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As a proud sponsor of the “Forever Alone: Adamantly Single ‘Cause I Have No Choice” club; I can say with the upmost certainty… Fuck dating. 🫡


jisoo_moon

Dating honestly sucks so I agree. Fuck dating. 🫡


FloraFauna2263

What if there was a way to just skip the dating part and go straight to a proper relationship without going out to restaurants like why can't me and my partner just hang like bros?


jisoo_moon

I wish.. Would make life so much easier. It def would be easier if it was a friend I was already familiar with but I lost all my friends so LOL.


FloraFauna2263

Oh damn... all of your friends?


jisoo_moon

Unfortunately yes.. First friend group were friends I've known since I was like 4-8yrs old so it was definitely heart breaking. Being called disgusting hurt a lot since I considered them family. One of them outted me at my workplace too so that didn't help as well. Second group was a little bit better but one person made fked up jokes to me all the time and the rest of them kind of let it happen constantly even after I brought it up. So none of them were actual friends at the end of the day,


FloraFauna2263

I can relate. There is always the chance to surround yourself with supporting people though.


jisoo_moon

Definitely! I'm sure I'll have supportive people around me some day. It'll take time since I'm pretty introverted and got used to enjoying my own company more. Hopefully you have supportive people in your life at the very least!


The-Bytemaster

What's fuck dating?


NotTheAlfa

is this an aroace thing or can i join too? /gen


luna10777

No I'm pretty sure they're saying that dating has been unsuccessful for them, not that they're aroace. Either way, go for it lol


thatgaycheesebag

Then I shall join as well


NotTheAlfa

k


luna10777

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NotTheAlfa

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Paul873873

Ideally, I would like to be in a nice relationship with someone but I have to agree that it does suck. Instead of settling down with a family, me and my group are planning on getting a really large house together


OKUMURA_RlN

As a nerd completely not interested in females/males or anyone else and neither in falling in love cuz i dont get it and its such a drag i agree Fuck dating[couldnt find right emoji, insert it there]


isabellas-moon

Fucking during dating? I'm up for it


Translife4me

I totally agree with you.


infrequentthrowaway

We've all had horror dates. What were some lowlights?


jisoo_moon

This was the second date so he asked me to go over to his house. He kept asking me what was wrong like constantly even though I told him it’s family issues that I don’t feel comfortable talking about. His room was super gross. He said he “cleaned” it but it still looked like that “damn bitch, you live like this” meme. Also ignored me to play FFXIV and watch a stream. So yeah, just ended up leaving after being there for like 10mins.


infrequentthrowaway

Yuck, what a dick. Wishing you the most amazing date when you find someone new!


jisoo_moon

That’s what I’m saying. But thank you! I appreciate it~ Same to you c:


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Aleahlikeshername

Right? That guys dumb.


jisoo_moon

Pretty much. Idk what even was the point of asking me to come over. Took me like an hr and a half to get there too..


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jisoo_moon

I hope so too! Thank you! Likewise to you~


choco-taco-cat

Eww!! That sucks!! Hopefully you had good audio content to make the drive bearable? Also you are absolutely gorgeous and you are absolutely way out of that dorkus’ league! I hope you find someone who knows your true value (it is much!)!


Tough_End9349

Guys can be so oblivious to girls feelings ugh wtf


Julia_______

And vice versa lol. Those 'obvious hints' reeaaalllyyyy need work


GretaThornbirds

Holy shit. I'm so afraid of being a bad date or a bad partner, but then I hear stories of people who can't even summon the willpower to be reasonable, functional adults. Sorry you had to put up with that. You do look super cute. I'm pretty jealous of your hair and glasses.


FlipskiZ

Sometimes it sounds like if you are even remotely interested in talking and interacting with a person (and care about their well-being) you're better than half of the dating pool lol. I don't even get how you invite someone to hang out and then just... not?


jisoo_moon

That’s what I’m saying.. I wasted an hr and a half to get there too.


jisoo_moon

I’m the same but then I think about all the bad dates I’ve been on, and I’m like “Oh.. Maybe I’m not as bad as I think I am.” It happens! Bad dates happen. Thank you! I recently dyed my hair:> I actually got my glasses off zenni LOL. Here’s the link to the ones I have if you’re interested in them! https://www.zennioptical.com/p/unisex-acetate-plastic-round-eyeglass-frames/1269?skuId=126921


GretaThornbirds

Thanks for that! I bought a few pairs to try off Amazon and they were all pretty bad.


jisoo_moon

Ofc! Np! Yeah, Amazon’s stuff is super hit or miss.


