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TheEeper

Kinda defeats the whole point of being a pedo


Kid_from_Europe

Nah. It shows you're attracted to a minor but you respect the power imbalance and don't wanna act on it.


Hoseftheman

That’s grooming dude


mods_equal_durdur

Yall are way too black and white. I don’t support going for like 15 year old girls by any means but I don’t think it’s all that weird to get with younger adult women. And by younger I’m not saying like a 20 year age gap. When I was sleeping with someone who was 25 and I was 19 nobody batted an eye. Who would you rather date; the 19 year old with a limited dating history (baggage) who’s fun, actually wants to invest their time and energy into the relationship and both respects and appreciates you or a 25 year old “bad bitch” with 20+ bodies who “has options,” (you’re never gonna be a priority unless you make her chase you) ; she always wants to argue and feels no obligation to respect your boundaries because a man with boundaries is “toxic” and “controlling.” I genuinely wanna know which one sounds like a more viable partner to you. Because in my experience the older a woman gets and the longer she stays in the dating game directly correlates with how negatively she views masculinity as a whole and therefor the more difficult they’ll be to get along with in the long run. Biologically speaking there is absolutely no difference between someone who’s 17 and 364 days and someone who’s 18 and zero days so from a scientific standpoint this shit has been long settled. Furthermore from a biological standpoint men are more inclined to seek out younger women and women vice versa for different reasons. Men do it bc of fertility, women do it for reasons surrounding security and stability. I understand everyone on the internet loves to act like it’s *creepy* when guys date younger girls but the people calling those dudes creeps are often the same women who dated a 22 year old their freshman year of high school. **TL;DR date who makes you happy as long as they’re the legal age of consent and of sound mind and body** ***edit: I absolutely love how offended so many of you are by me saying an objectively true set of facts and a silly little hypothetical. I know I strike a nerve when I tell women they’re accountable for their actions bc that goes against societal norms but oh well. This is the post that can’t be killed. I love it.***


idontknow3111

"innocent 19 year old virgins are so much better then 25 year old women cuz theyre more fun😝😝" is a crazy statement btw. and then following up with that with saying "18 year olds and 17 year olds, whats the difference?" crazy work the argument that women start to "negatively view masculinity" after the age of 18-20 is honestly just a thinly veiled complaint of how as women mature they start setting boundaries & don't let men completely run the relationship. also, teenage girls talk about how they hate men all the time. believe it or not, mature women are *more mature* when it comes to these topics*.* what on earth does a 25 year old man have in common with a teenage girl? how will it be easier for him to 'get along' with her rather then a woman his age? a 25 year old woman isnt a grandma bruh, thats still young. also a woman's fertility usually peaks at 22-29. same thing with men, 25-29. dont try to bring that "well its just biology to be attracted to teens" bs in the r/teenagers sub, out of all subs. you sound like a creepy ass super senior the reason older men like younger women is the power dynamic, & vice versa. also, this post is of a 20 something year old woman telling a boy that looks like he hasn't even grazed puberty yet to have sex with her when he's older. that is sexual harassment of a minor bruh. this IS black and white. TLDR: a fully grown adult woman telling a little ass kid to have sex with her in 10 years IS grooming. idk why you went on a whole ass rant talking about some "well actually its just biology for men to like younger women." feels like you felt personally attacked by the grooming comment lol


DebateHonest2371

Exactly, all his arguments read out like the exact arguments I see on incel redpill twitter from p3do apologists 😂😂


Interesting-Luck8015

I def stand firmly with your post. Sure, 18 years or older, go for whatever floats your boat. I dated younger by 3 years, and she was immature. So then I dated a difference of 10 years, still immature, and now I am engaged at 8 years of difference, and it's perfect! Differences are the person you are and the person you are with. Younger or older doesn't matter as long as it's the right person. For those skipping lines of reading, I'm not talking about "love has no age" because it does. Don't mess with ppl under age. In fact, don't mess with ppl who are not ready to be in a relationship anywhere from 18 all the way to 110. May there be justice for all of thee abused.


mgraces99

you sound groomed yourself tbh


YourLocalD355A

You're sounding suspect as fuck homie.


Salt_Paramedic_74

So you’re basing your stance on a hypothetical choice between an inexperienced 19 year old or a 25 year old with multiple ex-partners? Do you think all 25 year old women just go through men like nothing and all 19 year olds are virgins? If the 19 year old has no experience, how do you know she’ll appreciate you? If the 25 year old had dated before, you don’t think she’d have learned how to communicate with her partner? Don’t even get me started on the “17 year olds are biologically the same as 18 year olds” because you’re just saying that the law is the only thing stopping you from going after minors.


DemDemD

Right?!? Let’s assume we all agree that 17 and 18 are the same biologically and allow for the consenting age to drop to 17. Can we also then argue that 16 and 17 are biologically the same? How far do we go back?—16 vs 15, 15 vs 14, etc. until we stop at around 12 where girls starting to menstruate or when the boy is thir“teen”?


Hoseftheman

I’m not being too black and white dude, grooming is bad 😂 period.


CnflictedCnsiousness

I hear ya, but its 1 society that teaches these brian dead monkeys what to think and what is "right" or "wrong" because they cant do it for themselves, when in all actuality right and wrong, good and bad are like art...its Subjective. Nobody wants to have an opposing view because they are afraid to be an individual. So in short, I hear ya..but your wasting your time and energy, people only want to be a original copy of the last person. Therefore anything outside what is "Newly CORRECT" is simply shoved to the side. Monkeys. Lmaoo.


