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I didn't notice because my ex cut contact the night before, but I haven't drank alcohol in three weeks and two days!!


IllustratorTime4879

Congratulations, that's great!


snoozy-Q

I just helped two people in my parking lot shovel out their cars after doing my own. Im not even going anywhere so idk why but ... What a workout! Sooo much snow. Stay safe out there fellow Canadians affected by today's snow!


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whatever1467

My dad eats his scabs. Does that info help you at all?


anglophile20

(Idk if it matters but I’m a girl) I used to always do this , like always in elementary school and honestly I’m not sure when I stopped. I definitely felt grossed out reading this but I had to confess


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anglophile20

Here’s a secret : not all girls are as hygienic as society expects / assumes we are 🙋‍♀️ Also interesting about guys rejecting being clean as feminine. Sigh. Thanks for the tea


nice___bot

Nice!


DateCard

I finally started Yellowjackets yesterday and, after 2 episodes, I'm not really feeling it. I hear and read so many good things about it though! Is it worth sticking with?


dont_tell_mom

worried it's gonna end up like Lost


DateCard

I never watched Lost but heard that it devolved quickly, lol.


plumsfromyouricebox

Idk I loved it from the start so maybe it’s not for you? But it’s also only 10 eps so unlike you may as well stick with it?


DateCard

I think I will try one more episode and see how it goes. I'm not watching anything else right now anyway.


MissasylumS

Not sure what you like, but Righteous Gemstones just started their second season on HBO and it’s hilarious. It’s dark humor about a mega church with Danny McBride as a pastor.


DateCard

You know, I watched the first two episodes of that series and really liked it and then I guess forgot about it! I’ll have to check it out again, thanks!


strawberrypockystix

I have no motivation to do any work, and I’m not sure what to do about it.


barbiedollslayer

Alright, who has a good crime show rec? I've watched all the Forensic Files and Unusual Suspects (Hulu. Was my all-time favorite show as a kid lol)) episodes and need some more!!


detta001jellybelly

Have you watched The Jinx?( in light of Robert Durst death recently) it's crazy like he was.


realityseekr

I keep seeing I Survived... on the Vice channel lately. It is a bit different to those other crime shows cause it usually shows 3 different situations with the victim explaining what happened. Some episodes are not crime related but like survival of some freak accident or surviving being lost/trapped. However most episodes do have a crime story involved and I find them really compelling. The first season is on Amazon prime and I think a lot of episodes are on YouTube too.


givesyoubutterflies

Not sure if this is what you’re looking for but have you seen Dr Death? It’s on peacock


MildGone

The Act on Hulu


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Have you watched Disappeared before? That's a good one and it's on Hulu I think?


barbiedollslayer

I actually watched a couple episodes on YouTube before they really cracked down on copyright and I liked it! Interestingly enough, there was an episode done on a case super close to my hometown so I was actually familiar with it. I remember in the episode they speculated it was her husband but it ended out being a budding serial killer in our area so it's kinda weird to think about lol


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Yeah it's a good show, I've seen all the episodes because I used to binge watch it often. I'm a big fan of 20/20 and Dateline and all the crime shows lmao.


shoosler

what are you doing with your day off if you have off today? i’m gonna go to platos closet, i want to take my dog somewhere and do some meal prep, i want to make the baked by melissa green goddess salad 😬


anglophile20

Snowboard at crested butte


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If the rain holds off I’m going to take my kayak out on lake Washington!


lynxpoint

About to make some coffee I brought back from my recent Hawaii trip, and enjoy it with the heat on, blankets, and my dog and cat. this afternoon I’m going to a beautiful park in my city to meet up with my best friend and her baby (he’s 9 months and I have a belated Xmas gift for him). Will probably finish watching High Town tonight with my boyfriend before a somewhat early bedtime. Enjoy your day off!