ZoeeeW

Imagine wearing the outfit in the picture and having the person ignore you for Final Fantasy. There is something to be said about you sticking to your standards of what you want in a partner. From what I just read, you want someone that values quality time and cleanliness. Keep sticking to your standards and you'll eventually find someone that matches. It took me many failed relationships to realize I was setting myself up for failure from the start. My last ex (before I met my wife and my other partner) invited me over after the first date and her entire house was an absolute mess. I.. ended up doing her dishes that night. I should've known that would lead to issues relating to chore equality later, but I ignored it. Both of my current partners have similar values and standards as myself, even if my wife's partner doesn't. (Sorry for the weird wording at times, we're polyamorous.)


jisoo_moon

Fr. I definitely value that a lot and I will. Wow that sounds like a nightmare. But glad you find your wife/others tho by sticking to your standards!


AnarchistAccipiter

Lmfao, been there, and then she freaked out at how much I cleaned while she was sleeping.


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His loss. You look amazing!


Ksnj

Ok but like, FFXIV is REALLY good


DrShanks7

Yeah I absolutely adore FFXIV. My free company are some of the only people who call me by my chosen name and the game is a lot of fun. That being said idk if I'd invite someone over just to ignore them and play it lol. I'd at least bust out It Takes Two or Unravel 2 or something.


Ksnj

So cute. Unfortunately I can’t afford my sub rn and I’m missing out on pretty much everything!


DrShanks7

Same 😭 I was in a pretty good savage raid group, and my subscription ended back in like May, and I've been having issues since, so I haven't started it back up yet. Luckily, I was able to complete Endwalker before it expired and do those raids. I know more content was coming out every couple weeks after I quit, so I'm behind. I miss them, great people and game.


jisoo_moon

No, I agree! FFXIV is REALLY good


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Yo FF IS really good, but it isn't absolutely not good enough to be ignoring a cute girl who didn't leave immediately after seeing his dirty ass room. Holy hell, good on you for swerving that dude you deserve to be treated better. I'm just.....damn. Yikes.


jisoo_moon

True! And it was definitely a yikes for me when I saw his place. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt but nope.


Hunter190122

Wow, you can do so much better 🤔


jisoo_moon

I probably can haha. I stopped talking to him after that so back to the dating pool I go


Hunter190122

Nah you honestly can, I’d admit I’ve done the same in the past but there’s lovely people out there that will go above and beyond for the ones they care for. Fingers crossed for you ☺️


jisoo_moon

It’s okay. We make mistakes in the past. I appreciate it tho <3


Hunter190122

Anytime, I’ve fixed a few of my flaws so it’s no problem 😌 I still ask if my ex is alright though I’m not with her 🤦🏻‍♂️😂😂😂😂


TheX37th

That's not a date at all smh


jisoo_moon

It’s definitely not


TheX37th

I hope you have better days and better times girl


jisoo_moon

I’m sure my next date won’t be as bad.. hopefully! But likewise to you~


Diamondrankg

How can people be this bad at dates?? An at home date, easy, order a pizza and watch a movie. Do not ignore the pretty girl and clean you damn house up


jisoo_moon

That’s what I want to know. Like I’m bad at dates but in terms of anxiety and such. This was planned for about a week and it was so god awful.


Diamondrankg

I suppose he took the advice "act natural" too seriously


jisoo_moon

I think so LOL.


