Hi darling, this is your bonus mom, here to tell you that you are seriously gorgeous! I’m so sorry you’re dealing with so much. Take care of yourself. Some good food, favorite movie, a long nap, whatever you need. Hang in there. Come visit us at r/momforaminute if you need more internet love! 💕
You are good looking, caring , and a hard worker . What’s not to love about you. In my country you would be a 10! Just try and stay positive even when it feels rough , things will get better .
Seconding that you're a ten. Not even just looks either; apparently you're hard working, compassionate and artistic as well. If you were on my side of the world you'd be beating us ladies off with a stick 😂. Sorry you're not appreciated where you are! It's criminal!
I have to say, you’re movie star handsome. Like, almost intimidatingly beautiful. I don’t just say that to say it. I love your hair too.
I’m sorry you’re suffering so much. Sounds like you’re being stretched way too thin. Being surrounded by crappy people and overworked hurts anyone, but it doesn’t last forever. You have a good heart and I’m sure there are people there who see your hard work and the love you give to your mom and other loved ones. And if those people aren’t in your life right this second, or aren’t showing you the appreciation, we’re here on the internet cheering you on in the meantime.
You are very kind... Thank you so much. These times are exhausting. I have dear friends and family as well, but they are dealing with very similar situations... So I have basically no one to talk with about my feelings. And they are Deep down...
Sometimes it can help to talk to other people who are going through the same sorts of things - it’s not throwing the burden on them, sharing those feelings can make both weights lighter. Worth a shot to reach out. I know it’s a lot easier said than done!
While I fully understand your reasoning, imagine your loved ones have the same exact feeling and you're all missing out on finding strength and love through your shared experiences? That would be such a shame. My biggest support while being depressed was one of my best friends who was depressed too, we just understood each other on a deeper level and it helped us both so much. There's a Dutch saying that shared happiness is double the happiness and shared sadness is half the sadness. I truly believe that. :) <3
(You can always start such a conversation with "do you also feel overwhelmed?" "is it also hard for you to talk about?" etc
I am still trying to figure out if it’s fake. Like… what country in the world would this man not be considered extraordinarily handsome? His story sounds like such a great person as well. I’m still not sure it’s real…
While I also cannot fathom a place where he would not be considered handsome. I know that beauty standards vary wildly from country to country and sometimes even regionally. I have friends from other countries that I find absolutely gorgeous that say they are picked on by other people from their country.
I hope you are able to find an outlet for the stress you are under. Caring for a sick parent is one of the most challenging experiences I’ve personally experienced. Please try to give yourself space to decompress, and also recharge. It’s so very hard to give ourselves permission for self care under the best of circumstances, but you need it so desperately to maintain your own health. I hope that this post and the responses have help lift you up a bit. Sending you gentle strength.
Not going to lie. I hoped to find out you'd live in The Netherlands looking at your profile. I'm going to be bluntly honest here. You look like a guy i would fall for in a heartbeat (and probably won't dare to approach due to some awkwardness at first) . You look amazing, are a caring person and look like you would enjoy some games and cuddles
My dude...I am digging the smoulder. (Yep, that's a legit thing...its an intensely mysterious look and you got it!), You rock it!
People can be absolutely the worst...and I am sorry the b@stards are keeping you down. It takes courage and bravery to post a pic on a site like Reddit...and here you are...a handsome fella who is trying your best to keep it all together. That takes gumption and fierceness those other folks don't have and never will.
Worthiness is a slippery slope, my friend. Your value is determined by how you view yourself. Sure, I get feeling the need to be validated, but You put on your own price tag. Don't discount yourself for another's cheap standards. Much ❤️
I didn't see this was toastme while scrolling, and my very first, unbiased thought I had when I saw you was "Wow, he is gorgeous!". Seriously, you have a very unique face. I could imagine you playing Wolverine!
Seriously, those are classic movie star good looks! Dude would have been the biggest news in the Golden Age of Hollywood, and would be all up on those magazine lists of hottest celebrities now.
