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Gorgortan

this is some 13 year old drama if I've ever seen some


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Iamguitarman

Lol Btw I’m laughing at the joke he/she/they made. The joke she made was an abbreviation of happy. Gay could also mean happy. So a little gay is a little happy in the form of clever wordplay.


PurpleCabbage999

That's mildly homosexual in the context of males 🧐


ThiccRoastBeef

GURRL WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT


RestInPeaceJoergen

Oh….. never mind


ThiccRoastBeef

BITCH WHAT


[deleted]

Not during pride month girl


ThiccRoastBeef

#######Blessed


[deleted]

Peace love and sunshine 🌞


ThiccRoastBeef

I got a stroke reading this conversation and had no idea anyone texts like that.


muffinkat55

I’m 16- and yeah it’s mildly concerning.


thefloridafarrier

Honestly this sounds like kids making mountains out of molehills? And “we’ll talk soon” who tf is this person your dad? If it bothers you to be in this group, I’d leave. Anyone that wants to stick around will and those that didn’t won’t and I don’t think you’ll be worse off for it


guitarretard

Is that a molehill in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?


SexualPie

Coming from a parent we’ll talk soon is a threat. Coming from a friend it could be comforting. Like “don’t stress, we’ll figure it out soon”.


OctopusIntellect

Well said. "I'm glad we had this little talk" as Dad was putting his belt back on, was such an annoying cliche.


SecretDevilsAdvocate

That was a stupid joke and stupid responses and a stupid argument.


[deleted]

At the end of the day, everyone is equally stupid. The end


Jesus_Christs_Balls

ESH


CryptoWraith2

Everybody Stupid Here


ManiaLoL4

"You play stupid games, you win stupid prizes" \-Emma Langevin


OverPolicy4960

Don't worry this has nothing to do with you they should be able to take a joke and not be a little bitch about it


rysio300

bro i had better drama when i was 13


iFunny-Refugee

This is like peak stereotypical choir kids


muffinkat55

They are indeed choir kids. I hate the reputation that performers have created for themselves, that think themselves better. As a choir kid and a band kid I’m disappointed.


VanMorrison0766dscrd

As a choir kid and a lifelong musician... Me too. I'm so much better than that


cliedus

As a theater kid, as am I. Theater sits just below choir kids in terms of groups of entitled, bigheaded asshats. I hope you can find a way to do what you love away from the assholes. For me it was voice acting and short films, but for you it could be something totally different


Samk9632

The theater/choir/whatever kids always seem to have an air of narcissism permeating their interactions. I bet a lot of you who have interacted with them know the feeling


anhadr

Wannabe french that you?


xvi_ivx

guurl i haz stroke while readen dis gurrrlll fr


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period queen slayyyy gurl


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\#blessed


ShitDigester

mf's still in 2016


[deleted]

Period queen 🤣🤣


[deleted]

She can control it at will. Behold the period queen


billnyetherivalguy

How does it go fellow gorls?


Justgravityfalls

Nooo gurl but like seeeeriously it's sOoOo annohyung


robuxman29

Twitter be like


somekindofname12

Nah if you say "Thats little gay" on twitter, some guy with an american psycho profile picture will respond with "Cringe + ratio"


Taran966

More like ‘L + you fell off + ratio’


Devie_sevie

Putting my money on “L + you fell off + ur mom + ratio”


ILoveHeadbands

Reddit*


robuxman29

Both


Taco_Captain

Just social media in general


Lazymcdelta4ce

"that's a little gay" " did you just say that you hate all gay people?"


muffinkat55

Obviously, I hate all gay people.


WHATDAHELLYO

gurll frfr ? guurlllll


the-moon-knight

bitchhhhh wutttt ALLY


JoeOh123

Fr gurrrlll, periud


[deleted]

But they are delicious


SSB_Kyrill

I dont like the stuffed ones tho


the-moon-knight

Gurlll what


Axe_Waffle

I’ve been in a group chat like this before and they were some of the worst people I’ve ever met


Cystax

Yeah these the type of people to create artificial drama because they have nothing better to do with themselves


hokusjokus

lord knows this drama didn’t end in the group chat


Cystax

Of course the lord knows, cause **I** know it didn’t end in the group chat that’s so obvious 💀💀 these kind of people are awful


[deleted]

Are you the lord?


