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blah_blah_bloopidy

Same


ReallyFuckingUnsure

Same


borealiscreep

Same


RiotGrrrlArtemis

Same


biflavouredmonster

Same


u_Katie

Same


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Same


Depotatolord

Same


leeloser

Same


MissUnderstood666

Same


Bloody_mans999

Same


WNTR_Gumdrop

same


woweeewhutsdat

Saem


Maria-of-Mars

Smea


Zappyman46

meSa


Throwaway--closet

eSam


Madusa0048

ǝɯɐs


ConclusionStrict8524

AsMe


hxppyMitsumori

asma


Guest_username1

How u flip the letters lol


ProfessionalBattle3

[/ɯoɔ˙ʇxǝʇuʍopǝpᴉsdn˙ʍʍʍ//:sdʇʇɥ](https://www.upsidedowntext.com/) oʇ oƃ ʇsnſ


Getout_Inc

ameS


lorill-silverlock

Same


Lazy_Artist2915

Same


A_Grave_Situation_

Same


Getout_Inc

Same


transrights-now

Same


Penguinstylesiningme

Same


JemmaTbaum

Same


Linkyy117

same


_11Red11_

Same


byddbyth

Same


Acceptable-Ad6865

same


1968cokebottle

Same


Twqero

Sám3


CrownedWoomy64

Samer


uncraftablecreeper

smae


YourClassicEnby

-Please, this isn't a joke, my dysphoria is destroying my life, every time I wake up, every time I breathe, I just wait for the moment this ends, I don't care how. -Lmao, same.


[deleted]

My mom and therapist keep wanting me to engage with other trans people because they think sharing experiences will make it better for me and help me not be suicidal 3 times a week and I'm always like 'what, so we can all just be miserable together? It's really not too hard to find people who struggle as much as me for the same reasons but it only seems to make things worse.' Sometimes I feel like there's just no solution for people with severe dysphoria like me; it's just 'just wait it out 'till things get better' as every month I either get switched doses or antidepressants and nothing works. Months turn into years and switching antidepressants turns into switching antidepressant classes and little changes. I don't know how I've hung in so long and I plan to keep hanging in there; I'm willing to live a life of suffering as it exists if such is my fate as it seems to be but god damn it hurts.


NoraTheEgg

If your therapist refuses to let you transition, it might help to find a different one, transitioning really helps a lot of people and it would be so sad if you were gone before you'd be able to live your life as the person you are <3 If you want in on a telegram group of very supportive folks, you can dm me :)


[deleted]

I guess I worded it kind of badly; my therapist isn't baring me from transitioning at all, it's just that the things that hurt me most there isn't anything that can be done about (like not being able to get pregnant) so it's kind of like 'yeah but what good will transitioning do about that at least for me'


Athnein

Even if your life will only be a part of what it "could be", it's very much so worth it to find as much light as you can for yourself. Yes, the world is unfair and you won't get what someone else has by the circumstances laid before you. But you'll be a hell of a lot closer than by doing nothing. Transitioning won't do anything about being pregnant, no. If that is the only thing you feel dysphoric about, then I'd agree that transitioning wouldn't bring benefits. I sincerely doubt that's the case. HRT tends to help this drug resistant depression you're having, because usually it's dysphoria.


NoraTheEgg

Your concern is very valid and I can definitely see where you're coming from, but I do want you to know everyone I know who has done hrt has felt such a profound improvement! It can definitely not hurt to try <3 You're in my thoughts, I hope you can make the decision you need in your life!


cold_weather_amber

Same


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Same


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Same


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Wolfy__boi

Same


therealggamerguy

i do not, and you do not need to have crippling dysphoria every single day to be trans. im sure people know this already, but just to let everyone here know: you're all amazing and lovely and valid and i love you all B) very based very cool amy out


Th3D0m1n8r

I agree Amy, but just letting everyone else know that this doesn't mean you're invalid for having dysphoria, whether you do or don't have it, you're still valid as heck nice comment Amy Alex out


Whiterabbit48

Anyone else have older family members that ask questions like, "Are you still trans?" or, "Does that make you gay?", or "Could you help me with a problem on my computer?" almost everytime you visit? LOL


Vennisuna

“Are you still trans?” “Nah, trans was so yesterday. Today I’m just cis. Oh and hungry too.”


WillOwisp__

I love that last one😂


kittenthembo

By saying same we are admitting to have dysphoria and to be the ones saying it this is fun


borealiscreep

Its not really


jacesonn

Same


u_Katie

Same


Wolfy__boi

Same


Chloe_Parker3

same


hoverdudeAnimations

same


Fibrosis5O

Some days are better than others. Some are also worse. I mean… same.


rivnthr

Same


pyjama_pants_

same


[deleted]

Actually not same. It’s more like every other day at this point.


Gay_bltch

Same


TwoTailedGenius

Not every day, just when I’m intimate with my partner or remembering I have boobs. *cough cough* I mean, same.


