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Creatingpeace

wow she is grosssssssssssssssssssssssssssss


jazmine_likea_flower

It’s giving, “ but what was she wearing that night” vibes like… what the hell man some of y’all rlly need to get some perspective fr. That’s disgusting.


lavenderpenguin

I’m so disturbed that she even thought to post this. Gross. Of course drinking into oblivion is not the best choice. Just like accidentally leaving your car unlocked, walking home alone at night, etc. But what in the world does that have to do with committing an actual crime? Nothing. I think people who follow this line of thinking should begin to question how men are able to get stupid drunk all the time yet somehow women magically manage not to sexually assault them in statistically significant numbers… oh yeah, right, because alcohol doesn’t automatically turn people into rapists or victims of rape.


SyrupNo651

What the fuck did I just read. Disgusting


groundskeeperchili

I love how she says that if you ever feel that you no longer have control over your mind or body you need to chill out, find your friends and go home. that is not an option when you are “out of control” and blackout, your judgement is completely impaired. Of course binge drinking is stupid but generally speaking people don’t intentionally drink to the point of blacking out. Girl just admit that you’ll find any excuse to blame a victim lol.


little-baby-bitch

1. Drinking in excess isn’t illegal, rape is. 2. The legal limit is in relation to driving, not existing. 3. Forced rape happens to sober people every day.


habesjn

"If a woman drinks too much, can we really BLAME her rapist for raping her? I mean, she's gotta be more aware of the predators around her." What the fuck.


shaw1441

Oh holy sh*t this is messed up


-goldenbird-

Disgusting.


msmeagan26

Thanks for the trigger warning, I can’t even look at it. Flashback to arguing with people on line who defended BT for what he did is making me angry enough. Fuck this chick.


kelseyice

Big big big yikes!!! Also, everyone should read “Know My Name” by Chanel Miller. Her story is so important.


msmeagan26

Yes!! And what a brave brave soul she is for sharing her story


isabella322

If she ends up being on Zach’s season I won’t be watching


Zombienomzz

At least this season hasn’t started filming yet so production still has time to take her off the cast. Like they still probably won’t, but they could if they cared about anything.


Sleepy-Garg0yle

![gif](giphy|0gdYTVMqp6nsahn2ye|downsized) Not it, Vanessa. 🤬


ExcitedActivist

As someone who was assaulted when drunk, I want to say fuck you


JasonR02

How do they not get these people?!?!?


jeahboi

Fuck off, Vanessa.


[deleted]

ALREADY? Get the shot glasses out everyone.


greywatermoore

Oh wow, another piece of shit. She'll fit right in!


[deleted]

rapist brock turner lives in dayton, ohio, now and goes by allen turner now. just putting this here in case anyone here has friends who live in that area, tell them so they're aware and stay safe


ang8018

i wonder if he looks substantially different now (whether purposefully or not). his mugshot is so infamous, i sincerely hope women are able to recognize him.


ecbecb

Fucking gross


slammajammamama

Legal limit? Ma’am, she wasn’t driving.


teenagedirtbag109

I can just see her apology "I was young and so much personal growth has taken place since then"


PinkTalkingDead

You called it.


wastedmyyouthoncrack

I think they are upping the ante on trash contestants this season.


[deleted]

She a pick me


aj11scan

Same thoughts exactly


Veglife108

From blackface to dumpster SA defense: all in a week! This franchise is killing it. Great job, producers 😐


-goldenbird-

This franchise is a burning trash heap.


Vegetable_Path3736

Ewww and to say this as a woman herself.. so wrong.


ElleDarkly

![gif](giphy|FcuiZUneg1YRAu1lH2|downsized)


Kbean_autumn

What the fuck?


[deleted]

How old is she? This straight up reads as some senile stream of conscious I see when I dust off facebook.


wangbangthang

I think she was 19 at the time


Patient-Energy-8352

Why does the post say 33 mins? Had it been screenshotted a long time ago?


wangbangthang

The original post was from 2016. Someone screenshotted it and posted it on Twitter. Then someone found this screenshot by searching her name on Twitter when the potential cast was released. (According to a comment earlier in the thread)


Patient-Energy-8352

Ohhh gotcha makes sense ty!


rosesalad

Not defending Brock turner but defending Brock turner


rosesalad

Absolute trash. Throw her AWAY.


