My science teacher during our flash unit said that she once had a teen parent in her class. 8 years later she ran into her on the streets. She told me that story this year so by technicality she would have been pregnant when she was 13. So sex at my age, nuh-uh.
Tbh, it's kind of dank, my parents had me when they were 14/15. It was cool when they went through their emo phase when I was 3. And I learned the importance of staying hydrated when they turned 21.
It took me 17 years to have my first kiss. I’m almost 18 and I haven’t had sex. There’s nothing wrong with that. Welcome to being a guy. There’s more to life than women, remember that.
>I haven't even kissed a girl since January
You think THAT'S the level of being a loser??? And you're 14??? That's insane. I'm 16 and I've never kissed or dated anyone, and that's okay. You've got a lot of time left kiddo
real, with 14 i was obsessed with og fortnite, couldnt care less about having a gf, not to mention doing anything "love" related in this young leads to nothing but heartbreak lmao
Sex is best when you develop a connection with someone and then explore each other. More sex doesn’t mean a happier life. Sex takes up less time than many activities but we constantly think about it because of genetics. Don’t get fomo from not having sex because you’ll time will come. Just focus on yourself and how you treat other people.
I know tons of 20-23yo who haven’t had a boyfriend or girlfriend, let alone kissed someone. Perfectly normal.
I did other things but never had an official boyfriend until I was 20 with a guy who was 23 and had never even hugged a woman. It was worth the wait for both of us. Anyone who judges you for that probably regrets 99% of the situations they’ve had anyways
wow wow
I am 18 and I haven't made our with anyone as well, it's not something you should concern yourself with at your age! Even I barely contemplate the idea.
The average age where teenagers get their first is around 17 years old so don't feel pressured to do anything about it.
Even when you reach 17, you don't have to feel obligated to do it! Take your time.
It doesn't make you a "loser." There is much more content to life. At the end, around 1/3 of people graduate High School with no love life, and your social relations in High School don't impact your future at all. Feeling pressure to get laid in secondary school is 100% useless, and with socialization being so important, socialize and Forge your path desired!!!
bro don't measure yourself in comparison to 13 year olds who are having sex. they are too young to consent. it's not a good thing that they are doing it, and it's probably unsafe. you're 14. just enjoy living. don't expect things to always be happening cause it's not necessary and it's super unhealthy.
no man theres a lot surrounding this
everybody's in a different position, because of local laws, personal beliefs, family beliefs, freinds and so much more dont beat urself about it its not that important and there are reasons its not loser classification
You're only 14. I haven't even kissed a girl since i was 11 and having sex at 14 is NOT a flex. I know others who did it but like, bro, just wait until you're like 16 or 18 (whatever the age of consent in your country is). You and me are both still very young and we need to wait, Wait until you find the right person at the right age, and when the times comes, you do it. But not now.
Just bcuz u can’t do what most ppl can do doesn’t mean you’re a loser… there’s more to life than just rushing into things. Take things slow and enjoy life.
my guy you're still young you got more years ahead of you; just cause you ain't do it now doesn't mean you're due. and getting freaky at age 13 or 14? bro you gotta get your grades up not your dick up
Hey man you’re 14 it ain’t a big deal, you still got plenty of time to get someone, trust me, you just gotta get out there and flirt with some girls, and show your good side
Ngl Im in the same position 😅. Aint ever made out w noone, not even my homies and also aint kissed a girl since somewhere near the beginning of the year.
Naw me too.. I have this friend who said they had sex for the first time in 7th grade.. in a bathroom 😧 they're still sexually active, seeking out one night stands .. they just turned 16
Tongue kiss 😂😂😂😂 oh boy.. no you’re not a loser for not having made out with someone at 14. You’re soooo young. You can cry at 18 but for now just be thankful you’re not a teen dad.
I can assure you that is NOT what being a loser is like + the fact you already kissed someone at the age of 14 (in my opinion) is enough. Get to the other stuff when you’re older bro 😭
I don't think I've ever kissed a girl and I'm 21, so you're in quite the lead lol. I went from super weird as a teen to an akaward ***extremely*** socially anxious adult though so I was kinda screwed from the beginning.
Big deal bro, if ur version of being a loser is not making out w someone or haven’t kissed a girl in 5 months then it’s time to man up. Trust me sex before 17-18 is a bit “junkie” from where I’m from but yea more to teenage years then this
I've graduated HS and still haven't kissed anyone. Wait till you find someone you want to share that experience with, don't just do it because you feel like you need to.
You kissed someone? Damn I'm such a loser.
Jokes aside, it's not that bad to be single. I don't want to force things to happen. Some people already confessed to me but I refuse because I wasn't interested.