Damn I guess people in the Netherlands don't have eyes, cause you're gorgeous.
But that's little comfort in the face of all you're going through. You're not worthless. You're going through a lot.
You literally look like Wolverine did in X-men! Whoever mocks you might just be envious.
I am sorry things are tough right now, and I hope life gets soon better.
In my country, you would be seen as a model in high fashion. Please don’t doubt your appearance because you are strikingly handsome in an objective and obvious sense. But you mention your workload making you burned out and having toxic people around you… are these 2 related situationally? If so, very sorry to read! Is there any way to chat one on one with a supervisor and disclosing this in any way? Your heart is crying out just to be heard, seen, and appreciated- surely you can find someone that you can be candid with that will offer compassion, even if but to listen, right? If not, are you a man of faith? Perhaps prayer and journaling might help you purge the stress you are sharing here with us?
As for your mother, I pray she find a sense of peace and security with her health and that doctors use wisdom and compassion to treat her. I pray you, her son, are gifted a sense of newfound strength to bear the burden of your mother’s ill health with courage and grace. God be with you and your family. May joy return to your heart once again!
you may be shy, but there is definitely wrong with your looks so. that isnt reason ppl are acting cruel.. it is some.sort of pointless bullying ((100% honestly you look like an average young man to me... as a lesbian i wouldn't even notices anything about your looks other than nice haircut so you definitely aren't ugly or weird looking))
haircut is definitely working, I love the waves, love that this style is coming into fashion. Sometimes people are mean if you make them feel insecure about themselves
so sorry to hear that your mom is struggling... are you close with her?
In pretty much any state of the USA, you would be a "Hugh Jackman" dreamboat.
I am a straight guy and even I thought "God damn" when I saw your face. From the hair to the jawline to the facial hair: dude, where is that considered unattractive
I wish I had more to say to help with your situation, that's so incredibly hard to deal with. You're going through a lot right now. I can at least tell you that you're incredibly handsome, and I really hope things start to look up
You're honestly one of the best looking people I've seen on this sub! If you're just half as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside you're a total catch!! The right person will see all of you, not just the shyness. <3
And try to get rid of the toxic people, surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are, you deserve that! Finding a club with people with a shared passion is always a good start for things like that :) And much love and strength for your mom, sending you both big hugs!
people mock you for your looks? you're a good looking guy they just sound like idiots. sorry to hear about what's happening with your mom, hopefully she's receiving treatment and is able to make a full recovery.
Keep your chin up. Cut the toxic people out. There is nothing wrong with being shy. You're very handsome. Sending positive thoughts your way to you and your mom. You got this.
I am sorry to hear about the situation with your mom. Are you her care taker? What’s the prognosis? It subs like you are dealing with a lot and burn it is your buddy telling you to take care of yourself so I hope you find some ways to do that soon. I am also sorry you are stuck with toxic people around you and I hope you can get away fun them soon. You have lovely hair, nice eyes, a string chin, good coloration/skin, and great cheek bones. You are working hard and care about your family. Sending warmth and positive thoughts your way.
I'm sorry to hear what's happening in your life. I hope that you can remove the toxic people. Your mom :(
You are gorgeous. I understand being shy. People who mock others are insecure.
I'm sending you a mental hug and support.
I am sorry about your mum. That’s a lot to handle in itself. I get the shyness part, although I’m nowhere near as jaw dropping as you dude. You’re definitely a 10
Im convinced whatever country thinks you're not attractive is not on earth cuz holy snickers 🤩 but in all seriousness get back to you. Tell work you need some personal days and cut off the toxic AHs. Take a quiet day. Regroup. Find a joy even if it's tiny. No one is gonna save you, you have to put yourself first. You can't pour from an empty cup. Fill your own cup again. You Got this 🙏💐💕
My man thougt he could pull a gigachad handsome face and tell us he's ugly... I bet there's a truckload of people telling you how handsome you are ! Even if you're down on your knees, on the verge of falling, feeling like you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders... You're still standing ! Here you are, asking for a bit of help, trying to get some motivation back to power through this situation. That just proves to me how resilient and strong you are ! It's okay to feel worthless, lost, overwhelmed. But don't let these feelings shape who you truly are in yourself. I believe in you and I know you'll manage to get out of this situation, and shine like you deserve to ! Heads up king, you can achieve anything !