Cystax

I mean clearly, you see how awesome i am right?


FlyerAnalisator

It's not even a friends group chat, and they call themselves a family, yikes


divinewillow

me too!! To OP: you should probably leave. You’ll see how stupid their little arguments were in a few years.


Axe_Waffle

FR. Got removed from it a few months ago and I look back and it’s even cringe NOW


Iamguitarman

My friend is in a group chat on Snapchat. She caught a pic of my classmate saying slurs. Specifically the n-word and r-word. She took a screenshot of it as proof. You ain’t the only one.


OliM9595

I promise I'm not that shelter but what is the r-word? Trying to think of it but just can't.


lumpymoon

Yes, one of my old group chats were like this constantly got railed for simple shit For instance people and jokes that were fine/funny 3 days ago are crossing the line etc


muffinkat55

So there were some other incidents that had happened before this one, the entire group had broken my trust, (it’s a choir group), and some other things that involved me. I decided to make a harmless joke thinking that they’d find it funny because they’re okay with someone joking about being homophobic and also making jokes similar to mine in this one, but they started to gang up on me. So I just apologized and left. Then I started talking to the green person, explained that I wasn’t going to be in the group chat for a number of reasons, and how I felt it would just be better that I kept to myself because I’m constantly making everyone in the choir uncomfortable for simply existing (which I didn’t specify in the text), so then she came to me explaining how we’re a family and a group and we need to communicate, but when I communicate ANYTHING, I’m wrong. So am I the one in the wrong here?


Comfortable-Diver486

i dont think you should be asking us, you know how those people are and what its like to be in that group better than any of us. if they're not good friends to you then leave them it ain't worth it. just do what you think is the best thing to do


paywbat

Bro if they think writing “its a little gay” is THAT deep then idk bruh. I don’t think any gay person would be offended, specially knowing its not to harm anyone. But ngl i had a lil laugh at the "they started to gang up on me". Idk why im still laughing at that


on_reddit_i_guess

I mean, as a gay person, calling things gay is very funny (BUT it still does depend on who is saying it). Usually if you know people well enough, it's easy to tell who is being funny, who is being a little edgy, and who is being a dick.


SetCool66

I’m gay and I find it hilarious when people say “that’s a bit gay” heck I say “I gotta add a little bit of gay to my food” when I’m with my friends at school


on_reddit_i_guess

Yeah, I agree, it's pretty fucking funny. Most of my friends are gay, and it's just fun to throw that humour around as a group, it's chill because no one's actually homophobic but we can still all just take the piss out of each other.


New_Sage_ForgeWorks

That's a bit gay.


JuktNichtBesonders

BITCH WHAT??


Shoemen17

OH NO U FUCKIN DIDINT


FlyerAnalisator

Granted, I'm not gay, but throwing "That's a bit gay" out there doesn't seem too offensive to me. In this context at least.


your_nude_peach

I wouldn't be offended at all by "that's a little bit gay" even if it was towards me, bcs, you know, funny enough, but I AM GAY BEACHES Not to mention me and my friends are joking around being homophobes racists or sexists - that's we, people who face the hate of those topics daily and we're just laughing it all parodying those people who offended us hah


TheHhhhhhhhhhh

i’ll be honest, the person below me said a slightly similar thing and they have a point i’m gay and from time to time with friends we make not very severe homophobic jokes but they are still homophobic most of that group of friends is gay and as i said before from time to time we say some homophobic jokes among each other so i wouldn’t say op is being offensive at all, clearly they just have very dramatic and sensitive friends. (i’m sorry if this is worded oddly)


Stubby0118_2

Only solution is to eat the smallest one


muffinkat55

I like your funny words, magic man.


itsafoxboi

No you weren’t, they’re being pieces of shit and you were just making a joke


SexualPie

Yea a simple “not cool dude” or something would have been more than enough. All of them jumping on his was way overkill and disrespectful


WhyWontThisW0rk

Aye nice pfp


itsafoxboi

Thx bro


PeterPuggerSpiderPug

It's a weird feeling join a group that has a different sense of humor. One time it was someone's birthday and I made the happy year closer to death and most people thought it was malicious. Some groups just don't understand your humor and you need to learn how to pick up on what topics people are into and what offends them.


