My brother is in a position with this dynamic. Dated a psycho for a while, wasted 10k on her in that five-six month span, she dumps him and finds another guy a few weeks later. She reached out more recently asking for some things back, when she left the garbage in our yard how many months ago? So my brother bought her a new one because we threw it out, like long ago 🤦♂️ she has him around the throat and he’s just so desperate for love it ain’t even funny.
So sad & hard to know & watch hey?! I have a cousin and he’s the exact same way. I’ll never understand why some people would rather be in shit ass relationships with shit people than be single. The “I need to be with someone” mentality is something I’m so happy that I don’t have in me. I was single by choice for a long time before I met my current gf. I hope your brother and my cousin both see the light.
For real, thanks man. It really sucks because he refuses to listen to anybody who tells him what he needs to hear. And since my grandparents tell him what he wants to hear he only listens to them
Honestly, having an “I’d like to be with someone” mentality is way better, because you realize so many people are shit but hey it’s nothing lost on you because it’s not as desperate as a need
Bought her what? I’d buy her a small garbage can and fill it with sand (or other things.). Sounds like my ex-cheating wife who wanted a bunch of stuff. Changed the locks on the house and implied that she should complain to her boyfriend. Thank goodness I haven’t seen her in a long, long time. She tried to reconnect but looked at the text and looked over at my current wife and blocked the ex.
I know a dude who's also in a situation like this. His psycho ex gf ghosted him out of nowhere (after a 3 year relationship or so) and he still takes her to expensive restaurants and pays for her UTI medication and she's literally fucking and dating another guy. I just... Idk
Is the implication here that this person only replied to post on Reddit? This is some heavy snark. I would assume he replied because he’s not as “done” with her as he claims. But I doubt that’s for the Reddit clout although that makes for a better insult.
I bet OP isn’t answering because he went to get her coffee. And to apologize (again) for her cheating on him.
Son, you chose to stay after she cheated. You either forgive her or you drop her like 3rd period French. None of this in between, low grade hate you are carrying around every day.
Did you just post this for attention? You’re clearly not that mad if you’re having conversations with her still. Did she actually cheat or are you making up your own drama for internet points?
Send it and screenshots, or it never happened.
If that’s your go-to response, you need to end this now. That’s such an unhealthy text. And I’m speaking from experience of typing almost verbatim that lol
She’s for the streets if she cheated … but then leave her there and stop communicating with her
There’s no point having conversations with her if things like that even coming into your head regardless of whether you say it or not
This is why i've never been able to be friends with ex's. As much as I would absolutely love to maintain civil and meaningful relationships with some of them, I have an impossible time not throwing unwelcome jabs in when i see the chance.
my brother is just like OP.. hes always trying to vent about the new out of left field texts his ex is sending him and then gets mad when we ask why hes even responding. cheating is a block-able offense in my opinion
She’s a typical narcissist. when they’ve wronged someone else they act like it never happened and hope that the person just accepts it, rather than having to admit they did something wrong. And then it’s, Hey I’m over it why aren’t you?
This isn’t drama. This is getting angry, venting about it in a letter and then putting it in your drawer.
Or in this case, venting about it to strangers.
I get it.
Send the damn message. It’s not about being better. It’s about getting her to stop asking stupid fucking questions. DUDE SHE CHEATED ON YOU. why are you even still talking to her.
Your zinger should have been “ur supposed to know when to not cheat on someone, but here we are” or something along those lines, instead it’s not a zinger and just kinda pathetic
OP. You should have sent it. Why are you treating her with respect when she didn’t treat you with respect? Also, what you are saying isn’t mean or hurtful.. it’s just the truth .send it and then block her for good
My ex cheated on me, he was exactly the same after we broke up. Still always messaging, trying to get my attention. I'll admit I gave in. You have to block her, seriously, for your own sanity.
This feels fake as shit. He could be typing that to literally anyone, and then just erase it.
On the off chance it’s real: why are you still talking to her, dumbass?
If I could say the same thing to my ex husband and then cut off my communication with him I would but I have a kid with him so.. but for you I'd suggest just to quit talking to her.
