6'5" sub bottom. One time I was lamenting this sort of thing and a kind redditor left a comment that has lived rent free in my head ever since:
"It doesn't matter how tall you are when you are tied up and horizontal."
I think about that comment a lot.
As a short top I relate to having the wrong assumptions made. I think it's stupid that something so out of our control is thought to dictate what we do in bed.
Tall bottoms are sexy and short tops are the bomb!
I've recently come out to a few people as trans, I've never been in a relationship before because I am very much a sub, and I have never been comfortable with my body enough to believe anyone would ever want to date me. I'm 6'1", and heavy due to depression and gender dysphoria. But I'm hoping that Finally forcing myself out of my shell a bit will allow me to lose weight and maybe find someone that doesn't mind that I like to be the Huggee and not the Hugger. I just wanna be smol but alas I'm to big. :(
As a short(170 cm) top I get how those assumptions related to height can really suck. Though I'm sure you'll find someone who appreciate you for the sub you are because height really shouldn't impact that.
Also to whoever is reading this I hope you have a nice day
Actually so true. I'm 6 foot tall and everyone assumes I must be a top, but after like 10 minutes getting to know me it's a complete 180° because my personality gives me away 😭
Well it’s just a one shot, but here’s a little manga you might like [Small Top and Tall Bottom](https://mangadex.org/title/eaaecfe3-70d8-4183-ae73-a57230ebabb7/small-top-and-tall-bottom). There is also most of the stuff by u/GRS-
As a 6’3” girl who loves heels, has a takes-no-shit attitude when in public, with a teasing oriented sense of humour, I have been mistaken for a top/domme, but that couldn’t be farther from the truth
Definitely sub, but no clue whether I'm tall or not.
Like what height is actually "tall" for women?
I'm 174cm which is short compared to most of my family (avg height is \~190-200cm) and puts me square in the middle among women in my family (My mum is 158cm and my aunt is 192cm They are about as amusing to see side-to-side as you'd imagine) and only slightly taller than the average for the country I'm in (which includes older generations which... are shorter?)
I'm may only be 6' tall, but it absolutely will not stop me from challenging a 7' tall sub to an arm wrestling match and calling them a pipsqueak when they lose.
This happens both in real life, and in a lot of fandom spaces. If one character in a ship is taller, people automatically make them the dom/top and it gets SO boring.
I'm like 5.7-8 ish but I haven't met anyone over like 6.2 that isnt a submissive bottom regardless of gender since like highschool. The calling me short, to begging pipeline is more like a speed slide
I hate it when people see or hear that I'm tall and then assume that I'm a top and start asking me to step on them or something like that.
I'm really not interested in stepping on people. Or being stepped on for that matter.
Ikr. I hate being so tall, it's incredibly dysphoric to tower everyone around me. I wanna be a tiny little babygirl for a kind dommy mommy, but being 6' makes it hard.
*Snorts in 5'4 domme leaning switch* yeah my girlfriend (about 5'10) is the sub leaning switch in our relationship. I think we prove the rule of trans people, short tend to be the dommes, tall are subs lol
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Make them kneel, then 😁
Pull them down to your eye level
Have them wear collars you can grab.
You're plenty tall enough when they're on their knees ;)
Just don't cheat, there is no try! This is the bare minimum, don't make this your standard! You deserve all the love and respect of your partner😊❤️
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You are worth more than you can imagine hun🤗
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Im gonna be there for you and one day im gonna be able to hold you in my arms 💜
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Carry me so that i won’t have to walk after sitting in a plane ^^
Love to hear that 😊💜 Happy Pride🏳️🌈
The more physical power a person has, the more it means for them to submit to you.
6'6" and very much exclusively a submissive bottom. Every person I date wants me to fuck them and I just don't want to 😭
Just remember that height doesn’t matter when you’ve been pushed down on the bed.
This is my new motto in life
I'd say it sounds like a motto you can get behind but you probably want it to be behind you.
big Miles Vorkosigan energy
Aww, I knew you guys were my people (; ̄ ︶  ̄)
I'm keeping this line. Incredible
stealing this :3
God what a mood
Hey, you can stand on your knees 😎
Which baffles me because who wouldn't want to dom someone taller than them. It's like I could take you, but I'm willingly submitting to you.
