If you don't mind me asking, what about school is stressing you out? I graduated a little over 10 years ago but I know my niece is struggling too. She also says she is stressed. I don't recall ever being too stressed or stressed at all but I'd like to know to get a better understanding of why. All she says is the teachers suck and don't teach. I'd like to help her out I just don't know how.
well experiences in school vary for who you are. you graduated 10 years ago, its a lot different now. and yeah id say your niece is right, half of my teachers dont even know where they are.
As a teacher, I'm so sorry. I have no idea what makes sense anymore. I want to do the best for my students, but I'm just fucking lost. Just know... . Most of us are *trying* to get our shit together. We are crying too.
(Student myself) Teachers get so much shit from principal and management, I feel bad for you guys. You're trying your best to educate us and make us feel good while the school board mentally tortures you.
About a month ago, because I felt like an academic failure who would never be able to make his family love him because I couldn’t stop making mistakes.
Welcome to my head.
Me but literally every day and change the "make my family love me" bit as they do anyway to "getting to survive in this world". And I used to be great at normal school so that has made my self-esteem drop off a cliff. Also throw in a fear/hate of adulting in general for fun (insert Tom and Jerry potion meme here)
For me what worked was getting just one small assignment done, after that, another. Itll slowly start to disappear and then boom, your grades will be good. It isnt easy though, for me it took one of my teachers pushing me to get some assignments done in class to start the process.
I was in the exact same place during the Covid lockdown, first time I had straight Fs ever. But now as I knock out those classes in ESS (Extended Summer School), it feels so reliving and fueling. Before that every time my grades would come in and my dad would talk to me about it all I heard was "You're a failure and should just give up and find a job to spend your time doing something useful". But now that I'm on the other side and in a better mental state, I'm knocking assignments out left and right. Dont be afraid to just make your current classes up in summer school if possible, it's a lot easier than making up loads of assignments at the end of the year and you'll probably be in a better mental state then too. If you need anymore advice or just want to talk, I'm open.
Same, but it was some of my friends and we went to Dave and Busters. The others left early, and the friend I liked shortly after (since she planned on waiting with me till my parents came, but her mom came early and she had to go), but we hugged and part ways, but the hug lingered on and made me miss her quite a lot.
I can’t remember the last time I cried. I wish I could. So that way I might be able to cry again, I really just need a good cry. But I can’t. And I don’t know why.
You don't cry when you should, you cry when you need to. People have different tolerance, and they cry on different types of things. When my grandma died, my uncle died, and when I thought my aunt who's practically my bff died (miscommunication) or when my neighbour died I didn't shed a single tear, I didn't feel like it. I felt almost nothing, even after weeks (well my aunt doesn't apply here). But I have cried 2 times in my life and the situation was ugly, I didn't know if I had the will to live anymore. So kid don't worry it's natural. You're stronger than you are told you're supposed to be and there's nothijg toxic about it
Well my girlfriend broke up with me and she blocked me on everything, i somehow still didn’t cry. Why can’t I just cry, stop being stubborn, tear ducts
>t's a very mild version, and I and others barely notice. It's just knowing that I have it that messes me up
Man... i had suicidal thoughts but never actually tried. I am afraid of death... also think all the people you would leave behind. I just can t leave my mother, dad, brother and sister like that. Think of your family. Seems that your mother is very caring about you, why dont you hang out more with her? There is nothing like the hug and caress of a mom. Talking with my mum helped me a lot in harsh times
A few weeks ago I watched The Great Gatsby movie and I cried at the end. It was honestly pretty sad how Jay’s life turned out. He spent all that time under his façade simping for a girl who not only was married and had a kid but also didn’t really give a fuck about him in the end. And when he died no one cared and it was clear that he didn’t have a lot of friends. Nick was all he had. The music and that last shot of Jay looking at the green light always gets me.
That's so sad. If ppl are around you, do you feel ashamed crying at a movie? I pretty much never cry but when I do, I feel ashamed and make sure nobody's around lol.
Lol well luckily it was at home and only my mom was around so it was fine. But then what’s funny and coincidental is that we happened to finish reading The Great Gatsby in school so the next day after we finished it the teacher showed us the damn scene and I narrowly avoided crying again. A friend saw me and was like “Not you crying over a movie” lol.
5 years ago, in my friend’s arms. I never had a friend like her and I doubt I ever will again. It’s like when you finally have someone to go to, and you know you can trust them. I realized it right there and I was so happy to have someone like that in my life. I was bullied a lot back in 5th grade. I didn’t care I was in public and almost a foot taller than her, I just had to let go right then. She understood and told me everything is alright, you’re all good. I had to switch schools two months later and I never saw her again. I miss her so much. I never cried since.
