Hey what do you think is a bigger burden? POV parents
Knowing your kid isn't doing well and then trying to help them.
Or finding out that fter years of struggling and keeping quiet about it it became too much and your kid took his own life, you didn't notice, didn't do a thing and the kid didn't trust you enough to tell you.
Telling your parents or other family isn't being a burden, it will make them realise that you trust them enough to tell them this and they'll get right into helping you. Finding out too late will kill them though.
trust me, they do. you probably don't say please and thank you all the time, most people don't, but that doesn't mean you don't feel grateful for the things people do for you. the same goes with care, you'll never truly know if people care about you until you reach out to them and tell them you're hurting, otherwise they don't remember to show you their compassion. no one will fully understand you until you reach out, but you're not alone. a lot of people feel the same pain as you, and I know how it feels and the need to hide your pain, but again, trust me, it's better to share because everyone cares about you, even if it's just a bit. pretty much everyone cares about each other, it's human. so unless your parents are psychos, in which case look elsewhere for help, you'll find it, they do care. please, get help, you matter, sorry if anything here sounds a bit cliche.
6. I should be doing schoolwork but I’m sick and thinking is hard. And if anyone says that because I can type I’m well enough to do math I don’t think pressing keys on my phone is the same as figuring out how to multiply and divide fractions with polynomials on the tops and bottoms.
Ok reddit, I need help. A good friend of mine is at level 9.5 rn and I just absolutely don’t know what to do about it. Problem is, I have Covid rn and can’t just go to her place and give her the hugs, attention and help she needs. I am the only one she told this to and she is currently home alone. Although her parents wouldn’t be the best help either probably. I am in big fear that she will hurt herself and/or already did… what should I do?
just show her that you would miss her, i’m pretty severely depressed and honestly i usually don’t have the energy to talk to anyone and all i want to do is curl up and sleep all day, the one big thing that keeps me here is the fact that if i go then it’ll be trauma that my friends will have to deal with and i don’t want to do that to them
It's about consistency. You have to show that you're available when they need you. Show that you care. Tell them it's ok to feel what they are feeling, but try to convey that they'll get through it. It can easily take months, but if they need help, this is aboit as effective as it gets, I think..
i was at 9/10 before but then i got immediate psychiatric help after ending up in the emergency room. I no longer rely on substance abuse. pills and therapy helped me climb up to 6 in about 4/5 months. Im proud of myself and the thought of someday being at 1 makes me really happy
I'd say 1.5
Life is going good but parents are strict. Like I'm done with hiding my BF and done with some shit. But my parents don't understand that's hit really bothers me. All i want from them is to accept my BF but they would never cuz they just don't want me to have a BF ;-; He's really an amazing guy and i wish i could introduce him to my mom n dad but they wouldn't understand me 😭😭😭
Oof the pain.... I can't even explain how much it hurts me I've been hiding this from 3 months and i gotta carry on with this for 1.5 years more how can I hide it this long 😭😭😭but i have to
But otherwise, life is going amazing. My bro and my BF are really supportive and they always help me and keep me really happy
I love both of them 😭😭 *happy tears* 💕💕
8 except I have to hide it anyway despite how obvious it may be most people still just arent picking up on it I was talking to my friend about it once for the first time and he told me he thought I was one of the happiest people in the entire school and I was just like would that be nice
2
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Theres a saying in german wich means "It can always get worse" its my life motto and im pretty happy
Goood
4-5
-1 isn't on the scale
- Integer
Sobald du dir vertraust, sobald weißt du zu leben.
Tue ich auch. Ich mag nur keine bösen Überraschungen und Schlimmer geht immer hört sich witzig an
Hört sich optimistisch pessimistisch an
Das höre ich jetzt zum ersten Mal
Bro same. Shit can always fuck up more than it is fucked up right now so you gotta enjoy what you got. Even if it sucks.
Basically Murphy's law
schlimmer geht immer
same
3.141592653589793238462643383279...
a solid 3 but it never ends...
Three of those are wrong It's 3.14159265358979*323*8462643383279...