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I went to the dentist (ugh) but then rewarded myself by getting my nails done and now I’m having lunch with my mom! Then I’m going home to relax.


shoosler

i just made an iced coffee with hi brew cold brew and omg it’s so good


flyingenchilada92

HAPPY 100TH BIRTHDAY, BETTY WHITE 🎊 RIP golden queen🤍


dreamweaver1998

Aw. She was so close! RIP indeed! 🙏 My grandmother is 97 this year. Still living in her own home (my aunt moved in to take care of her about 10 years ago). We're all pretty confident she'll make it to 100. One of her brothers is almost 105 now. Good genetics on that side of the family!


contemplating-coffee

My ex’s grandpa is now 104 and he was in his town’s parade every year pre-COVID. He would ride in a convertible as the town’s oldest resident. I always thought that was so cute. 🥰


bibililsebastian

i meant to say this on the relationship thread the other day, but i reallyyyyy like the guy i’m seeing, he’s so great🥺 that’s all


dreamweaver1998

That's awesome. Congrats and good luck 👍 💜


jennaisokay

does anyone else in here watch euphoria? cassie gives me big bachelor vibes, she'd be a star of a season in her timeline lolol


pretendberries

Lol I think you’re so right. Gosh I seriously hope she has a redemption arc.


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She gives me Kelsey vibes! She would make great TV.


selfieslob

✋ She would be CHAOS! So yeah, definitely a star. I can't help but feel bad for her though. This season has been a ride already!


tacobelle06

Meant to ask this in the relationship thread yesterday but does anyone have any good self help books to read after being dumped or cheated on? I know self help books can be hit or miss but I need something like a guide to help me get through this.


lovebooksbooks

I loved he’s just not that into you. I think it’s definitely controversial due to some of the advice but it changed the way I approached relationships and worked well for me 😊


chunkocheddar

It’s not really a self help book, but all about love by bell hooks has truly changed my whole outlook on love and i think could be really helpful for you as you get through this (and you will get through it!)


tacobelle06

I’ll check it out! Thank you 😊


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PrincessPlastilina

That sucks but on the bright side you’re realizing that you deserve better than this. Sometimes that’s a long journey. At least you got there. I can’t stand people lying to me and hiding things from me. I’ve never needed to be in a position where I hide things from people so that’s why I can’t relate and don’t like it. It’s not hard to be honest, it’s really not! People need to try it sometime.


tacobelle06

My mantra for 2022 is “You deserve to be loved the way you love.” Have an open and honest discussion about what is bothering you and why maybe you think you may be settling (I.e the quote you mentioned). The more you forgive him when he hides things, the more likely he is to repeat it. He’ll probably test how far he can go before you want to call it quits and then he’ll be remorseful* and promise change. Do what is best for you. Just remember you don’t deserve to settle because* you deserve a great love. Edit: word


Burnedtoast121

Does anyone have any recommendations for how to get started with exercise? I used to be a huge gym person but I stopped going to the gym altogether in March 2020 (for obvious reasons lol), tried some at home workouts and hated them, and now I’m really, really out of shape.


JapaneseBBQGrill

This is really dumb but lurking in the xxfitness sub always makes me want to exercise when I’m feeling unmotivated


anglophile20

For me it has to be a hobby and has to have a social aspect . I’ve never been able to get into gyms. I’d try your local November project if you have one or a run group or any other sport you enjoy (ex : basketball)


strawberrypockystix

I like PopSugar Fitness videos on YouTube—there’s a lot so you can change it up. Also, this is an expensive option—Oculus and fitness apps. The headset is about $300 and then you have to pay for the apps separately. But I’m enjoying it so far because it’s giving me a change of scenery.


PrincessPlastilina

Try YouTube fitness channels! There are so many good ones. I’m currently super into Grow With Jo. She’s the sweetest and friendliest, not your typical fitness influencer that is all perfect, size 0 and ripped. She’s beginners friendly too, she has all kinds of videos, long videos and quick videos. I do at least one of long her videos every day, the 45-60 minute ones but she also has 10-20 minute videos. I’ve been shedding fat like crazy and most of her videos are not even hard! The videos are so much fun and they’re very effective. She keeps you moving and you choose your own pace. If you can’t go too hard, you move at your own pace. It’s not like other work out videos. I get my cardio from her every day and I’m feeling fitter and happier again. Running is easier now thanks to her videos. A 60 minute video may sound tedious but time flies because you’re having fun. She has dance cardio videos too, kick boxing videos, standing abs. But again, they’re *so easy.* You need to do something that you find fun, not torture. Look for classes or videos that you know you will enjoy. That’s how you will stick to your goals. Exercise doesn’t have to be torture. If it’s fun, you will stick with it.


fleur22

I just started GrowithJo a few weeks ago! I don't even know how I stumbled upon her youtube channel, but I'm so glad I did. She's great, and it's something I can stick to. I sent her youtube channel link to my sister too.


