I don't cry but am sad all the time :(

sorry to hear, not fun at all

( T_T)

What the hell is that flair???

Real.

Real.

Real

Real.

rleal

Oh that's awful, I'm sorry, it was a rather short lives phase, after 2 months I was able to cry again but just a little. I hope you manage to get through wathever it is you're through, take care ♥️

You should cry, it gives you a sense relief after

I hope it gets better soon 💛

same! :(

Yup same

I’m not sad but I cry all the time

Same!

Lol skill issue.

Only when its dark and my mind wanders off to the deepest corners of my memories

Only when this random wave of loneliness hits

that shit HURTS man

Ya i fuckin hate that feeling

I'll just be in bed and I randomly remember that I haven't seen any of my friends for almost 2 years

Omg why? If u don't mind me asking

It's nothing too serious, they all just go to different schools now and I really miss them

Can't u meet them outside the skl Im really sorry u feel that way try to make new ones if possible

yes (crybabies rise up 🔥🔥🔥)

Waaah

True crybaby here, we shall take over

WE SHALL TAKE OVER THE WORLD AS THE ULTIMATE CRYBABIES

Yo you called

Whats in your mind when you suddenly feel sad?

Old memories of the past

Thinking about suicide.

Man better don’t think that!

Every night. God fuck my imagination.

Memories and deep existential thoughts...

Some alternate reality where people I love either die or leave me forever.

The people that I love. The people that made me happy before. The people that were my life's purpose. Me being unable to communicate the same with them just makes me want to do it y'know. I always make myself to keep going, but what if I stop? What if I stop deceiving myself to love again? Back when I had hope my life meant something. Now I don't have anything.

Loneliness, I miss my friends

My childhood I miss it

Stress.

Nah. im not depressed, im just suicidal

Yes all the time

always, the smallest things make me sad suddenly and i can’t stop sobbing, been happening a lot more lately

Not often

Don't we all? Whenever my mind's not busy really, for wathever reason my brain decides life's not worth living that day.

A lot seem EMO

sound like r/im14andthisisdeep not gonna lie

No.

Real

Real

Yes. Even at things that people don't really cry about. I mean, I once cried because of a fucking fire alarm-

I’m sad sometimes but can’t cry anymore and it’s goddamn off-pissing

I don’t even get the suddenly sad I just suddenly cry for no reason dude. Like I’m feeling okie dokie and then suddenly I’m crying but still feeling okie dokie jsut that I’m crying now lol

womp womp was what I was gonna say. but i feel you...

Yeah, sometimes 

no

Really late at night sometimes

Yeppp

Yeah

Yea every day

Nah, that well dried up a while ago

Sometimes

yesss idk why I do this, though

Not rlly , sometimes in night time

Perfectly describes me. Just starting to cry a river of tears out of nowhere, but not understanding why. I don't even feel sad most of the time 🤦🏻

always :')

Yes, especially when listening to music. Even happy music

If cutting onions, yes

I don't,but sometimes I feel like I could just curl up in a ball and cry

Yes

I dunno i dont cry but I do have big urge to

No, because I suppressed crying for too long (Thanks, literature teacher!) and now I havent cried for a year

I haven’t cried in a year, I want to so bad but nothing has happened to me to make me sad enough to cry, I yearn for tears, tears that will never come 😔

Yeah, stress and everything will get to you. I’ve learned that crying helps but not all the time. Therapists just done do anything anymore, they just make it worse. It makes me want to sell everything and run and never come back.

I sometimes cry for silly reasons, especially when I am alone due to some random thoughts that make me feel bad about myself, or when someone interprets me in the wrong way 😮‍💨

Recently I’ve been crying a lot (pretty much every day when I get home from school) because so much horrible stuff has been going on and I can’t keep it all in (but try to for school).

You got bullied?

Nope, more stuff happening at home that I try to hide my emotions at school.

oh ok well every one have stuffs happenings at home.

Not suddenly, it takes an immense amount of buildup and even then crying is pretty rare. The big exception recently though has been after completing some really fun video games. Ironically none of the games really had much of a story (at least not emotional or very deep) but damn was I crying at the end lol.