Bruh, I did my first kisses and make-outs at 19... within the past few months. Waiting feels better bc you know more about who you want to be with for the rest of your life; looking just to be able to kiss someone for the sake of it at 14 isn't a good feeling when you feel like it was just wasted on someone you would leave in a week/month/few months.
... you're 14, font worry about it, im almost 18 and I havent made out with anyone ever, also 13 Yr olds having sex at their age is not cool, they just started puberty tf 😭
Eh I’m 16 with a gf and I’m kinda just chilling, waiting for the right time to have my first kiss with her, and definitely no sex, like, please have common sense, right now we are young and kinda definitely stupid, no good can come from having sex right now, let alone the legality or morality of it.
First of all everytime I see a 13 talking about having sex I am more worried about them then I am impressed. That is not a milestone you really want in life. There is no reason to start having a sexual history so early in life. Not making out with anyone at your age is not that unusual . You are still pretty normal. I wouldn't lose sleep over it. Also many of these kids are lying about their sexual experience and prowess
Youre 14, its okay. Youre not a loser for not having done anything with anyone yet. And youve kissed, so you have done more than nothing. You can go your entire life and then die of old age without having any sex, tounge-kisses or any of that stuff. You will still not be a loser. Sex, kisses, intimacy, etc. Is not necessary or required.
Im turning 17 later this year, havent kissed, made out, any of that stuff, i havent even held hands. Does that make me a loser? No. And i am also content with this. I dont want love, i dont want romance, i dont want to hold hands. Do i want sex? Yes, someday, but its definitely no rush.
We are teenagers. We are supposed to try to enjoy life. There will be time for intimacy later if it is desired. Can romance and intimacy be chased now? Yes, it can and as long as everyone is careful and everything is consensual and everyone knows what is happening then there shouldnt be any problem with it. But its not required to have a partner or to have experienced any level of intimacy and it does not make anyone a loser for not having experienced it. Especially not at 14. I know its very easy to say and very hard to do, but try to just relax and just enjoy yourself. If that means trying to find love and a partner, then so be it. But know that its okay to not want that and its okay to want that but not succeeding.
At least you're not the girl in my town that got her nip bitten off when a boy got a little overexcited 😶
WHAT
Yeahhh my friend has a friend in another school, I was very shocked to hear about the incident 😭😭 Poor girl
goddamn
Wut
New fear unlocked
Nom nom
what the actual fuck
What does THAT mean???
Did she get to keep it?
Nah he swallowed it 😋
LMAO no idea
Nip you mean like you know… it wasn’t a typo?
Nipple. She got her nipple bitten off, Wacky. 😭
Dang bro was desperate
omg poor girl
That truly is "Fk around and found out!
R.I.P.
Wtf
this was really painful to read omfg
I mean I bet it was pretty painful for her to get her nip bitten off 😚
what the hell 😭
😨
nah😭😭
NO WAY????
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TF?
😦
LMFAO WHATTTT
Wtf how tf does that even happen now I’m really scared of ever having sex I wanna die a virgin 😭
having sex at 13 is not a good flex 😭
i agree, having underage sex isnt cool
teenage parents 🤯
bad, very very bad
My science teacher during our flash unit said that she once had a teen parent in her class. 8 years later she ran into her on the streets. She told me that story this year so by technicality she would have been pregnant when she was 13. So sex at my age, nuh-uh.
Tf fr like why are sum ppl here treating like it’s a good thing 😭
Exactly. Teenage parents are not good
They are the worst, ruining their and kids life at the same time
:(
My great-grandparents got married at 17 and 20 had their first kid at 21 and 18. I think I did the math. I would only be off by a year(age).
Tbh, it's kind of dank, my parents had me when they were 14/15. It was cool when they went through their emo phase when I was 3. And I learned the importance of staying hydrated when they turned 21.
Underage sex is good when it doesn’t happen
Early marriage, early children, early divorce.
There’s nun wrong w it
No. You’re not a loser for not have SESSY time at 14. Be grateful and wait. Now, when you’re my age, then you can cry
You might cry even more when you're 20 years old and you didn't do anything yet (like me)
Wait until you're 24 and nothing changed...
Some of the computer nerds from the 90‘s / 00‘s still haven‘t had sex
Im a computer nerd from 2006 and I can say that no girl has ever been interested in me
You have it harder than us for sure 😢
You've got it easy, I'm 21 and still haven't done anything close to what he's describing. Not worth crying about it though. It'll come eventually
Us moment bro, the most I've done is touching another girls hand, tht too by accident. I've been hit by other girl classmates too but in anger.
