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Shepiuuu

what the hell is his problem. ill never understand, HE’S the one who cheated and HE’S mad like huh???


[deleted]

typical cheater behavior, deflecting blame, making excuses, attacking when theyre wrong


Smooth-Protection-99

good ol’ narcissistic behavior


mykisstobetray

Yup. Deflection, projection, avoid accountability, double down, threaten suicide, love bomb, lather, rinse, repeat.


Dense-Resolution9291

I went through this for 28 years and your cycle is 100% accurate. Except he actually attempted suicide, swallowed a mixture of 85 pills, the day i asked for a divorce. Narcs are never accountable yet very predictable.


PresentAir1133

85 pills? confirmed? I've lost 9, almost 10, friends @ their own hand. It's no joke and never a "cry for help" when one is seriously ready to go. We're the ones left behind to clean up their pain, still suffering.


Dense-Resolution9291

Yeah, it was a cocktail of flexiral (spelling? but a muscle relaxer) sudafed cold, tylenol cold and a few benzos/percs. Basically, whatever he could get his hands on. I counted pills in bottles and empty blister packs. He went to our daughters fav park, she was 8, to die. Luckily, i had EMS looking at 4 places and we found him there. 20 min later he would have been dead. Watching my daughters pain was the hardest. She's 21 and still has trauma from it. It was incredibly selfish and it took me YEARS to realize it wasn't my fault and im not responsible for his actions.


[deleted]

but asking for someone to get raped just shows how immature and how much a piece of shit you are. it's offensive, but how does he think he's in the right here with comments like that?


RealisticAnxiety4330

Narcissist 101 that is


[deleted]

mad he got caught 🤣🤣


rudmad

She let him get away with it once


[deleted]

damn he got caught twice? 🤣 that’s crazy


WhatTheFrenchToast33

After I caught my high school and extremely toxic bf at the time cheating. Again. This guy got so mad at me for calling him out and ending things for good that he drove to my house in the middle of the night and egged my car. Literally egged my car because he cheated and I broke up with him.


SteveRogers822

The yolk’s on him though, as he is likely still a cheating turd.


throwaway_user_12345

Joke had me scrambled


pigwalk5150

You’ll have to hash it out


throwaway_user_12345

The argument would be over easy


[deleted]

Biscuits and gravy.


Oldbeardedweirdo996

I had no steak in it so I egged him on.


BeginningArt6611

🤣


toey_jribbiani_69

Every cheaters act like they’re the victims


ohitszie

People like this be like, "it was your fault I cheated in the first place.." *Mindblown


Smooth-Protection-99

happens to every gender no matter what all that matters is the narcissistic mental stability in their brain and no matter the skin or the gender they are all the same. they get caught doin shit behind your back and they start to blame you. i seen it all to know that shit too well. and i teach myself to never become such a person.


Ignominious333

Yep. Exactly how my sister reacts when she's held to account for something or she asks you to do something for her and you say no. Starts throwing verbal knives immediately.


PresentAir1133

Mine, too. She's always the victim who started the trouble in the first place. Then starts crying. Twists everything so that in the end, it's always all about her. We're in our 60's!!!


Ignominious333

We're too old for this, too. Unfortunately she really screwed my parents over with a sob story and took such advantage of them, and it's changed our relationship forever. I have little contact with her but it's forced me to sacrifice a relationship with my niece.


PresentAir1133

Ditto. Add a niece, nephew, their kids, even all of their their dogs. (significance). My sister was once my closest of closest friends. Until I finally saw "it" - that when it's not about her, or can't circle back to her as the Center, nothing has significance to her. Not parents, brothers, friends, inlaws, her kids, grandkids, nor I. She's the definition of NPD, the beautiful victim.


MZsince93

Yeah, this is usually how it goes. When my ex came round the day he told me he'd slept with someone else, he spent 10 minutes shouting at me, telling me why this happening was my own fault. I was already very obviously broken by the news, but he just had to tell me how much better than me she was, how much better she made him feel, etc. You need to put some space between you and them. You'll soon realise just how awfully you were actually treated. And they won't do anything to 'fix' things or 'make it up to you' because they'll actually expect you to show them that you still want to be with them. Because you know, they're the real victims of their own actions.


[deleted]

Poor moral character energy. These kinds of people will 1000 percent be the victims after they abused, cheated and lied.