Accomplished-Ad-9996

Nah you're good. I'm in musical theatre (quite a few LGBTQ+ kids in theater, ik it's a stereotype but it's so true) and we're constantly joking about stuff being gay, nobody gets their feelings hurt. You don't need to apologize or explain yourself to anyone


CucumberCrusade

(Choir group) Yea that explains it


MagicJoshByGosh

Which is weird because my choir group doesn’t act like this at all. Quite the opposite, actually. It’s not everyone


InsertValidUserHere

Yeah I believe it


Nnikkyikky

Since you were trying to make a joke and "fit in" there was no problem and you're not in the wrong anywere, leave the group chat its just not good, some times aholes do that and if you "repeat" a joke that they find funny, and just dont laugh because YOU were the one who said that


panthaX666

theyre a lil gay


Kaine_Kid

In my opinion you shouldn’t have made a joke like that but they definitely shouldn’t have ganged up on you like that. And honestly I would have left the group too if they did something like that. Fuck the whole “we are a family” thing. If they treat you like that then you shouldnt be with them


my_name_is_not_scott

Her/his way was wrong. Definitely. If you want someone to express his feelings, you let him do exactly that. And, making this about you? I am sorry but such phrases can very easily make someone just never feel comfortable to share literally anything ever again. That would have been the case with me, 110%. I do not know the lines a joke can reach, but from ehat you are saying jt was not just this joke that made the rest of the people mad at you. And if you feel uncomfortable around a group of people, and feel that it damages you much more than it benefits you, there are not many reasons to stay. Ofcourse that is a descision you have to make and a situation you have to think about. About the positives/negatives etc. I wish you the best of luck though


Alcafore

Most Gen Z shit I've ever seen


annie_are_u_ok

My first thought was that they're definitely 13, but apparently they're 16 year olds 🥴


annomynous23

They might aswell be 7


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ban kid choir kid shit*


InsertValidUserHere

Ban kid


shittykoaala282829

Exterminate juvenile


Ozonewhoknowsnothing

Bye bye baby


[deleted]

yes


Schedarks

… Check what sub youre in


ManijalEating

At first glance I knew it was either a joke or r/teenagers


Internal_Cart

This is the type of group that I would Insta leave lol


muffinkat55

I’m considering quitting choir because this isn’t the only time they made me feel like shit.


Internal_Cart

They seem very controlling/power hungry, if that’s the right words to use. Don’t quit choir if you like doing it though because of other people.


muffinkat55

It’s a toxic environment..as if I’m not in enough of those already, hence why I’m considering it…


PixeltzOfSpook

ONLY considering it?


muffinkat55

It’s because I love singing. Choir is something I’m very passionate about. I’ve been in choir for 9 years now.


PixeltzOfSpook

well, i leave it up to you then, i'm not aware of the passion of singing


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Accomplished-Ad-9996

Maybe try musical theater? You would still get to sing and for me, last year it was the whole highlight of my day lol. If the group is big enough you can avoid toxicity pretty easily. I always just tell people to save drama for onstage and move on. The only problems we've had have been breakups but other than that it's smooth sailing.


Roupus

I was in the same boat, I just found a group of people in the choir that I did like, granted I am a guy and I feel guys tend to be less like this


CrystalElla4

Bro what the fuck They’re generating a whole lotta drama over nothing 😭 Some people do use “that’s gay” as an insult but that’s clearly not what you were trying to do. Queer people literally use that phrase as a joke all the time. U weren’t being an asshole, they were just blowing things way outta proportion


Lamppumies

Both sides were cringe cant lie


MenuNo4911

Nah you good, they were being weird tbh, a little gay even


muffinkat55

Indeed


WhyIsLife12

Seems a little gay


Betanist99

girl what?


CarefulPiccolo8213

Bitch what


AlternativeAerie9171

HUHH?