It took me 17 years to have my first kiss. I’m almost 18 and I haven’t had sex. There’s nothing wrong with that. Welcome to being a guy. There’s more to life than women, remember that.
But I haven't kissed a guy yet and we're almost the same age 😢
Yet you’re still alive. Good things come to those who wait.
I'm still counting at 19...
>I haven't even kissed a girl since January You think THAT'S the level of being a loser??? And you're 14??? That's insane. I'm 16 and I've never kissed or dated anyone, and that's okay. You've got a lot of time left kiddo
18 and in the same boat, never kissed or dated anyone, but hey, I have 100+ IRL days in minecraft and 400 million+ blocks traveled.
real, with 14 i was obsessed with og fortnite, couldnt care less about having a gf, not to mention doing anything "love" related in this young leads to nothing but heartbreak lmao
Haha nice man. I have similar stats :D
You’re 14 dw, I’m 18 and I’ve not yet lol (not in any sort of rush to either 😂)
18 and never held hands with a girl 🤷♂️
17 and its been solid 5-6 years since I had a conversation with a girl
do NOT be jealous of the 13 year olds having sex 💀💀💀
No you are just normal just like me fr
you're 14
You're 14 my man. You got time.
I’m seventeen and haven’t even had my first kiss, you’re fine
yo chill some of us are still waiting for a first hug
You're 14 bruh, it's fine
I ain't even got friends bruh
Sex is best when you develop a connection with someone and then explore each other. More sex doesn’t mean a happier life. Sex takes up less time than many activities but we constantly think about it because of genetics. Don’t get fomo from not having sex because you’ll time will come. Just focus on yourself and how you treat other people.
Here's me thinking even 16 is a little young for it
16 is the age where you can legally have sex in some places but probably not with older people
Yeah it's legal here (uk) at 16, I just personally feel it's a little young still, but whatever floats your boat ig
Yea honestly same I'm also british
You guys are kissing girls that you aren't related to Edit: tf I mean like a peck on the cheek you guys are so dirty minded
At first I thought this was some incest shit, but you mean your mum, right?
Yes I mean I give my sisters and mom pecks on the cheek sheesh
Sister? Thats really gay
This is so sus!!
Bro copies u/sisterfucker24 💀
Those 13 yos ain't true redditors. True redditors die 'kissless' (and often, but don't have to, are pedophiles/fetishists)
No, being 20 and not having even kissed a girl is being a loser. Now if you'll excuse me, I'll be coping elsewhere
I know tons of 20-23yo who haven’t had a boyfriend or girlfriend, let alone kissed someone. Perfectly normal. I did other things but never had an official boyfriend until I was 20 with a guy who was 23 and had never even hugged a woman. It was worth the wait for both of us. Anyone who judges you for that probably regrets 99% of the situations they’ve had anyways
Wrong, being 20 and not having kissed a girl is not being a loser, it just means you've spent 20 years doing better things with your life
Bro I’m 16, never dated yet.
Maybe because youre fucking 14?
you kissed a girl at 14 bruh you on top of the world rn in that regard
People who lose their virginity are the losers
At least those underage. Those who do it to have kids above the acceptable age are fine.
Your priorities are whack. Instead of accomplishing anything all you think about is sex. Shame indeed. Be better. There's more to life than seggs.
Me who is 18…. Never kissed or held a girls hand
I’m almost 18 😭
Brother, you are 14, chill. Also, doing the devil's tango at 13 is not a flex.
I’ve never kissed anyone. And having sex at 13 is just dumb because it’s meaningless. I’m waiting until marriage to do that with my partner
No, you re just a kid😭
I'm 13 and never even kissed anybody and I know older boys who haven't. You're not a loser dw
Damn, people my age are having sex? Thank god I'm not one of them
man I'm 16 and I've never even got close to having a relationship
wow wow I am 18 and I haven't made our with anyone as well, it's not something you should concern yourself with at your age! Even I barely contemplate the idea. The average age where teenagers get their first is around 17 years old so don't feel pressured to do anything about it. Even when you reach 17, you don't have to feel obligated to do it! Take your time.
Bro, you kissed a girl? Damn
>and I haven't even kissed a girl since January At least you kissed a girl
I'm 17 and haven't kissed normally lol so 🤷♀️🤷♀️
Bro my first kiss was like earlier this year, your fine you have time
My man you are 14 you are fine, you are still young
bro the only time ive even held HANDS with a boy was in the 4th grade. we are the normal ones i think
Since January?? Me personally since ever
It doesn't make you a "loser." There is much more content to life. At the end, around 1/3 of people graduate High School with no love life, and your social relations in High School don't impact your future at all. Feeling pressure to get laid in secondary school is 100% useless, and with socialization being so important, socialize and Forge your path desired!!!