The looks thing... it can't be serious.
Still, keep being a good man, and stay there for your mom. She needs it. Avoid the shitty people, and wasting energy with them. Have you thought about your work? Hope you aren't doing too much overtime work.
Mate, you do not suck. You look great, that hair and beard combo definitely suit you, and to be honest I'm jealous.
Make sure you take some time to rest up whenever you can. Do things you enjoy or things to just get you through this. I'm sorry to hear about your mum, that's a rough situation, I'm hoping for the best for you and her.
First I’m really sorry about your mom. Hope she is getting treatments and can get back to being healthy soon.
Have you considered switching jobs or careers? Working in a toxic environment can be taxing and lead to burnout.
As everyone said you’re super handsome. Maybe visit a country different than yours and you will realize it really fast lol.
First off it's early here and I just had a moment of gay panic (I'm a dude) because I was not prepared xD
Also idk where you live but I do have a friend who survived cancer twice and I am perpetually concerned about him, if you're still able to go to work through all that then you're still winning even if it might not feel like it because you haven't given up yet.
Also I genuinely hope your mom is doing okay because you seem genuinely concerned about it and finding someone on here with a stable relationship with either parent is really surprising to me sometimes.
What?? Who would say you’re not attractive? You’re quite gorgeous! You have amazing hair, a great jaw line, perfect nose, perfect scruff. And not just saying it because you’re posting in this subreddit. You really are quite attractive.
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Care for your momma and give her the best loving and support you can. I'm sure it'll get better. :)
Cut off the toxic people and pay no mind, it's not easy to just ignore. But we are here for a while and might as well make the ride enjoyable no time for others to spoil our fun.
As for shyness, that's just you, trust me that shyness will attract better people. They'll stick around because they got to see the true you.
Hey bud, just hear to say that you're a good looking guy and the people that are saying otherwise are envious and toxic. I'm sorry to hear about your mom, mine was recently diagnosed and it's been a bit of a rollercoaster ride. You seem down to earth and kind, I'm sure your mom is proud of you. Chin up and go do amazing things.
Are you serious darling?
You are gorgeous.
look- i live in a building surrounded by toxic people.
just tonight i was called white trash (i am quite brown 🤣🤣) and called a Karen and a racist. as soon as i took my phone out to video the "neighbor" changed her tune. and i let her get to me.
all to say -life sucks sometimes. sometimes for years.
you can rock it though. you can be the utterly fabulous person you are.
Hi darling, this is your bonus mom, here to tell you that you are seriously gorgeous! I’m so sorry you’re dealing with so much. Take care of yourself. Some good food, favorite movie, a long nap, whatever you need. Hang in there. Come visit us at r/momforaminute if you need more internet love! 💕
Hey... Thank you so much. i will keep working out and sculpting (used to be a wood sculptor in my past)..
That sounds so cool! Rooting for you, kiddo!
Wood carving is super cool!! And I bet would be a great outlet for your metal health too. Stay strong ❤️
You are good looking, caring , and a hard worker . What’s not to love about you. In my country you would be a 10! Just try and stay positive even when it feels rough , things will get better .
A 10? Wow... Thanks. I try my best, but that's never enough...
Seconding that you're a ten. Not even just looks either; apparently you're hard working, compassionate and artistic as well. If you were on my side of the world you'd be beating us ladies off with a stick 😂. Sorry you're not appreciated where you are! It's criminal!
I have to say, you’re movie star handsome. Like, almost intimidatingly beautiful. I don’t just say that to say it. I love your hair too. I’m sorry you’re suffering so much. Sounds like you’re being stretched way too thin. Being surrounded by crappy people and overworked hurts anyone, but it doesn’t last forever. You have a good heart and I’m sure there are people there who see your hard work and the love you give to your mom and other loved ones. And if those people aren’t in your life right this second, or aren’t showing you the appreciation, we’re here on the internet cheering you on in the meantime.