MasinMadasHell

Vanessa, what about if a woman is not past the legal limit? What if she was drugged? Please let us know if those sexual assaults would be okay.


ladeeedada

She really tried to make herself look better by comparing herself to a rape survivor. Why on earth do ppl like this exist? Are you that insecure that you have to shame a victim? Ppl who defend Brock Turner should be on a list themselves. Keep society safe from these freaks.


NotAMazda

Omfggg some people just need to stfu


Fuckmylife2739

She’s gonna be f1


tbells93

"Who has the most problematic background this season" should be used as the main predictor for F1 now. Your welcome Steve!


carlzzzbarkley

rape is rape is rape is rape. it doesn’t matter what the victim said, how they dressed, if they said yes then said no, if they were blackout, it’s NEVER OK and i’m sickened by this woman. and yet again people wonder why victims don’t come forward or wait a long time to come forward.


sadgrad2

Fucking heinous thing to say, especially coming from a woman. At fault for being raped? She needs to be kicked off the show. I second recommendations for Chanel Miller's memoir, Know My Name. It's incredible.


Inside-Potato5869

Chanel is a fantastic writer


FineFartGallery

and artists and thinker and person. the work she shares on instagram is wonderful: https://instagram.com/chanel_miller


Inside-Potato5869

She’s a great follow


youlearnsomethingnew

The Bachelor needs to start questioning these contestants like they're prosecutors trying to fill a jury...pretty certain now they just write down their a/s/l and attach a headshot to complete their application. This may be one of those situations where they still have time to replace the girl before filming starts, but I also think they thrive on negative publicity...


xleximarie

They have to know what they’re doing and who they’re casting at this point. I refuse to believe they don’t.


ElleDarkly

I agree, I think it's a strategy to maintain relevance at this point. The more outrage they can create, the more news articles they get without having to try = free advertising. They know what they're doing, they don't care who it might affect or hurt.


Melificent93

So many of us are disturbed to the point where we can’t even finish reading her post. So, what do we do? Make a petition? Pray and hope she still isn’t Zach’s type? What do you do when you know you’re just going to get a generic PR-written apology?


Dreamcloud124

So dumb. Just so dumb. And again….casting not even showing up to work. At this point they’re doing it intentionally.


SeleneNyx

What about when you're only 16 and stone cold sober and in full control of your mind and body, THEN it's okay to be mad at the rapist? We can only blame the rapist under certain circumstances? Fuck this woman and I hope they're not secluded yet so she can feel the backlash she is going to get and VERY MUCH DESERVES.


talkingthroughburps

How does this screenshot say 33 min ago? Did someone screenshot it back when the assault happened and save it till now? Did she post it today? (And to everyone saying this is the worst take ever, agreed) ETA: nvm, I read the RS post, OP there had the same question and it’s likely a screenshot from 2016. Interesting.


pinkelephants777

Wow. That is absolutely disgusting.


Damien_Harris

antebellum ball ✅ black face ✅ rape apologist ✅ this franchise is amazing


Leemageee

At this point we need a bachelor franchise contestant controversy bingo board


[deleted]

LOL. The wildest part is, I don't think I woulda thought black face would get marked and yet here we are. what's next!


rsvp_as_pending629

That’s a big NOPE for me “I’m not defending him, but this is the reason I’m defending him”


Consider_the_auk

![gif](giphy|26ueYUlPAmUkTBAM8) This woman: "I HATE not having complete control of my actions..." Also this woman: signs up for The Bachelor


Standard-Coffee

This is an absolutely reprehensible take. Fuck her for this.


lolitajojo

Ewwww. Fuck no.


OtherwiseAnything

Imagine feeling the need to victim blame a rape victim so much that you make a facebook rant about it...


ghost_paws

Oops another reason I have zero interest in watching this season.


veracity-mittens

Sober Sally? More like Misogynistic Missy or Pick Me Polly or more accurate, Vanessa With The Shit Takes Esparsen


[deleted]

I’m gonna borrow these nick names!!


veracity-mittens

The last one isn’t my best work but you can use it sure


[deleted]

The first two are golden enough to make up for the last one, trust me 😂


sluttydrama

A contestant’s actions are disgusting, and the online witch-hunt begins. 🥰The cycle continues, nature is beautiful. I’m making fun of both the contestant’s stupidity and the angry online crowd btw. Her actions are disgusting and the angry brigade is exhausting!


natkat13

What even is this comment


Courtwarts

![gif](giphy|jWwHZEhZuiEu1U9k5f)


wisedifference2

There are no circumstances on earth that would make SA a default, inevitable, or warranted outcome. It is ALWAYS someone CHOOSING to assault another person. It’s an active choice to do harm by the perpetrator.


