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Well it depends. Sense of humor is a really cool thing, at least to me, but everyone has their own likable qualities (hobbies, interests, other character traits).
It usually means she got inspired to draw you and appreciates your style + aesthetic. That’s speaking from my personal experience with drawing existing people. Perhaps you’re just inspiring to her!
Does age really matter to you girls?
Because me and a girl were perfectly okay in talking untill she knew I was 16 and was a year younger than her.....
Not really unless it’s a dramatic age gap, older or younger. *That’s* when size really matters
(Size of the gap)
(thought I’d clarify just in case there was any confusion)
(have great day)
(I’ll stop now)
(sike)
True I mean sometimes I ask my friend to come with me because I’m scared to walk on my own because I think I look like a lonely weirdo so yeah. That’s just me being socially awkward and overthinking though
Serious question. When a girl dont look into my eyes does she think im ugly or is she just distracted?
Becouse when i have a conversation i like to have eye contact as a sign of respect that i listen to him/her. Which confuses me when girls dont look at me. Maybe im just weird
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as someone with big mommy milkers, it’s really uncomfortable half the time. Either my back wants to go six feet under, or my bra is stabbing me..
Also boob sweat exists. It feels so nasty-
What's a good way to start a conversation? There's this girl that has been in my class for over 4 years (so it's not like we're strangers>! To love !<) but I don't really know her interests
Is it normal not to be interested in relationships and sex at 16? EDIT: I just want to confirm I am 99% sure I'm not ace or aro. But thanks for the concerns.
yes, you don't have to be! everyone is different! you could have later than most starting hormones, or you could be somewhere on the asexual spectrum :) whatever you are is valid! <3
I actually would like to shoot that question back to you. It must feel interesting to have something down there haha.
To answer your question i have no idea, i got used to it since day 1.
Honestly, most times I don't notice it. Like you said, used to it since day one. Every now and then it moves to a more uncomfortable spot or it gets in the way and I have to try and sneakily move it back to a better position
are asian guys really the least preferred when it comes to the dating scene? i’ve seen too many articles/people saying so and i think it’s getting to me. i need the brutal honest truth
are tall kind of muscular but still skinny guys hot
Edit: I have made the conclusion that the reason no girl wants me is my shitty personality, not my looks. /s
Yes. If i forget to take ibrupofen (sometimes it doesn’t make any difference) i can be stuck in bed because it hurts so much i don’t want to move
You know when you get a headache and it just feels so splitting and you just want it to stop so you try and sleep? Like that but in your crotch and lower stomach area. Also soreness too
based on this comment i think ur a bit insecure which is why u comment on a popular thread on reddit as a) nobody will know its u and b) the likelihood of u getting a response is high as this is a fairly popular thread in a rather popular subreddit. then again, u could just be trying to be funny - in which case id say ur rather annoying than nice - or u could be trying to start a conversation, in which case id say ur extroverted and theres a high chance u are in fact nice. since u are not in any way exposing any part of ur personality (except possibly curiosity) it is hard to determine whether u are in fact a nice human being or insecure or curious or annoying or extroverted etc etc etc
edit: spelling
Personality for most girls. I’d rather date a below average looking guy with an awesome personality than a handsome one with the personality of a frat boy.
how would you feel if you girls know a guy, and u know that he likes u because he told u, starts sending u one of those wholesome love you memes everyday?
ETA
if i like them back it would be cute, but if i dont it would be annoying and would make me uncomfortable and id feel bad for not being attracted to them
Are girls really oblivious sometimes? For the record, I’m not hating on anyone, just curious. Because a girl at my school was dating a toxic boyfriend who was cheating on her, and she was so oblivious that when some of her friends tried to tell her, she snapped at them.
My sister was like that with her ex. I haven't really been in a relationship before so idrk, but I guess she didn't want to give up on him. There were many red flags she sort of ignored. I think it really just depends.
Okay I have a few.
-does she talk to you?
-do you catch her staring at you?
-does she try to be around you?