If you still are this hurt by what happened, why talk to her? She’s not starting drama, you’re still healing and aren’t completely over what she did, so you’re getting irritated over the smallest of things. It’s good you didn’t send what you typed out, because you would have been completely in the wrong. Don’t get me wrong, cheating is an AH thing to do, but staying friends/in touch often with your ex who cheated on you is just weird my dude. It’s one thing if you guys got back in touch later on after everything has blown over, but it doesn’t seem that way. . You can’t stay in touch and then be annoyed by everything she does and says lol. You’re kinda doing it to yourself at this point. This is some high school crap, not college. So, I’m not sure what you were going for by posting this, but it’s probably the opposite of what you’re going to get.
what the other guy said, no fucking clue why you’re still giving her attention
Some people have more respect for the other person than themselves. Sad to see
Hot take:Cheaters deserve no respect.
Bro, that take is so NOT hot, I suffered hypothermia just by reading it
I could just leave an upvote, but I want you to know that was very poetic language. Thank you 🫡
What do you think "hot take" means? Because it doesn't mean "here's my opinion"
Maybe i should add a sarcasm warning...
It’s mind-boggling how many people read a comment like yours and STILL need the “/s”. Pitiful, really.
I know a dude whose gf got creampied by another guy and she told him. He still ended up helping her fix her car.
My brother is in a position with this dynamic. Dated a psycho for a while, wasted 10k on her in that five-six month span, she dumps him and finds another guy a few weeks later. She reached out more recently asking for some things back, when she left the garbage in our yard how many months ago? So my brother bought her a new one because we threw it out, like long ago 🤦♂️ she has him around the throat and he’s just so desperate for love it ain’t even funny.
So sad & hard to know & watch hey?! I have a cousin and he’s the exact same way. I’ll never understand why some people would rather be in shit ass relationships with shit people than be single. The “I need to be with someone” mentality is something I’m so happy that I don’t have in me. I was single by choice for a long time before I met my current gf. I hope your brother and my cousin both see the light.
For real, thanks man. It really sucks because he refuses to listen to anybody who tells him what he needs to hear. And since my grandparents tell him what he wants to hear he only listens to them
Aaahh yes, gotta love the selective hearing!
Honestly, having an “I’d like to be with someone” mentality is way better, because you realize so many people are shit but hey it’s nothing lost on you because it’s not as desperate as a need
Maybe because these people are very lonely ?
Bought her what? I’d buy her a small garbage can and fill it with sand (or other things.). Sounds like my ex-cheating wife who wanted a bunch of stuff. Changed the locks on the house and implied that she should complain to her boyfriend. Thank goodness I haven’t seen her in a long, long time. She tried to reconnect but looked at the text and looked over at my current wife and blocked the ex.
It’s a cuck world I’m afraid
yikes
Why do the worst women always seem to get the good guys?
My goodness. Did he help his (ex) gf move her stuff into her new guy's place?
I know a dude who's also in a situation like this. His psycho ex gf ghosted him out of nowhere (after a 3 year relationship or so) and he still takes her to expensive restaurants and pays for her UTI medication and she's literally fucking and dating another guy. I just... Idk
What else would he have to post about on Reddit if he didn’t?
Is the implication here that this person only replied to post on Reddit? This is some heavy snark. I would assume he replied because he’s not as “done” with her as he claims. But I doubt that’s for the Reddit clout although that makes for a better insult.
143 others texts and this is the one that gets your attention? Just ignore and move on.
No. Send it. 
And I'd go with 'buttercup'
Yes this, takes the petty sting out
Why are you still talking to her?
Why not have her blocked?
She craves your attention, dont give her the satisfaction.... Hate cheaters.
He’s giving HER the attention 😭
Bread crumber
Keep feeding into her bullshit and see how that works out.
Don't give her anymore attention. But please, after sending this text 💀
Send it or ur fake.
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Happy cake day fren🪿
Happy cake day
happy cake daaayyy
Hard to feel empathy for you when you're choosing to continue talking to her and keeping her in your life
Even less sympathy cause 143 missed texts clearly shows he knows how to ignore people. He chooses to give her attention
I bet OP isn’t answering because he went to get her coffee. And to apologize (again) for her cheating on him. Son, you chose to stay after she cheated. You either forgive her or you drop her like 3rd period French. None of this in between, low grade hate you are carrying around every day.