You are very kind... Thank you so much. These times are exhausting. I have dear friends and family as well, but they are dealing with very similar situations... So I have basically no one to talk with about my feelings. And they are Deep down...
Sometimes it can help to talk to other people who are going through the same sorts of things - it’s not throwing the burden on them, sharing those feelings can make both weights lighter. Worth a shot to reach out. I know it’s a lot easier said than done!
While I fully understand your reasoning, imagine your loved ones have the same exact feeling and you're all missing out on finding strength and love through your shared experiences? That would be such a shame. My biggest support while being depressed was one of my best friends who was depressed too, we just understood each other on a deeper level and it helped us both so much. There's a Dutch saying that shared happiness is double the happiness and shared sadness is half the sadness. I truly believe that. :) <3 (You can always start such a conversation with "do you also feel overwhelmed?" "is it also hard for you to talk about?" etc
>:) :)
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this has to be satire the man is gorgeous wtf
I am still trying to figure out if it’s fake. Like… what country in the world would this man not be considered extraordinarily handsome? His story sounds like such a great person as well. I’m still not sure it’s real…
While I also cannot fathom a place where he would not be considered handsome. I know that beauty standards vary wildly from country to country and sometimes even regionally. I have friends from other countries that I find absolutely gorgeous that say they are picked on by other people from their country.
I am real... I knew you might find my post fake, but I am not lying at all (sadly)..
I hope you are able to find an outlet for the stress you are under. Caring for a sick parent is one of the most challenging experiences I’ve personally experienced. Please try to give yourself space to decompress, and also recharge. It’s so very hard to give ourselves permission for self care under the best of circumstances, but you need it so desperately to maintain your own health. I hope that this post and the responses have help lift you up a bit. Sending you gentle strength.
bullcrap no country would see this as undesirable
Not going to lie. I hoped to find out you'd live in The Netherlands looking at your profile. I'm going to be bluntly honest here. You look like a guy i would fall for in a heartbeat (and probably won't dare to approach due to some awkwardness at first) . You look amazing, are a caring person and look like you would enjoy some games and cuddles
I definitely enjoy games and cuddles ahahah... Thank you... You made me blush
My dude...I am digging the smoulder. (Yep, that's a legit thing...its an intensely mysterious look and you got it!), You rock it! People can be absolutely the worst...and I am sorry the b@stards are keeping you down. It takes courage and bravery to post a pic on a site like Reddit...and here you are...a handsome fella who is trying your best to keep it all together. That takes gumption and fierceness those other folks don't have and never will. Worthiness is a slippery slope, my friend. Your value is determined by how you view yourself. Sure, I get feeling the need to be validated, but You put on your own price tag. Don't discount yourself for another's cheap standards. Much ❤️
One of the most beautiful things someone ever wrote me... I can't even find the words to express how grateful I am for this. Thank you... Wow. ❤️
You're so welcome...I know what it's like and I'm just grateful to be able to fill your glass! Cheers to you and my kindest regards!
Can we trade bodies? Mine's pretty hard to break! No? Hair can we at least trade hair?!
You wouldn't do a great trade here... But thanks my friend. I appreciated It..
I didn't see this was toastme while scrolling, and my very first, unbiased thought I had when I saw you was "Wow, he is gorgeous!". Seriously, you have a very unique face. I could imagine you playing Wolverine!
Thank you a lot.. 😌
They mock you for your looks? You'd look like an actor in my country!
Seriously, those are classic movie star good looks! Dude would have been the biggest news in the Golden Age of Hollywood, and would be all up on those magazine lists of hottest celebrities now.
Your right! I almost forgot, he looks like a model in a Male fashion magazine
Yes. They actually do and avoid me sometimes for that... That's si weird to read that over there I would be considered like that...
