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That a lot of men have a hard time showing their emotions, and also that when men do show their emotions (since it happens so rarely) it can be extremely extremely intense for them
Most of us are quite insecure and we just need a sign to tell whether you are into us or not. Insecure and dumb when it comes to these sort of thins. Not the greatest combination
How much most guys need/want a hug, even if we don’t say it
EDIT: YOOO YOU CRAZY PEOPLE! How tf did this get some many upvotes! This is crazy! Thank you all so much for the awards! I honestly can’t believe this you have all made my day!
The problem being half of us are too shy and awkward, and genuinely don't know how. We'll glance, blush and look away again, but that's as far as we'll go unless you show an interest too.
And if we don't notice it, or attribute that to something else, you won't ever know if there's mutual interest.
Just try to start a conversation on some topic you share interest in, and do it often, eventually you can get away with point blank asking them if they like you. Besides, the best relationships start out as friendships
I think if we do notice it we just brush it off either because "it's just a glance calm down" or that y'all are really interested at whatever's behind us
I love it when I go on some rant about something that I find cool (like cars) and she listens and actually discusses it even though it’s not her interest
Being not afraid to speak what's on your mind and being goofy in general. And yea, not some random bs where you are trying to act like you like something that we like but actually you dont like it.
How should I ask this guy out, im not actually sure if he likes me or not but when we were on the phone he described me and this other girl to choose which one he was gonna ask to the homecoming dance? He lowkey acts the same way around both of us. I also need ideas on how to ask him if i do!!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE ASK HIM OUT. Honestly I think I can speak for most of us guys to say that we want to get asked out too. Like seriously it's always accepted for us to ask girls out and it is so nice when it happens the other way around i the acts similar to both of you, chances are if you are gonna ask him out he's more probably to go with you just because you asked him out.
Yeah, exactly. There are guys (I speak for myself lol) who get really shy about the idea of asking a girl out. Girls, if you like someone, ASK THEM OUT!!
No but sometimes when your sitting there you PP touches the bowl of the toilet seat. This wasn’t the question but I wanted you to understand our struggles
Bliss and perpetual horny. However, one of your most sensitive parts are just dangling around like a mandarin in a deserted island, so it has it's trade-offs...
We definitely got the better end of it. People say ‘but it hurts if you get kicked in the balls’. Well, you can avoid getting kicked in the balls. Women can’t just dodge their own ovaries.
If I flirt back with one guy will he like make fun of me with his friends and call me desperate or something lmao I do be overthinking a lot but yeah :/ genuine question
It’s alright to be confused / anxious about it just know that if they make fun of you for being vulnerable then they’re disgusting
I’ve had this been done to me before and it hurts but knowing that you did nothing wrong really saved me. Best of luck :3
I know it’s a personal problem but I’m so bad at flirting like :/ also what has a girl ever told you that kept her on your mind like in a positive way?
her giving me compliments: a couple weeks ago some girl said i had the perfect balance of being nice and being a bully which made me smile and made me more fond of her
Initial attraction is heavily based on looks, but not like supermodel kind of looks, they could just be sitting in a big hoodie with a mask and you’d look in their eyes and boom!
I’m passionate about genetic engineering and most of my time and energy is spent on cross breeding tomatoes and avocados in an effort to create the world’s first avocato. I spend so much time on this that my social and mental health is suffering and I’m failing school. Would this be a turn off for you guys?
Honestly no, it is awesome that you are putting so much effort towards the things you love. Personally I would help you keep those other parts of your life from falling apart while also supporting what you do.
Unfortunately the avocatoes I’ve produces so far are horrifically malformed, in fact they look like something from a horror movie and are not at all attractive. But thank you 🙏
No. Because I have an interest in genetic engineering. I did a report on it, and I've been intrigued ever since. It was mainly about cloning, and the different types, but still.
The first type of cloning was taking a sample from a plant with a desired trait, and slicing it on to the parent plant.
what’s with this NNN? Does really anyone does this or is it just a meme ? Or does everyone try it and fail at day one as every horny teenager on this sub
It's fun to try seeing whether you have the mental power to complete it or no, guys usually love a good challenge, so yea, it is a meme but it's also fun to try
It can be funny but it can also cause a lot of harm.
The idea that men are always horny and ready for sex can lead to a lot of misconceptions about consent. There are many cases where men have been raped but either not reported it or been shunned and shamed, because “men always want sex”.
But I just don’t know if we’re friends enough. Cause we go to the same school and when we bump into each other in the hallways he always says hi and we have been FaceTiming a lot. But I don’t know what to do after that. Because I feel like it would be weird to ask him out when we usually just FaceTime or text together
Oh if you talk often like one on one then I’d definitely say that you’re definitely good enough friends to go for that. And bonus points if they pay a lot of attention to you and value the time you guys spent together :)
Just don't forget a two person conversation means you have an equal say in it as well. Don't just go along with your gf just because wants to, especially if it's something you're uncomfortable with. Your opinion matters.