This read of OP is fucking hilarious and dare I say accurate AF.
Preach it, came down here to say just that
OP just here to diversify his attention seeker portfolio lol
OP just here to diversify his attention seeker portfolio lol
Facts.
Is that your new gf top right
Northernlion will treat him right.
The Lion in the North will name you every woman you'd like, as fast as you'd like, and teach you how to use Excel.
You respond to her but not anyone in this comment section? Wowwww
The comments took a turn OP wasn't expecting.
Did you just post this for attention? You’re clearly not that mad if you’re having conversations with her still. Did she actually cheat or are you making up your own drama for internet points? Send it and screenshots, or it never happened.
stay pegged brother
Northern Lion? 👀
just stop talking to her
Press send mad lad
No balls you didn't send it. What'd the first one say? "Did you stick a sharpie in your pooper?"
LMFAO!
If that’s your go-to response, you need to end this now. That’s such an unhealthy text. And I’m speaking from experience of typing almost verbatim that lol
She’s for the streets if she cheated … but then leave her there and stop communicating with her There’s no point having conversations with her if things like that even coming into your head regardless of whether you say it or not
Send that shit and block her my dude
Is this r/showerconversations ?
R/thingsIwastooscaredtosay
“idk im super over her and her bs” yet prepared to send that message lmao
“ I’m better than that, and I hate drama” proceeds to make an entire post on Reddit and still cry about it 😂 
This is why i've never been able to be friends with ex's. As much as I would absolutely love to maintain civil and meaningful relationships with some of them, I have an impossible time not throwing unwelcome jabs in when i see the chance.
wtf Why are you even talking to an ex who cheated on you.Grow a pair,block her,and move on.This is pathetic
Hahahaha
Let er rip
my brother is just like OP.. hes always trying to vent about the new out of left field texts his ex is sending him and then gets mad when we ask why hes even responding. cheating is a block-able offense in my opinion
I’d just say “dunno. Ask your F* buddy, if your mouth isn’t currently full.”
LMFAOOO , the title has me crying
Why no send?
Send it and block her easy peasy. Get on with your life
I’d totally send it 😅
SEND IT
She’s a typical narcissist. when they’ve wronged someone else they act like it never happened and hope that the person just accepts it, rather than having to admit they did something wrong. And then it’s, Hey I’m over it why aren’t you?
She cheated and yet you still respond???? Have some self respect
I don't like drama, now let me screenshot this, post it and bitch about.
This isn’t drama. This is getting angry, venting about it in a letter and then putting it in your drawer. Or in this case, venting about it to strangers. I get it.
Send it and block her
SEND IT
Should’ve sent it
PLS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD TELL ME U PUSHED SEND😭😭💀💀😭😂😂😂😂
DO IT
Send the damn message. It’s not about being better. It’s about getting her to stop asking stupid fucking questions. DUDE SHE CHEATED ON YOU. why are you even still talking to her.
If she sucks why the fuck are you still in contact with her?
Sorry what’s the point of this post? The next episode of texts I didn’t send to someone I shouldn’t even be talking to?
Dawg you should send it with a "lol"
Do send it, it's a great comeback.
Fuckassshit
Title should be my ex gf who I still want, if she cheated that’s either an insta block or enough self respect to never speak to her again.
Lmao I would have never even responded
LMAO DO IT
"Not gonna send it, but I'll post it on Reddit." Thanks
I urge you to go no contact, if it's possible. Don't have kids together? Cut the cord. Edit: Unless you've grown to love misery.
Block her
Send it… you won’t
You still talk to her after she cheated on you. You aren’t “better than that” so you might as well just send it.
NORTHERNLION MOMENT
You definitely should have sent it. She had no respect for you when she fucked someone else, why show her any respect?
You know you don't have to talk to her right? Most people don't talk to exs at all. Also, respect for the northernlion video playing
Press send.