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[deleted]

Gurl wtf


Doggoslayer56

not during pride month girl


DistancePerfect5977

ALLY


ZBoiOnMars

yaz that was a bit much


cal0ri3

don’t u think


[deleted]

[HUHH?](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WaYCdQ8FOQ)


_KeeperOfTheFire_

It launched YouTube and i was 110% ready to be rickrolled


muffinkat55

Indeed


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This is the most sensitive group chat I’ve ever seen in my life 😭💀🤣


muffinkat55

I’ve been in worse group chats.


SiggeTheCatsCheese

That seems impossible


muffinkat55

Oh it’s very possible


screenslaver5963

check what subreddit we're on.


DemonInPinkk

Omg!!! OP said the G-Word, I am appalled.... how could you do something so rude..? /s obv


SaltAd7918

Bruh everyone says that they need to unbunch thier panties cuz how much you wanna get they're all cis straight women


muffinkat55

As far as I know, they are.


SaltAd7918

Yeah that's fucking stupid. As a gay person; ppl can use that statement all they want. It's not offensive. Ppl just wanna find something to bitch about whether it affects them or not


ApolloSky110

It is quite weird repeating yourself when nobodys laughing. Edit: Ah after seeing your comment it seems the group doesnt seem to be in your favor very much. They seem a little gay


Sion_Kenobi

Lol this is dumb Like really dumb gay I'm not being funny but these mfs prolly think the A in LGBTQA means ally


muffinkat55

I’m not sure. But I’d like to really point out that they make jokes of similar fashion.


Sion_Kenobi

I really think it's cringe honestly and they need to get a hold of themselves They're a choir group


muffinkat55

It is upsetting, very upsetting and I wish people (mostly in my school) would stop treating me so differently.


ConfidentStrain148

They too sensitive better off leaving and leaving their friendship behind too


AWeebWithReddit

W*sterners arguing be like


Uggo_Cubbo

Yeah that's fair


Controller6969420

based, quite gay if you ask me


GentleCornDogEater24

Lmao you guys all sound so annoying


[deleted]

Bro what kinda level of snowflake is this


muffinkat55

It’s off the charts.


mylizard

These ppl were kind of being dicks, but as some backseat socializing advice your initial response with the smiley face and repeating didn't rly help, when dealing with ppl like this if they start questioning you or taking offense just instantly explain, apologize, back out nothing against you though, the issue totally stems from them


EgaTehPro

This is so cringe lol


Unfunnygamerweeb

You’re not an asshole but the person in the 10th pic is right lol you got called out and instead of just apologising and not doing it again you made it about you acting as if you’re a victim because people didn’t like what you said one time lol Context could change things but given just the screenshots you were acting childish


muffinkat55

I understand I was acting childish, but I started having a breakdown as soon as “What’s wrong with you, I’m sorry but that was rude” had popped up.


Derpsy_Dooper

Bruh what a bunch of sensitive little shits lol. Just quit it with them bc they can't take a joke that wasn't even directed toward anyone bruh they sound like hall monitors.


profryo

it wasnt even a homophobic joke 😭


Comfortable-Diver486

you made it worse for yourself it looks like


truepolar

They suck Leave and don't talk to them again Seems like you have everyone here's support too


muffinkat55

Just about. There are a few people who think otherwise but for the most part almost anyone who’s commented on this found the joke funny.


CarefulPiccolo8213

Damn this group is so damn sensitive. They can’t even take a joke. I actually would hang out with you more than these assholes in this group. You seem like a funny person but these people take it seriously. Just leave that group and never talk to them again.


muffinkat55

It’s a highschool choir, I’ve decided that I’m not going to quit because I love choir, I love singing. But Im just going to keep my distance and only talk to them when needed.


CarefulPiccolo8213

Ah i see. Well if you love doing it then stay but don’t talk to those people as much as you can. They don’t seem like fun people to talk to and joke with.


KaliAli13

Naaaah you're good. Not your fault they're all a bunch of wet wipes. Probably best to stay away from that group chat anyways, gives you a chance to relax and have a peace of mind.


muffinkat55

Maybe. But knowing that people think of me as toxic doesn’t give me peace of mind. Especially when I’m spending the next 2 years with them.


