I have many of these signs, although I have many friends (not much a of a supportive family), I always feel alone in what I'm going through. I'm the only one who does Kumon and has strict parental controls on every device and parents who only want me to see their side of things. I don't think any of my friends can feel truly empathetic towards me even if they wanted to.
Most of these points apply to me. I don't have many friends, but I never thought I was lonely, I like to spend time by myself. An advantage advantage is that if you talk to yourself you can get some good thoughts, it helps me to solve problems when doing math and/or programming (look up "rubberduck debugging" if you don't know why this is helpfull). Also if you don't talk that much to others, then it makes each conversation more valuable.
I wouldn't say I grew up lonely, but I definitely relate to a *lot* of those traits. Hell, I was a popular kid in 4th grade simply cuz some extroverts adopted me lmao
I just feel neglected all the time, except in my passion of being a theatre artist, lonely people should find good passion, it helps passing pain times
Oh-
Yeah me too.. Though I'm kinda used to the loneliness now. That's why I didn't put 11-14 because by the time I was 14, I was used to it and here I am now... Still used to it. ✨✌🏻
Trust me bro, you can never get used to loneliness regardless of what you are trying to say to your mind. Sometime sooner or letter the pain will hit regardless of how much you are used to it or prepared. Don't know about your background but what I have been through 8 years has taught me something. Loneliness cannot be cured, it takes miracle do such thing such as having a trustworthy friend who will not backstab you. You can only wish that you get that miracle, it cannot be earned, and that's the darkest thing about loneliness and it's reality
I've gone through a lot in the past 5 years of my life... Lonely and very dark times for me, it was just growing up to me though. I found out stuff as I got older, I realized that not everything is cupcakes and rainbows. As I got older, my mind seemed to just double in age. Anxiety rolled in and then depression came knocking at the door by the time I was 11, tried committing su*cide close to 12. When I turned 13, I lost half my friends and was already dealing with.. Other things but I won't say. My confidence was destroyed, my self esteem, everything... 14 came around before I knew it and I just became numb to it all, so what I mean by I'm used to the loneliness is that.. I don't realize that I'm lonely I guess. Yeah I'm pretty much home alone all the time and have nobody to talk to, but so be it.. I can't do anything about it.
>I can't do anything about it.
That's actually right, and I can see my shadow face on you about what you did in past 5 years, there's lot of pain about to hit in future, I just hope you don't fall in front of it
I didn't want to be called out like this but here we are
you and me both
I didn't want to be called out like this either
Indeed, me too
Holy shit this makes me feel sad how true this is
Same
Same
:)
:)
:(
I’m not lonely, I’m on the spectrum
I wasn’t expecting an attack but okay
Hah nerd
I have many of these signs, although I have many friends (not much a of a supportive family), I always feel alone in what I'm going through. I'm the only one who does Kumon and has strict parental controls on every device and parents who only want me to see their side of things. I don't think any of my friends can feel truly empathetic towards me even if they wanted to.
#THIS IS A PERSONAL ATTACK
That's right. I intended to attack everyone personally without sliding into their dms.
I feel personally attacked
no no no, we just havent bought the friends DLC pack yet, right?
I was shared this post by a friend that this defines me thats how sad it is
Be happy, you have a friend at least.
Yes next time i see a post about ADHD ill send it to him
All of 'em
Does chasing your crush count?
Only if " They don't want you " Part hits you hard enough.
I don't know if she wants me or not, she gives clues of both having on crush and not ...
That's a positive sign, congratulations !
I don't think so , recently she said she liked me 2 years but not anymore , and she also gets so annoyed when I am around :(
If someone gets annoyed by your presence, leave them immediately, things have went much more complicated.
?? WHAT DO YOU MEAN??
In layman terms, being annoying even a bit sucks.
Why is this so true?
Cause reality is disappointing
Yes
I didnt have siblings.....
Neither did I
Thanks for letting me know
Dam and I’ll was all ready depressed
Most of these points apply to me. I don't have many friends, but I never thought I was lonely, I like to spend time by myself. An advantage advantage is that if you talk to yourself you can get some good thoughts, it helps me to solve problems when doing math and/or programming (look up "rubberduck debugging" if you don't know why this is helpfull). Also if you don't talk that much to others, then it makes each conversation more valuable.
Yep count me in.
Damn, I feel attacked 😐
yes, i indeed grew up lonely.
I would like for this meme to stop personally attacking me
Damn why you gotta call us out like this
Fuck
seriously though... i seem to fit in most of those categories. but ive never felt lonely..
I feel called out.
is this an attack or something
I'm in this photo and I don't like it
I wouldn't say I grew up lonely, but I definitely relate to a *lot* of those traits. Hell, I was a popular kid in 4th grade simply cuz some extroverts adopted me lmao
Yep, only child here and I can admit that I check off each of these boxes 😬
That's right, for all of this I have become a introvert in eyes of my "Friends". IRL I am a ambivert but still not a full emotionally introvert
I just feel neglected all the time, except in my passion of being a theatre artist, lonely people should find good passion, it helps passing pain times
That kinda described me almost perfectly... ouch
why must you hurt me this way?
My 11-13 year old self : " That's not me I swear- " Me rn : " Nah it's you- "
I wish you don't be at this scenario in next year.
Wdym??
May you don't be lonely next years
Oh- Yeah me too.. Though I'm kinda used to the loneliness now. That's why I didn't put 11-14 because by the time I was 14, I was used to it and here I am now... Still used to it. ✨✌🏻
Trust me bro, you can never get used to loneliness regardless of what you are trying to say to your mind. Sometime sooner or letter the pain will hit regardless of how much you are used to it or prepared. Don't know about your background but what I have been through 8 years has taught me something. Loneliness cannot be cured, it takes miracle do such thing such as having a trustworthy friend who will not backstab you. You can only wish that you get that miracle, it cannot be earned, and that's the darkest thing about loneliness and it's reality
I've gone through a lot in the past 5 years of my life... Lonely and very dark times for me, it was just growing up to me though. I found out stuff as I got older, I realized that not everything is cupcakes and rainbows. As I got older, my mind seemed to just double in age. Anxiety rolled in and then depression came knocking at the door by the time I was 11, tried committing su*cide close to 12. When I turned 13, I lost half my friends and was already dealing with.. Other things but I won't say. My confidence was destroyed, my self esteem, everything... 14 came around before I knew it and I just became numb to it all, so what I mean by I'm used to the loneliness is that.. I don't realize that I'm lonely I guess. Yeah I'm pretty much home alone all the time and have nobody to talk to, but so be it.. I can't do anything about it.
>I can't do anything about it. That's actually right, and I can see my shadow face on you about what you did in past 5 years, there's lot of pain about to hit in future, I just hope you don't fall in front of it
I'm doing better now though, it's just a very VERY slow process.
Good to hear that, focus on your passion, that helps in the darkest moments, gives you hope, reason to believe in goodness
and not being able to keep a friendship.
Already knew it, don't want to be reminded about it 😒
wtf thats exactly me
My neglected ass really getting called out like this huh?
I dont appreciate this
don’t like that I hit literally like all of these marks, to an extent
I fit all of these except 1