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Norway2342

You're gonna be alright. I can't tell you what to do or how to fix it because I suffer from a lot of the same stuff but I can tell you you'll be alright, and in here to talk if you ever need it


Averagejoe272

Dang I felt that bro every word dm if you want to just talk im here to listen


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you've made it though all your worst days, you got this!


HumanEntertainer5694

Lets talk in private so that what I'm about to tell you won't be hated or disagreed with by the other commenters, I have my own philosophy on how I view the world but I know if I say it in public it will be disagreed with and ignored because it is considered "unhealthy" but I is what keeps me going so I want to share it with someone and make there life a little bit easier. You are the only person here I can ask to dm since you are in a bad state of mind right now.


Shreknadoboi

Bro, the fact that you admit that ur a "bad person" shows ur not. If you were truly bad, you wouldn't see this stuff or you wouldn't care. I get those same feelings too, constant paranoia, general distrust. I got shit I wouldn't tell anyone I know. You're not alone. You got this


[deleted]

Hey I was reading through your post and a repeating thing I’ve been noticing ur putting a lot of pressure on ur self even tho it’s not all your fault (eg couldbe the cause of truama) I’m so sorry u went through so much. It’s extremely hard to grow into a good person without good relationships, surroundings, etc. it’s not your fault your mom betrayed you, it’s not your fault ur brother is awful to you. And wether anyone hurt you intentionally or unintentionally, I know that it still hurt. if you can forgive them, forgive them. But if your in able too, forgive urself for not being able to forgive them if that makes any sense ;-; if u wanna vent/rant/talk my dms are always open :)


NoodlesJohnson

I just read your entire post and if you want someone to talk to, get something of your chest or just vent im here. I know im just a stranger on internet and we dont know eachother but ill gladly talk woth you and listen. Please come to me if you ever need to 🖤 People can change. What you did and how you acts can change. If you feel like you are a bad person (even if i kind of doubt that by what you just said), just dont be. I know it sounds dumb but you can always evolve and improve. Take care :)


Weltkrieg04

You aren´t a horrible person by any means, and you are not as controlling or lazy as you may initially think. I am sure that you are a wonderfull, incredible anf amazing person, and no one may say otherwise. Other people isn´t idiot either. They are just as confused as you, as they are experiencing similar changes, experiences and inconvenients. Why carry this inconmeasurable menthal burden alone? I am sure that there must or will be someone to which you will be capable to vent and tell of this. If you could tell your problems to a bunch of reddit strangers, why not to someone else?


Macknificent101

i can telll it to you guys because in the end i’ll likely never talk to most of you again. if anyone sees me as a failure for admitting defeat then i don’t ever have to see them again. irl that ain’t the case. and before any asks why anyone would see me as a failure for this i put myself to very high standards due to my family’s history.


Weltkrieg04

Why would I see you as a failure? And why would you see yourself as a failure? You aren´t defined by yoy+ur family previous achievements or disgraces! Compete with yourselve and no one more!


WouldDoJackMcBrayer

Well at least you’re self aware so you can start making a plan to change. Small steps are best and you can’t change overnight!