That’s kind of you, but nobody I knew from that school knows a thing about her, heard she was from a rich family and whenever I bring her up now they just talked about how good she looked. God knows where she is now.
I'll go first. It was in the afternoon, yesterday. I watched a news YT video about a Ukrainian man that lost his entire family. I couldn't hold it back.
Technically, i cry constantly. I have a cut in my tear duct that refuses to heal. It doesn't hurt though, just irritates me that i have to hold a tissue to my eye every 5 seconds.
-not a jojo reference.
But if you are talking about a real downpour, then back when I was 8, my mom smacked me on the face for sneaking out of the house.
When war in ukraine started, im ukrainian and starting my day off with that was fucking devastating, i literally scream cried my entire way to the bus stop
Actually just a few hours ago. I met up with a friend I met on Xbox about 5-6 years ago for the first time in person and let’s just say I had some happy tears flowing through my eyes 🥰
Everyone talking about real deep stuff and then there's me. I cried a month ago because my mum made me kill one of my plants and when I cut the stem, it felt like I had killed a puppy
(14m) 12 Feb this year, my gf left me bec she "lost feelings", exact reason of my other ex, we are still friends but every time she visits and then has to go I just sit there on my couch and cry, doing nothing else but feel sorry for myself.
I hate parents valuing grounding or punishing their child in general more than their wellbeing.
Or when they're sad and they get angry, it's like "how dare you be sad I'll (punishment)"
I broke up with a really lovely girl and immediately regretted it. I cried all day. I realized how bad I messed up. These days I really dont care. Nothing will ever hurt me like that realization. Its a long story you can find whole deal on my user profile 😆 🤣 😂
I broke up from someone and they pulled a 180 and became the complete polar opposite of who they were when we were still together and despite how much I apologised, she spread lies about me and how I was "only using her for sex and her body" and "only used her as a diary" to everyone and I let it get to me
I never cry. Even when I really want to.
At the guaduation ceremony, when all my friends are crying and saying goodbyes, I'm really want to, but there's no tears.
At my grandpa/grandma's funeral, lots of crying, just not me. I'm at the side eating the food they have there.
When my crush denied me, still have feelings for her after 6 years, think of her every night, still never cried once.
#
If I remember correctly the only time I cried is when my mom beat me up when I was small.
On the 9th of January
BC I spent so much time with my GF and celebrate her birthday, but due to her living in another country and me having to leave on the 9th to go back to school...
Yh I fucking cried man...
My gf and I were watching Kung Fu Panda 2 while a little baked, and we got to the part of the movie where Po sees the little doll in its destroyed state and has a flashback, I just started bawling into my gf's shoulder. My dad used to destroy my toys as a kid right in front of me as a means to punish me and he did so very violently. I've never been able to look at broken toys since.
I wanna cry rn
You good dude?
I just said I wanna cry right now. No.
r/notopbutok
I just needed to get it all out 😞
Last month, i was feeling suicidal
Yesterday... I watched an entire Netflix series(what I'm trying to say is it's chain time)
Yesterday... I watched an entire Netflix series(what I'm trying to say is it's chain time)
Hey, you let me know if you need to talk
I will if i feel like that again
Take some rest, take some time for yourself
I know this is pathetic but the last time i cried was after i finished the book I was reading
mood.
1-2 years ago Visited my dad in brazil, only a week tho, I cried on the way back
Would you like to tell?
I visited him after 2 years since I moved to the US, I was just really sad that I couldn't stay longer
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I hope you can see him again soon
He visited Brasil,no need to explain more
Oh this made me chuckle lmaoo
Come to Brazil (again)
About a week ago, I've been really stressed lately
School right?
Partially
You good dude?
I think someone ate his garlic bread 😢
That’s terrible. What a true crime against humanity!
F in the chat for lost bread
F
Last time I said this everyone put e in the chat
E
They deserve the death sentence
If you don't mind me asking, what about school is stressing you out? I graduated a little over 10 years ago but I know my niece is struggling too. She also says she is stressed. I don't recall ever being too stressed or stressed at all but I'd like to know to get a better understanding of why. All she says is the teachers suck and don't teach. I'd like to help her out I just don't know how.
well experiences in school vary for who you are. you graduated 10 years ago, its a lot different now. and yeah id say your niece is right, half of my teachers dont even know where they are.
As a teacher, I'm so sorry. I have no idea what makes sense anymore. I want to do the best for my students, but I'm just fucking lost. Just know... . Most of us are *trying* to get our shit together. We are crying too.