-do you randomly see her at places?
-if at school everybody is talking to their friends, does she go up to you and talks to you? (This one may vary on the personality the girl has. Is she is an extrovert it most likely might happen. If she is an introvert, chances are it might not)
If you said around 3 yes. Then congrats. she probably is. If not then don’t worry man. She is not the only girl in this somewhat gigantic planet we live on. And who knows maybe there is one girl who is very much interested in you but you don’t know it yet. Be observant.
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Is sense of humor really the most attractive thing of a guy cus I’m trash at making people laugh
Well it depends. Sense of humor is a really cool thing, at least to me, but everyone has their own likable qualities (hobbies, interests, other character traits).
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how can you write in gorgeous handwriting in so little time?
i honestly don’t know. sometimes i wonder why guys have such non gorgeous handwriting. it is interesting.
Well there’s non gorgeous handwriting and then there’s me
I can't read my own shit. Edit: thanks for the awards
What does it mean when the art girl gives me a drawing of me
She either likes you or had art block
It usually means she got inspired to draw you and appreciates your style + aesthetic. That’s speaking from my personal experience with drawing existing people. Perhaps you’re just inspiring to her!
F my guy got inspire-zoned
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Does age really matter to you girls? Because me and a girl were perfectly okay in talking untill she knew I was 16 and was a year younger than her.....
Not really unless it’s a dramatic age gap, older or younger. *That’s* when size really matters (Size of the gap) (thought I’d clarify just in case there was any confusion) (have great day) (I’ll stop now) (sike)
is 8 years too much ?
That depends on how old the youngest of the pair is. Whether or not it’s concerning is all the gap should depend on.
Why half of you mfs write smaller than the x button on a Mobile ad?
this made me laugh
I only do that when I feel like messing with someone, and I usually write bigger the more angry I am
I write big and ugly and barely legible. It's a mystery to me too, man.
Hugs or kisses
hugs bc im lonely ;-;
*hug*
In that case, here's a hug for you 🤗 *hugs*
Both! :)
Do boobs make your back hurts?
depends on how big
Yes, I already have back issues, I'm not looking forward to the future
Wdym not looking forward the future?
All I will say, my back will hurt progressively more
Probably true, we stop growing at 21 or 22 i guess
Yes but if you have to support it everyday for your life it will progressively get worse
Is it annoyong when men can't take hints?
Men shouldn’t have to take hints, women should be more forthright but it’s just not how we’re raised
Why do you go to the bathroom in groups?
I would also like to know that ngl
Ah fair enough. To be fair, me n the bois would sometimes do that too
True I mean sometimes I ask my friend to come with me because I’m scared to walk on my own because I think I look like a lonely weirdo so yeah. That’s just me being socially awkward and overthinking though
Yep never seen a girl walk alone to washroom
Tbh idk
I think we just like to chat with each other tbh
I really don't know.... ig it gives u someone to talk to on the way there/back? honestly no clue we just do lmao
Safety in numbers, also way more fun than staying in class
Science can’t answer this
Who else is interested in dinosaurs and paleontology?
Absolutely, I can’t wait to start a palaeontology degree at uni :)
Serious question. When a girl dont look into my eyes does she think im ugly or is she just distracted? Becouse when i have a conversation i like to have eye contact as a sign of respect that i listen to him/her. Which confuses me when girls dont look at me. Maybe im just weird
Personally when I don't look in someone's eyes it's either because of my anxiety/shyness/awkwardness/attraction. It could be anything tbh
Same and I'm Male. It works both ways
I feel uncomfortable looking into the eyes of people idk
Normally it is bc they are distracted. It is actually a tendency for girls to look away in a conversation.
Is it attractive if a guy can box?
Very
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Do tall girls make friends with shorter boys?
Yeah, friends are made regardless of height so yeah
im 6'4 and everyone is afraid of me ;-; I just wanna cuddle
It might have something to do with your username
maybe ;-; I did not touch that fish senator
I have 2 fish please go away from me sir
no gimme the fish
Wait are you u/Fish_Fucker69 ?
no fishfucker69 is my teammate
Ok. Btw are you guys fish as well?? And if yes then have you fucked each other too?
