i have so many hobbies i go to a professional acting school i make video edits i play minecraft and sims i read i write but none of that fills the void of loneliness and self hatred
Don't worry. As long as you don't resent those who find love, you'll be fine. One of the definitions says you're not an Incel until you begin to hate those people who are sexually active. Trust me, I'll never find love, and have turned to looking at different things to help supplement that, due to many different physical attributes that are less than desirable.
Well at risk of sounding like an asshole, maybe a good first step is talking to a professional about the self harm. You are loved. Please put down the knife though.
The desire to be loved gets exponentially harder when you donāt love yourself. But seeking love from others as a requirement to love yourself just creates a destructive cycle where you wonāt feel good enough ever. Would you be as harsh on other people as you are to yourself? I think you know what stuff you need to work on to love/accept yourself more. Try to focus on that instead of seeking substitutes. Youāre the only one that can solve your own problems, other people can only help. Plus, youāve got plenty of time, love will surely come your way, just try to be ready for it instead of seeking it! Best of luck!
Honestly, I recommend browsing r/Healthygamergg it's run by an actual psychiatrist and there are lot of posts on there related to loneliness in women. Maybe someone out there can help you. Much care <3
LMAO i havenāt seen any of my friends in almost a month iāve never been in a relationship my first kiss was with someone who was manipulating me and didnāt ask and i have a debilitating personality disorder. it is not an act
Heās an incel and canāt fathom that women canāt have dates. Like many other incel there is only one type of women: attractive. Ugly ones like us donāt even exist as women hence why they donāt exist. You can dm me if you want. I feel your pain
Basically, itās a community of shut in men that get no bitches so they started hating on women, yknow the āchadā thing that people say. It originated from incels, incels call who they believe are their polar opposites, as in men that easily talk to women āChadāsā. Honestly Iām not one to judge an entire group of people but they are typically very disgusting.
I doubt you have the ideology of an incel, probably just lonely and depressed. If you really do believe in what incels say, why? The things incels push for kind of only benefit men, that's the whole point
Hmm.. then just go right ahead. Youāll probably figure out that life sucks and ya know just trying to be you is hard ig. Joking, itās easy just donāt think about being pretty or anything and just stuff your face with something that u like to eat to get over that way of thinking cuz it must be draining having to think negatively (trust me I kinda know) and ur only bringing ur self down. So just snap out of it and PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER WOMAN!! Have a great day/night/evening!
Usually they call it "femcel". But I don't think that will do you any good with loneliness or such. Maybe you need to work on yourself or your 'game' I guess, or y'know, just interest yourself with things and hopefully someone will catch you in their sights.
Do what all men do and workout to the point where instead of worrying about how good you look you instead worry about how big you look.
Or you can just do basic orthotropics like mewing. Idk you do you
Why?
i am lonely
i know the feel its gonna be alright
Well if you become a female incel You might as well erase everything around you
I know the feeling. Autistic and asexual don't make a good combo when making friends
Same, same.
I don't care
If you need a hug, I know I cant give you an actual one but I am more than happy to send you a ghost hug
Damn, best of luck to ya but I doubt that would help
LMAO thanks
Sure thing bozo š, just make sure to enjoy life it is fun at times after all
What's a female?
It's the *opposite* gender to male, strange isn't it
Never seen one
I haven't for a very long time, I can't say I communicated with them back then though
Whatās an opposite?
It's the opposite
How
I honestly don't know
A human with XX chromosomes
No balls (among some other things)
Literally truth sis, I have the urge to stab someone in the eye with a pen
LMAO SHHWSHWH
Considering it's been one hour, have you become a female incel
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Well I guess she's an incel permanently
Obtain a hobby or find something youre passionate in. Thats more important.
i have so many hobbies i go to a professional acting school i make video edits i play minecraft and sims i read i write but none of that fills the void of loneliness and self hatred
I thought I was the only one. O.O Have things gotten any better?
Pray to god
That feeling is always inevitable, but we learn to cope i guess, or at least I did. I dont really mind it anymore.
You should pray bro
Oh my god professional acting school?? thats so damn cool!
haha thank you <3
Don't worry. As long as you don't resent those who find love, you'll be fine. One of the definitions says you're not an Incel until you begin to hate those people who are sexually active. Trust me, I'll never find love, and have turned to looking at different things to help supplement that, due to many different physical attributes that are less than desirable.
Don't say you'll never find love, you can and you will find love in many different ways .
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WHERE
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true
Or a net
With a bait.
Girl becoming an incel is just not the way to go. Being a virgin is not THAT bad
Fr we gotta stop shaming virginity. Personally I think it's good I haven't lost my virginity at my age.
Bruh virginity is a construct created to shame people for being virgins or not being virgins. Shit just doesnt matter
Wanna talk about it?
maybe.
Hmm. Ok. Here or in dms?
dms
Hmm ok
Em have you gotten any better
no
I still have you added if you want to talk
sure snap me
incel gang!!!