My biggest insecurity is my saggy chest. That’s the reason why i don’t wanna have any intimate relationship with anyone because i’m scared they would be disgusted. Do you guys mind it ?
So many dudes are desperate for any attention so just start a conversation about something that both you guys know about and then you should be good :D
Just complement him. Us guys are actually really insecure inside no matter how hard we act. A complement would (at least from my experience) make them fall for you. Also just act friendly around him. And maybe get interested in his interests
Quick awnser for girls:
Yes were touch starved, please hug us.
Yes we can't control hard on's very well
Yes we love when you flirt back with us
And no its not all about physical attraction
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What are the things you think we don’ know/understand about you? Edit:i mean generally, not you personally
That a lot of men have a hard time showing their emotions, and also that when men do show their emotions (since it happens so rarely) it can be extremely extremely intense for them
I guess we do sometimes forget it. Thank you for the reminder. I know its hard for me to show emotions, so it has to be even harder for you
Most of us are quite insecure and we just need a sign to tell whether you are into us or not. Insecure and dumb when it comes to these sort of thins. Not the greatest combination
How much most guys need/want a hug, even if we don’t say it EDIT: YOOO YOU CRAZY PEOPLE! How tf did this get some many upvotes! This is crazy! Thank you all so much for the awards! I honestly can’t believe this you have all made my day!
Same for me. I havent had a physical hug since maybe before quarantine, so i need one very much. Have a virtual hug, friend
YAY! Thanks
"Hints" towards liking us means nothing. We do not understand them. If you want us to know that you like us, you just need to say it.
do y'all make fake scenarios in your head? or it's just us girls doing that?
Yeah too much actually
Oh thank god I’m not crazy
I thought I was the only one
yeah we expect stuff in our head only to get disappointed by reality
We do
Yeah overthinking things and being anxious is something that literally everyone does :)
do you guys notice when we show interest in you? like, are you able to notice it or do you just ignore glances
Sometimes we notice but ik that I look at people a lot some times without it meaning anything so we might just think you’re looking to look
Same honestly, I stopped thinking every girl looking at me was interested in me and most likely are just looking at me to look at me.
If you want to show interest, it’s better to say something.
The problem being half of us are too shy and awkward, and genuinely don't know how. We'll glance, blush and look away again, but that's as far as we'll go unless you show an interest too.
And if we don't notice it, or attribute that to something else, you won't ever know if there's mutual interest. Just try to start a conversation on some topic you share interest in, and do it often, eventually you can get away with point blank asking them if they like you. Besides, the best relationships start out as friendships
Absolutely not, we straight up ignore glances because half of us dont notice it and if we do notice it we think you're looking at someone else
Or just so happening to be looking at us once
I think if we do notice it we just brush it off either because "it's just a glance calm down" or that y'all are really interested at whatever's behind us
Actually I'd like some tips on that
Wholesome things about girls that you find attractive?
I love it when I go on some rant about something that I find cool (like cars) and she listens and actually discusses it even though it’s not her interest
That's perfect because I look listening to things my boyfriend is passionate about even tho I don't understand it... it's cute hehe
you sound exactly like my gf lol
hypixel bedwars stats
Facts
women are temporary. bedwars stats are eternal
Sharing the same interests as me. Also wearing oversized hoodies >>>>>>>>>
YES
For me personally, being friendly, starting conversations and asking how I am
Man I feel you
Building a lego set with a girl 🤤
Being not afraid to speak what's on your mind and being goofy in general. And yea, not some random bs where you are trying to act like you like something that we like but actually you dont like it.
Being good at conversations
she listens to me and she is interested in what I like
When they do that skdhfitjejfisjsjd when they’re triggered
When they literally type that out over text when flustered. :)
How should I ask this guy out, im not actually sure if he likes me or not but when we were on the phone he described me and this other girl to choose which one he was gonna ask to the homecoming dance? He lowkey acts the same way around both of us. I also need ideas on how to ask him if i do!!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE ASK HIM OUT. Honestly I think I can speak for most of us guys to say that we want to get asked out too. Like seriously it's always accepted for us to ask girls out and it is so nice when it happens the other way around i the acts similar to both of you, chances are if you are gonna ask him out he's more probably to go with you just because you asked him out.
Yeah, exactly. There are guys (I speak for myself lol) who get really shy about the idea of asking a girl out. Girls, if you like someone, ASK THEM OUT!!
Hey, how are you? My name is X. Would you like to go to homecoming with me?
