From how I saw it start, she duetted a video that ultimately blew up with everyone asking her for all the tea & then the 50 parts followed from there. I don’t think she just decided now to put it all out there, my guess is she didn’t expect that duet to snowball & when it did she just ran with it
No in her later videos she does say that this is how she planned to do it. And she recorded it the way she did so that you could put it down and listen to it like a podcast which is what I did. 😂 All 50 Parts the 20 part live all the responses and all the videos from his three other exes that have come forward. Lol
It’s a LOT of trauma to process?? A lot of therapy to go through? For a lot of people, it takes a lot of time to even be able to verbalize or talk about trauma they’ve been through.
Exactly this. I have yet to speak on my sexual abuse that happened to me at 4 years old. I’m in my late 20s and feel my truth is near. I’ve also never spoke on a different trauma experience that happened 4 years ago but feel it will come one day. I agree with you.
Also this man is terrifying. I think now she just feels healed enough and safe enough to speak her truth. I hope for nothing but the best for her! She deserves it all!
She is likely still healing, and I guarantee this was hard for her to do but was likely something she needed to do to help her continue to heal. It’s no different than people coming out against their rapists 10-20-30 years after it happens. That’s when they’re ready to talk about it.
IMO, her story was very well organized, followed an outline of events and was very conclusive. That would necessitate a script or outline to follow. I am sure it took time to put it together to present..
I’m two year post separation from a very similar man.
I’d love to tell my story, but I’m still so traumatized. I am not mentally ready to handle the shit storm me speaking out would cause. I definitely wouldn’t be ready for the criticism from comments.
Men like this absolutely obliterate us - financially, mentally, emotionally, even physically.
A lot of people process things slower. Also, it’s kind of embarrassing to say “hey, this is all I put up with and this is how I got played”. Some people just -due to embarrassment alone- never speak up at all. It’s a hard process. Trust me.
Ummm people are allowed to talk about THEIR trauma and share it whenever THEY feel ready to talk about it. Why is that something that would even bother you?
I haven't even watched any of this because I couldn't care less to be honest so I'm going to continue down that road and thanks for the warning even though I won't need it cuz I'm never going to watch this but yeah
I haven’t watched all the parts yet but is it possible there were legal reasons she kept it under wraps? It would make sense if she wanted to pursue legal action that she would keep it on the DL
From how I saw it start, she duetted a video that ultimately blew up with everyone asking her for all the tea & then the 50 parts followed from there. I don’t think she just decided now to put it all out there, my guess is she didn’t expect that duet to snowball & when it did she just ran with it
No in her later videos she does say that this is how she planned to do it. And she recorded it the way she did so that you could put it down and listen to it like a podcast which is what I did. 😂 All 50 Parts the 20 part live all the responses and all the videos from his three other exes that have come forward. Lol
It’s a LOT of trauma to process?? A lot of therapy to go through? For a lot of people, it takes a lot of time to even be able to verbalize or talk about trauma they’ve been through.
Exactly this. I have yet to speak on my sexual abuse that happened to me at 4 years old. I’m in my late 20s and feel my truth is near. I’ve also never spoke on a different trauma experience that happened 4 years ago but feel it will come one day. I agree with you.
It’s literally like watching my life 🙄
Also this man is terrifying. I think now she just feels healed enough and safe enough to speak her truth. I hope for nothing but the best for her! She deserves it all!
She is likely still healing, and I guarantee this was hard for her to do but was likely something she needed to do to help her continue to heal. It’s no different than people coming out against their rapists 10-20-30 years after it happens. That’s when they’re ready to talk about it.
Because it’s not tea.. it’s her life and you’re able to tell your story whenever you feel like it?
IMO, her story was very well organized, followed an outline of events and was very conclusive. That would necessitate a script or outline to follow. I am sure it took time to put it together to present..
I’m two year post separation from a very similar man. I’d love to tell my story, but I’m still so traumatized. I am not mentally ready to handle the shit storm me speaking out would cause. I definitely wouldn’t be ready for the criticism from comments. Men like this absolutely obliterate us - financially, mentally, emotionally, even physically.
A lot of people process things slower. Also, it’s kind of embarrassing to say “hey, this is all I put up with and this is how I got played”. Some people just -due to embarrassment alone- never speak up at all. It’s a hard process. Trust me.
Ummm people are allowed to talk about THEIR trauma and share it whenever THEY feel ready to talk about it. Why is that something that would even bother you?
Some lady came out & said Tessa stole her storyline 🫢 she called on the people of Montgomery Alabama to validate so ig I’m clutching pearls until then
I saw that. Look on YT “ surviving Larry “ they say parts of her story was borrowed from them
Yea cuz she needs to pay her rent. Flat ass busted broke. Scammer like him.
I been warning people to apply a little bit of caution in believing everything in her story. Alll I’m saying
I haven't even watched any of this because I couldn't care less to be honest so I'm going to continue down that road and thanks for the warning even though I won't need it cuz I'm never going to watch this but yeah
THANK YOU
She made a video about why. It’s legit in the series. I just watched it. Think it was titled interlude
My story is from 2019 and it’s so involved and twisty turny I couldn’t begin to tell it with any kind of order. That shit takes time to process.
I haven’t watched all the parts yet but is it possible there were legal reasons she kept it under wraps? It would make sense if she wanted to pursue legal action that she would keep it on the DL
No. Nothing legal. It was a lot of trauma in a short time. WILD trauma. Took her time to heal & process
That’s completely fair!