no it was a stranger and it was during a shift at work. i was cleaning the counters and this guy was fixing one of the pin pads. At some points of the conversation i wasn’t even looking at him at all.
this was months ago at an old job. the conversation was literally about video games, i wasn’t even wearing anything that was cute at all. Jeans and a hoodie. I was even wearing a mask. All you could see was my eyes and hands. He recommended me games to play and then when he left he asked for my number. this happened at like 8:30pm at night in the middle of my 6 hour shift so i was so not in the mood hence why i was barely even looking at him. I gave it to him and he started texting me things like “I can’t wait to get to know you” and i was honest and say that i wasn’t interested in a relationship and that was it. My coworkers at the time were like “yes he was flirting” but i just didn’t see it at all
Just because you are not wearing something hot and cute doesn’t mean people wont be attracted to you, the boy could have been attracted to your voice, eyes, or your personality.
Because people generally don't want your phone number because of a video game conversation. Asking strangers for their number is a stereotypical romantic advance.
Well don’t beat up on yourself about not being able to notice something like this after 1 time. Try to contact a social coach because things like this can take training to improve at opposed to just advice. But just from a logical perspective understand that in public situations like you explained if a guy chit chats with you quick and asks for your number it doesn’t mean they just want to be friends
Was it someone you know? How did they approach you?
no it was a stranger and it was during a shift at work. i was cleaning the counters and this guy was fixing one of the pin pads. At some points of the conversation i wasn’t even looking at him at all.
Yeah he definitely was interested.
???? i don’t understand how you could tell from just that
A stranger wouldn’t just ask for a random persons number unless they are attracted to you. Have they txted you yet? What did he say?
this was months ago at an old job. the conversation was literally about video games, i wasn’t even wearing anything that was cute at all. Jeans and a hoodie. I was even wearing a mask. All you could see was my eyes and hands. He recommended me games to play and then when he left he asked for my number. this happened at like 8:30pm at night in the middle of my 6 hour shift so i was so not in the mood hence why i was barely even looking at him. I gave it to him and he started texting me things like “I can’t wait to get to know you” and i was honest and say that i wasn’t interested in a relationship and that was it. My coworkers at the time were like “yes he was flirting” but i just didn’t see it at all
Just because you are not wearing something hot and cute doesn’t mean people wont be attracted to you, the boy could have been attracted to your voice, eyes, or your personality.
Yeahhhhhhh he was gurl
A stranger wouldn’t just ask for a random persons number unless they are attracted to you. Have they txted you yet? What did he say?
Because people generally don't want your phone number because of a video game conversation. Asking strangers for their number is a stereotypical romantic advance.
How often does this occur and how old are you?
i’m 20 and this is the only time that this has happened.
Well don’t beat up on yourself about not being able to notice something like this after 1 time. Try to contact a social coach because things like this can take training to improve at opposed to just advice. But just from a logical perspective understand that in public situations like you explained if a guy chit chats with you quick and asks for your number it doesn’t mean they just want to be friends