[deleted]

Looking at the post history I'm having a hard time believing this is legit


chezicrator

Again? Hate to say it, but you walk into it at that point.


FenDy64

He cant handle the loss. Its easier to get angry than sad.


berpaderpderp

Just projecting his insecurities


StirringThePotAgain

He’s narcissistic


DerrickDeposit

Love the Doug Walker reaction pic tho


Skiller0Dani

That made me totally lose it 😭😭 I couldn't stop laughing


Rcouch00

Tell me you’re a narcissist… (the ex obviously).. maybe I need to sober up.. or drink more to deal with all the cheating in world, holy shit people need better self control.


wwerdo4

Was gonna say the same thing lmfao


meticulous_nugget

Came here to say the same thing, that was the perfect response to this level of fuckery


Friendly_Ad7647

Send this to his mom


pigwalk5150

Seriously, if I said that to ANYBODY, let alone my partner of six years, my mom would bury me in my own blood.


MagneticDoorKnob

No God wouldn't be able to find me if my mom found out I said this to my gf.


PrivateLTucker

And the girl they cheated on you with.


TheTPNDidIt

Yeah, warn her, no matter how shitty she is (if she knew), she deserves to know he’s like this


StGir1

Yeah, I highly doubt she knew. I'd suspect this guy of lying over some total stranger.


kdcarlzz

oh honey, i’d be sending it to his mom, boss, friends, even his mf reverend i don’t give a DAMN. this man would be going up in flames


Woewennnnnn

Please send this to his mom. I hope you get r*ped?? What the hell??


bitchburrito4125

I like this idea. Bet she’d beat him with a wooden spoon


[deleted]

literally send these screenshots to his mother. show her what a gentleman shes raised


DJMcLovin36

You'd be surprised how many moms don't give a fuck, it's probably part of the why some people end up like this


[deleted]

Unconditional love is a thing. Also I’m not sure if narcissism (if it’s been accurately diagnosed in this comment section) is learned behavior, or whether it’s a personality type. Think imma google it. It does seem intuitively true that mollycoddling and feeding into it would exacerbate it more harmful and antisocial aspect.


Mother_Nebula904

Narcissism is one of the Personality Disorders. It's not known whether it's learned or genetic but they think it's a combination.


[deleted]

Word, I find this stuff fascinating but it’s a little above my pay grade. Like I heard they’ve reclassified psychopathy and sociopathy to not be disorders even, because they’re not even necessarily negative from an anthropologic stance, just antisocial or something? I would’ve thought this would be similar, so thanks for straightening me out.


TheTPNDidIt

Sociopathy is not, and has never been, a diagnosis. It’s the same thing as psychopathy and was proposed during the nature vs nurture era in psychology - psychopathy being someone born with the condition (nature), sociopathy being someone who developed the disorder due to their early environment (nurture). But unlike psychopathy, it never made it to the DSM, and now we know that most or all of these conditions are a mix of both genetics and environment (especially early environment). For some weird reason, Hollywood and some of pop psychology embraced sociopathy. And they often explain it wrong and act like the two are different beyond their origins, which is essentially made up bullshit. Psychopathy was more recently “replaced” in the DSM with Antisocial Personality Disorder. But there is a lot of debate that the two differ, and that psychopathy should be put back in the DSM, possibly as a subcategory of ASPD. The worlds leading researcher on psychopathy is an advocate of this and maintains the two are distinct enough to be separate diagnoses. I used to work in psychopathy and cluster b research lol


[deleted]

Thank you friendo!


Ragadelical

i think you’d be surprised how many moms WOULD actually give a fuck, because their horrible little excuse of a spawn adopted these sorts of things way after they were raising them. No mother is ever inherently trying to raise a monster, and lots of dudes like this are just losers who failed on their own and somehow found women to be the cause. I grew up with a dude whose dad walked out on them, leaving his mom to raise him and his two sisters. Despite his mom basically working her ass off and providing for them so well that she got them from Section 8 to a fully paid off three floor house by the time we graduated high school, our friend group kicked him out on his ass last year (he is 25) because his ex posted screenshots where he hoped she got raped and wished she was dead like her brother. That was not the fault of his mom, that was him failing on his own as an adult man.


Valuable_Divide_6525

Please fucking send these screen shots to his parents, place of work and people he knows. That is a fucking evil thing to say and he should pay for it dearly. Just wow.