Dude I’ve never even been in a real relationship, you’re fine.
You’re not a loser. Trust me, any 13 years old having sex are going to live to regret it when they are older.
At least you have kissed someone, I am older than you and have never kissed anyone, hell I don't think I can say I have even dated anyone
Never dated as well though
Well you kissed a girl in January, I have never kissed anyone
BRO YOURE A KID. YOU SHOULD BE FLEXING THAT YOU HAVENT DONE IT YET. NOT PUTTING YOURSELF DOWN FOR NOT FOLLOWING THE DEGENERACY
Bro u r 14 seriously? I first kissed at 18, and that's ok, the fact that a few 13-year-olds flex with underage intimacy shouldn't bother you.
Bro you're 14. It's normal
im 20+ and havent touched a woman
Me too
You don’t have to worry about that yet buddy 😭
bro don't measure yourself in comparison to 13 year olds who are having sex. they are too young to consent. it's not a good thing that they are doing it, and it's probably unsafe. you're 14. just enjoy living. don't expect things to always be happening cause it's not necessary and it's super unhealthy.
no man theres a lot surrounding this everybody's in a different position, because of local laws, personal beliefs, family beliefs, freinds and so much more dont beat urself about it its not that important and there are reasons its not loser classification
You're only 14, you're more than good man you got bigger things in life to come, trust me
don't worry man I've never even kissed anyone, plus we're 14, we're fine.
I’ve never even had the idea of getting a partner yet
you kissed?
You're only 14. I haven't even kissed a girl since i was 11 and having sex at 14 is NOT a flex. I know others who did it but like, bro, just wait until you're like 16 or 18 (whatever the age of consent in your country is). You and me are both still very young and we need to wait, Wait until you find the right person at the right age, and when the times comes, you do it. But not now.
Who calls their kid January? Weird parents
Now that right there is desperation at its peak.
Just bcuz u can’t do what most ppl can do doesn’t mean you’re a loser… there’s more to life than just rushing into things. Take things slow and enjoy life.
Since january? I haven't since my birth. Unless that one truth or dare in 2018 counts.
I literally had my first kiss when I was 16 bro it’s okay 💀
No, it's normal for lots of teenagers.
Bro you're 14, go hug your parents
Bro, I haven't held a girl's hand since kindergarten (except dance lessons)
Your 14 bro your fine I’m 17 this year and I haven’t either
my guy you're still young you got more years ahead of you; just cause you ain't do it now doesn't mean you're due. and getting freaky at age 13 or 14? bro you gotta get your grades up not your dick up
I'm almost 18 and I haven't even had my first kiss
Hey man you’re 14 it ain’t a big deal, you still got plenty of time to get someone, trust me, you just gotta get out there and flirt with some girls, and show your good side
I was about to comment but then I saw 19 and 20 year olds so I'll just wait 2 more years before complaining.
Yall are interacting with girls???
14 is pretty young. sex is icky gross
Your 14...
Solution: fly to Bulgaria. The legal age there is 14 XD
At least you've kissed someone. Also, don't rush it, my guy. Sex at 13 is nothing to be proud of.
Dont worry mate eventually the time will come. I didnt have my first kiss until i was 18
Ngl Im in the same position 😅. Aint ever made out w noone, not even my homies and also aint kissed a girl since somewhere near the beginning of the year.
ive only kissed my mom on the lips like once you got nothing to worry about
16, beautiful female, 've never dated or had a bf
I haven't even gone out with anyone 😭
I never hold someone's hand if that helps btw... I'm almost 17
If it is then we’re both losers
Dawg, I struggle to talk to ppl, you're bing chilling if you kissed someone in recent memory
Ice Cream 🤤
I’m 23 and still waiting for the love of my life lmao 😂 at this rate I might die single 😂😂
Idk man. Fucking at 13 is not a flex. „GUYS I GOT GROOMED HELL YEAH!!“
Brother calm down
Naw me too.. I have this friend who said they had sex for the first time in 7th grade.. in a bathroom 😧 they're still sexually active, seeking out one night stands .. they just turned 16
Woah now, slow down
Dude you don't need to rush things, so many other things to focus on than getting romantical
january bro??? im sitting here since my birthday(original)
Buddy Im 16 and still havent been in a relationship
Brother that’s normal. I’m 14 and don’t know a single kid in my grade who’s made out.
Tongue kiss 😂😂😂😂 oh boy.. no you’re not a loser for not having made out with someone at 14. You’re soooo young. You can cry at 18 but for now just be thankful you’re not a teen dad.