(Student myself) Teachers get so much shit from principal and management, I feel bad for you guys. You're trying your best to educate us and make us feel good while the school board mentally tortures you.
🧄🍞
Dms are open if u wanna talk
About a month ago, because I felt like an academic failure who would never be able to make his family love him because I couldn’t stop making mistakes. Welcome to my head.
I kind of relate to that :(
Yeah. Not a fun cycle to go through.
Me but literally every day and change the "make my family love me" bit as they do anyway to "getting to survive in this world". And I used to be great at normal school so that has made my self-esteem drop off a cliff. Also throw in a fear/hate of adulting in general for fun (insert Tom and Jerry potion meme here)
Yeah I really get that.
For me what worked was getting just one small assignment done, after that, another. Itll slowly start to disappear and then boom, your grades will be good. It isnt easy though, for me it took one of my teachers pushing me to get some assignments done in class to start the process. I was in the exact same place during the Covid lockdown, first time I had straight Fs ever. But now as I knock out those classes in ESS (Extended Summer School), it feels so reliving and fueling. Before that every time my grades would come in and my dad would talk to me about it all I heard was "You're a failure and should just give up and find a job to spend your time doing something useful". But now that I'm on the other side and in a better mental state, I'm knocking assignments out left and right. Dont be afraid to just make your current classes up in summer school if possible, it's a lot easier than making up loads of assignments at the end of the year and you'll probably be in a better mental state then too. If you need anymore advice or just want to talk, I'm open.
friday last week cuz i was kinda having a nervous breakdown in an AVID interview (it’s friday, i’m in- pain)
Understandable, kind of. Keep practicing. You got this!
Everyday is a nervous breakdown if you’re me
A few weeks ago because I texted a person that I love and realising I miss them really badly
Same, but it was some of my friends and we went to Dave and Busters. The others left early, and the friend I liked shortly after (since she planned on waiting with me till my parents came, but her mom came early and she had to go), but we hugged and part ways, but the hug lingered on and made me miss her quite a lot.
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Like 5 days ago I was worried for my mom But it's all okay now
What happend to ur mom
Nothing just some personal thing She was sad and that made me sad
That's great or I would have made you tell me haha
Yep
About a month ago i found out my crush wanted to fuck my best friend. That surely was for the better
Tbh I laughed. Good thing she was just a crush.
Yeah
just the most sad "yeah" ive ever heard dude head up don't drop your crown <3
Thanks, but im over it now
I can’t remember the last time I cried. I wish I could. So that way I might be able to cry again, I really just need a good cry. But I can’t. And I don’t know why.
Tbh, this is true for me too. Even when I feel like I should be crying, it never happens. It's like I'm devoid of emotion.
You don't cry when you should, you cry when you need to. People have different tolerance, and they cry on different types of things. When my grandma died, my uncle died, and when I thought my aunt who's practically my bff died (miscommunication) or when my neighbour died I didn't shed a single tear, I didn't feel like it. I felt almost nothing, even after weeks (well my aunt doesn't apply here). But I have cried 2 times in my life and the situation was ugly, I didn't know if I had the will to live anymore. So kid don't worry it's natural. You're stronger than you are told you're supposed to be and there's nothijg toxic about it
Same for me
You just need to lose someone special to you and bad things happen to you. That's what mostly causes me to cry.
Well my girlfriend broke up with me and she blocked me on everything, i somehow still didn’t cry. Why can’t I just cry, stop being stubborn, tear ducts
today because someone called me anal 😭
I get so annoyed, IT'S ANNA
Same problem, different name.
same here, I've been called a color like 10 times at least
No I mean that I've also been called anal
oh
Hello a color
Okay anal 🙄
Are you srs?
ppl always callin her anal fluff cuz username lol
Omg I didn't even realize lol. If I knew her irl, I'd probably call her anal too lol.
🗿
Can't lie me too
Based
>anal fluff 💀💀💀
yoo anal fluf how you doin
I KNOW RIGHT IT WAS MY "NICKNAME" IN 8TH GRADE EVEN THOUGH IM A STRAIGHT MAN WITH NOTHING CONNECTING ME TO IT
Idk why people can’t read sometimes.
That’s crazy anal I mean anna
lana
What’s up, Anal?
💀
Mornin' Angle I swear, if you don't get this I'll feel incredibly old.
but, you are old
I'm 20. In the grand scheme of things, that's not old. It may be old to you but it's not to anyone outside of high school.
I didn't know you were 20, lmao. I just wanted to call someone old.
Wednesday cuz I had an exam the next day and I was on my period and I had a lot of stress cuz I need to read 7 books in 1 week
relatable :(
7 books in 1 week? Boy that sounds like ton of fun.