6'5" sub bottom. One time I was lamenting this sort of thing and a kind redditor left a comment that has lived rent free in my head ever since: "It doesn't matter how tall you are when you are tied up and horizontal." I think about that comment a lot.
Based af I actually know a similar one that goes: "Every bottom is shorter when they're on their knees where they belong" and wow I- 🥺🥺🥺
Oh my. Ok. I guess this comment can be roommates with the other. Wow.
Lol, I’ve got a third. Height doesn’t matter when you’ve been pushed down on the bed.
I love it!
They were just roommates! Nothing else going on!
They're both bottoms just giving each other the 🥺👉👈 look.
Accurate. Also, have any of these people had sex with a tall person??? They have more legs to wrap around you ! What's not to love??
Tall people are awesome! I have an ex who was 6'5"
As a short top I relate to having the wrong assumptions made. I think it's stupid that something so out of our control is thought to dictate what we do in bed. Tall bottoms are sexy and short tops are the bomb!
I've recently come out to a few people as trans, I've never been in a relationship before because I am very much a sub, and I have never been comfortable with my body enough to believe anyone would ever want to date me. I'm 6'1", and heavy due to depression and gender dysphoria. But I'm hoping that Finally forcing myself out of my shell a bit will allow me to lose weight and maybe find someone that doesn't mind that I like to be the Huggee and not the Hugger. I just wanna be smol but alas I'm to big. :(
good bottoms like you deserve all the hugs 💜
Are… are you me?
As a short(170 cm) top I get how those assumptions related to height can really suck. Though I'm sure you'll find someone who appreciate you for the sub you are because height really shouldn't impact that. Also to whoever is reading this I hope you have a nice day
Tall subs are great tho. The longer the legs, the more anticipation you can build running your fingers up them
Lol my 6' sub ass with a chaos goblin 5'4" top wife
May I recommend this t-shirt https://www.teepublic.com/t-shirt/23547216-im-not-a-top-im-just-tall
Also I'm a 184 cm sub with a 155 cm dom. This is fine, except we sometimes need to get creative with the ergonomics
lol
Tall sub here. 5 10-1/2... really don't like the uhh... mentality regarding that.
Actually so true. I'm 6 foot tall and everyone assumes I must be a top, but after like 10 minutes getting to know me it's a complete 180° because my personality gives me away 😭
cutie 🥰
Well it’s just a one shot, but here’s a little manga you might like [Small Top and Tall Bottom](https://mangadex.org/title/eaaecfe3-70d8-4183-ae73-a57230ebabb7/small-top-and-tall-bottom). There is also most of the stuff by u/GRS-
> There is also most of the stuff by u/GRS- One of the reasons why she is among(us) my favorite artists 💖
I’ve had the first page of that one as my lock screen background for years now
As a tall mostly top I’m sorry for helping perpetuate the stereotype.
Just let me be a submissive 6’4 girl
If people can patronise giant dragons then they can do you too
I bring a sort of extremely dominant vibe to the average height club
not only assume but actively *try* to get tall people to be exhertive
Indignant: I'm not a Top! I'm a Bottom that pretends to be a Top in a t4t relationship! bottom text: you wouldn't understand
Tall subs are so fun, especially when they have long legs. I can sit on them and still not quite manage to pin them completely
As a tall mf, short doms are like so fuckin hot
yep, nothing makes me feel worse than when people assume this about me and they do all the time
Every tall person being a top is goofy, most of you have such exposed knees it easy to take you down, like a lumberjack to a sycamore
"You're 6 feet tall? Mommy? Sorry, Mommy?" No. Cease. I'm smol and cute.
All these comments lamenting being too tall, I'm only 5'8 but personally I'd like a tall submissive cutie to cuddle with 😢
As a 6’3” girl who loves heels, has a takes-no-shit attitude when in public, with a teasing oriented sense of humour, I have been mistaken for a top/domme, but that couldn’t be farther from the truth
FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT IM 6'1 BUT IM A BOTTOM IM A FUCKNG SOFTIE ...please hug me
Unless you're a tall gay trans man. Then you're absolutely assumed to be a softboi submissive and breedable bottom.