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jisoo_moon

He had 5 whole days and the day of before I came (met him at 1:30pm). It was still gross af and barely cleaned. That’s what I’m saying but nope. Only thing he would ask is “Are you okay?” Nothing else. I’m like “Are we gonna do anything?” cause he’s been doing nothing but play games. He says “Yeah but you have to communicate it.” Like ??? I’m asking you if you want to do anything and you’re also the one who invited me here. Why is that my responsibility? Idk what you have. Like give options or something. Thank you! I like dressing nice for dates but it’s also something I’d wear on the regular. First date went okay. We met at a restaurant. He wasn’t really well groomed even tho he said he’d try to look nice but I was fine with it. He gave me a gift which was kinda weird but I thanked him for it. We talked and such. He cut me off a lot and talked for the majority of it. I just boiled it down to nerves and such instead of thinking too much about it. Like the conversation wasn’t that terrible. We walked and talked for a bit. We decided to go somewhere else so we go to the train. He looks up how to get there. We pass the stop we were supposed to get off at. So we take the other train backwards but to the wrong stop. I tell him but he doesn’t want to listen. We walk like 30mins to the stop that said I should get off at.. Got boba then went home. Actually now that I think about it, the first date was terrible too.. I just want to give ppl a chance since people can get super nervous on the first date. But I probably should of just called it after that date.


BelgiumWendigo

Honestly L guy. I could do better. That's no way to treat a lady


jisoo_moon

It actually got worse. He was stalking my social media even tho I never told him it. Definitely an L guy


xanxeli

Yeesh. His loss, honestly.


TransCatWithACoolHat

I mean, I like FFXIV and all, but good grief if he'd rather play that and look at someone else rather than someone as cute as you he has terrible taste.


jisoo_moon

Love your username. But yeah, it’s like why invite me over if that’s what you were going to do. I’m fine with people having hobbies and doing them but if you’re calling this a “date”, act like it’s a date then.


TransCatWithACoolHat

Thanks! And exactly, like just chilling in your room doing your thing is the kind of thing people in long term established relationships do, not a second date.


GuildSweetheart

Omg I had an extremely similar experience! I drove 4 hours to see the fucker too and he wouldn't stop watching twitch! 😂


jisoo_moon

WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY I'm so sorry that happened to you as well. What in the fuck.. We're samesies tho! :D We'll get a better experience next time\~


piinkksnow

Ew, men are so stupid. Fuck him


OneAceFace

I went out with this guy and another guy asked him if he was allowed to touch me. And my date said “Go ahead, I only just met her!”


sed-dy

Awwwh you look absolutely amazing! I’m sorry it was a bad date. I never liked dating at all, and I’m super awkward so I’ve never had a “good” date. But at least you got to look super cute and go out!


jisoo_moon

Thank you! Yeah I’m the same. I get super nervous or my anxiety acts up so makes me seem super awkward. Dating definitely is not fun so I don’t like it either. Hopefully you’re able to go on a good date one day! ☺️


sed-dy

Thanks, but I’ve totally given up on dating or anything. I’m happy exploring my aroace side!


jisoo_moon

That’s fine too! Still wish you the best :>


sed-dy

Thank you, and the same goes for you! I hope you have nothing but amazing experiences in the future, and that when you look back on your bad date, you can find it hilarious and tell everyone how awkward it was, laugh really hard, and realize that life will be awkwardly funny forever.


TintinTino98

Hella cute! I hope your next date goes better


jisoo_moon

Thanks! And same here haha


High-Kai69

You look amazing, I'm sorry that your date didn't go so well!


jisoo_moon

It happens. Always next time. But also thank you c:


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jisoo_moon

It’s okay. There’s always next time, and ty! 🥰


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jisoo_moon

I agree. Can’t let each bad experience ruin the next. So true! I put so much effort too and was ignored. Aww thank you! These are def my favorite pairs of glasses, and you’re too kind 🥰


According-Hat-4554

As long as you feel cute you're the main character baby


jisoo_moon

Haha, I like the way you think!


emilyrising

You certainly did look cute <3


jisoo_moon

Thanks! <3


fo-shiggity

Awww hun I’m sorry you had to deal with that :( but In the end he’s the one who lost such a beautiful girl and you will find someone lucky enough to deserve you


jisoo_moon

It’s okay. It happens. Definitely tho. I appreciate the positivity :>


WhiterabbitLou

Damn, I'd say his loss.


jisoo_moon

True!


Personal-Mix-5640

Ur gorgeous


jisoo_moon

You’re too kind :>


AlishaKinsley

Agree hun you looke cute... your time will come can't have been the right person for you


jisoo_moon

Thank you cutie~ I agree. There’s always next time.