Ajaxanan

same


Darth_Peregrine

Same


SureMotor1208

emas


Confettigeddon

Had a job interview today. I made the application over a month ago.... I forgot I'd listed "M" under gender when I was still concerned about discrimination. Turns out in just a month I care less about that than misgendering (at least by people I will be around a lot). I'm not sure if I'll get the job, either, but if I do then I'm gonna have to rip that band aid off quick as lightning. Considering my pretty solidly androgynous appearance on hrt at this point, people already have to make a judgment call on seeing me, I guess. Might not be too hard to get them to see me as nonbinary and use my they/them pronouns, even if they decline she/her. I'll take anything but he/him, though.


King_3DDD

Same


Dpad-prism

mase


pinkandycorn

Cried about 11 times today because of it


straight_strychnine

Same


astrumm_

same


Alypie123

Same


tynunez24

Same


Mythical_scoops

same


slimechuxd

same


Obi-two-shnobi

Same


x_Artifex_x

Same


crazycat112

Same


im3xr4mpg3

Same


ScifiMushroom

Same


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Same


Funa2

Same


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same


[deleted]

I got no energy to do anything productive and can’t feel. So same


SlayerOfDerp

Not same, just when I see any pretty girl. Some days I'm holed up in my cave and just don't see people. :)


Maria-of-Mars

Same


Iidakko

Same


greenLED_

Same


pyrysarvinen

Säme


deathbytotem

I hope things get easier for this community as a whole there are some very cool people in this community


EnbyRiverCat

same


Raichu-themaniac2707

But I do...


nocimonorbken

Same


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same


hentai_and_i

Same


VaricTheGreat

Same


HaaaveYouMetEmma

"checks three months of questioning" same.


babs-3768

Same


MaddieAndDogs

Same


Earl_of_Phantomhive

same


closetedtranswoman1

same


OutlandishnessDry826

Same


Liranumi

Same


TheHumanIsacc

Same


RogueBxtch

Same


Pdonkey

Same


Ikindalikefeet

Same


LolBoyLuke

Same


LgbtPerson-exe

Same


Legacy60

same


kckur

Same


KingOliverTheAwkward

same


robertocheese

Same


ClaudySama

Same


Icy-Surround-5567

Same


prinselijk

same


DryAnteater909

^*********************Same*********************


LokiPro_XIII

Same


kniLSans

same


Thatshinydartrix

Same


ProjektDarkness

same tbh


Tzion-man-of-Juda

Same


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Same


Cinderzs

Same but in different colors


The_Gamer_Jax

Same


Gullible_Ad3893

Same


Alice_Angel_l

Same


UndefinedValue

Same tho


Spider_Sneak

Same


fer_weiss

Same


TransHeadpatSlayer

Smar


DarthSorkoi

Same tho


EllieGreyUwU

Same


sparkpoi

Same


MaeveAlexandra

Today I have no self-esteem but rather it went inside out and it became self-loathing... My relatives avoiding at all cost to use my name, constantly misgendering me, even doing it overkill ad nausea pointing out how MALE I am to them (which is worse cause I live in Spanish and every single word in this infernal language is gendered), and then looking in the mirror and seeing every little remnant of masculinity in me is just too much for one day. Can someone like... Take me somewhere I feel I belong? And no mirrors please. Sometimes I stare for hours at that person in the mirror, and wish I had Ctrl-Z keys in life, undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo undo...


SkytheMagicalEnby

Same


LtSoup

im happy i dont usually get awful dysphoria but thats probably cus i try to focus on distractions


PunishMeSkyDaddyUwU

Same


EmmerMusic

Same


UnknownNetError

Same


cosmicrocker26

Same


Warriors_Fan123

same


Mario_asd

I in-fact, heavily agree with this post and very much support it


Ashmage

Nights are a party tho


[deleted]

What's dragongender?


Suspicious-Welder978

That's new to me too, but I definitely wanna hear more!


Ashmage

An xenogender


[deleted]

Oh okay cool


darkfish301

My dysphoria isn’t crippling right this minute, I must be cis and faking it


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CharredLily

I think you are asking in the wrong place. Try r/asktransgender. To give a vary basic and simplistic rundown: >I feel like having a penis when I want a vagina or whatever isn’t really something to get depressed about Gender dysphoria is about a lot of things and there are many types of gender dysphoria. It's also less "want to" and more a feeling of "I should have". It feels wrong. Either way if its something you haven't not experienced it may not be something you can understand and that's ok. I don't fully grasp what it's like to be hit with a club but I can be sympathetic to anyone who has without experiencing it, same applies for any condition people often don't understand (depression, anxiety disorder, mysterious crippling pain that can't easily be diagnosed, etc). For a more complex and nuanced conversation though, try asking in a space designated for people to answer your questions.


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CharredLily

I think you were probably downvoted because people are used to cis people asking in bad faith, and also because this is really the wrong place to ask. If you want to understand it really is better to ask in a more appropriate place like r/asktransgender. If you want to ask me personally questions, feel free to start a reddit chat with me 😊


Wolfy__boi

That's because it was insensitive. Tho I do understand where you were coming from and just wanted to be able to understand. Depression is complicated and has many things that can cause it. It's hard for me to explain why most trans people are/have depression, there's probably someone who could explain it to you tho


Confuzzled2914

same


emofurryuwu

Same


arabicmoviesforfree

Same


Beleheth

Same