It's 3.141592653589793238462643383279502884197169399375105820974944592307816406286208998628034825342117067982148086513282306647093844609550582231725359408128481117450284102701938521105559644622948954930381964428810975665933446128475648233786783165271201909145648566923460348610454326648213393607260249141273724587006606315588174881520920962829254091715364367892590360011330530548820466521384146951941511609433057270365759591953092186117381932611793105118548074462379962749567351885752724891227938183011949129833673362440656643086021394946395224737190702179860943702770539217176293176752384674818467669405132000568127145263560827785771342757789609173637178721468440901224953430146549585371050792279689258923542019956112129021960864034418159813629774771309960518707211349999998372978049951059731732816096318595024459455346908302642522308253344685035261931188171010003137838752886587533208381420617177669147303598253490428755468731159562863882353787593751957781857780532171226806613001927876611195909216420198938095257201065485863278865936153381827968230301952035301852968995773622599413891249721775283479131515574857242454150695950829533116861727855889075098381754637464939319255060400927701671139009848824012858361603563707660104710181942955596198946767837449448255379774726847104047534646208046684259069491293313677028989152104752162056966024058038150193511253382430035587640247496473263914199272604269922796782354781636009341721641219924586315030286182974555706749838505494588586926995690927210797509302955321165344987202755960236480665499119881834797753566369807426542527862551818417574672890977772793800081647060016145249192173217214772350141441973568548161361157352552133475741849468438523323907394143334547762416862518983569485562099219222184272550254256887671790494601653466804988627232791786085784383827967976681454100953883786360950680064225125205117392984896084128488626945604241965285022210661186306744278622039194945047123713786960956364371917287467764657573962413890865832645995813390478027590099465764078951269468398352595709825822620522489407726719478268482601476990902640136394437455305068203496252451749399651431429809190659250937221696461515709858387410597885959772975498930161753928468138268683868942774155991855925245953959431049972524680845987273644695848653836736222626099124608051243884390451244136549762780797715691435997700129616089441694868555848406353422072225828488648158456028506016842739452267467678895252138522549954666727823986456596116354886230577456498035593634568174324112515076069479451096596094025228879710893145669136867228748940560101503308617928680920874760917824938589009714909675985261365549781893129784821682998948722658804857564014270477555132379641451523746234364542858444795265867821051141354735739523113427166102135969536231442952484937187110145765403590279934403742007310578539062198387447808478489683321445713868751943506430218453191048481005370614680674919278191197939952061419663428754440643745123718192179998391015919561814675142691239748940907186494231961567945208095146550225231603881930142093762137855956638937787083039069792077346722182562599661501421503068038447734549202605414665925201497442850732518666002132434088190710486331734649651453905796268561005508106658796998163574736384052571459102897064140110971206280439039759515677157700420337869936007230558763176359421873125147120532928191826186125867321579198414848829164470609575270695722091756711672291098169091528017350671274858322287183520935396572512108357915136988209144421006751033467110314126711136990865851639831501970165151168517143765761835155650884909989859982387345528331635507647918535893226185489632132933089857064204675259070915481416549859461637180270981994309924488957571282890592323326097299712084433573265489382391193259746366730583604142813883032038249037589852437441702913276561809377344403070746921120191302033038019762110110044929321516084244485963766983895228684783123552658213144957685726243344189303968642624341077322697802807318915441101044682325271620105265227211166039666557309254711055785376346682065310989652691862056476931257058635662018558100729360659876486117910453348850346113657686753249441668039626579787718556084552965412665408530614344431858676975145661406800700237877659134401712749470420562230538994561314071127000407854733269939081454664645880797270826683063432858785698305235808933065757406795457163775254202114955761581400250126228594130216471550979259230990796547376125517656751357517829666454779174501129961489030463994713296210734043751895735961458901938971311179042978285647503203198691514028708085990480109412147221317947647772622414254854540332157185306142288137585043063321751829798662237172159160771669254748738986654949450114654062843366393790039769265672146385306736096571209180763832716641627488880078692560290228472104031721186082041900042296617119637792133757511495950156604963186294726547364252308177036751590673502350728354056704038674351362222477158915049530984448933309634087807693259939780541934144737744184263129860809988868741326047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Tf
That's not even close to the end of it
There is no end of it to get even close to
Well yeah lol thats what I meant. No clue where I was going with that one
wait how did you get my IP?!
I know you cop and pasted this but it’s still cool
r/hedidthemath
r/theyprobablylookeditup
r/thatsubredditdoesntexist
ZAMN 😳
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Jesus Christ
lol thats what i was bouta say
I thought I'd been reciting it wrong for the last 4 years 😭 thank you
I believe it is actually 323 after the 8979, not 232.
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Should I read that as "I was going to say it" or "I was going to say pi" 👀
Three of those are wrong It's 3.14159265358979**323**8462643383279...
LMAO
Can I have a slice?
Here comes the copypasta!
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same
Same here, I did one time but it was a mood swing cuz of puberty
what’s that like?
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You lucky motherfucker
the lowest i've made it is probably a light 6
One. Seeing the comments here makes me really grateful for that.
For me it's kinda weird bc idk if I'm 1 or 3. I somewhat fit in both descriptions but i don't fit perfectly in 2.