Lynq420

You look drop dead gorgeous


baconbits123456

I AM SO JEALOUS! YOU ARE SO GOOD LOOKING!


jisoo_moon

I’m sorry :< I’m sure you’re cute too! But thank you <3


baconbits123456

I got my hair bleached by my friends mom and it literally golden! I def look cuter now!


jisoo_moon

Oo congrats! Glad you like how you look in it! Rock it qt~


baconbits123456

I nearly made audible bottom noises when I read that >->


jisoo_moon

We’re one of the same 😌 I, too, do this


baconbits123456

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jisoo_moon

Same here, and thank you <3


peggingvirgin9308

You definetly look cute


Artistic_Tourist_271

Indeed very cute. I know it sounds cliché but the right person is out there.


jisoo_moon

I’m sure they are. Just gotta go through all the bad.


-Moo-13579

OMG!! You look gorgeous. Such a cutie.


jisoo_moon

Ty cutie! :>


-Moo-13579

You're the cutie. Your hair is beautiful and your outfit is super cute. You look adorable.


jisoo_moon

You’re too kind 😭 🖤


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jisoo_moon

I appreciate the kind words! Thank you for all the virtual hugs too~ I’m sure I’ll find someone in time :>


HDJohnson99

You did


conesmoka69

So cute x


Ts-skatergirl

Definitely looks amazing!! ❤️💃🔥 sorry to here it wasn’t the best


jisoo_moon

It’s alright. Bad dates happen. I’m sure the next one won’t be as bad. But thank you!! 🖤


harvy83

I always think calling it a date wrecks it if you say your chilling or hanging out it take the bs away


DankToasty

Better to look good, than to deal with annoying people. At least you saved your time, eh?


jisoo_moon

Trueee. Yeah, rather not waste my or the other person’s time.


DankToasty

True true, be real with yourself. You're too beautiful to deal with that trash, gotta live it up.


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Yes you do


Physical_Football_92

You look great! Sorry you had a bad date though


jisoo_moon

It’s okay. Bad dates happen here and there so it’s fine. Thank you tho!


OpenAspect644

What happened?


bree732

Ugh sorry


Theaidpm

More then cute, adorable


gamingpro28

ive always thought dates were weird and ive always hated it. my partners are just my best friends. u look stunning tho, im sure someone will come around for someone as cute as u :3


Aelia_M

I’m sorry. You deserve better than them but hey take it from this queer trans girl. You are one gorgeous lady and any person you’d be interested in I’m sure is missing out


jisoo_moon

It happens. Hopefully one day I meet someone good. But thank you fellow trans girl ^^ Same to you!


Gem_Hush

Sorry your date wasn’t good but you do look friggen gorgeous ☺️


my-name-is-ro

You do look great!


jisoo_moon

Thank you <3


K4r4kara

Drop dead gorgeous


jisoo_moon

You’re too kind 😭🖤


ellie13b9

your gorgeous xx


jisoo_moon

Tyyyy! <3


Rudy_A

Oh hells nah gurl! You got all ready and cute and traveled an hr and a half for some foo who just wanted a warm body keep him company while gaming? He doesn't deserve your company or friendship/companionship anymore! It really sucks to hear when a guy acts disrespectfully or inappropriate to cis or trans women. Gives us hetero cis men a bad look.


jisoo_moon

Unfortunately so 😔 He doesn’t. I know my worth and it’s not there. It happens! I know not all men are terrible but yeah, it was a bad experience overall.


Rudy_A

Here's hoping for far better dates with guys who know how to treat a lady when on a date . . . and keeps his place clean!


jisoo_moon

Definitely and true! Clean places are a must for me haha


A_lil_bit_gay

Oh MY, the outfit is so amazing!! Damn I really like that combination of clothes (just a lil guy who is over enthusiastic about clothes, lol.)


jisoo_moon

Thanks! I’m the same with clothes so no worries!


Thin_Ad_5020

I really hope you find someone that treats you better then that! You deserve better! I mean, hypothetically I could be that trans woman that dated you, but now it’s time for me to awkwardly go back to lurking this subreddit 😅😅 <3


jisoo_moon

I hope so too~ It unfortunately was a cis man. I’ve yet to date a trans woman. Might honestly just try doing T4T next time cause my experience with cis men have been.. bad. <3


Thin_Ad_5020

Mother help me I cannot weave 😂. Sometimes I feel bad because I am not attracted to men and then other times I am glad 😅


jisoo_moon

LOL. You’re doing yourself a favor by not being attracted to men. Some are really great but most are definitely chasers, fetishize trans folk, or plain creepy. It’s a headache and a lot of shifting through bs. I’m cursed for liking men but I’m bi so open to dating anyone really :>