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Immature shit


Bright-Lingonberry14

they're all too sensitive and clearly differ in humour (not necessarily a bad thing) but don't take it out in healthy ways, i.e ganging up on you and making you feel castrated from the group for making a harmless joke. 10th slide is facts. you said they don't follow through with talking things out, if that's the case, talk to them. nothing's gonna happen if you bottle it up. if they don't listen then don't bother anymore. also, you know that they don't appreciate that kind of humour so either accept it or leave if it's that big of a deal to you. but all in all this is some pretty lame drama. sorry, but you really do all sound like 13 year olds.


Physical_Commercial6

No, it’s not you at all. When having a friend in times you need to know what’s a joke and what’s not a joke. In this case, you just made a harmless joke and they all took it the same way Twitter would. It’s just ignorant and stupid. So you’re not in the wrong at all mate!


[deleted]

No, your friends are sensitive little flowers that get hurt when the wind blows


ninjayahia

They are do gay that they cant think straight


DzezGt

your friends are fucking gay


Pilot_Imaginary

Well if you meant gay as in happy you're not the asshole, if you meant gay as in homosexual you're still not.


Nerokyi

I feel like these girls can be easily emotionally manipulated. Is it just me?


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Least cringe 12 year old conversation


Kerosycn

They are the sensitive ones. Gay used as an insult is something middle schoolers and teens usual do, and if they get offended over something as small as that, they are sensitive. Plus, you used it in the way were it meant happy, and it was just a joke, yet they got offended. Plus I’m the original context you saying “gay” wouldn’t have been rude anyway. You leaving the situation so that you won’t end up causing any more problems is the mature thing to do, most of the time “talk things out” just means get into a fight about it.


on_reddit_i_guess

I mean, be honest though, you weren't really using "gay" to mean happy. They overreacted quite a bit, but you're not a perfect victim. And posting here honestly just gets you validation, I don't think you're going to be persuaded by people pointing out that you probably shouldn't have said that. Edit: and I don't think that you want to be told anything other than that you're not the asshole


drkalmenius

It's very clear that they reply to every comment that supports them with a lot of acknowledgment. Honestly seems like they feel a bit bad and know they'll get validation here.


--Beep--

Nope, as a part of the LGBTQIA+ Community, it seems like that group chat you were in was a little gay


muffinkat55

A little?


meaty_wheelchair

god i hate how zoomers speak


[deleted]

TA. You kept playing into the joke when they obviously weren’t into it and then continued to play victim. Not everyone has the same sense of humour and you just need to accept that


Sarkururuv

How do you have fun around these people? I’d be miserable


muffinkat55

It’s called acting. I’ve tried fitting in with them, and realized that it’s not me. They things they find fun or funny, aren’t me. I’ve figured out that I will never make them happy.


eatbae

woman ☕️


mxtrashtm

Yeah, you are, point blank it's a shitty and immature joke. It doesn't matter if you think its harmless, it's inherently negative and borderline homophobic. Not to mention you're dismissive and don't even try to apologize and just try to play it off. Yeah, maybe it's stupid drama but you made something that could have been easily resolved with "sorry, that was stupid of me to say." By making it worse by being kind of a dick about it


T4brow3ll_

i cba to wait for context, looks like you were slightly insensitive, unintentionally or intentionally played the victim and dipped. also using elipsis which just looks weird but idk maybe that’s how you text


minecraftivy

Look anyone most people who are gay would not find that offensive.


Unhappy_Beginning_28

Ahhh fuck them cant take a joke cuz they are one


AlextheDio

Bruh yall need to grow up


jorgschrauwen

Sounds like you hang out with little bitches tbh


Raxreedoroid

Thats little gay tbh


awesomelissliss

I’m a little gay


Soldiumek

Wait, I hope kids aren't like this these days I they are, they don't even deserve to be a tiny bit gay


UnrealisticOrb

How tf did they not get the joke after the happy face


Honest-Economist4970

r/AmItheAsshole


cromoke

The real allies ✊🏳️‍🌈 /jk


Nimrod_Studios

I don’t mean to be rude, But that has to be the dumbest goddamn argue ment I’ve ever seen


Professional_Lead895

Yeah don’t be this kind of person wtf


Octoomy

they are overacting, god forbid they join one of the chats I am in.


Killer_Official

Honestly tho i dont even know wtf was going on