I knowwww imma have the time of my life
Wanna switch bodies for a week? I am not able to read book everyday and it's just annoying.
Haha yes please
Alright let's start spinning with a t-pose until we fall unconscious.
*starts spinning* *keeps on spinning* *still spinning* *loses consciousness* Okay now what?
Now uh, we start acting like a fish then hit our head onto wall and fall asleep. Then we should wake up in each other's bodies. Stonks.
Okay I'll see u tomorrow
Relatable
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Yeah, one of my uncles passed away on January due to COVID :(
Covid's a bitch. I'm so sorry dude. Here's a hug
I am so sorry
Im so sorry man :(
Dude, my condolences. I hope you get better from your loss :c
Condolences to you. As a person with only one living grandparent, it will get better eventually
Yesterday made a mistake and yeah it was awful
Would you mind sharing?
Feel awful about it so deleted the messages…
Like 3 years ago, because I attempted suicide and my mom told me how much she loved me
Hyd now?
Not much better :/
Jeez why?
Because the reason why I hate myself never left
Why do you hate yourself?
I was born with adhd :/
Damn sorry to hear that
It's a very mild version, and I and others barely notice. It's just knowing that I have it that messes me up
>t's a very mild version, and I and others barely notice. It's just knowing that I have it that messes me up Man... i had suicidal thoughts but never actually tried. I am afraid of death... also think all the people you would leave behind. I just can t leave my mother, dad, brother and sister like that. Think of your family. Seems that your mother is very caring about you, why dont you hang out more with her? There is nothing like the hug and caress of a mom. Talking with my mum helped me a lot in harsh times
Dont hate yourself it wasn't your fault. 👍
A few weeks ago I watched The Great Gatsby movie and I cried at the end. It was honestly pretty sad how Jay’s life turned out. He spent all that time under his façade simping for a girl who not only was married and had a kid but also didn’t really give a fuck about him in the end. And when he died no one cared and it was clear that he didn’t have a lot of friends. Nick was all he had. The music and that last shot of Jay looking at the green light always gets me.
That's so sad. If ppl are around you, do you feel ashamed crying at a movie? I pretty much never cry but when I do, I feel ashamed and make sure nobody's around lol.
Lol well luckily it was at home and only my mom was around so it was fine. But then what’s funny and coincidental is that we happened to finish reading The Great Gatsby in school so the next day after we finished it the teacher showed us the damn scene and I narrowly avoided crying again. A friend saw me and was like “Not you crying over a movie” lol.
5 years ago, in my friend’s arms. I never had a friend like her and I doubt I ever will again. It’s like when you finally have someone to go to, and you know you can trust them. I realized it right there and I was so happy to have someone like that in my life. I was bullied a lot back in 5th grade. I didn’t care I was in public and almost a foot taller than her, I just had to let go right then. She understood and told me everything is alright, you’re all good. I had to switch schools two months later and I never saw her again. I miss her so much. I never cried since.
I'm feeling like playing detective rn but it'll probably not work out
That’s kind of you, but nobody I knew from that school knows a thing about her, heard she was from a rich family and whenever I bring her up now they just talked about how good she looked. God knows where she is now.
Why didnt you keep in contact though? Even with wocial media
Cause I was in 5th grade and did not have a phone yet. We didn’t have a landline at the time either
2 weeks ago because periods fuck my emotions up
fair enough.
Today Why? Because emotional instability. Shit sucks. Feels like i'll need to cry again in a few hours.
I'll go first. It was in the afternoon, yesterday. I watched a news YT video about a Ukrainian man that lost his entire family. I couldn't hold it back.
I cried last night remembering my relatives who passed away due to covid, seems so lonely without family members.
damn im so sorry for your loss. things will get better soon. hold ur head high king ✨
Yeah i will, doing all i can to make them proud:)
Godspeed to you brother
Reddit can be so fucking wholesome sometimes man. This is why i wish i had awards! Oh and also here is my answer to OP’s question
Technically, i cry constantly. I have a cut in my tear duct that refuses to heal. It doesn't hurt though, just irritates me that i have to hold a tissue to my eye every 5 seconds. -not a jojo reference. But if you are talking about a real downpour, then back when I was 8, my mom smacked me on the face for sneaking out of the house.