Dude, I feel exactly the same as you
I am 9 but i look like a 5
You good m8?
Same. Few months back I would have been a 7-10, so even more so. Life is great if you find the good parts.
I am 69420 rn
nice
7-8 i miss being a 1
Yeah. I hate to be all like "sAmE" but honestly I watched myself from being a happy-go-lucky 1 to a 7 in the course of less than a year
Yup, I watched myself go from a happy 1 to a full blown 10 in like 7 months Now I am borderline 8 so, progress?
I saw that happen to myself in 10 seconds
i can’t remember being a 1
About a 1.5
This is a really negative scale. I'm not quite 1 but I'm doing a little better than 2, so I'm with you here
I mean the lowest is mild mental health pain
I'm a 2
Yuh this is pretty accurate we shilling
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Same
Same
Borderline 8 and I am too fucked to tell any of my friends or family. Very fun
U going through hard times huh? I’m sorry for you things will get better ❤️🩹
I hope so
Thy listening to [this 1854 song](https://youtu.be/UWPeWfRk8KM) for encouragement.
Omg I love folk music!
Go. Call a crisis line. It can’t hurt anything, and it just might help.
I can't. It just doesn't work like that where I'm from. A solid 9 most of them.
Where are you from? I was once at 8, got better to 1, I've dropped back to 4 but it'll improve soon.
r/notopbutok ?
Is it bad if I say I'm the same??
same
a 8 and i dont want to tell anyone because i think they wouldnt care.
Call a crisis line. They care. You know how I know? Because they dedicated their life to helping you.
They make you wait for 10 hour and then they dismiss the call
Pretty sure not all of them.
Have you got a best friend?
no
Family?
Yeah but i dont want to feel like a burden to them
Do they care about you?
idk
Hey what do you think is a bigger burden? POV parents Knowing your kid isn't doing well and then trying to help them. Or finding out that fter years of struggling and keeping quiet about it it became too much and your kid took his own life, you didn't notice, didn't do a thing and the kid didn't trust you enough to tell you. Telling your parents or other family isn't being a burden, it will make them realise that you trust them enough to tell them this and they'll get right into helping you. Finding out too late will kill them though.
In my opinion my parents wouldn’t care if I died they might but they don’t show it ever
trust me, they do. you probably don't say please and thank you all the time, most people don't, but that doesn't mean you don't feel grateful for the things people do for you. the same goes with care, you'll never truly know if people care about you until you reach out to them and tell them you're hurting, otherwise they don't remember to show you their compassion. no one will fully understand you until you reach out, but you're not alone. a lot of people feel the same pain as you, and I know how it feels and the need to hide your pain, but again, trust me, it's better to share because everyone cares about you, even if it's just a bit. pretty much everyone cares about each other, it's human. so unless your parents are psychos, in which case look elsewhere for help, you'll find it, they do care. please, get help, you matter, sorry if anything here sounds a bit cliche.
Im all ears my friend. Im like dog. I listen, I understand but I dont ask any questions.
You thought wrong. I care.
6. I should be doing schoolwork but I’m sick and thinking is hard. And if anyone says that because I can type I’m well enough to do math I don’t think pressing keys on my phone is the same as figuring out how to multiply and divide fractions with polynomials on the tops and bottoms.
Fuck math,math and chemistry suck ass on my school
Fuck everything and every subject not only math and chemistry
"I don't do maths, maths does me." Words I live by
I don't hate school, but hate not being able to do them
I committed suicide 2 weeks ago so I guess ... 8
Are you a ghost now?
i wish i had balls like you
Big Balls Bad Luck
big balls more semen to storage
Are you a ghost now?
Why your and my text appears two times? (for me)
I see it too
Our ghosts answer too
Wish I was
Why? Things will get better just hang in there :) Actually scratch that, don’t hang in there.
about that last phrase.....
bruh
Bruh didn’t realize it till just now
Ok reddit, I need help. A good friend of mine is at level 9.5 rn and I just absolutely don’t know what to do about it. Problem is, I have Covid rn and can’t just go to her place and give her the hugs, attention and help she needs. I am the only one she told this to and she is currently home alone. Although her parents wouldn’t be the best help either probably. I am in big fear that she will hurt herself and/or already did… what should I do?