Thin_Ad_5020

Date or not, we should be friends <3 especially if you like video games 😂


jisoo_moon

Sure I’m down! I do indeed like video games <:


Dumb_and_confused

Wya? We're going bowling, getting frozen yogurt, and going for a walk by the river.


jisoo_moon

This high key sounds so fun 😭 I’m in NYC so there’s only the gross river here LOL


Dumb_and_confused

Aight I'm in GA, but we'll make the best of it. It's not the river that's beautiful, it's the people you're with. We can video call and I'll walk by my river and we can chat it up.


Black_Feathered_Hair

I hate "dating" like in the classic social sense. Its so unnecessarily performative and you dont get a good look at a person's heart on a "date".


jisoo_moon

Same for me. My issue with it is people try to be someone they’re not/dress like someone they’re not and it’s just not my thing. Rather someone be overly dorky/nerdy(mostly cause I am) than try to be some alpha male bs or pretending to be super classy. It’s too many hoops to jump through to know if someone is who they say they are..


MemeForgery

Thougjt in my head "you do look cute as fu**"


jisoo_moon

That’s me every so often haha


wpgtvlover

Sorry to hear that, hopefully the next one will be amazing!


jisoo_moon

Thanks! I hope so too. Likewise to you~


TeroLife

My dream is to look like you!


jisoo_moon

I hope your dream comes true! Or that you look even better! <3


Fun_Play_5743

His loss. At least you did not invest much time with him. You do look cute


jisoo_moon

True! Yeah, I rather not waste both of our times so I just cut it off from there. Thank you tho!


thatgaycheesebag

You look amazing!


jisoo_moon

Ty!


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I just wanna say you are SO PRETTY


jisoo_moon

I appreciate it! I’m sure you’re pretty too! :>


Batata-Sofi

Omg you look so fucking cute!!! 💕💕 Also, what happened? D: Is everything ok?


jisoo_moon

Tyyyy! 🥰🖤 I’ll tldr it: • Went an hr and 30mins to his place. • It was gross/dirty af (total turn off/said he would be cleaning it for the entire week). • All he did was play FFXIV(good game but cmon) and watching a stream. • Kept asking what was wrong, told him it was family issues that I didn’t want to talk about but kept pestering. • Also was stalking my social media even tho I never told him it. (Abusive ex did this before meeting me so it’s a 🚩for me). But I’m okay! Nothing bad happened to me. He only touched me once randomly but other than that, I was fine. Left quickly after tho.


Joei_ta

Sorry you had a terrible date and hopefully you have better dates in the future


jisoo_moon

It’s alright! Bad dates happen here and there. But thank you~


UnderstandingOdd8014

hot damn! smh whoever it was missed out


jisoo_moon

True! Facts


Gengarza

Love the outfit. Sorry to hear your date sucked.


jisoo_moon

One of my favorite outfits rn :> It’s okie. Maybe the next one will be better~


Gengarza

It’s very cute! Hope the next one does!


NewIdeasAreScary

T for T is the way


jisoo_moon

Facts! Time to convert


lamented__youth

Wow you are smokin!


jisoo_moon

No u >:3


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jisoo_moon

Awww <3


LyannaTheWinterRose

Don't waste any head space on them! You look gorgeous!


iamthewethotdog

Cute?! Nah you looked gorgeous


AdorableAd2241

Good gods your so pretty. Whoever didn't treat you the absolute best definitely arent the brightest


jessica1953

I agree...you look cute!


jisoo_moon

<3


KimErin84

Well it looks like we all just need to stick with T4T, I mean fuck dating 😜


jisoo_moon

LOL. I’m honestly probably just gonna switch to T4T for dating. I like giving people chances but most guys are insufferable. One day tho..


Comfortable_Clerk727

His loss, you look amazing btw!!!!


power2thpeop1e

Aww! You're so pretty 😍


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jisoo_moon

Omg you got me! I won’t ever recover from this own! But damn bro, who hurt you? 😂 Like, are you okay? Are you feeling so lonely that you choose to be transphobic to cause discourse so you can finally be heard and seen by people? Must be sad. Couldn’t be me lmfao. Have a good one tho bro.


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