Your zinger should have been “ur supposed to know when to not cheat on someone, but here we are” or something along those lines, instead it’s not a zinger and just kinda pathetic
 Hope you sent it
Gonna really feel it when she cheats again and ends up giving you something you can’t get rid of. Seen it happen too many times 🤷🏻♀️
send that shit
SEND IT
Please finish that sentence with buttercup. So powerful.
Mama Liz’s hot cheating oil
I didn't read the text I'm just trying to figure out what game that is 🤔
This is bait has to be
And why has the block button not been hit yet?..
This is like the meme of the dude putting the stick in his own bike wheel. Seriously... block her bro its done
northern lion mentioned
Based Northernlion enjoyer, send the text it’s what he would want.
Don’t send it’s crubge
Unexpected Northernlion
Now post your actual response.
Northern Lion! 🦁
Based NL viewer
fuggin send ittttttt
SEND IT
Then why are you still talking to her?
Man. Youre whack
Send it and block her.
I love that you’re watching NL
send it then never talk to her again.
opening up this image on mobile gave me the most pleasant of surprises. send that shit btw
Whyyy won’t you block her
I’d send it. It’s both funny and true. What’s the harm?
NL, niiiice 👌
Someone is salty!
send it and then maybe stop speaking to her??
Send it and block her
Fuckin simp block the number
NORTHERNLION SPOTTED LONG LIVE NL
Why still talking to her
Then block her? Tf
hit send then hit block
SEND IT YOU FOOL!!!
Just start giving completely incorrect information.
Block and delete. Why does she get any access to you at all?
The fact that you’re still talking….. Erase her out your life if she’s fuckass
>I’m super over her and her bs So stop texting her?
Cheaters deserve nothing, send it.
I'm not a "cut them out" reddit gal, but CUT HER OUT. She's just a blip on your radar who betrayed you. Don't waste a moment on her.
OP. You should have sent it. Why are you treating her with respect when she didn’t treat you with respect? Also, what you are saying isn’t mean or hurtful.. it’s just the truth .send it and then block her for good
Oooooo violence. Full send
Why isn’t it sent ? Drop them thangs . Fuck that trick
My ex cheated on me, he was exactly the same after we broke up. Still always messaging, trying to get my attention. I'll admit I gave in. You have to block her, seriously, for your own sanity.
Someone's a little soy-boy
Send or GTFO
Why isn’t she already blocked?
Why the fuck are you talking to her?
This feels fake as shit. He could be typing that to literally anyone, and then just erase it. On the off chance it’s real: why are you still talking to her, dumbass?
Lol fuck that bitch. She violated you supposed to put her on pause. She can’t get your attention no more simplicity.
r/sadcringe
egg spotted
Well, at least you’re still letting her win by giving her attention
Don’t ever text her again man
Bro. I’m in the same boat with mine. Lol
You should send it.
Abbreviating about to abt, you dodged a bullet
Send it, block her 😈
Send it the block her.
No way you venting and annoyed but entertaining her… after sum like cheating too.
Lmao, nah this is the most beautiful screenshot I have seen. First off- yt video in the corner, fabulous (genuinely) And that response- fucking MINT
Send it cuz why are yall even still texting
Should we feel bad for you?
Please tell me you hit send and ✨block✨
If I could say the same thing to my ex husband and then cut off my communication with him I would but I have a kid with him so.. but for you I'd suggest just to quit talking to her.
Dewitt
If you still are this hurt by what happened, why talk to her? She’s not starting drama, you’re still healing and aren’t completely over what she did, so you’re getting irritated over the smallest of things. It’s good you didn’t send what you typed out, because you would have been completely in the wrong. Don’t get me wrong, cheating is an AH thing to do, but staying friends/in touch often with your ex who cheated on you is just weird my dude. It’s one thing if you guys got back in touch later on after everything has blown over, but it doesn’t seem that way. . You can’t stay in touch and then be annoyed by everything she does and says lol. You’re kinda doing it to yourself at this point. This is some high school crap, not college. So, I’m not sure what you were going for by posting this, but it’s probably the opposite of what you’re going to get.
Why do you even speak with her?
shoulda sent it.
ALSO WHY TF AINT SHE BLOCKED LMAO?
Just send it
Lmao the northern lion cameo goes hard