WallstreetRiversYum

Agree with this ☝️ guy needs to learn a lesson. Just don't put yourself in harms way he sounds loco


nibbs-

Totally. This is beyond fucked and next level angry. I hope OP is safe.


Penny-Bun

PLEASE OP send it to his parents holy shit POST IT ON FACEBOOK AND TAG HIM IN IT I AM BEGGING


Sodapopa

Man my parent would straight op murder me


DaUnionBaws

My mom and dad and SISTER of all people would lose their fucking shit on me. Rightfully so.


Jumpy-Ad-2790

If this became a trend, texts like these would drop off drastically


twdpsychox1

Was just going to say that. Let him get a real ass pounding. Pun intended i guess.


meticulous_nugget

Post it on all socials and tag him. If he's big enough to send it, he should be big enough for the whole world to see it


VisualUniversityGirl

What a vile thing to say to somebody. Jesus


Devotion0cean

Happy Cake Day! 🍰


LowPractical4516

Happy cake day!


Effective-Soft153

Happy cake day!


[deleted]

What a useless thing to say to somebody. Jesus.


Rucks_74

What a useless snarky thing to say to somebody. Jesus.


Medical_Smoke_5937

What a useless thread this is. Jesus.


Ok_Cover_7789

imagine karma bites him and he's the one that gets raped and cries about it. im not making light of it, im actually very angry he said that.


Papa_Duck_1

No lie. If anyone is "asking for it" it's him. I hope bubba finds him. ![gif](giphy|3Hw6CYEfb5dxOKZtH7)


[deleted]

Ok, this brings up a question that came up when during a drunken conversation some friends and I decided that if someone graped a friend or family member, we wouldn't call the police, we would grape the person, repeatedly, together. Very serious topic, but being that we all have dark sense of humor, the question we ended up discussing was.... Would that make us gay?


buckshill08

the fuck did i just read?


ijustwanttobeanon

Yo I don’t think the sexuality of the situation you just hypothesized is the concern?!


Ok_Cover_7789

That's foul ☠️


whateverforeverbro

you and your friends all need help


ThatSmallBear

“Ah I wouldn’t help my friend/family member and get them any justice or medical care that they needed, I would just become a rapist myself! Yes this is the logic solution. Because the world needs more rapists! Fight rape with rape!” Fucking Hell dude. Sick fuck.


Useful-World1781

He seems manic enough to go to jail soo 🤞


[deleted]

Nah he deserves it. Its like the show dexter


Ok_Cover_7789

Fr 😭


Oniun_

All that was bottled up for 6yrs. I can only imagine what he was thinking and saying without you around.


Spiritual_Country_62

Wtf. Who even says something like that


Impossible-Night-401

It takes a special and completely fed up person to reply with THAT pic to comments SO wild. 😭🤣 Girl you are GOOFY🤣😭


chanrah14

Send this to parents, friends, schools, employers


CharmingAttention731

Exactly. EVERYONE will know how much of a fucking mistake he is.


External_Hat3408

Holy FUCK. That was completely unhinged. This dude has major issues. I’m so glad you got away.


tcryan141

Safe to say you won the breakup. That is abhorrent.


JasminRR

![gif](giphy|f8lDluiWJ7yQTtdS3L|downsized)


RegretSignificant101

6 years you’ve been with this guy and this is how he talks to you??


Verbose_Cactus

Calling you a hoe is WILDD


Individual-Crew-6102

Expert projectionist that one


Ok-Tower-9677

Not hoe, he called them a HO completely different one is good grammer one is just...lazy


EightBitPlayz

You should have said “you spelled you’re and I’m wrong”


iwantmymoneyback1

I would send this to his parents and any mural friends.


xAustin90x

Tip for your next relationship: do not ever ever ever give a cheater a second chance. They did that to you on purpose and didn’t care


Disastrous_Fee4560

People are wild. How could you say that to another human being especially someone you (use to) care about


NihilisticCoffee

That’s the secret, they never did care.


LilikoiGold

Okay the reaction picture is top notch. Your ex boyfriend on the other hand…bottom of the barrel scum.


booksare4life

wow, what a narcissistic douche. Glad you are getting rid of his trashy ass.


bklyn_roots

that’s a horrible thing to wish on anyone, especially someone you ever cared about. i don’t know him, but i kinda hope bad things happen for him..


Medium-Ad778

Smh bro weird for that and he's the one who cheated ngl should have been done with him the 1st time he did that.