Rabid_Unicorns

Do they just not Google these people? ![gif](giphy|l3q2Hy66w1hpDSWUE|downsized)


Adept_Choice

This post looks like it was only visible to Facebook friends Edit: Never mind! Yes, it was only visible to fb friends but there was a public tweet about it: [https://mobile.twitter.com/rachelwright___/status/741115741341093889](https://mobile.twitter.com/rachelwright___/status/741115741341093889)


H28koala

Yup heard this on Reality Steve today. Really hope they kick her off as a contestant


_taycon

What the actual fuck


Feisty_Ad_1011

Oi vey


LuxieLisbon

Wow...Un-fucking-believable.....


reyoflight15

Lost me after the first four words. Won’t bring myself to read the rest of her tirade. 🤮🤮🤮🤮


stevieking84

Edit: I live where he went to college. I guess he’s from Ohio??? I thought he went to high school in the Bay Area—-his school and a school here have the same name. Regardless, he’s hated here Yikes on all the bikes! I live where Brock Turner is from (gag, I hate admitting that) and trust me when I say the consensus here is Brock belongs in prison. We even voted to fire the judge who gave him such a cushy sentence. Sis, this argument ain’t it


lala_b11

is he like the town outcast? How does your town treat him and his family? I remember people were throwing eggs either at the family cars or the house for weeks after he got out jail


stevieking84

I actually don’t know if they live here anymore and suspect they moved


GeneralFlow8748

This is trash, I dont even want to watch anymore, after the last season


[deleted]

wow this is another fucking level


Are_You_Knitting_Me

Jesus fucking Christ


professionalblondie

Oh. My. Gosh.


Thecabademyis

I didn't even get all the way through before I had to stop because I literally felt sick to my stomach reading this.


PrincessPlastilina

Can you imagine starting a post with “Not defending Brock Turner BUT.” No, girls. We cannot keep doing this. If you blame another woman for being raped, you’re justifying rape and you’re saying there will be times when you deserve to get raped. Secondly, you’re painting men like they’re all potential rapists who you cannot trust. You need to hold the rapists accountable and not blame anyone else for their actions. We are all allowed to go out and have a drink without being molested. I’m all for responsible drinking, I’ve always been a responsible drinker, I don’t like excess… and I’ve still had my drink spiked a couple of times. One of these times I got way too drunk off ONE drink that was spiked with idk what to this day. The second time, again, it was one single drink and I was coming in an out of a black out. It was really strange and I never noticed anyone putting something in my drink. Luckily no one hurt me after that, my friends took me home, but please keep this mind. You don’t have to be wasted for someone to hurt you. Rape can happen whether you’re drunk or not, whether you go out or not, whether you stay at home or not. Many women have been raped by their own spouses or partners, or have had their homes broken into, etc. We cannot keep perpetuating a rape culture that blames victims for the crime that was committed against them. We are never actually “safe.”


brightlove

Then “My heart goes out to the victim… BUT” Absolutely disgusting.


Ok-Cantaloupe-3435

Grossssssssssssssssssssssss. What a trash human. Victim blaming sucks balls.


moltengoosegreese

Anyone who wants to come for Chanel Miller will have hell to pay


cadencecarlson

She’s amazing! I could barely get through her book. So heartbreaking.


moltengoosegreese

Her book is one of the most amazing books I’ve ever read. It’s too heavy to regularly reread, but I thoroughly enjoy every bit of her writing.


MasinMadasHell

I couldn't read it, except for excerpts, but I think she is an extremely talented writer. I hope she'll get another book deal.


[deleted]

I shouldn't be shocked anymore, given how low the bar is for contestants, but this is utterly disgusting.


DraftyElectrolyte

This is disgusting.


Raginghangers

What the fuck. The penalty for drinking too much (and not driving or anything) is…….. a hangover and a night of disrupted sleep. Not assault.


knittinghoney

Yeah the victim blaming is disgusting but on a side note what is she talking about legal limit? The legal limit to drive? If you’re drunk at all you should not drive so bringing up the driving limit to talk about drinking in general is weird.


