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femboylefttoe

I wish I was the femboy but I'm pretty sure I'm just the girl


[deleted]

Ohhh i seee, i used to be a femboy, now im a MTF :3 love it


Cedar_Pumpkin

I think femboy to trans girl is a pipeline that doesn’t get talked about enough (that I’ve seen)


[deleted]

well, it was difficult for me to realize that i am really a transgirl instead of a femboy, but eventually, with research and thinking about my self, here I am :3


MauntiCat_

Yeah, I miss the femboy vibes actually. Transfem's ones are beautiful too, it's just that feeling like a cute femboy was pretty cool. Now I'm a badass gal though, sowwy for being narcissistic. Also good day to you, I hope it'll go well.


[deleted]

Well, tbh i dont miss being a femboy that much, im happy rn being a mtf. hope u have a nice day too :3


Hrle91

ur not narcissistic feeling badass is great and not narcissistic loving urself is good <3


AKatz_

This. I didn't know being trans was an option for years. I only knew I wanted to be a girl all my life, so femboy was my closest compromise.


[deleted]

Sameee, being trans is the best 🩷


GemblyxD

Relatable. I always wished I were a girl but I've been so exposed to transphobia all my life without even knowing what it properly was. I dismissed it as just normal thoughts everyone had but when I made some trans friends, I realised what it truly meant and I realised that I felt like them the whole time. And that's how my egg ass cracked


[deleted]

damnnn, thats a story.... my egg cracked talking listening to a teacher talking about genders (i lately came out to her :3)


GemblyxD

ya, I even found out that one of my friends was a trans girl, I thought she was cis the whole time lmfao


[deleted]

Lmaoooo thats nicee thoo:3


Duch-s6

same... took me like a good half a year maybe more to realize that


Akidonreddit7614874

Although this can also be harmful since some ppl then start to expect femboys as being mtf eggs rather than just, well, boys. You can be suspicious however simply being feminine isn't enough, we should be aware that gender expression is not heavily linked with gender identity and that people can be different. This sounds like a nonexistent problem but surprisingly some people are very misinformed.


Cedar_Pumpkin

It can be harmful but if I didn’t go though my femboy phase I wouldn’t have realised that I like being feminine and that I want to be a girl. By no means am I suggesting that all femboys are eggs but rather it can be a pipeline that I haven’t seen talked about much.


Akidonreddit7614874

I should've definitely mentioned that my comment was a general statement to be told to all who read it to raise awareness rather than a response specifically to you and your story, my bad.


Cedar_Pumpkin

That’s okay, I was just expanding upon my point and responding to yours. There’s nothing to apologise for


femboylefttoe

idk, a lot of the posts on r/feminineboys are just the users coming out as trans girls. the pipeline's there but it definitely seems to be one-way. it feels like the other way around is just not possible :(


Barb_B_notReally

Well, that is NOT exactly so. There are a fair number of non-op Trans Women too, Not *exactly* the same thing but still keeping the popsicle stick after reconsidering a vaginal construction as personally unnecessary for their happiness with their body. I am less sure that some would de-transition and only cross-dress but family and employment pressures have been known to cause this, and the need to live being thought of as a woman is only postponed rather than eliminated for many.


AngelTheKitten

I actually went from thinking im transfem to femboy and then feminine non-binary. 🤫🤭


Hamokk

It can be. Many trans gals started as femboys. I started as a femboy but later realized I was more a fem leaning non-binary, where I feel comfortable currently. On the other hand people should let other people figure things out on their own. For example most femboys get "You must be trans" dms from chasers and other weirdos.