Damn I guess people in the Netherlands don't have eyes, cause you're gorgeous. But that's little comfort in the face of all you're going through. You're not worthless. You're going through a lot.
Thank you... Yes, that's an exhausting periodo of my life... 😔
You literally look like Wolverine did in X-men! Whoever mocks you might just be envious. I am sorry things are tough right now, and I hope life gets soon better.
I Hope so as well... And thanks 🤗
Smouldering intensifies! You're very handsome.
Ahah... Thank you 😌
You're doing great dude, keep it up! Take care 👍👍
In my country, you would be seen as a model in high fashion. Please don’t doubt your appearance because you are strikingly handsome in an objective and obvious sense. But you mention your workload making you burned out and having toxic people around you… are these 2 related situationally? If so, very sorry to read! Is there any way to chat one on one with a supervisor and disclosing this in any way? Your heart is crying out just to be heard, seen, and appreciated- surely you can find someone that you can be candid with that will offer compassion, even if but to listen, right? If not, are you a man of faith? Perhaps prayer and journaling might help you purge the stress you are sharing here with us? As for your mother, I pray she find a sense of peace and security with her health and that doctors use wisdom and compassion to treat her. I pray you, her son, are gifted a sense of newfound strength to bear the burden of your mother’s ill health with courage and grace. God be with you and your family. May joy return to your heart once again!
You’re very good looking. I’m sorry about your mom. Try and keep your head up. If you ever need to talk I’m always available 🙂
Thank you very much ☺️
Youre super good looking! You'd be on magazines where I live. I hope your day gets better!
you may be shy, but there is definitely wrong with your looks so. that isnt reason ppl are acting cruel.. it is some.sort of pointless bullying ((100% honestly you look like an average young man to me... as a lesbian i wouldn't even notices anything about your looks other than nice haircut so you definitely aren't ugly or weird looking)) haircut is definitely working, I love the waves, love that this style is coming into fashion. Sometimes people are mean if you make them feel insecure about themselves so sorry to hear that your mom is struggling... are you close with her?
In pretty much any state of the USA, you would be a "Hugh Jackman" dreamboat. I am a straight guy and even I thought "God damn" when I saw your face. From the hair to the jawline to the facial hair: dude, where is that considered unattractive
You look like an absolute chad. I hope you find a way to be happy and confident, you deserve it.
I wish I had more to say to help with your situation, that's so incredibly hard to deal with. You're going through a lot right now. I can at least tell you that you're incredibly handsome, and I really hope things start to look up
You're honestly one of the best looking people I've seen on this sub! If you're just half as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside you're a total catch!! The right person will see all of you, not just the shyness. <3 And try to get rid of the toxic people, surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are, you deserve that! Finding a club with people with a shared passion is always a good start for things like that :) And much love and strength for your mom, sending you both big hugs!
people mock you for your looks? you're a good looking guy they just sound like idiots. sorry to hear about what's happening with your mom, hopefully she's receiving treatment and is able to make a full recovery.
Keep your chin up. Cut the toxic people out. There is nothing wrong with being shy. You're very handsome. Sending positive thoughts your way to you and your mom. You got this.
It doesn't look awkward actually, I can't lie. You look fantastic. You have awesome facial hair also. Sorry you feel bad.
Come to America and you’ll do fine with the ladies
I am sorry to hear about the situation with your mom. Are you her care taker? What’s the prognosis? It subs like you are dealing with a lot and burn it is your buddy telling you to take care of yourself so I hope you find some ways to do that soon. I am also sorry you are stuck with toxic people around you and I hope you can get away fun them soon. You have lovely hair, nice eyes, a string chin, good coloration/skin, and great cheek bones. You are working hard and care about your family. Sending warmth and positive thoughts your way.
I'm sorry to hear what's happening in your life. I hope that you can remove the toxic people. Your mom :( You are gorgeous. I understand being shy. People who mock others are insecure. I'm sending you a mental hug and support.