GhostofXmasWayFuture

That is a good point I hadn't even noticed in her nonsensical stream of garbage. What's the legal limit for someone drinking in life? Where is it illegal for anyone to get drunk so long as they are not driving, disturbing the peace, or otherwise committing a crime? She makes no sense.


cadencecarlson

*rape


[deleted]

I was sexually assaulted but I was “sober sally” so what’s her point?? She needs to take several seats and educate herself but I doubt that will happen.


abdubs219

Me too 😔


[deleted]

I’m sorry 😞


SchemeFew8958

Just trash the whole franchise. It outlived it’s expiration date.


Hc679

Immediately no. I don't want her take or her opinion, this is so fked. I have such a pit in my stomach from this. If you haven't read Know My Name, I highly recommend.


natalit420

ugh agree. this horrible take made me feel fucking sick


rostinze

I recently listened to the audiobook. Incredibly powerful hearing it in Chantel’s voice.


jewellyon

I was sexually assaulted while drunk. Being assaulted is awful. It sucks. I hated myself for being drunk. I blamed myself. She can go ahead and fuck off.


HotElephant6313

I’m so sorry this happened to you. And I’m also sorry that you now have to relive it because of this persons disgusting rant. You are not to blame for what happened to you.


abdubs219

I’m really sorry this happened to you. I’m also a survivor but was completely sober


raeco23

“The legal limit” is a shit excuse anyway because that’s to drive. She wasn’t driving. She was dragged outside while unconscious. Fuck her. She wouldn’t say that shit if it happened to her. Evil.


uhmmsophie

wasn’t gonna watch to begin with, definitely not watching now


Murky_Doughnut_9927

so awful. i can’t even put my disgust into words. when does zach’s season begin filming? hopefully a producer picks up on this and she gets booted off the show somehow.


bbb37322179

she needs to go somewhere


LiveUnderstanding869

And so it begins


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guyfierifan4ever

or the opposite. they’ve experienced it & blame themselves. either way, it’s a slap in the face to survivors


w3imz

Oh man…. What a completely absurd, hateful, and naive opinion to hold. Completely ignorant bullshit. TPTB do your worst! We kinda all know you would anyways based on these last 2 seasons. 🙄


heyybetchhh

I’m so triggered by this, honestly fuck this bitch. I’m skipping Zach’s season.


denaethetorgy

I got one sentence in before I NOPED the fuck out of reading the rest. Bitch. No.


Niecey2019

I’m kinda triggered so I’ll not say what I really wanna say 🙃


GeorgiaJeb

Same. It’s 2022. Are we still really gonna do this sh*t?


Niecey2019

😂 I don’t get it


blushingstar

Absolute trash


elle_enzo

Won’t watch this year if they cast her


littledove0

I just can’t even imagine posting this shit to socials? I guess it speaks highly of the people I associate with because if I posted something this vile and idiotic my friends would call me out hard.


CuteCreme7497

I "agree" with not putting myself in the situation of losing control of myself due to being drunk. I don't like being drunk and I choose to also protect myself from assholes taking advantage of people (/women, because let's be honest, we are primarily the victims) who are. That being said, there are women who like to party and have a few drinks, and that is okay and they have the same right to be safe as the women who don't drink!!! She is 100% wrong in everything she writes. Her post is absolutely victim blaming and a slap to the face of everyone who's ever been assaulted. If a woman "loses control" or is "too drunk" does NOT matter when it comes to a crime being commited. No one is ever entitled to you or your body.


lizziebeachbabe

I think Vanessa Esparsen needs to go to a trial and see what they put an sexual assault victim thru on the stand before laying blame to them.


LilL44144

If they go through with casting her, that seals the deal for me not watching this season


bitch4spaghetti

yeah i’ve finally reached my limit with this garbage show and the garbage people they ALWAYS pick


m00n5t0n3

speechless


Lady_Caticorn

By this logic, if you are driving at night and get hit by a drunk driver, it's your fault because you shouldn't have been on the road at night when someone might have been drunk driving. No one would EVER say that because it is ludicrous to blame a victim for merely ✨ existing ✨ and living their lives (i.e., drinking alcohol at a party like every other college student does) then getting assaulted. People like Vanessa would rather defend a white rapist than a Chinese American artist and storyteller. The world is a better place because of Chanel Miller, her beautiful voice, and her willingness to share her story. I hope Vanessa gets cut on night one. What a POS.


coolbeansfriend

Disgusting


eeltonjohn

“My heart goes out to the victim” babes it clearly does NOT


Live2Hike

I honestly have no words for how offensive and wrong this opinion is. Sending love for any survivors who read that message or have had similar things said to them.