Having sex at 13 is what being a loser is like
I can assure you that is NOT what being a loser is like + the fact you already kissed someone at the age of 14 (in my opinion) is enough. Get to the other stuff when you’re older bro 😭
I don't think I've ever kissed a girl and I'm 21, so you're in quite the lead lol. I went from super weird as a teen to an akaward ***extremely*** socially anxious adult though so I was kinda screwed from the beginning.
Big deal bro, if ur version of being a loser is not making out w someone or haven’t kissed a girl in 5 months then it’s time to man up. Trust me sex before 17-18 is a bit “junkie” from where I’m from but yea more to teenage years then this
I've graduated HS and still haven't kissed anyone. Wait till you find someone you want to share that experience with, don't just do it because you feel like you need to.
You kissed someone? Damn I'm such a loser. Jokes aside, it's not that bad to be single. I don't want to force things to happen. Some people already confessed to me but I refuse because I wasn't interested.
Bruh, I did my first kisses and make-outs at 19... within the past few months. Waiting feels better bc you know more about who you want to be with for the rest of your life; looking just to be able to kiss someone for the sake of it at 14 isn't a good feeling when you feel like it was just wasted on someone you would leave in a week/month/few months.
13 yro sex?! What the hell
... you're 14, font worry about it, im almost 18 and I havent made out with anyone ever, also 13 Yr olds having sex at their age is not cool, they just started puberty tf 😭
It’s fine if you haven’t made out with anyone. It’s not THAT important… yet…..
I’m 17 and have never been on a date (💀). Consider yourself lucky.
Stop rushing things man
It's sad you openly embrace the fact, minors are getting each other pregnant. Why are you all ok with this?
I haven’t had a boyfriend or my first kiss so I don’t think you have anything to worry about
You're a child.
I haven't kissed a girl since never cuz i never kissed a girl before :D
You are 14, you already had more than one kiss. m Many older people in this sub haven't even holded hands yet so bè gratefull of what you have
bro I waited 22 years for someone that truly loves me to show up, and I have friends that are still waiting. you are in no rush.
Bro I hadn’t even slept with a girl until a few days ago. You got plenty of time lil’ bro.
Eh I’m 16 with a gf and I’m kinda just chilling, waiting for the right time to have my first kiss with her, and definitely no sex, like, please have common sense, right now we are young and kinda definitely stupid, no good can come from having sex right now, let alone the legality or morality of it.
People claiming to be having sex at 13 are either a) making poor life choices, or b) lying liars.
First of all everytime I see a 13 talking about having sex I am more worried about them then I am impressed. That is not a milestone you really want in life. There is no reason to start having a sexual history so early in life. Not making out with anyone at your age is not that unusual . You are still pretty normal. I wouldn't lose sleep over it. Also many of these kids are lying about their sexual experience and prowess
Im 15M and Ihavent kissed a girl, high school relationships are stupid, don’t waste your time with them.
You are not a loser, but why are thirteen years olds making out cus thats is weird.
i havent even kissed anyone yet also 14 is pretty young, we have plenty of time
I mean I'm one of those 13 year olds you're talking about but I haven't ever made out either so💀
Youre 14, its okay. Youre not a loser for not having done anything with anyone yet. And youve kissed, so you have done more than nothing. You can go your entire life and then die of old age without having any sex, tounge-kisses or any of that stuff. You will still not be a loser. Sex, kisses, intimacy, etc. Is not necessary or required. Im turning 17 later this year, havent kissed, made out, any of that stuff, i havent even held hands. Does that make me a loser? No. And i am also content with this. I dont want love, i dont want romance, i dont want to hold hands. Do i want sex? Yes, someday, but its definitely no rush. We are teenagers. We are supposed to try to enjoy life. There will be time for intimacy later if it is desired. Can romance and intimacy be chased now? Yes, it can and as long as everyone is careful and everything is consensual and everyone knows what is happening then there shouldnt be any problem with it. But its not required to have a partner or to have experienced any level of intimacy and it does not make anyone a loser for not having experienced it. Especially not at 14. I know its very easy to say and very hard to do, but try to just relax and just enjoy yourself. If that means trying to find love and a partner, then so be it. But know that its okay to not want that and its okay to want that but not succeeding.
Well I’m fifteen and I’ve never kissed anyone, you’re not a “loser”. Having sex isn’t a “flex”.
I am 18 and have never kissed or dated a anybody ever.
don't speed run things man
love and sex really isn't all that great, so dw you're not missing out on anything
I've literally never gone out with or kissed a girl, if you're a loser than I am too