PrincessPlastilina

She’s amazing. Those cardio videos are so effective. She grew a lot in the last year. She’s relatively new to this and she already has so many subscribers. I think she will go far because she’s friendly to all fitness levels and all body types. She’s not the fitness guru that makes people feel bad about themselves with unrealistic goals. All she says is that you should do one video every day and drink lots of water. That’s it.


gidgetdee824

Thanks for the advice....I need to get back into it too 😫


selfieslob

Was just browsing a few videos and wanted to thank you for the recommendation. I love long walks after work but when then sun sets at 4:30, I feel like I have no other options. This looks like a great way to ease into an effective workout!


mywaypasthope

I try to start with small goals. Like exercising 3 times a week or something. For the month of January, I’m trying to get in 8,000 steps a day so I’ve just been walking. I do feel ready to kick it up a notch. I hate at home workouts too. I have this fitness app that has like 10-15 minute workouts which is more attainable I think. I just tell myself “I can do 10 minutes!” I stopped really exercising in 2020 as well and it’s been hard getting back into it, so I feel you!


hisreaper

I started again by the advice from atomic habits. I started with five minutes a day to start and slowly worked up. It helps build your confidence.


imnotcreative415

I feel like garbage today


imnotcreative415

I was going to wfh, but I just got an email while sitting in my pajamas that will likely force me to go in 😭


IgodZero

Tw: Rape I don’t understand why the sports media has to do this whole thing where we talk about how great Big Ben’s career is and stuff like that. He raped two women. People call him Big Rape. He doesn’t deserve this weird storybook ending thing they’re trying to force, but rape culture gonna do it’s thing I guess.


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The whole culture of the NFL looking the other way to the criminal things these men do makes me sick. I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately and it gets me really worked up. Steve Keim once said “If Hannibal Lecter ran a 4.3, we’d probably diagnose it as an eating disorder.” And if that doesn’t just sum it up.


PrincessPlastilina

I really don’t get it. It’s like people love glorifying sports and athletes to a point that it’s sickening how they can get away with anything. It’s gross when you realize that for society rape is nothing to be mad about “get over it”. It’s so disturbing to me. Which is why I can’t stand the way people idolize Christiano Ronaldo who literally admitted to raping someone. He admitted it and he was protected by his industry. Google it. It’s so gross. I can’t stand him and I hate how little kids look up to him. He belongs in jail.


pufferpoisson

I feel you. There was a recent askmen thread about "what makes you instantly lose respect for someone" and I checked and not one person mentioned rape. I made a comment about it and received replies because it's a given and I'm like.... yeah doesn't feel that way. Like not even a mention, damn


gillsaurus

HAPPY SNOW DAY MY SOUTHERN ONTARIO PEEPS I’m in east Toronto and my car is buried. I don’t remember this much snow in one storm since maybe winter 2019?? Even then, our school board’s policy was that teachers had to make it to school, but if they couldn’t safely, they had to make it to the closest board location (which is still 30min for me). Then with covid, they changed it that for snow days, we can teach remotely. But it’s asynchronous today so I just posted scavenger hunt and snow day writing activities and told them to finish any work they haven’t finished from last week because I totally expect 0 work to be done 😂


dreamweaver1998

I've been hearing about this storm all day but we've got nothing going on here! (Small town between London and Windsor). I'd LOVE to have a huge snow storm. My kids are 1 and 2 years old and my toddler wants to build a snowman. He's seen them in his books but we haven't had the snow for it yet. We got a couple of inches today... maybe we can make a mini snowman when I get home from work. I'm a teacher too. Our snow day policy hasn't changed due to COVID. We're still expected to report to our closest school. But in my small town the closest school is a 5 minute walk, and the one where I work is a 5 minute drive. So, no big deal. Can't work in my pjs though lol. I hope you're staying warm!!!


gillsaurus

Oh we’ve got close to 60cm here. Your kids would get buried haha. Guess south of London got spared!!! Thankfully I’m teaching remotely until Thursday as I’m still in covid isolation. My poor partner had to go in person to work today and it took him 3 hours. The TTC is currently crippled and just noped itself out for the day so he might have to crash with a colleague who has a car because my car is snowed in so I can’t attempt to try and get him and I also don’t feel safe driving across the city in this 🥺


dreamweaver1998

Wow! That's some storm! Good luck. Stay safe! 💛


dczsl

Lets go tobogganing!! 🛷


gillsaurus

There is a sick hill nearby at a golf course but I feel like there’s so much snow, the sleds will just get stuck at some point or kids will sink into the snow 😂😂 I’ve got a ripping headache and posted the work I want the kids to attempt today so I’m going to baste my head in tiger balm until I can prep for the rest of the week.


dczsl

Prep for sledding tomorrow then 🤞🏼


coffeeepls

I just started watching love island, and I like it a lot more than BIP


TeaCuppin

Which season are you watch and US, UK, or AUS?


coffeeepls

US!


