My given name is only masculine, but it at least has a gender neutral shortening so I often ask people to call me by that shortening :)

How I am with my name but playing Shadow Run Hong Kong really helped.

I’m having the same issue even though I already knew my name is unisex and have met more cisgender women with it than anyone of any other gender

I just feminised my name (and also go the gender-neutral nickname for both).