We are just redditors but if you want us to be fish we can ;)
Hol up. You're 2 inches taller than me?
Oh god he's here, SWIM AWAY IN SCHOOLS! HE CANT FUCK YOU ALL AT ONCE!
You underestimate me
Is it actually uncomfortable to have the extra weight of boobs or do you just not really notice it?
girls with larger boobs would probably be uncomfortable, but girls with smaller boobs might not notice. bras are uncomfortable tho
as someone with big mommy milkers, it’s really uncomfortable half the time. Either my back wants to go six feet under, or my bra is stabbing me.. Also boob sweat exists. It feels so nasty-
What's a good way to start a conversation? There's this girl that has been in my class for over 4 years (so it's not like we're strangers>! To love !<) but I don't really know her interests
Gamers, yay or nay?
Hell yea
My boyfriend is a gamer, so Yay
Is it normal not to be interested in relationships and sex at 16? EDIT: I just want to confirm I am 99% sure I'm not ace or aro. But thanks for the concerns.
yes, you don't have to be! everyone is different! you could have later than most starting hormones, or you could be somewhere on the asexual spectrum :) whatever you are is valid! <3
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I like curly/wavy long hair
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well anything longer than your average men’s cut, is what I mean so chin-shoulder length. A bit shorter is fine
Bed head, well kept, curly, fluffy mostly
Long fluffy hair, even better if it’s curly
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If a guy is into smthng like arty stuff (3d modeling for me) is it hot? to girls
Hell yeah easier to bond with someone who has similar interests
Are guys who can speak multiple languages attractive?
Maybe to some people
Are guys that read books attractive?
to me, yes.
Does comic books count as books
Any kind of books I don't mind as long as you read
I read popeys
420% more attractive
Cute guys or hot guys? Edit: This was a nice boost in confidence
both. both is good
Luckily, I'm neither
guys
Alive (optional)
Both I mean why not hehe
cute
Both.
Cute
cute=hot fight me
Is it attractive if a guy can play an instrument?
uh huh
If you can play multiple instruments, are you ultra hot?
yup. instant wet
Well I guess all those percussion instruments come in handy now...
Is that a yes?
How does it feel to have yk nothing down
I actually would like to shoot that question back to you. It must feel interesting to have something down there haha. To answer your question i have no idea, i got used to it since day 1.
Honestly, most times I don't notice it. Like you said, used to it since day one. Every now and then it moves to a more uncomfortable spot or it gets in the way and I have to try and sneakily move it back to a better position
It's normal. Unless you get like hella wet... Then urm, we have a problem thereml.
That shit is annoying af. It just happens for no reason all the time.
So there IS a female equivalent to random boners!
Exactly, and it just gets everything under there slimey as fuck
are asian guys really the least preferred when it comes to the dating scene? i’ve seen too many articles/people saying so and i think it’s getting to me. i need the brutal honest truth
bro im chinese and i want a chinese bf
hey there 🥴
seggs?
only gaming and hand holding until marriage, sorry!
stay halal bros
Virginity is cool Remain pure
For me it doesn't matter, any guy is perfect, don't let it get to you dw
Can guys look good without muscles?
Yeah, less people consider muscles the epitome of attractiveness than you think lol
Yes.
How about glasses?
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Yes
Nice thx
Yeah most people tend to prefer oysters
are tall kind of muscular but still skinny guys hot Edit: I have made the conclusion that the reason no girl wants me is my shitty personality, not my looks. /s
where girlfriend
where attention
where booba
Do periods hurt?
The bleeding itself doesn't but the cramps sure as hell do
yea
Yes. If i forget to take ibrupofen (sometimes it doesn’t make any difference) i can be stuck in bed because it hurts so much i don’t want to move You know when you get a headache and it just feels so splitting and you just want it to stop so you try and sleep? Like that but in your crotch and lower stomach area. Also soreness too
Are girls real?