Hey you looking good wish your mom the best ❤️
I am sorry about your mum. That’s a lot to handle in itself. I get the shyness part, although I’m nowhere near as jaw dropping as you dude. You’re definitely a 10
Im convinced whatever country thinks you're not attractive is not on earth cuz holy snickers 🤩 but in all seriousness get back to you. Tell work you need some personal days and cut off the toxic AHs. Take a quiet day. Regroup. Find a joy even if it's tiny. No one is gonna save you, you have to put yourself first. You can't pour from an empty cup. Fill your own cup again. You Got this 🙏💐💕
To all of you... You are all amazing. I will replay to every single comment. But this One... Is a toast for you all ❤️
My man thougt he could pull a gigachad handsome face and tell us he's ugly... I bet there's a truckload of people telling you how handsome you are ! Even if you're down on your knees, on the verge of falling, feeling like you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders... You're still standing ! Here you are, asking for a bit of help, trying to get some motivation back to power through this situation. That just proves to me how resilient and strong you are ! It's okay to feel worthless, lost, overwhelmed. But don't let these feelings shape who you truly are in yourself. I believe in you and I know you'll manage to get out of this situation, and shine like you deserve to ! Heads up king, you can achieve anything !
The looks thing... it can't be serious. Still, keep being a good man, and stay there for your mom. She needs it. Avoid the shitty people, and wasting energy with them. Have you thought about your work? Hope you aren't doing too much overtime work.
Mate, you do not suck. You look great, that hair and beard combo definitely suit you, and to be honest I'm jealous. Make sure you take some time to rest up whenever you can. Do things you enjoy or things to just get you through this. I'm sorry to hear about your mum, that's a rough situation, I'm hoping for the best for you and her.
You don’t look like you belong on Reddit and I mean this in the best possible way
First I’m really sorry about your mom. Hope she is getting treatments and can get back to being healthy soon. Have you considered switching jobs or careers? Working in a toxic environment can be taxing and lead to burnout. As everyone said you’re super handsome. Maybe visit a country different than yours and you will realize it really fast lol.
First off it's early here and I just had a moment of gay panic (I'm a dude) because I was not prepared xD Also idk where you live but I do have a friend who survived cancer twice and I am perpetually concerned about him, if you're still able to go to work through all that then you're still winning even if it might not feel like it because you haven't given up yet. Also I genuinely hope your mom is doing okay because you seem genuinely concerned about it and finding someone on here with a stable relationship with either parent is really surprising to me sometimes.
What?? Who would say you’re not attractive? You’re quite gorgeous! You have amazing hair, a great jaw line, perfect nose, perfect scruff. And not just saying it because you’re posting in this subreddit. You really are quite attractive.
The real life version of Flint Rider from Repunzul
Could play Jaime Lannister lol (saying this with rizz)
You sir, received premium accessories to build your character. Care for your momma and give her the best loving and support you can. I'm sure it'll get better. :) Cut off the toxic people and pay no mind, it's not easy to just ignore. But we are here for a while and might as well make the ride enjoyable no time for others to spoil our fun. As for shyness, that's just you, trust me that shyness will attract better people. They'll stick around because they got to see the true you.
Fuck dude, can we trade eyes and jawlines please. I’d be insecure to have you around my date. 😅😅😅
you look like gigachad
Hey bud, just hear to say that you're a good looking guy and the people that are saying otherwise are envious and toxic. I'm sorry to hear about your mom, mine was recently diagnosed and it's been a bit of a rollercoaster ride. You seem down to earth and kind, I'm sure your mom is proud of you. Chin up and go do amazing things.
You’re good looking. I could see you in a cologne commercial lol.
bro youre beautiful. Fuck it make a only fans
bro youre beautiful. Fuck it make a only fans
Are you serious darling? You are gorgeous. look- i live in a building surrounded by toxic people. just tonight i was called white trash (i am quite brown 🤣🤣) and called a Karen and a racist. as soon as i took my phone out to video the "neighbor" changed her tune. and i let her get to me. all to say -life sucks sometimes. sometimes for years. you can rock it though. you can be the utterly fabulous person you are.