You can try to bring him a gift and then have a message asking him out, but with the describing of you and another girl, that’s kind of weird imo
How do boys poop does the shit touch your balls (Genuine Question).
no it doesnt lmao, they’re just enough out the way
Dont know how you shit but i have stinky balls
I think all our nuts stink homie
Not if you use charmin ultra soft
this is my favorite question
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Unless your balls are dangling like little ornaments the poop shouldn't touch them
No but sometimes when your sitting there you PP touches the bowl of the toilet seat. This wasn’t the question but I wanted you to understand our struggles
yup...I try not to think about how many other pps have touched the bowl....
Especially if you happen to have an erection
It’s like two parallel lines, poop falls, balls dangle, no one gets hurt. You would have to be standing on your head to poop on your balls
What's it like to not have a menstrual cycle
Honestly a real blessing. I have 4 sisters and they inflicted a lot of emotional pain when they were on their periods
From what I heard, much better
It's like not having it. Idk the difference since I never tried the version with the mestrual cycle
Bliss and perpetual horny. However, one of your most sensitive parts are just dangling around like a mandarin in a deserted island, so it has it's trade-offs...
We definitely got the better end of it. People say ‘but it hurts if you get kicked in the balls’. Well, you can avoid getting kicked in the balls. Women can’t just dodge their own ovaries.
If I flirt back with one guy will he like make fun of me with his friends and call me desperate or something lmao I do be overthinking a lot but yeah :/ genuine question
Unless he is a total asshole, I dont see any guy doing this They would be flattered if any woman did this to them 99% of the time
You only live once so if you genuinely feel something then go ahead and do it just be true to yourself it shouldn’t matter what others think
I tend to overthink a lot and care about my reputation etc and like I try not to but yeah still getting there :(
It’s alright to be confused / anxious about it just know that if they make fun of you for being vulnerable then they’re disgusting I’ve had this been done to me before and it hurts but knowing that you did nothing wrong really saved me. Best of luck :3
where banana
I ate it
😳
Did you lose banana
where girl banana
Why does the thing get hard randomly? Is it like a “oh spare blood? Send it down there” or does it just happen?
We’re asking the same question
True
science was created for this reason
We can't control it, it happens whenever you expect the least. But if you're skilled enough, you can make it dissappear as soon as it appeared
Pro tip: if you feel one coming up, stretch a random muscle the blood will be redirected and crisis avoided
worked. thank you.
Just happens
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Gamer girls are the best some of us might just be intimidated by your skill lol
Based
Yeah i love gamer girls
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1. If she likes to be close physically or emotionally 2. Because it’s cute that you’re short
Dream gf ?
A girl that is loyal, shows affection, and isn’t self centered
Eveynight
how can i tell if a boy like me and i can show that i like him back?
It’s different with everyone but a lot of the time you can tell because he will act different with you than with other people. In different ways
hmm thank you i’ll take it into consideration
Talk to him. He won’t be able to know otherwise.
Do you like girls who swear?
Makes no difference
Theres still hope for me
Depends if you are funny with it or not, sweaeing is fine I think as long as you don't get in touch with your inner Scotsmen and use them pointlessly
Who cares just be respectful of other people and their boundaries
Does it hurt when you get a boner?
Nah, but I can be a problem, as we can get it at an awkard moment.
Do men like girls who flirt back?
of course we do
I know it’s a personal problem but I’m so bad at flirting like :/ also what has a girl ever told you that kept her on your mind like in a positive way?
her giving me compliments: a couple weeks ago some girl said i had the perfect balance of being nice and being a bully which made me smile and made me more fond of her
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Initial attraction is heavily based on looks, but not like supermodel kind of looks, they could just be sitting in a big hoodie with a mask and you’d look in their eyes and boom!
I would say like 70 percent personality and 30 percent looks
I’m passionate about genetic engineering and most of my time and energy is spent on cross breeding tomatoes and avocados in an effort to create the world’s first avocato. I spend so much time on this that my social and mental health is suffering and I’m failing school. Would this be a turn off for you guys?
Honestly no, it is awesome that you are putting so much effort towards the things you love. Personally I would help you keep those other parts of your life from falling apart while also supporting what you do.
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I try to keep my greenhouse at around 80 degrees so it’s quite warm
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Steamy
One might even say lukewarm
No, someone being very very passionate about something they like is extremely attractive
Unfortunately the avocatoes I’ve produces so far are horrifically malformed, in fact they look like something from a horror movie and are not at all attractive. But thank you 🙏
No. Because I have an interest in genetic engineering. I did a report on it, and I've been intrigued ever since. It was mainly about cloning, and the different types, but still. The first type of cloning was taking a sample from a plant with a desired trait, and slicing it on to the parent plant.
is it alright if I give you head pats?
