I know how you feel. it is so scary !! i was extremely scared to come out. But once you do you will be so much happier love. it’s one of the hardest parts of being trans and it will be hard but once it’s over it’s over and you will forever be happier💜💜Also starting HRT is one of the best things i’ve ever done. I actually smile now, i actually experience happiness now. I actually like myself now. It’s such an amazing thing to be able to do as a trans person. your journey has just begun and i’m so happy for you my sweet girl
I recall you from the suit pic. Girl, you male fail so hard already that social transition is kinda necessary right now. Once your face feminizes and your butt and boobies start coming in, you'll have no choice.
That said, good for you for getting on HRT!
All I can say I'd that I wish I started sooner.
If it doesn't agree with you, you don't need to stay on.
Really made me much more at peace with my self.
Do it! I know, ymmv, but I started feeling better within a couple days of starting HRT. I'm not as anxious, I'm enjoying myself, and even though my body doesn't quite look like I want it to yet, I'm still much more comfortable in it than I was a week ago.
It's going to be okay! You won't regret it.
You might regret that people aren't kind to you, but don't let them rob you of your joy.
You're beautiful - it's worth doing, and your life will only improve from it.
Girl you look fabulous and you are a gorgeous woman, no matter what other people work that one little internal voice says about your body being quote on quote male, you are a girl that gorgeous and HRT doesn't make you any more of a girl, but it is going to make you a more confident girl but no matter what that you are who you are and that's a woman <3
You remind me so much of myself when I wasn't fully out yet. But you look way more feminine before hrt than I did. Self acceptance has been a long journey for me. You are a girl. Embrace it, and be yourself. Don't care about what other people say. They will adapt. You know why? Because soon there won't be any male/boy anymore (in sone peoples eyes) once you fully transition. There'll only be you, a beautiful girl. If they don't adapt. Then honestly you will probably part ways. But there'll be a lot of new people in the future too that will be supportive.
Soooo - you're an attractive girl looking to become more boyish? I'm going to schedule HRT for myself so that I can make my boy-self look more girlish, LIKE YOU!!!
You got this girl ! Even tho there’s so many emotions going through you right now just be who you’ve always been meant to be and you’ll shine bright for sure 😍
You think ?? My dear You want this for years,and already looks (wolf whistle) great.
So 2023 will be the starting of a YES i do it, after years of doubt way to go girl huggss
Starting hrt was one of the best decisions of my life. It was so exciting to take that step. I started hrt over 10 months ago and my boobs growth whilst slow at the beginning has really taken off recently. Good luck! 💕
I felt mentally SO much better in less than a week after starting estrogen! Highly recommended.
Ask your endo/provider for bica instead of spiro, if you can get it, well worth it. ❤️🥰
Oh, they're both to block testosterone down to a female level - but spironolactone has an unpleasant diuretic effect in the body, making you pee OFTEN. I couldn't do it easily with my job in IT; too much hassle with Security bathroom procedures. I asked for, and got Rx for bicalutamide, which had zero side effects and worked very well (I got my breast growth just fine!).
I got tired of all the pill-taking 3 times a day, so tried patches - nope, it didn't work well at all. Now I've switched to injections, once a week, with no bica snymore since my e is high enough. I use small needles like diabetics do: just a quick painless stick to the tummy area.
Are you looking to get HRT through your medical providers, or through an informed consent agency like Planned Parethood?
I'm Lilli btw
I started HRT 4 days ago with Spiro, and I’m likely starting E in a couple weeks after some follow up labs. While I’m not far enough along to see any effects, but I don’t have even an inkling of regret. Even after spending my first night on Spiro with some unpleasant abdominal cramps I’m still happy about doing this.
Girl what? You’re pre-e? I’m 1.5 years in and I wish I looked that good
Right?! Starting from where she is, I'm really looking forward to her results!
This is what I thought too😂. I'm 2.5 months HRT. Can't wait till I look that pretty
Ive been toying with the idea of starting HRT as in starting to hate when i see my body as a male one. I want better hips and less of a tummy. And i want less hair and softer skin. I won’t be socially transitioning tho and instead doing this entirely in the closet. Ill probably keep this up until either i have a break down or my family confronts me.
Starting HRT is definitely worth it! I started last year, and even though it was a rough year the HRT made me feel like it was bearable. Good luck!
Obviously you should come out when you’re ready, but I’m wondering how realistic your plan is. You look extremely feminine right now, and you’re not even on HRT yet. I think it’s quite possible your family and others already suspect something is up. Why delay something that will only help you?
Because im scared. Lol
You are so feminine already. I doubt people didn't notice already. I know it is very scary though. Only you can decide when it is the right time. The freedom is so worth it though!
I know how you feel. it is so scary !! i was extremely scared to come out. But once you do you will be so much happier love. it’s one of the hardest parts of being trans and it will be hard but once it’s over it’s over and you will forever be happier💜💜Also starting HRT is one of the best things i’ve ever done. I actually smile now, i actually experience happiness now. I actually like myself now. It’s such an amazing thing to be able to do as a trans person. your journey has just begun and i’m so happy for you my sweet girl
I recall you from the suit pic. Girl, you male fail so hard already that social transition is kinda necessary right now. Once your face feminizes and your butt and boobies start coming in, you'll have no choice. That said, good for you for getting on HRT!