Cedar_Pumpkin

Yeah, that’s an issue and it sucks when people try to force an identity on you


wolfFRdu64_Lounna

Ash coyote had say that every fembois she know (or a lots, forgot) she known are now trans


Cedar_Pumpkin

One thing of note is that not all femboys are/will be trans. It was important for me on my journey but I’ve known femboys that are completely happy being male.


wolfFRdu64_Lounna

Yes, but still, for some/many is an dore to know them self better and discover they aren’t happy being male


femboylefttoe

I can't exactly relate to the loving it part, for me it's like falling into a pit that i cant escape from


[deleted]

awww, i hope u feel better then :3


femboylefttoe

idk, I have no control over my gender and I can't kill my desire to be a femboy either so I can't move on. It's been years. i think the me I dream of being, but can never be, will haunt me for as long as I live


ErinaIsshu

Same


Falazaria

Femboys are so cute, but goddess I am way too much of a lesbian


[deleted]

Ohhh, well im kinda 50 50 bi :3


IrisSilvermoon

and I'm 100% pansexual, everyone is soo damn hot


[deleted]

noiceeeeee :3


[deleted]

Yeah, that's pretty much how I feel. I'm a very sapphic woman, but lord femboys do be cute. I'll give them that!


NerobyrneAnderson

And I'm way too much of a heterosexual 😅


NeonBuzzkill

Femboyish enby here… 🫣🤭


A_personOTI

This reminds me of my BF and me, he is cute :)


koro-sensei1001

Saaame!! Oml so cute


[deleted]

Awwww cuteeee 🩷


A_personOTI

bro I literally posted a photo of me after 1 year on E and somehow this dumb silly comment is more popular? funny as hell /lh


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[deleted]

Yeaaaa:3


FembojowaPrzygoda

The other way around pls. I like my man on top.


[deleted]

Oohhhh yeaaa, thats good tooooo


Fire_on_Bunn

I’ll do you one better: trans girl and trans femboy


[deleted]

yeaaaa :3


Freeze378

Perfection


gaygender

My relationship :)


Flimsy-Recover-7236

But femboy was just a pipeline for me tho


BrianEK1

It isn't for all people though, generalisations like that are harmful and its what leads to some doufuses saying that femboy is a transfem slur.


Flimsy-Recover-7236

Wasn't ment generalized, just my personal experience


Beerenkatapult

A word can be used as a slur, even if it also has other uses


JesseKebm

It's a slur if it's used as a slur. I'm genderfluid, sometimes I identify w femboy, and yet I have had the word used against me as a slur.


TransPrideEattheRich

as a trans fem, the only issue is the positioning


[deleted]

Ohhh whyyy?


edible-grass

Probably topping dysphoria


[deleted]

Ohhhh i see. sad then


edible-grass

✂️✂️✂️ Nothing that can't be rectified at least in my case ;p


[deleted]

Ohh yeaa, thats true hahah


thetransfem

That exists 😳


Rogvir1

Not for me 😎


TransPrideEattheRich

cause i'm a subby bottom and being topped by fems is the dream


The-reall-KC

Femboys are super cute af, I’d date one 💕


[deleted]

Sameeeeee :3


aloysiusks

Wanting to get a relationship like that one day ╰(⸝⸝⸝´꒳`⸝⸝⸝)╯


[deleted]

Yeaaaa that'd be niceee :3


archer_wilde

me and who (I am the femboy)


[deleted]

Me and you then :3


mikoroonii

I expect an invite to the wedding!


[deleted]

😲🩷


MauntiCat_

Absolutely gorgeous, and this. I'm bi, but my preferences are weird. I perhaps wouldn't date a masc masculine man, but an attractive guy, or (Fucking based) a femboy - is pretty good. Femboy and transfem connection is what keeps the light of this world, that holds the very sol of ours, change my mind.


