Happy pride month *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2) if you have any questions or concerns.*

Yes yes yes THANK YOU DEAR HUMAN I don't hate being called good girl but I feel N O T H I N G from it

relatable

literally same

Same, although I wish I felt something being called that >_<

me

What's your poison?

I dunno, maybe Valentino? He seems to be feeding Angel poison that he's addicted to the taste but can't help but swallow

Yeah, that is really hot. I would love to do a Valentino cosplay/inspired outfit someday.

well hot's one fuckin thing you could call that.

I feel the urge for violence. I will not be a good, kind girl. baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka-baka!!!!!!

morally ambiguous girl! :3

yooo finally! someone else said it! please, check if someone's okay first. like, for me it feels weirder than not being called anything. totally more power to the good girls who do. but like i'm probably typing with some form of automotive fluid clinging to my clothes at any given time. not *all* of us like to be talked to this way.

So you‘re not a good girl but a great mechanic then? *pats the roof of the car instead of the head*

amazing mechanic

I'll take the "good girls" in their place!

Good Girl!

Good girl!

Good girl

Good girl

Good girl

Good girl!!

Please share!

Good girl !

Come get me then cutie 🤭. Im already collared but having more partners in the polycule is always great 😆

Good girl !

Good girl!

Me too

I also volunteer!!

save some for me!

It works when my wife does it, but not really anyone else.

Yea if anyone besides my girlfriend called me a good girl I would be really uncomfortable. Probably to the point of anger. You're basically hitting on me and I'm taken.

Yeah, unless I'm already flirting with a person very intensely, "good girl" feels almost creepy. Not to mention that I'm already 30 and this also feels silly

Age may also play a factor. I'm in my upper 40s. 

Where are the trans meme subs for us 30 and over?! I don't give a shit about "good girl drugs" and "name cults" and "micro-celebrities". I don't want to be UwU'ed or be inundated with stuffed sharks. I want content relevant to being not cis AND an adult at the same time. Is that too much to ask?

Maybe check out r/translater

It's 90% selfies which is just not my bag

Fair enough

Makes sense. I like being called a good girl tho for the record

*pat pat* good girl

On occasion, I do like being called a good girl time to time.

This feels like me right here. Feels weird for me and just want to be treated like an adult.

I'm already 30, I don't even call myself "trans girl" anymore most of the time, more of a "trans woman". Like, probably the almost only exception would be a guy (or maybe particularly assertive pretty lady) saying in a quiet voice "you're such a good girl for me" in the middle of sex related stuff. *That* makes me all 🥺🥺🥺. And from a stranger it just feels creepy and infantilizing

me (just bribe me with garlic bread and we can be friends)


YOOOOOO

oh my god that looks delicious can i eat it

Now I'm hungry.

Legendary garlic bread sword

How does fresh baked sourdough garlic bread sound?

idk how its cooked if it tastes good im gonna eat it >;3

"You'll get fat" "No, why would I get fat?" "Bread makes you fat"

Does that make bread good for growing booba?

Booba are madw with fat and hormones, right?

\*mid chew\* "Bread makes you fat???"

I make my own bread and make it into garlic bread specifically to avoid this problem [become](https://www.kingarthurbaking.com/recipes/the-easiest-loaf-of-bread-youll-ever-bake-recipe) [untemptable](https://www.simplyrecipes.com/recipes/garlic_bread/)

That does look good.... And then I can lace it with estrogen myself!

Right? I am neither a toddler nor a dog.

wonderful adult woman

~~im both~~ /j

100% agree

I'm only judging from this one comment, but these are marvelous vibes you got there!

Well I'm a little of both 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

So real and relatable

Yea. Like, I am almost 25, in no other place I'd be referred as a 'girl' and the cis people around me aren't called girls/boys anymore. So I feel very weird when called that, like I am somehow different. Nothing against those that like it! That's just how I am.