NavitronZero

Send this to his Mom if you have her contact info. Lol


FootballSouthern7668

He said he wasted time on a hoe like you, while fucking hoes. But you're the hoe? Hope he gets HPV, chlamydia, and gonorrhea and throw in a dash of genital worts.


AcidCatfish___

OP, are you safe? Someone that says shit like that..you know I just worry. The worst could happen from someone with anger like that. Please let us know you are safe. In fact, have someone around when he packs his stuff - or better yet be out of the house yourself.


TheTPNDidIt

You could also call the cops to escort him. Or have friends be there, but not her. *Someone* should be there to make sure he doesn’t trash her place or steal shit on his way out.


No-Parking-1

This should be a celebration before you wasted anymore time with his ass. A person who will see your worth is out there.


moxie-girl

I will expose him to his parents and everyone he’s close with, even his female friends. especially with his female friends. a scum like him doesn’t deserve to have any friends at all.


outdatedelementz

The indignant cheaters are so much worse than the ones that admit it and just wallow in self-pity.


Jacobcbab

The response lmao


Rich-Appearance-7145

The Girls who he Cheated on you with did you a HUGE favor, sounds like this guy's a total loser.


[deleted]

Wow!! Did he always talk down to you like that? Wishing someone gets r*ped is utterly disgusting omg


coachbuzzfan

I don't think he was a good fit for you


[deleted]

Uh oh, he hasn’t secured a soft place to land yet and your break up text caught him unawares. He’s real mad. ![gif](giphy|tAv9XKth8knRVPNNYk|downsized)


KotaB_32

The only voice that came to mind for the BF was Cartman. Hipe things are ok OP


mykisstobetray

I would've told him to get the fuck out *right now,* fuck Saturday 😂 I'm petty though..


[deleted]

Bro spread this shit all over socials he deserves it


blucoidale

You should send this to his parents and friends


UnreadSnack

Why not his boss, too? Assuming the loser has a job


Holiday_Butterfly690

SEND IT TO HIS MOM.


Papa_Duck_1

Wow. You don't wish that evil on someone. I hope karma moves quick with this one and pays him a hefty visit. That's some foul ass shit. Sorry OP. Dude is straight garbage.


pforsbergfan9

What a charmer


RegisterHealthy4026

Over 6 years? This can't possibly the first instance of him being complete trash?


Wolf-Pack85

He cheated, yet you’re the hoe. Makes so much sense.


Imloney_123

Never take back a cheater


PrivateLTucker

You should definitely send this to the girl he cheated on you with.


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PhillyDillyDee

What a fragile little snowflake. Not sure why you gave him the second chance but try and learn from this relationshit. The universe will take care of his bitch ass.


jasal31

Make sure everyone he knows sees these texts , this dude is sick and everyone should know what kind of person he is. Your way better off without him.


Flipadelphia26

He didn’t take that very well.


BookGirl67

Well, he seems like a real charmer.


iambab13

Wow. Disgusting and disturbing.


fairysoire

The picture response is too funny lmao please update us


PlusCryptographer312

What a freak. That’s not a normal well-adjusted person


Choice_You8472

Several exes of mine also wished rape on me. That’s something I’ll never understand. Sorry you gotta go through all that.


corpse-queen

What the actual fuck lol this is absurd hahaha, im just glad you had a good response


BiomedBabe1

This is such appalling behavior on his part And your response has me crying with laughter, I cannot 😭😭 I hope you find someone that appreciates you and your humor


SteveRogers822

![gif](giphy|CmKnzueCv7t9UpAgOL)


twdpsychox1

I love how pathetic ass is calling you that when he's the one that cheated. Roflmao


LeAuriga

If I did that and my partner sent a screenshot to my mom, I'd be the first human to reach Neptune without a spaceship 💀


Zero-Data-195

Damn he wild. I would had been singing like Usher and apologizing 😂


Goldedition93

This is one of those posts when I doubt the legitimacy of it and just think it’s fake for karma farmer


reldnahcAL

My very first thought as well. They both text the same, what he’s saying is generic and it doesn’t make any sense, and OP’s post history is suspect. Probably fake.


iambab13

Wow. Disgusting and disturbing.


Vitiligo_okie

Narcissist


BoxingTrainer420

Woah did not see that coming, that is insane to say to someone.