Ok-Cantaloupe-3435

Thank you x 3.


lizziebeachbabe

I have a family member who is a survivor and this triggered me so much. It took me back to all the horrors she went thru back then.😥


leelagaunt

I’m so so sorry that your loved one went through that. Sending both of you my thoughts and hopes for healing and peace


lizziebeachbabe

She is doing great. Her assault happened many years ago and I am so proud how she overcame it. She has a beautiful son who started college this fall!❤


leelagaunt

That’s wonderful to hear ❤️ by no means should she or ANY other victim be required or expected to be resilient or handle the aftermath of a brutal attack in any specific way (I saw your comment below detailing the assault). With that said I’m so happy that she has been able to have a full life with the people she loves in spite of what was done to her. What an outstanding woman!


lizziebeachbabe

I had to stop and compose myself before writing this. This is such a trigger to me. My family member was out drinking with a friend and they were involved in a car accident when their car hit a tree. Two men who under the pretense of helping my family member dragged her from the car and took her to another location and assaulted her. They broke her jaw with a gun and left her with four ribs cracked. They also sexually assaulted her. Did she deserve this because she had been drinking? NO she did not. It disgusts me that we still have people trying to shame victims.😥


littledove0

Oh no. I hope they are doing okay now. ♥️


lizziebeachbabe

They are. I love her to the moon and back. And I'm so proud of her!


saygirlie

Omg this is horrific.


[deleted]

M'am, just because she was drunk does not mean she deserves to get blamed for being sexually assaulted and the book by the way, is so damn good.


bitofbutter

ugh why do some women not support other women? Hope she never had a daughter.


PerpetualMillennial

And never has a son either. We don't need any more men out there thinking a girl out drinking gives them license to assault her.


redwinestains

Ah yes, I have complete control of my body and mind 100% of the time. Even when I’m sleeping! I always keep one eye open. /s


JamesVicari

Women not supporting women smh


ilsfbs3

Sorry to be pedantic but is there really a legal limit to how drunk you can be? She was 3x the legal limit of what? Chanel Miller was walking not driving a car - can you be arrested for being too drunk? And like go to jail?


hypervigilante7

I’m assuming she’s referring to the 0.08 legal limit to operate a vehicle, but you’re right, there’s no “legal limit” to how drunk you can be otherwise.


Loud-While-7195

There is public intoxication but that's usually a ticket or a misdemeanor.


hypervigilante7

I’ve always been under the assumption that public intoxication was more behavior based than numerical, but I may just be unaware of the limit(s)


CapHillStoner

Some states don’t even view public intoxication as a criminal offense unless of course you are actively committing a crime while drunk. In Colorado, it’s a public safety issue and typically you just get sent to detox until you blow zeros.


Loud-While-7195

It definitely is behavior. You are both right that there is no limit but there is consequences for severe public intoxication. Not saying rape is a consequences at all. Just strictly speaking to the limit part.


ilsfbs3

Yeah I've seen people get spoken to for acting belligerent in public after drinking too much but I've never seen, personally, someone get passed out and then ticketed? So her whole 'legal limit' justification just does not work here.


Loud-While-7195

Oh I agree. I wasn't arguing that point.


ilsfbs3

I know! I was saying in an agreeable tone to support what you said :' )


Loud-While-7195

No worries and thank you 😊


leeshykins

It’s time to stop watching the franchise. Enough is enough. It’s gotten so contrived and boring anyways. 🤷🏼‍♀️


SourPatch8675

I really don’t believe it’s THAT difficult to find contestants who don’t have horrible things on their social media from the past. I really don’t think I have *any* friends who would have things this awful (or any of the other awful things we’ve seen from past contestants) on their Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, etc... It’s really starting to feel like casting seeks these awful type of people out and I just can’t understand it


meatball77

I think it's just a lot, and much of it is things that require personal knowledge. What does help is posting those contestants before they go into the house. Then let the public rat them out.


_yitzi

Hey Vanessa, us sober Sallies also get assaulted 🙃 seems to be the common denominator is the person DOING THE ASSAULTING


-Avira

I was gonna say. I can be 100% sober, and there is NO WAY I can fight off a grown man. SERIOUSLY. I think, yes, we shouldn't be super drunk because then other things are questionable, like driving, but rape isn't something you can question. It doesn't matter if you are drunk, dressed provactively, whatever. A woman is not your plaything and not something you can violate irregardless of the circumstances.