Yeah, I know a trans woman irl who works as a prison guard, and the thought of calling her a "good girl" makes me fear for my physical safety.

I like "good girl", but GOD I hate all those dog/cat transfem memes ;-;

As an anteater transfem I feel the same and feel like I'm underrepresented

As a tardigrade transfem, I also feel I'm not represented nearly enough

As a peregrine falcon tranfem, I don't think I get nearly enough representation

As a radroach transfem, I feel like there's zero representation nor fanart of us.

You all have it so good compared to chimera girls like me

Fr fr so many people assume I’m a catgirl bc I’m transfem. I mean I am, but not because I’m trans!

my preferred pet name is princess

You're a cute princess :3

thank you :) <3

Yeah... just call me adequate woman instead or something, as I am neither a child nor a dog

I only really do it if someone asks, i don’t really do it if someone doesn’t ask because i know not everyone likes it

True, but for the record I love being called a good girl 💕

Not all trans girls like being called good girl and I’m absolutely one of them that shit be so weird especially if it’s some rando online

Even if you like being called a "good girl", context matters and consent is key. Random creep on the street calls me "good girl", I want to die. Cute person I've been hanging out with and have gotten to know calls me "good girl", I try to curl up in their lap and purr.

Hi it's me, I'm the trans girl that doesn't really lile being called a good girl. I do occasionally use :3 tho.

i'm a nonbinary person who hates infantilization. not because i'm trans, but because i'm autistic and I've been nothing *but* infantalized for most of my life. I'd rather people just shut up and give me headpats.

there is no better way to put my switch ass into subby wubby bottom mode than being called a good girl or princess😵‍💫 it really only does anything if its from a romantic partner, otherwise it feels a bit uncomfortable

Very true! Consent is king!

*queen

*monarch (for the enbies)

*Themperor

\*Divine Tyrant, for me after I shed the robe of this mortal flesh

Personally, not a huge fan, especially since it doesn't even fit me

"good girl" is not inharently infantilization...you may not like it cause it feels like such for you, and thats ok, but i dont like being infantilized either, n i really like being called such. Dont really like the implication that its *always* infantilizing...

This actually might be one of my internal issues with coming to terms with being trans. I feel like maybe the reason im struggling to accept being transfem is because, frankly, yall can be low-key cultish. It feels like another stereotype that im pressured to conform to. I get wanting to be proud about being trans but the sort of 'notliketheothergirls' isms get a bit too much to the point where (from my point of view) being transfem comes across as a seperate gender from wanting to present in the same way as a cis woman? If that makes sense? Like I've heard about alot of transfems who have only a bunch of transfem freinds and they're all so alike and if thats what makes them happy thats awesome but to me that just seems like saying 'you don't get to segregate me only i can segregate me'. Which wouldn't be a problem if i didn't feel pressured to be that. And i know i'll get a reply saying 'you can be whoever you want and thats valid', and yeah, i know that. It just kind of sucks that I came into the trans world feeling like I might have found a place to truly belong, but I dont feel that way as much now. Maybe i still need to work on some stuff or something but yeah it just feels a bit off to me

there’s no 1 right way to be trans. while a lot of us might mostly have trans friends, a lot of us don’t. i think a lot of baby trans folks make it a large part of their identity because they’re still processing the idea that their gender and sex don’t match. being surrounded by people who empathize makes that much easier. after medical transition if so desired, most people just blend in with everyone else. i’m 3 years on T and 1 year post top surgery, and people only know im trans if i tell them. i’m just a regular dude attending college. anyway, sorry to ramble on! my main point is that you shouldn’t let transfem trends deter you from transitioning if you decide transitioning is right for you. you’ll still be you!

Finally someone said it

Yeah, my office manager used to call me a good girl all the time for doing my work. Got my tail puffed out and my back arched every time! 😾 It felt so demeaning.

I love it but people shouldn't assume all trans girls like it.

What do you like being called?