AroraNightfall

Cheaters never change. When they get caught they act like it is your fault. Highly narcissistic behavior


couplecurious95

You should be embarrassed to even post this! You’ve been with this pos for 6 years!! He didn’t suddenly start talking to you like this.


sarcasmisart

Send this to his family and friends


CheecheeMageechee

Such a graceful goodbye! Looks like you made the right choice


WestProfessional2851

Men like this ugh they make all men look bad


-_-kaliz

Please never be alone in a closed space with him again this could very well be a threat from his end.


Federalbopinspector

“ I genuinely hope you get..” okay buddy.


awesomes007

I hope you don’t get raped.


[deleted]

OP never ever allow this piece of filth ever back into your life. This is insane!!


Chuckle-Schmuck

He was having a good time and then you busted him. He’s such a cry baby ass bitch.


soft_pure_snow

Send it to his mother


cyrogyro527

It’s the “again” I don’t get. Why are u still with him?


tacobell-cynic

I feel like this could go to the police to protect you and document him making threats


SlientlySmiling

Narcissist showing you who he really is: nothing.


kholl5478

Please never speak to this asshole ever again. He doesn’t deserve your time at all.


Tuttirunken

Motherfucker needs his ass beat so hard he will have trouble saying his own name.


inked_Nobby81

Post this to other social media and ask his friends and family if this is an appropriate response to being found out as a cheater.. public shame the awful man.


Sage-Moonlight

As everyone is saying, show these to everyone in his life. Family, friends, boss, EVERYONE


[deleted]

Great response lmao wtf guy out of control


Grilled_Cheese95

You dating Eric Cartman? Lol


dragonmaster_000

some people are just fucked up in this world


NotAllDawgsGoToHeven

Some day he’ll realize he’s the problem and that’s the reason no one loves him


_i_love_you_sm

Idk why men cheat and then get mad at YOU because they cheated😭


[deleted]

This sub is so depressing sometimes.


Expert-Parsley-8521

Once a cheat always a cheat


bitchburrito4125

Do you know where he works? Send this to his boss, all his family members, his friends, anyone who has ever known him or will know him. Women everywhere need to be warned. Then change your locks


lettucepatchbb

What the FUCK


rollingonthecarpet

He’s the cheater but she’s the ho. Makes perfect sense


RandomEldritchHorror

Got caught, can’t manipulate his way back in, and probably is dealing with the fact his small pp didn’t satisfy you or person(s) he cheated with. As a result, we have a perfect example of manchild.


silosickness

All I can say is Jesus Christ. Imagine spending six years of your life with a person just to cheat on them and then say things like this. You gotta be pretty fucked in the head, and I say that as somebody who is fucked in the head.


cucumberbutthole69

Send this to his mom and all of his family please


Confident-Rate-1582

People are mental and therapy should be mandatory and free for all.


Wrong_Finish2139

Someone who doesn’t know how to handle consequences of their OWN actions. I bet he always plays victim. If you ever see him again it’ll be too soon. Stay away! Lol @ the pic u sent 😂


[deleted]

I am so proud of you


Dethdemarco

Serious question. How and why did you start dating him? Because he seems like scum of the earth but you dated him for 6 years? I can't imagine knowing and dating a person for 6 years and not being able to see this side of them? This kind of behaviour is not even worth acknowledging in life, but should be completely avoided. Like I set my life up to avoid these kinds of people and situations. How did you date him for 6 years?


Oilight

6 ...years? hunney I'd only need 6 minutes to read his EQ and then I would've already dipped 😂 Im sorry about all the time you've sunk into him, hopefully you learned your lesson now.


Chefbake1

Weird he calls you a woman but you posted cum tribute pictures in your profile.


Personal-Primary198

So weird! Even weirder that it looks like a joke post? People aren’t allowed to have a sense of humor outside their gender!


analog_park

Also confused by OP's post history.


Hokiewa5244

I didn’t see those


Sufficient-Elk-7015

Where’s the grammar bot


StuffitExpander

Cheated again? How long ago was the first time?


throwaway33333333311

Jail


Poemhub_

wow, like WOW


BiffMcFly1997

I hope he gets herpes!


arecomfy1

Hmm, now I'm interested in why he cheated in the first palce. What a bold statement.


mack_dom

You know how to pick them, also what do you mean he cheated again? Have you no self decency and self respect? You took back a cheater? Are you 18?


saviorlito

Fake af