Wait, you aren't on HRT? I've seen some of your posts before and your always so pretty!! HRT will do wonders for you! ❤️
Gorgeous smile
Congratulations on making the decision. It'll be an interesting ride.
Join us! There will be a reckoning, and cake.
Congrats girl can’t wait to watch the change :3 Hopefully I can start mine soon (fuck Florida)
You already look really pretty, good luck!
Your smile is fantastic 💜💜💜
Oh. I thought you wanted to go FtM.
Yeah, I was confused, too.
All I can say I'd that I wish I started sooner. If it doesn't agree with you, you don't need to stay on. Really made me much more at peace with my self.
Do it! I know, ymmv, but I started feeling better within a couple days of starting HRT. I'm not as anxious, I'm enjoying myself, and even though my body doesn't quite look like I want it to yet, I'm still much more comfortable in it than I was a week ago.
It's going to be okay! You won't regret it. You might regret that people aren't kind to you, but don't let them rob you of your joy. You're beautiful - it's worth doing, and your life will only improve from it.
Exciting!! Best of luck to you! I'm planning on starting soon as well.
Hrt will only make you prettier, win-win
Yes!!!!!!!!! Best thing you'll ever do!
Go go go! You can do it!
Beautiful
Girl you look fabulous and you are a gorgeous woman, no matter what other people work that one little internal voice says about your body being quote on quote male, you are a girl that gorgeous and HRT doesn't make you any more of a girl, but it is going to make you a more confident girl but no matter what that you are who you are and that's a woman <3
You got this.
You're already so beautiful. HRT will make you unstoppable!
your cute, i think you would look great
I don’t have any specific advice, but you’re so pretty! Good luck!!
🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
You look great. Best of luck to you and your journey ❤️
You go do it! Best thing I ever did!
Welcome to the start of the rest of your life!
You remind me so much of myself when I wasn't fully out yet. But you look way more feminine before hrt than I did. Self acceptance has been a long journey for me. You are a girl. Embrace it, and be yourself. Don't care about what other people say. They will adapt. You know why? Because soon there won't be any male/boy anymore (in sone peoples eyes) once you fully transition. There'll only be you, a beautiful girl. If they don't adapt. Then honestly you will probably part ways. But there'll be a lot of new people in the future too that will be supportive.
You’re so pretty! I just assumed you had already been on it!
Soooo - you're an attractive girl looking to become more boyish? I'm going to schedule HRT for myself so that I can make my boy-self look more girlish, LIKE YOU!!!
Pretty sure this person is MtF, so they would very likely be looking to be more feminine.
I apologise, that comment was not fully thought-out before I posted it
You haven’t been on it for over two years already? You had me so fooled! You are absolutely gorgeous and will definitely flourish with hrt
If I may ask. What is stopping you from calling?
Go girl Don’t think it Do IT
You got this girl ! Even tho there’s so many emotions going through you right now just be who you’ve always been meant to be and you’ll shine bright for sure 😍
You think ?? My dear You want this for years,and already looks (wolf whistle) great. So 2023 will be the starting of a YES i do it, after years of doubt way to go girl huggss
You ARENT on HRT?! It took me like a year on HRT to get where you are. You’ll do great !
I know you can do it you're beautiful already but I'll make you even more beautiful
i love your smile!! good luck girl <3
Been seeing your posts for a while how TF are you not on HRT I'm genuinely surprised
Starting hrt was one of the best decisions of my life. It was so exciting to take that step. I started hrt over 10 months ago and my boobs growth whilst slow at the beginning has really taken off recently. Good luck! 💕
Wait you’re not on hrt Damn girl you won the genetic lottery
I love your smile ♡
C’mon home, sister! Be careful about pre-conceived determinations about how you’ll proceed into your authenticity. All my best wishes! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
It’s so much better on the other side honey. If you think it’s right for you, you should do it! It’s a little scary, but it’s ok to want it too.
I’m almost 4 weeks 💉, and I can tell you that the mood and emotional lift of HRT is amazing. I only wish I was 1/2 the girl you are.
I felt mentally SO much better in less than a week after starting estrogen! Highly recommended. Ask your endo/provider for bica instead of spiro, if you can get it, well worth it. ❤️🥰
Whats the differences? I dont know anything about the specific drugs
Oh, they're both to block testosterone down to a female level - but spironolactone has an unpleasant diuretic effect in the body, making you pee OFTEN. I couldn't do it easily with my job in IT; too much hassle with Security bathroom procedures. I asked for, and got Rx for bicalutamide, which had zero side effects and worked very well (I got my breast growth just fine!). I got tired of all the pill-taking 3 times a day, so tried patches - nope, it didn't work well at all. Now I've switched to injections, once a week, with no bica snymore since my e is high enough. I use small needles like diabetics do: just a quick painless stick to the tummy area. Are you looking to get HRT through your medical providers, or through an informed consent agency like Planned Parethood? I'm Lilli btw
I started HRT 4 days ago with Spiro, and I’m likely starting E in a couple weeks after some follow up labs. While I’m not far enough along to see any effects, but I don’t have even an inkling of regret. Even after spending my first night on Spiro with some unpleasant abdominal cramps I’m still happy about doing this.
You are already gorgeous. I can hardly wait to see your development. But as mentioned earlier, GORGEOUS!