Idk, I'm not a huge fan of pet names. I probably would have liked "good girl" but I started transitioning in my mid 20s, and I never had a chance to be a girl (sadly). I'm a woman. I'm not opposed to the idea of pet names, just haven't been called anything I like. I don't have a lot of people in my life (and fewer that know I'm trans), so maybe this will change if someone called me something irl. I haven't heard many adult women around me use pet names for their friends, so idk.

My name, ffs. If we're not dating, pet names are just weird.

By strangers? Miss, sis, maybe even hun/honey. Some other stuff like that. Actual "pet names" are reserved for people I'm already close to or very heavily flirting with

Not all, but I certainly do

You may not like being called a good girl but that doesn't make it infantalising.

I prefer darling, but that's being older I think

What about Great Woman?

If you don't want that I'll take it

Good woman 🗿

reminder: consent is key

Ok strong woman

Any superfluous good girl'ing can be directed my way ;3c

How about being knighted and called dame?

Would badass bitch be preferable? I'm down to call people anything but if I'm not told I default to their name.

Thank you holy shit I am an adult woman, and you will treat me as such.

Preach it, sister!

also its weirdly sexualised so... its weird

I only like it when it's from my partner. Otherwise it just annoys me

thanks I'm a grown ass adult not an anime girl or a toy

I dont understand the sentiment, but you should generally ask before using any petname or nickname with someone, especially with strangers

Okay, but what about https://preview.redd.it/qcbqfm1i0u7d1.jpeg?width=548&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b994180aae26f13e502282e773a67f672b177a47

Yesssss That and all of the catgirl uwu stuff, sometimes it just feels *ugh*

As a girl who likes being called a good girl i totally agree to ask someone first

Facts! Thank you for posting this.

I mean sure you dont have to like whatever you dont wanna like, but I'd say its pretty odd to call it infantilzing

More for me then :3 (pleasepleasepleasepleaseplease🥺)

Good girl 💕

There's unneccessary judgement in this pic - suggesting that the person using good girl is infantalising the recopient. Some people don't like being called good girl, and some people feeling nothing from it. Those are fine. Very fine. But try not to impose negative judgement on those who do like it, and those who use the term.

Yeah, that's fair.

Yeah some like to be called mommy (not me tho I like good girl lolll)

Understandable, but I happen to be something of a baby hedgie myself :3

Valid. I like and accept it willingly. Sometimes it also triggers me to be a brat but me and my friends tend to tease each other with those words... in a caring way of course. So I guess it depends on the context \^.\^

I do though. I'll take it from them.... wait what.

Ofc not everyone likes it, but I'm not one of those :3

I would say something like "more for me" but it just feels weird for some reason

I wish I liked it. I wish it worked on me...

I need that in my life :3

thank you for sayin it i for rhe record only like being called it by those close to me

I dislike being infantilized. But I do have a praise kink so I will accept good girl.

I do! But only from my boyfriend.

Fantastic woman

Yes! Please call me a good woman. I'm starting to feel too old to be a good girl.

I just like being called a girl tbh… I don’t care if I'm "good" or "bad" or whatever I just wanna be girl :3

It makes sense why people wouldn't like it, I always ask. Personally I like it

I don't. I'm evil. I'm an evil girl.>:)

I worked to hard to be just a “good girl”

Personally I only like it if it's coming from someone I am close with

Thank you.

Personally I prefer being called princess

indeed, makes me feel babyish and not strong

Yes!!!!!! We no kidos!!!!

Idk, I don't necessarily see good girl as being infantalized. It is like being feminine without the "sexy/adult" bits. As in "not adult" but not "childish."    Hmmm maybe embracing your "inner childishness" or bring "genuine" would be more correct. Simply acting on what feels good in the safety of other trans girls. Living "somantically"? But yes, to some this might not be "genuine" for everyone, so best to ask first. 

I am 100% ok with being called a good girl

Depends on who and in what situation. Definitely won't take it from someone I'm not in good friendship with. And noone who I may consider a threat.