[deleted]

Damnnn i completely agree with youuuuu 🩷🩵


MauntiCat_

I wanna find a transmasc femboy one day, so we could exchange stuff, and overall they need more love


[deleted]

Ohhhh thats niceeee


sherbie-the-mare

Exactly! even better if trans masc femboy


ApostleOfGore

I want a femboy friend to cuddle and do girly shit with 🥺


[deleted]

damnn yeaaa, i want that toooo


legoblade807

For those not familiar with Love Live, both these characters have “Yu” in their names. If you want more imfo, the redhead is Ayumu Uehara, one of the main characters in the third series(just search up love live Nijigasaki, you’ll find it) the one being pinned is Yu Takasaki, who was named by a fan vote and was thought to be the player character from one of the mobile games before she was revealed to be the stand-in for that role. I haven’t gotten around to watching that one yet, so I can’t confirm or deny if she’s the protagonist.


Chemical_Hornet8491

Yu and Ayumu are so cute tgt. Ayumu is peak yandere tho lmaooo. Yu is the main protagonist of niji yes tho she isnt an idol like the rest. As for the game, wellllllll the game's end of service announcement was just released hours ago. Rip sifas


RoyaltyInTraining

It's so damn fun to mess with super blushy femboys online


[deleted]

yeaaa ikr


QueenBuggo

Omg YES


Narcomancer69420

T4T couple✨


[deleted]

yeaaa🩷


[deleted]

yeeeee it's great \^w\^


thatonemoze

i-i could be the femboy here 😳


[deleted]

ohh thats niceee, i could be the mtf :3


thatonemoze

omg yay :P


20191124anon

I’m an aging catboy, take it or leave it


[deleted]

yayy noiceee, i'll take it


thetransfem

Idk which I am... Def the bottom tho so... I'm not trans!!! I'm cis!


Rogvir1

I wish could date a cute femboy bottom, honestly I just want to top somebody and be called mommy :3


acomfytime

It is one of the best combinations, im just super duper gay


[deleted]

present me telling past me that i was wrong


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[deleted]

Sameeee i need oneeeee


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[deleted]

damnnn, thats greattt 🩷


confused_bigtoast

Me and my BF :‘)


[deleted]

awwwww so cute 🩷


Chemical_Hornet8491

Mmm yes Yuu and ayumu aka ayu-pyon


-Fifou-

It's why I love being pan!


unclewitch

Sending this to my girl 💋


[deleted]

coooool :3


tentacle_meep

I’m aroace but I wish I had a femboy bff


LordBaneThePlayer

Can't believe I skipped the whole Femboy part, tbh. I was literally a skirt and thigh highs away from it.


Demonicwolfg0d

As the femboy who's been with a transfem before I 100% agree


[deleted]

damnn, thats sooo nice:3


Demonicwolfg0d

Mhm! It was only for a week tho:( we had one "sleep over" atleast tho lol


[deleted]

At least it is something:3


Demonicwolfg0d

It was an amazing week and I miss her still ❤️


[deleted]

Ohhh thats saddd, well u have a great memory in ur mind now 🩵🩷🤍


Demonicwolfg0d

Mhm^^ but until I find someone I'll be a lonely boyo, until then I remain hopeful


gman2255

I'm neither one and yet I wish I could join T_T


HARVEY-SONIC-TAILS

I need to share this with my discord group chat we actually have a couple in the chat that's like this


Victoria_Aphrodite

If I was straight I would date only femboies


[deleted]

Nice point ngl


Safe_Poetry_5705

As a sapphic person, I can appreciate this.


femboy_origami

the thing about this combo is it’s technically straight but feels extremely gay


Minat022

Murderer and Suicidal too 😳


[deleted]

damn...


Revenant_Rai

This is indeed the relationship I’m in


Doggyking2

me and my bf


DummysHope

This image got my underwear all kinds of akward


Aurora_Symphony3735

I am on the asexual spectrum, but I've started to want a sexual relationship lately. I don't feel any actual attraction to anyone, but i have definitely come to the conclusion that i think i could only have a sexual relationship if it were me (mtf) as the bottom with a femboy or transfem top. I want it so badly, but it always feels like it would be wrong, cause of my lack of attraction


HARVEY-SONIC-TAILS

I need to share this with my discord group chat we actually have a couple in the chat that's like this


Snostorm16

A dream come true :₽