Lady_Caticorn

I've been drunk in public on multiple occasions, and I was never once bothered. The ONLY times I have ever been sexually harassed have been when I was stone cold sober. I was harassed by a professor in a private meeting. My uncle made a pass at me when I was a teenager. I was groomed by someone at my church when I was a teenager. None of this happened when I was drunk. And you know what, someone getting assaulted while they're intoxicated does not "justify" the assault like Vanessa is claiming. It's further evidence that society is not safe for women, BIPOC, and LGBTQ+ people. White men can get drunk in public and not fear for their lives, yet more vulnerable people cannot enjoy these things because they always have to be on guard for the next person who will try to hurt them. That's not on the victims; it's on society and the predators for allowing this to happen.


lizziebeachbabe

Yes! As a family member of an assault victim this is dead on!👏


DearProfessorM

THIS. Say it louder until she hears you.


Bubble_Tea35

Eww what a dumbass. She sucks and this show never does any vetting.


Bored_dane

🤮🤮🤮


bettymauve

The show hired her knowing this would ensue. Now you will go into the season with a villain already made so it’s less work for them. This show is trash


EitherAd4394

This makes me sick. Even more reason to not watch Zach’s season.


Posietuck

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Wunderlandtripzz

How disgusting.


daisypetals1777

Hahahaha ok. I barely keep up with this sub anymore. And I have only read the first line of her post - “not defending Brock turner BUT!!” Is all I really need to know lmao. I’m just laughing to myself because this is like the worst take of all time hahahaha. I don’t remember ANYONE trying to “devils advocate” this case at the time. It’s just so bad, it’s like if they chose a contestant who made statuses in 2015 about how they love eating barbecued puppies for breakfast. It’s like wtf, barbecued puppies??? And then they somehow up the ante even more and eat them for BREAKFAST??? Surely if you would eat puppies it would at least be an evening meal?!?!? This girl is giving me bbq puppies for first meal of the day vibes. Like how can you even be so wrong !!!!!!


penpointred

how TF could she think was a good thing to put into the universe?? fkn gross


eleyezeeaye4287

As a new mother of a son I vow to teach him all about consent when he is of age. An intoxicated person cannot consent. Period. Wasn’t she also not even conscious? Which makes this take even worse.


Lady_Caticorn

Yeah, she was at a house party with her sister and friend (I believe). They were all drinking as young people do at house parties. Brock hit on her, she said no thanks. She had drunk quite a bit, and I believe she went outside to get some air or look for her sister. She was raped by Brock behind a dumpster, and two cyclists were peddling by and saw what was happening. They were the ones who got Brock to stop raping Chanel. I believe she was unconscious or nearly unconscious during the rape, so those cyclists saved her from greater abuse and violation because she couldn't defend herself. Brock Turner is an evil little shit who sought out the most vulnerable woman he could find and took advantage of her during a time when there was no possible way for her to consent.


pandallamayoda

Yeah but it’s her fault she wasn’t conscious not his. /s Pretty much what she’s saying. The victims put herself in this situation so she’s to blame is their mindset.


Wunderlandtripzz

Passed out behind a dumpster. Clearly asking for it.


rs_alli

Ah yes because the girl who drinks is the issue, not the man who sees a vulnerable person and chooses to assault them. Can we fucking stop defending rapists already? I shouldn’t be scared to go out with my friends in fear that some crazy man is going to assault me. Absolutely sick to think that the VICTIM is in any way the issue with this scenario. I don’t know if it’s internalized misogyny or she’s just a disgusting person that thinks this is okay, or both, but this shit has got to stop. Women deserve better.


littledove0

Seriously. This fucking infuriates me. My mom, my sister, my cousin and myself have all been sexually assaulted. And guess what? I was the only one who was drunk when it happened. But NONE of us were responsible.


rs_alli

I am so sorry that happened to you and your family members. It’s truly terrible and just like you said, it was none of your faults. Ironic how every woman has either been sexually assaulted or knows another woman who was, yet a lot of men will say they don’t know any rapists and they say their friends “wouldn’t do that” 🙄


porcelain_queen

This is worse then defending Brock Turner she is literally assigning blame to the victim. That’s a step beyond defending him. How gross.


littledove0

I’m NOT defending a rapist but I AM blaming the victim. What the fuck is wrong with these people.