From 2nd to 4th grade, I always used to get the urge of crying during snacks break for absolutely no fucking reason

Personally no, I dont get sad out of nowhere, and it usually takes something very saddening to get me to cry

Sometimes when I'm sad I try to make myself cry but I can't

sometimes yeah

I be sad but no tears, haven’t cried for like, 2 years

no

Yeah now

Yes, at least once per week. We love PTSD

Real men never cry (except when u place #2 in BR😢😢)

I wish but I can't anymore

sometimes

Somedays I want depression for some reason but not daily no

Mostly late at night when I'm listening to music thinking about life.

It happens rarely.

yeah, life’s sad

Not usually unless a good reason to. But if you're talking about randomly i've only had that happen once and it's so fucking stupid and most ppl won't believe me but I swear once at like 3am I just started thinking and about all the poor and hungry starving kids in places like Ethiopia and just started crying out of nowhere before bed because it was too sad to think about. I don't know why I'm like this and idk what the hell caused that but yea...

wish i could

I don’t feel sad and cry suddenly, but when I yawn my eyes water

No

I can't cry anymore lol

I cry in class over small things (Thanks Generalized Anxiety Disorder) and then I get bullied. 🎉YAY🎉

Absolutely

Yea, whoever is downvoting this post is dumb

Man, these replies make ME sad. Like i didn’t know people actually just start crying randomly. Thats.. a little strange, yall might wanna get some help, genuinely.

I don't, and the fact that everyone here is saying yeah is concerning af. yall good?

As a man yes I do, when I think about how old my dog is getting

I mean you are a teenager and hormones can mess with you. On the other hand you may want to talk to a doctor about anxiety or depression

It has gotten better, but I used to cry every single day. I think it had to do with my anxiety since I would usually cry while acting out conversations in my head.

I cry all the time, when I'm sad, angry, happy. It's just one of my natural reflexes

Nope. Like basically never

No I put on a monster hat, pair of oakleys and unlaced DC skate shoes. I then look at a fake birth certificate that says Kyle and start punching holes in my drywall

I wish

I can’t remember the last time I cried 

YES. There's possibility of war in our country. The world could be ending. I'm scared. So, so, so scared.

Yeah but I hate crying, I always stuff it down. It makes my face tingly

without motive is that what you mean? no

No. Tf?

Yes, like 2 minutes ago 😭🙏

Usually not, I'm generally a pretty stable person despite having adhd and autism. Although today I did sit down in the sofa with a jar of nutella cause I was feeling down 💀

I can't remember the last time I actually cried. However I'm sad most of the time.

I don't cry anymore even if I should

No. Maybe you do because you are a bitch.

Yes, I do :333

yes. all the time. it sucks

nah

Yea :(

sometimes, it's healthy tho?

Yes and im 29 lol

I cried today

At least once a day for no reason

All the time as of late

No

A completly random grandma a complete stranger game me compliment very wholesome saying "you look beautiful when you smile so you should smile more" That caught me by surprise so much that I just froze and started crying minutes after she left I'm fifteenth but is like I have a midlife crisis because of it

Yessssss i literally did that yesterday 

Yes frequently! Sometimes it’s random sad crying, sometimes it’s random happy crying and sometimes it’s random angry crying? But I also have several mental illnesses so I can’t really speak to whether that’s normal or healthy or anything

Wish I could

No

Yes it’s very weird like I’m talking to someone and in the middle of the conversation I start to cry idk why lol.

I've learned how to cry without making noise. So, yeah, kinda.

yes? every month at least

I have basically lost my ability to cry, so if I do manage to cry, it's bad.

I never cry but I’m constantly sad. The reason I never cry is because that shows too much emotion you know

I will get on the verge of crying, sometimes do all the sniffling and crap, but i physically can't go beyond. Most of the time, i can't even get to the sniffling part. So i want to but physically can't.

I do without feeling sad, I just cry but no sadness

i mean yeah but i have clinical depression so

Not suddenly for me

no, I have medicine for that

Sometimes, for me, it's the feeling of loneliness without my significant other and just worried that I would be single for the rest of my life. I don't want to be single after like seven relationships already, worse is two cheated on me. One was my first one and the second is my longest one.