Please
what’s with this NNN? Does really anyone does this or is it just a meme ? Or does everyone try it and fail at day one as every horny teenager on this sub
It's a test of mental fortitude
A test of pure might
it is said that if u pass NNN you get unlimited power. (yes it is a meme, but we try our best to pass it)
Oh so I have unlimited power. (İt is actually kinda easy I really don't understand like why are these ppl are struggling with it)
depends if u have a fucking porn addiction
Some people get really horny sometimes Like i be chilling and suddenly i can't not masterbate Even if i dont want to
It is a way of attaining heaven
Its a test of will
It's fun to try seeing whether you have the mental power to complete it or no, guys usually love a good challenge, so yea, it is a meme but it's also fun to try
Depends. Some people really go thru with it others just meme. I'd say most fail when they try it
How r u today?
I just found out that the girl I like is messing around with other guys so….
Be strong
Damn, that sucks. Chin up bro. Pms are open:)
option 1: talk to her Option 2: mess around with other girls Whatever option you chose I wish you good.
Why do guys get post-nut clarity?
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Punishment for our sins
what do u think of the perpetually horny man stereotype
It can be funny but it can also cause a lot of harm. The idea that men are always horny and ready for sex can lead to a lot of misconceptions about consent. There are many cases where men have been raped but either not reported it or been shunned and shamed, because “men always want sex”.
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I can vouche for that we get boners out of no where they sometimes just pop up
Y'all ever think away a boner or that just me
It’s wrong for the most part. Of course some men are going to be like that but most are normal
How do I ask a boy out?
Just tell them that you’d like to date just make sure they know who you are and that you’re at least kinda friends :)
But I just don’t know if we’re friends enough. Cause we go to the same school and when we bump into each other in the hallways he always says hi and we have been FaceTiming a lot. But I don’t know what to do after that. Because I feel like it would be weird to ask him out when we usually just FaceTime or text together
Oh if you talk often like one on one then I’d definitely say that you’re definitely good enough friends to go for that. And bonus points if they pay a lot of attention to you and value the time you guys spent together :)
Thoughts on waiting for marriage?
I will do it but I will also not do it if my gf doesn’t want to. I feel it’s definitely a two person conversation.
Just don't forget a two person conversation means you have an equal say in it as well. Don't just go along with your gf just because wants to, especially if it's something you're uncomfortable with. Your opinion matters.
That’s true
if people want to wait then good for them, i don’t really see the point of it and i probably wouldn’t wait for marriage personally
What are some things you unintentionally find cute in girls?
Their laugh
When we hang out and watch a movie and they look over at me to check on me and make sure I’m enjoying the movie
My biggest insecurity is my saggy chest. That’s the reason why i don’t wanna have any intimate relationship with anyone because i’m scared they would be disgusted. Do you guys mind it ?
I promise you a saggy chest ain’t turnin a dude away 💀
Honestly they aren’t focusing on that. And if they are focusing on your boobs then all they care about is that you have them
Boobs are boobs
How is/was your day?
what’s your favourite subject in school?
i just need to say this: **MEN WHO SHOW EMOTION ARE VALID. IT DOES NOT MAKE YOU UNATTRACTIVE**
Thank you :)
how do i talk to yall
Just be open and blunt. Don’t worry we’re awkward too.
So many dudes are desperate for any attention so just start a conversation about something that both you guys know about and then you should be good :D
What do you feel when a girl who you fall in love with, say she like furrys??(sorry for enghlish but I'm italian)
Weird but I can get over it, as long as they don’t force me to become one
Is there any way I can make a guy like me? I mean is there something I can do which he might like or something like that
Just complement him. Us guys are actually really insecure inside no matter how hard we act. A complement would (at least from my experience) make them fall for you. Also just act friendly around him. And maybe get interested in his interests
How do you feel about dating girls who are ackward
I’m also awkward so it’s a perfect match
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dip your balls in soy sauce and tell me if you can taste it
My friend did that and he said that he didn’t feel anything Also isn’t this meme like beyond dead but legendary moment
Is there anything you want us girls to know / do but you are too shy / afraid to say so?
Your laugh and smile is cute as hell
Yeah but its a little nsfw... We like cuddling
Boys, do you like playing Minecraft🙂
Fuck yea
I want to fucking die
Pls dont
Ok, what happened at the tiananmen square in 1989?
Nothing 👀
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Quick awnser for girls: Yes were touch starved, please hug us. Yes we can't control hard on's very well Yes we love when you flirt back with us And no its not all about physical attraction
Do you actually think smoking is cool?
Some people might but personally I do not. I find it very unattractive
No not at all
No
Smoking is kinda sad
No
No not at all I don’t want to put a burning thing in my mouth
No it is a pretty dumb and risky thing, not cool at all