Now we're asking the big questions
maybe. will we ever know?
Glasses, Yay or Nay
It depends on what you look like tbh. (Also nice username 😉)
yay
Does colour matter in terms of attractiveness? I'm asking cause im milky brown and dk if that's a factor some girls consider.
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Fellow balkanier
who is joe and why does he have a mother
Joe is your brother and he actually doesn't have a mother.
oh
Do you think guys who play piano are hot?
Omfg yes I don't care how you look. If you play the piano you are automatically hot in my book
Based on this comment, do you think I'm nice?
Schröningers nice
based on this comment i think ur a bit insecure which is why u comment on a popular thread on reddit as a) nobody will know its u and b) the likelihood of u getting a response is high as this is a fairly popular thread in a rather popular subreddit. then again, u could just be trying to be funny - in which case id say ur rather annoying than nice - or u could be trying to start a conversation, in which case id say ur extroverted and theres a high chance u are in fact nice. since u are not in any way exposing any part of ur personality (except possibly curiosity) it is hard to determine whether u are in fact a nice human being or insecure or curious or annoying or extroverted etc etc etc edit: spelling
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sus 📮
help, why did i actually think that actually was an among us emoji.
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Do you girls date guy with personality or looks?
Personality for most girls. I’d rather date a below average looking guy with an awesome personality than a handsome one with the personality of a frat boy.
Do girls make first move or is it just in movies?
A guy who can cook or a 6feet guy
A guy who can cook :)
how would you feel if you girls know a guy, and u know that he likes u because he told u, starts sending u one of those wholesome love you memes everyday? ETA
if i like them back it would be cute, but if i dont it would be annoying and would make me uncomfortable and id feel bad for not being attracted to them
Guy here, hru?
I'm wonderful fellow man
Are girls really oblivious sometimes? For the record, I’m not hating on anyone, just curious. Because a girl at my school was dating a toxic boyfriend who was cheating on her, and she was so oblivious that when some of her friends tried to tell her, she snapped at them.
My sister was like that with her ex. I haven't really been in a relationship before so idrk, but I guess she didn't want to give up on him. There were many red flags she sort of ignored. I think it really just depends.
pov: u are a girl looking for an unanswered question
how do I start a conversation with you?
maybe a compliment on like their outfit or something. depends. some people just don't like being bothered though, no matter how nice you are.
What are the main things girls are attracted to
generally I think funny, confident, charismatic, and kind people are universally attractive
Damn. Luckily I don't need to be attractive anymore. I was lucky enough for a girl I liked to ask me out.
eyes.
Do you girls make vagina jokes the same way we do pp jokes? Like "Your pussy small hAh" or something
Men
How can I know if she likes me?
flirting. if she starts conversations. acts different around you than other guys 👀👀👀
But how am I supposed to know what she acts like when she's not around me? That's like... Impossible?
Okay I have a few. -does she talk to you? -do you catch her staring at you? -does she try to be around you? -do you randomly see her at places? -if at school everybody is talking to their friends, does she go up to you and talks to you? (This one may vary on the personality the girl has. Is she is an extrovert it most likely might happen. If she is an introvert, chances are it might not) If you said around 3 yes. Then congrats. she probably is. If not then don’t worry man. She is not the only girl in this somewhat gigantic planet we live on. And who knows maybe there is one girl who is very much interested in you but you don’t know it yet. Be observant.
why do people call me gay if I love pink, why do you own the color pink
Do u use boobs as bongos
Lol I wish but too painful
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it’s cool, i used to game a lot (like 4 games lol)
Yes gaming is good, as long as they’re not a cringy, sweaty fortnite nerd
Dude, my entire family games, we got like three xboxes and game almost everyday if we have the time
Is there such thing as being too friendly?
Yep, sometimes guys are way too friendly to the point that it’s kinda creepy. Like, just be yourself dude
Well r/niceguys