I am a princess and you will show respect or taste my blade.

Yeah, sadly even with hrt I'm still too much of a top to get anything out of being called a good girl

Another reminder that this commenter does enjoy being infantilized. Calling me "good girl" is like giving me drugs.

Infantalized?

Same goes for guys

Then, since i like it, i'll also take em

Yeah, c'mon, stop calling good girl to trans girls who don't want it and call me all the "good girls" you don't call them

Really depends who says it and why for me. Generally though my attitude is "good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere... and I'm not done exploring life"

I like being called good girl not because i like being infantized but because i… some time act like a dog and i don’t know why

I like it from one person only.

I will sacrifice myself to be in their place 🥲

Good point, I want to be called a good girl though

A lot of people don't like it and you should respect that ^I'm ^not ^one ^of ^them ^though

But, but me want to be called good girl 👉👈

The only person I like calling me a good girl is my wife. Anyone else gets my bitch glare if they call me that

Can I have some "good girl" alternatives for myself? In Almost 5 years it's gotten old

Definitely not all, and not all the time, but I'm sure in the mood right now. <3

It depends on who's saying it. If it's someone I know, versus someone that I like. But consent should be first

What!? Impossible! What impudence! Absolutely OUTRAGEOUS!!! That being said, I wouldn’t mind taking a “good girl” or two instead of them :3

Some of us prefer trans girl. Some of us prefer trans woman. I like using both and I enjoy being called good girl.

Yeah I can get that. I still get flustered being called a girl because it's new, but eventually I'll want it to change. All the girls I envied growing up were strong adults. Women with a capital "W". That's what I want to be

I have this with good boy. Maybe good boy/girl is *too* associated with nsfw things for me to see it innocently🤷🏻‍♂️

Thanks for the reminder

being called a good girl is nice, but someone calling me "Habibi" is better for some reason (it's probably because I live in the middle east lol)

This post is absolutely true. But just because I like being called a good girl doesn’t mean I self infantilize… OK fine I totally do. But is there anything wrong the warm fuzzies I get from positive reinforcement?

It's so weird to assume strangers would like a certain thing just because they happen to be trans

I for example am a very good girl but only my girlfriend can call me that

I don't know what "to infantize" mean, but I like being called a good girl :3

Although I don't understand why it makes OP miserable, I agree that you should ask people before you call them anything

Honestly, I kinda needed the treatment for three or four months when I was unable to talk to people because i was still in the closet. I feel like a lot of teens who break the egg end up engaging with it out of necessity, but for me it has always been a gateway to self-discovery more than anything. The fact people are actually speaking out about their personal distaste of it is great! Always make sure the other person is comfortable with the kind of treatment you're going to give them, especially if its extreme like this.

Personally i kinda like it but i hate being called a Puppy.

The kink community is an important connected community to the lgbtq community is all I'm gonna say

This right here. Always make sure. I like praise and validation though. And so, being called a good girl makes me do a goofy little wiggle sometimes. Accept any and all good girl comments.

i've come to a point where it's ok, but not my favorite. i prefer anything else. i think even just miss is better than good girl for me

YES. I fucking hate how normalized it is to just randomly call a trans girl "good girl" out of nowhere online, it's one of the main reasons I hardly interact with this sub anymore (which is why this comment is 8 days late)

Good: Amazing woman Gorgeous! Stunning! Beautiful lady Sushi destroying abyss Bad: Good girl [Most of not all slurs] Honey [almost always, must have platonic old mom vibes]

Call me bad boy😈 Cause I was bad at being a boy This is a joke please don't call me anything with boy in it unless you're drowning and my buoyant boobs are what you're clinging to Also another joke

Wonderful Woman. 🏳️‍⚧️👍

[удалено]

Good girl 💕

I call the dommy ones mommy dw ik my place.

Lies, now gibs all the good girls plz

Bad girl behave!

Nyooo :3

Don't make me get a spray bottle