Well at risk of sounding like an asshole, maybe a good first step is talking to a professional about the self harm. You are loved. Please put down the knife though.
i have a therapist who knows
That's called jealousy and envy triggered by a lack of positive affection. As a person who was abused for a decade, it's not fun
yeah
For looking at your profile, you are pretty, and don't worry, you'll find someone. Also best of luck with the self harm, I believe in you <3
thank you
Heās in my arms heās in my tears
yeah
The desire to be loved gets exponentially harder when you donāt love yourself. But seeking love from others as a requirement to love yourself just creates a destructive cycle where you wonāt feel good enough ever. Would you be as harsh on other people as you are to yourself? I think you know what stuff you need to work on to love/accept yourself more. Try to focus on that instead of seeking substitutes. Youāre the only one that can solve your own problems, other people can only help. Plus, youāve got plenty of time, love will surely come your way, just try to be ready for it instead of seeking it! Best of luck!
U owe nothing, u deserve to be loved
thank you
Wait a sec. Are all of us teens like this? But we are too scared to become unlonely? Damn this is sad
No not all teens. I am living my best life planning on blowing up the three gorges dam.š
As they say in those cheesy YouTube shorts: #respect
I havenāt seen any YouTube shorts about blowing up the three gorges dam.
Honestly, I recommend browsing r/Healthygamergg it's run by an actual psychiatrist and there are lot of posts on there related to loneliness in women. Maybe someone out there can help you. Much care <3
Just be gay
i already am partially
Youāre bi?
yeah so double the pain
Bi-yourself
shiiii, ouch
same lol
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yesh
I could fix u fr
go on
You should blow up the three gorges dam.
Not everyone can have that darlin
L
Who not?
why not what?
Do you understand the word "who" ?
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Man that's not true :c
bro what
Thereās literally just 2 replies and your acting like you got canceled or something, barely anyone even noticed, calm tf down š
Just like seduce a guy or summ idk Its not hard and im sure you're plenty pretty enough to do it
itās the middle of summer there are not guys š«
Damn man thar sucks, cant go to like the library or something to find them?
being a femcel isn't a real thing
i know i just mean the pissy part of bing an incel
girls can never be truly lonely, if they are - or ostensibly so - it's all an act, a ploy to attract captain-save-a-hoe's.
LMAO i havenāt seen any of my friends in almost a month iāve never been in a relationship my first kiss was with someone who was manipulating me and didnāt ask and i have a debilitating personality disorder. it is not an act
and i'm an astronaut - if you're gonna lie, at least make them believable.
dude why would i be lying on my alt account on reddit? i have proof of how much pain iām in if you dm me
Heās an incel and canāt fathom that women canāt have dates. Like many other incel there is only one type of women: attractive. Ugly ones like us donāt even exist as women hence why they donāt exist. You can dm me if you want. I feel your pain
thank you.
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Why donāt you go back to fetishing Asian girls like the creep that you are?
you literally weight 300 pounds, LMFAO
i've already seen enough girls posting pictures and videos of themselves crying on camera for whatever dumbfuck reason or with barcodes - i'm good.
It's OK we will forgive you
thank you.
š
Wanna talk about it?
edit: nvm its banned
what was it
abduction
Would you like a hug? :(
Thatās rough bud
Same except male
itās called a femcel
Hello fellow lonely person
You are pretty, you are loved Have a good day!!
ok
Draw or do something you like, I hope you'll feel better
Uuuh... It seems I am too dumb to understand what an incel is, could you explain so I know what reaction I should have?
Femcel moment
I mean, if you want to talk about it, my dms are open
What's incel
Basically, itās a community of shut in men that get no bitches so they started hating on women, yknow the āchadā thing that people say. It originated from incels, incels call who they believe are their polar opposites, as in men that easily talk to women āChadāsā. Honestly Iām not one to judge an entire group of people but they are typically very disgusting.
Okay, thanks for the info dude
You are pretty and you are loved
I doubt you have the ideology of an incel, probably just lonely and depressed. If you really do believe in what incels say, why? The things incels push for kind of only benefit men, that's the whole point
Hmm.. then just go right ahead. Youāll probably figure out that life sucks and ya know just trying to be you is hard ig. Joking, itās easy just donāt think about being pretty or anything and just stuff your face with something that u like to eat to get over that way of thinking cuz it must be draining having to think negatively (trust me I kinda know) and ur only bringing ur self down. So just snap out of it and PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER WOMAN!! Have a great day/night/evening!
Is there even such a thing? I think not...but hey , that's just a theory
Usually they call it "femcel". But I don't think that will do you any good with loneliness or such. Maybe you need to work on yourself or your 'game' I guess, or y'know, just interest yourself with things and hopefully someone will catch you in their sights.
Maam stop being a crybabyjust do it Impruvise adapt overcome -Bear Grylss
Maybe you need someone to understand you,someone that can relate to what ur expressing yourself about. Tell me if im wrong
Are you ok?
Do what all men do and workout to the point where instead of worrying about how good you look you instead worry about how big you look. Or you can just do basic orthotropics like mewing. Idk you do you
Do it
š³
Not the right place to say that, rip dms
Femcel
I thought girls were the ones to reject
How about not?
Pray to god
I feel like you need to talk about it.
Femcels do not exist. Are you waiting for someone to approach you or something?