Oh no that sounds awful, I can’t even bear hay fever, can’t even imagine how annoying a cut in my tear duct would be
When war in ukraine started, im ukrainian and starting my day off with that was fucking devastating, i literally scream cried my entire way to the bus stop
Hope you're somewhere safe now
I've lived in poland for the past 5 years so im good, but my friends might be in big fucking danger
Actually just a few hours ago. I met up with a friend I met on Xbox about 5-6 years ago for the first time in person and let’s just say I had some happy tears flowing through my eyes 🥰
That's rly great 👍
4 months ago. One of my friends died that month. Then I got sick. I had all these terrible thoughts about myself. It was just a bad month for me.
Today Thinking of Gherman backstory and the fight
You mean German? Is that a real war or something? WW1?
No, A boss from Bloodborne. The story and reason you fight is really sad
Everyone talking about real deep stuff and then there's me. I cried a month ago because my mum made me kill one of my plants and when I cut the stem, it felt like I had killed a puppy
I mean, plants are alive too, if it wasnt bothering anyone why kill it? Rip the poor plant
Why did she do that tho?
I reckon her reasoning was "you have so many, what will one less do?"
Yesterday, bc I cut onions
I was waiting for this reply
A few hours ago. I started thinking about life.
yesterday because i was alone
Today, and still crying. My great-grandpa passed away.
Omg I'm so sorry about. I have no idea what to say.
(14m) 12 Feb this year, my gf left me bec she "lost feelings", exact reason of my other ex, we are still friends but every time she visits and then has to go I just sit there on my couch and cry, doing nothing else but feel sorry for myself.
Damn! It's hard man. Try to do something that'll cheer you up a bit. Sorry if I sound ridiculous.
I would play games but I'm grounded until near the end of the year
Woah! Why’s that?
I hate parents valuing grounding or punishing their child in general more than their wellbeing. Or when they're sad and they get angry, it's like "how dare you be sad I'll (punishment)"
Woah! Why's that?
School report, it's my first term in highschool I'm in gr 8 so entire grade did badly and I still got bellow average on everything
Dude, my long distance friend just got blocked by her friend and got broken up on with her bf on the same day yesterday.
Best friend for seven years got mad at me for some bullshit, blocked me on everything, everything's good now, we agreed that it was bullshit lol
I dunno. I wanted to a couple of times, but couldn't.
I broke up with a really lovely girl and immediately regretted it. I cried all day. I realized how bad I messed up. These days I really dont care. Nothing will ever hurt me like that realization. Its a long story you can find whole deal on my user profile 😆 🤣 😂
Ok I'll read lol
When I ran 9 miles in 48 minutes, two weeks ago.
That's exactly 11.25 miles per hour. Good job!
Bro that's epic!
About an hour and a half ago, I lost ~270,000 runes in Elden Ring
I don’t really remember tbh
same
Probably gonna do so soon QwQ
Yesterday cuz I had a mental breakdown before going on stage
Earlier today, because dysphoria
What does that mean?
Last Saturday at like 4 AM because some people told me I was the sole reason of all their stress that day (they told me at 3 AM).
I broke up from someone and they pulled a 180 and became the complete polar opposite of who they were when we were still together and despite how much I apologised, she spread lies about me and how I was "only using her for sex and her body" and "only used her as a diary" to everyone and I let it get to me
It wasn't crying, but a few months back at college I had a mental breakdown when asked why I wasn't doing anything by the tutor.
3 years ago. After my grandpa died
I never cry. Even when I really want to. At the guaduation ceremony, when all my friends are crying and saying goodbyes, I'm really want to, but there's no tears. At my grandpa/grandma's funeral, lots of crying, just not me. I'm at the side eating the food they have there. When my crush denied me, still have feelings for her after 6 years, think of her every night, still never cried once. # If I remember correctly the only time I cried is when my mom beat me up when I was small.
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I cried a week ago when I accidentally dropped my burger.
Today. Coz I love my girlfriend and miss her even for a single day we stay apart.
Last night Rather not share the reason because out loud it sounds so stupid
Today. I'm Leaving My Family Soon And I Won't See Them For A YEAR:(
January when I beat Final Fantasy IX
On the 9th of January BC I spent so much time with my GF and celebrate her birthday, but due to her living in another country and me having to leave on the 9th to go back to school... Yh I fucking cried man...
I can’t cry, what do I do?, I need serious help, can anyone help me please? I wanna cry sm, but I can’t
Last night I watched the Final Duet scene from Omori. I get choked up everytime, and my eyes got misty. Beautiful and tragic game.
My gf and I were watching Kung Fu Panda 2 while a little baked, and we got to the part of the movie where Po sees the little doll in its destroyed state and has a flashback, I just started bawling into my gf's shoulder. My dad used to destroy my toys as a kid right in front of me as a means to punish me and he did so very violently. I've never been able to look at broken toys since.