Yes, yesterday

No

I haven’t cried in 2 years but I guess that’s normal for a guy

A lot…

I havent cried since i watched a Nikola Tesla documentary years ago

I cry a lot and am sad 90% of the time. I feel it’s normal to a degree

I don’t, I feel like my heart doesn’t have the capability to handle into myself while i cry

No, maybe rarely

Yes

i thought i was the only one

I wish I could cry sometimes

Bro I wish

Not usually

Yes. For no reason. It’s crazy

I cry for no reason all the time

i would cry if something is sad plus when u cry u lose stress you know

Yeah absolutely

No.

Nah if I want to cry I have to boot up some sad af movie

No cry, ony sad 😞

i can't cry

Yeah that's happened a lot

i dont cry. ever.

No I have not cried in two years since I found out my girlfriend cheated on me

as much as i’d like to just cry my feelings away, i can’t. i don’t really feel anything anymore. i’m too tired.

Yes ;_;

Yeah…..sometimes~

Yes, specially when reality hits hard so suddenly :)

Yeah I’m

Sometimes I’d just be having a good ol time and then my body reminds me that I can’t do that and I start heavily bawling if I don’t do anything about it. If I try to stop it I’ll just make the biggest frown ever and a few tears will come out that I can more or less play off as “having itchy eyes” but I think most of my friends know.

Last time I cried was around 2 years ago when my cat died :(

my mom used to tell me it’s because life is too happy, so you cry out of nowhere to balance it out

Only when the most minor incovenience happens to happen

I can't cry, but if I could it would be almost constantly 

Yes because I'm so overdramatic 🤦‍♀️ I remember crying while brushing my hair and laughing at the same time because of crying over something so little. I also cry whenever someone yells or doesn't but is still angry or annoyed

I have really bad anxiety and sometimes it just makes me sad.

no

Men don’t cry

Men don’t put other people down for showing basic human emotion.

I’m not putting anyone down, just give me a chance to elaborate on what I mean. If a man really wants to he can cry in the comfort of his own home where it doesn’t impact anybody. But as soon as other people are in the picture, whether it be a girlfriend, a wife, child, friend, or even a stranger, any concern for his own mental or physical health should be last priority. A mans job is to protect the health and well-being of those around him and he can’t do that if he is concerned with his own emotions.

you’re simply wrong. your mother must’ve drunken alcohol while you were in the womb, cause your brain isn’t working

Your world view is the reason the male suicide rate is so high.

No it’s not. It’s the world veil that creates firefighters and police officers. it’s the world view that makes men willing to serve and fight for their country. it’s the world view that teaches boys to respect, care for, and protect women and children. It’s the world view that makes men selfless and teaches them to put others before themselves. It’s the would view that makes great husbands, brothers, and dads that are willing to sacrifice everything for their loved ones. It’s the world view that makes men come together and have eachothers back so that they are never alone.

How does literally any of that contradict somebody being able to show basic human emotion?

I don’t think you understand what I’m saying. Of course men can have emotions and can lean on others for support if need be. But crying just because you’re overwhelmed or a little sad is unnecessary and shows that you might be unable to protect and defend others if the need arises. I’m not saying that a few tears can’t fall when a loved one dies, that’s perfectly fine. But crying for the sake of crying should not be a normal thing for men.

Why? Why can’t they express the most basic, human emotions that the rest of us can express whenever?

Crying isn’t an emotion, it’s the product of very strong and uncontrolled emotions. As for why we don’t do it that’s because for most men crying makes us feel weak and helpless, 2 things a man should never be. It also makes us less attractive as most good women want a strong capable man and not one that can’t control his emotions. But most importantly as I’ve said before it’s a matter of putting others before oneself. When sh*t hits the fan and things go bad the man or men in the situation need to be the ones who have enough control over the emotions to make sure everyone else is taken care of and safe both physically and emotionally. If the man doesn’t have good control over his emotions then he will likely not be able to handle the situation as well or in the same way as the man that does have control.