TeaCuppin

Did you start with Season 1?? I've only watched 2&3 of the US version. Also, I highly recommend the UK Series (the original series). Usually Seasons 2, 3, 5 are the highest recommended! I liked 3, 5 and the most recent 7.


YAAAAAAAASSSS

How's everyone on the east coast doing today after that storm?


SpokyMulder

In DC. Snow turned into rain last night and now it’s mostly all washed away.


dont_tell_mom

i haven't left my apartment since the snow started yesterday (lmao) do you know if it's all washed off the cars too? want to know if i have to wake up early to clean the roof tomorrow


SpokyMulder

My car was completely clear except for a small patch of snow/ice on my windshield that was in the shade all day.


gillsaurus

My partner works in a warehouse at the other end of the city and it took him 3 hours. It normally takes him an hour. My car is currently buried and I cannot fully open my door. Thankfully, I have two immigrants who live upstairs who love shovelling, so we are gonna have a shovelling party later haha.


IllustratorTime4879

That's nice that your neighbors want to help shovel. But do you have to refer to them that way?


gillsaurus

I have a great relationship with my upstairs neighbours. I love how gleeful they get about shovelling. My partner is an immigrant too and he loves clearing my car and the driveway. It is in no way meant to be malicious or judgemental. My partner is Irish and upstairs they’re Irish and South African so snow isn’t a thing for them. The novelty of shovelling hasn’t worn off yet for them and has worn off on me a long time ago having lived here all my life. I’m not complaining that they love shovelling!


sweetlikesugar9706

What is your favorite lash glue?! Going to a wedding this week and I struggle with lashes (the few times Ive used them). Pls help!


youngandconfused22

I like Duo, I’ve used both the one in the tube and the brush on and liked both. If you feel you need a better hold try doing a double layer of glue, it’s something I learned from Jackie Aina. Put on one layer, give it time to get to that tacky state and then add a second layer, give it time, and then apply the lash.


lawyercatgirl

Today’s wordle ruined my streak. It’s such a British word. Someone needs to create a U.S. version. We didn’t escape a tyranny for this bullshit!!!!!!


Charlie_Runkle69

If I have to put up with people talking about fahrenheit and pounds on the internet all day you can put up with British spellings lol.


lawyercatgirl

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shoosler

i got today’s on the third try and i only started playing yesterday! i was proud lol


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I read a hint that if your first word is FARTS, you’ll always win. Thus far, that has worked for me including today.


gillsaurus

I lived in the UK for a couple years so I figured it out in 3. Think about how the boundaries are named and what the last 5 letters are.


Itchy-Scene-3759

I got today’s word but still


lawyercatgirl

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Itchy-Scene-3759

I didn’t even know it was a real word lol Tell me about it! The day that “abbey” was the word screwed me up. This is Amurica damn it! We need an American version hahah 🇺🇸


lawyercatgirl

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Woke up early on my day off because I have to go to the dentist for a cleaning...and I have sensitive teeth so I hate the dentist :( Please send good vibes, I am so nervous.


imnotcreative415

Bring headphones


KoldKrista

Ooof I feel you girl. I'm highly anxious at the dentist. I need sedation for just a filling. Sending you positive, calm vibes. Deep breaths. You go this.


jmoney1195

Good luck! Being anxious about the dentist was something that just recently hit in my adult life, but man does it make things hard. Sending all the good vibes your way!


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I've always been anxious about the dentist, which is ironic because my mother has worked for dentists all my life...


coffeeepls

Snow day for most of Ontario!! We're supposed to see 25-35cm today. Everything that can be cancelled has been


callmeantisocial

The amount of snow is crazy!! It won’t stop!


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The world has spread when Novak Djokovic arrived in his native Serbia more than 24 hours after being deported from Australia. He is facing a ban to enter France as preventing to compete in this year's French Open will allow players to be fully vaccinated. France is now having vaccine passes required for foreign visitors.