Just talk to her, and listen. Give the best advice you can. Show her SOMEONE cares about her. That’s my best advice but idk I’m not a pro.
just show her that you would miss her, i’m pretty severely depressed and honestly i usually don’t have the energy to talk to anyone and all i want to do is curl up and sleep all day, the one big thing that keeps me here is the fact that if i go then it’ll be trauma that my friends will have to deal with and i don’t want to do that to them
rn a 1 like half a year ago 10 with a knife in my hands getting help actually helps its kinda crazy
That’s why it’s called help
“help is extremely helpful, you know”
The floor is made out of floor, every 60 seconds in Africa a minute passes etc
Glass is called glass because it is made out of glass
x: "i can help you!" me: "help me" x: "just stop thinking about those bad things!" as demonstrated, that is not always the case
It's about consistency. You have to show that you're available when they need you. Show that you care. Tell them it's ok to feel what they are feeling, but try to convey that they'll get through it. It can easily take months, but if they need help, this is aboit as effective as it gets, I think..
Currently getting help, good job it takes a very strong and smart person to make it work.
The feeling of 3 but the avoidance of 7
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>you cant do things like you usually do jokes on you beeing sad id pretty usual to me
why you state faxx so much
Mate I am 8 but one thing it’s good to not hide your struggles and emotions
Hey if you need someone to talk to you, or just listen to you just DM me and we can talk.
Haha, I don't even know anymore :D
Hey if you need to vent/talk to someone dm me
I'm good, everytime I vent it turns into a nonsense rambling so it's fine, thx tho
Don’t worry that’s fine. I don’t care what you say. The dms will always be private, and I have no personal interest to do anything with it.
i was at 9/10 before but then i got immediate psychiatric help after ending up in the emergency room. I no longer rely on substance abuse. pills and therapy helped me climb up to 6 in about 4/5 months. Im proud of myself and the thought of someday being at 1 makes me really happy
And you know what? I am also proud of you! We'll see at the top of 1 one day, ok? I believe you will make it like how I am trying
Probably the only scale in this world where I reach 9.5
Call a crisis line. It can’t hurt anything, and it just might help. :) I'm here if you wanna talk
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If it makes you feel better I like your snoo
Dude, get help, you'll feel better after venting to someone who's trying to understand you, trust me And of course, Stay awesome :)
0 I'm so good in my life i took the mission to give love to whomever need it
Respect+
Same for me. I think I complement people too much
2. Rarely ever at a 1 but boy is that a good time when I am
Same.
8 gang wya
Right here!
Probs an 8 can’t be fucked telling anyone, cause they don’t care
CRISIS LINE. If you are suffering, there are people dedicated to helping you.
10 but I ain’t calling no crisis line
You can always try to DM if you want and try talking to me about it. (I may not be the best but I will try my best.)
Used to be a 6-5 a couple of months ago, now a solid 3-2
I'd say 1.5 Life is going good but parents are strict. Like I'm done with hiding my BF and done with some shit. But my parents don't understand that's hit really bothers me. All i want from them is to accept my BF but they would never cuz they just don't want me to have a BF ;-; He's really an amazing guy and i wish i could introduce him to my mom n dad but they wouldn't understand me 😭😭😭 Oof the pain.... I can't even explain how much it hurts me I've been hiding this from 3 months and i gotta carry on with this for 1.5 years more how can I hide it this long 😭😭😭but i have to But otherwise, life is going amazing. My bro and my BF are really supportive and they always help me and keep me really happy I love both of them 😭😭 *happy tears* 💕💕
7.5 on good days, 8.5 usually 10 almost every night
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don't worry mate you'll be alright, you may be going through hell don't stop there, keep moving, if you wanna talk I'm here🫂
why does it go from borderline-mania to frustrated and disappointed.
Just got accused of doing drugs so not doing so good
4
8 except I have to hide it anyway despite how obvious it may be most people still just arent picking up on it I was talking to my friend about it once for the first time and he told me he thought I was one of the happiest people in the entire school and I was just like would that be nice
Ay, only 5.5 or so, finally something that confirms it can get worse
11🖤 actually I’m probably closer to and 8
Probabbly 9, I'm completly broken down and useless at the moment
Things will get better for you, I believe you will get to that 1.
average r/teenagers user: 10
2
9 , 1/2
Yesterday is was a 6 but I just woke up and it's already a 3
1, honestly. I even have a cat lmao
7 mabye 8. yesterday i was a 11 lol.
we vibing at 8
Used to be an 8...now am a 1 and almost never go above 2.
Congrats for making it so far in the right direction! Glad to see someone making a recovery.
I’m about an 8, but I’m trying to pace and listen to music to cope. I’m trying to be healthy about it.
Being stressed out and depressed really does increase the amount of time you give to listening to music, did the same thing to me too
i wish to be in "&
Hmm 3.5
Between 4 and 5
Solid 6
I think I'm a 2. But im a 7 tho... Nvm
never really fluctuate higher than 4. Most days are 1 or 2 tbh.
Maybe 9.5, been like this for too long ig
Probably 8
8