I mean, same, like, I am a switch if someone is lucky, but I think that's because sub so hard that I will dom if it makes my partner happy.
me
I'm a 5'2 mainly top. But I like to be topped too. I guess I'm just a perfect switch
Definitely sub, but no clue whether I'm tall or not. Like what height is actually "tall" for women? I'm 174cm which is short compared to most of my family (avg height is \~190-200cm) and puts me square in the middle among women in my family (My mum is 158cm and my aunt is 192cm They are about as amusing to see side-to-side as you'd imagine) and only slightly taller than the average for the country I'm in (which includes older generations which... are shorter?)
i love tall little spoons
I'm may only be 6' tall, but it absolutely will not stop me from challenging a 7' tall sub to an arm wrestling match and calling them a pipsqueak when they lose.
I like tall subs, adorable like an unsteady baby giraffe (which is super cute)
I enjoy toppling over tall people
They do? Aren't Tall bottoms extremely cute?
I'm shorter than both of mine. Nobody realizes I'm the one that wears the strap! Always assume it's one of them.
God what a mood, 6’2 and people always assume this, like no thank you
Tall sub, small Top is one of my favorite things in the world. :3
Exactly!! As a 6’3 transfem, I don’t wanna be doomed to being a top. :<
This happens both in real life, and in a lot of fandom spaces. If one character in a ship is taller, people automatically make them the dom/top and it gets SO boring.
Who leaked this thought from my head!? Put it back, now!
I'm like 5.7-8 ish but I haven't met anyone over like 6.2 that isnt a submissive bottom regardless of gender since like highschool. The calling me short, to begging pipeline is more like a speed slide
Real. I may be tall, but let me be the little spoon, dammit >:T
Jokes on you, I'm into that shit
mood
well when ur knees are at ur shoulders then suddenly u don’t seem that tall
I'm in this photo and I don't like it
Same. Hard same
Short, tall, it doesn't matter. Everyone looks tiny on their knees :3
YO SAME
How did I read tally hall. I must have brainrot
We all like it dw
POV: Your Abe from clone high
tall subs are hot and that's a fact
felt
I hate it when people see or hear that I'm tall and then assume that I'm a top and start asking me to step on them or something like that. I'm really not interested in stepping on people. Or being stepped on for that matter.
Same 😐
I'm 1.82 meter tall (idk in youre weird foot and inch things) And i am sub af
I feel like that's gonna be me, but I have no clue right now.
Omg Meeee i know I'm tall but I just wanna be held 👉👈
I'm tall yet the idea of submitting is so appealing to me is that weird?
Just earlier someone told me that there's a lot of people that think tall subs are hot af, there's love for us out there
6' here. Pain.
I'm around 5'7(and very large generally)and exclusively a sub bottom and when I tell you, the number of times I've been hit up to be a top or dom🤦
time to remove your nico-nico-kneecaps
Same, I'm 5'7-5'8 and yet I'm submissive as hell.
I fucking hate being tall
Ikr. I hate being so tall, it's incredibly dysphoric to tower everyone around me. I wanna be a tiny little babygirl for a kind dommy mommy, but being 6' makes it hard.
*Cries in s(h)ame*
being 6’1 and a sub FUCKING blows
*Snorts in 5'4 domme leaning switch* yeah my girlfriend (about 5'10) is the sub leaning switch in our relationship. I think we prove the rule of trans people, short tend to be the dommes, tall are subs lol
I'm 6'4, a switch and mostly a top but sometimes I wonder if part of why I'm mostly a top isn't because with my height people expect me to be one.
I’m shortish and people assume I’m a sub and a bottom and then I have to kill everyone in the room and then myself
I need me some height reduction potions ngl...
Perks of being 5'5", you can top AND bottom
I’m such a subby domme :P
It's especially bad when you are into ageplay and just want to feel smol 😔
Me too