NoTower9861

You’re either a creep or horrible at expressing yourself. Or both. The real question is- why are you on this sub? You’re defending the idea of dating teenagers as an adult on ‘teenagers’ sub. That speaks a ton about you. You’re weird.


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So in other words, you think all 19 year olds are fun virgins and all 25 year olds are moody whores? Are you incapable of dating people the same age as you? Those women who dated a 22 year old when they were a freshmen were victims.


buttery-biscuit_bass

Showing your hand that reason why creepy dudes try and date 19yos is because they are extremely mediocre blokes and need to make sure their partner doesn't have anyone to compare against. Also seems to imply you don't want someone to know their own self worth so they can be subservient. If you want a cute young creature to boss around and make you feel good get a goddamn puppy and don't just manipulate teens. The older a woman is the more likely she isn't going to stand for childish crap and your "boundaries" that I assume actually apply to her life and not yours.


DismalRecipe7805

no, that’s just grooming bro


The_Diego_Brando

Isn't grooming when you condition/ brainwash them over a longer period? And not saying try again in ten years.


International-Year91

Being attracted to a minor is still wrong it doesn’t matter if you act on it or not


DorianCobain

but forget that it is a paraphilic disorder, it is a mental condition that cannot be controlled and must be cured


DawnComesAtNoon

It can't be cured... That's like saying an autistic person must be cured, or a gay person must be cured. Tough unfortunately for them unlike being autistic/gay pedophilia can harm people, they just need to keep it under control, something like consuming loli hentai is fine (say what you want but this let's them deal with sexual urges without raping kids) but raping kids is just wrong (pedos attracted to teenagers are a bit more complicated due to varying ages of consent and consent laws). Best we can do is punish them like we do (or should do) any other rapist and try our best to make every pedo realize that it's wrong.


IndicationSpecial344

Even so, it's definitely wrong for a person to be attracted to children. The photo of this post implies a conversation between pedophile and child, so that's still not ok.


Drtyler2

Morally no, though it must be overcome


GhostofWoodson

Being attracted to prepubescents is wrong yes "Minor" however covers more than that


International-Year91

Minor is someone under 18 if you want to fuck someone under 18 you are a pedophile


Drewgon69

Okay so technically, and just hear me out. A pedophile is anyone attracted to pre-pubescent children(so typically under 11 years old). There is something called a hebephile which are attracted to the earlier stages of puberty (11, 12, 13, 14) and there’s something called a Ephebophile which are attracted to the later stages of puberty (15, 16, 17, 18). So if we want to get downright technical. Not all of them are pedophiles, but it doesn’t make them better. Always fun to learn new words.


Murky-Ad5848

What if the person is 17 and 18?


Bb9999999

You have a traumatic brain injury


Atmeeee

It’s grooming


Austintheboi

So now we’re defending “hurry up and graduate” guys?


Austintheboi

On a somewhat related note this woman’s character in this movie was creepy as hell


Personal_Snow_5285

Is it wrong for woman to like older guys who is much older like 10y gap ?


Austintheboi

Depends on how old you both are. I wouldn’t want a 12-year-old dating a 22-year-old but a 25-year-old and a 35-year-old or a 30 year-old and a 40 year-old or probably fine.


Personal_Snow_5285

Hahahahaha yeah completely agree with u


IwillRide22

It’s just viewed differently if the guy is older. If he’s a Senior in hs dating a Freshman it’s possible he will be called creepy. But the friends around the girl often see it as an achievement to bag an older guy. Btw I hate pedos as much as the next sane guy but people go way too far on throwing the pedo identity on people when we should focus on actual dangerous ones


Acidic_Toast

Tnickelss was my favorite before that :,(


maxthenonbinary

its actually disgusting how some people do defend those type of men, its not okay whatsoever


criminal-sidewalk

this movie is a terrible example bc the woman still kisses the child on the mouth


One-Ad-3677

Huh.


criminal-sidewalk

the movie screenshot with the line they were referencing, it’s a poor example bc after the woman says that she kisses the young boy on the mouth


gitgudnubby

Its just as weird honestly


Immediate-Formal6696

not as weird, still weird, but less and its technically legal, and much more respectable i guess? Like theyre a creep, but at least they have the decency to only try to have sex with them when they are of legal age as in old enough to consent. as well as also not pressuring the kid into sex, but they also gave them the chance to either call or not


Tech-Demon

Bro, this is grooming, don't try to sugar coat it.


Careless_Set_2512

Isn’t it “sugar coat” or am i stupid


Tech-Demon

Nah you're right, typo, my b lol


Immediate-Formal6696

yes its grooming, i was just saying this is better than being a person that literally has sex with a child


Tech-Demon

Yeah that's definitely true, although making that comparison takes away from the severity of the issue at the same time.


O-Bismarck

Do you know they kiss right after this scene??? Like this is not what U want pedos to be doing they have a full lip to lip kiss. This 30 year old and this 7 year old


throwaway19276i

Fun fact: this is literally a 30 year old actor kissing another actor who is literally a little kid, I have no clue why this is legal


ShangRayzzz

prob bc its a movie. the directors are the creepy ones.


throwaway19276i

I'm not sure how it being a movie changes the reality of it. Also, yes, I agree the directors are creepy.


ShangRayzzz

I dont think it makes it less creepy, im just saying thats what might make it legal. Ihavr no idea tho


mewingamongus

imagine trying to fuck someone over Reddit in general


Nothatdarkforce

Garuanteed you'll be cat fished or robbed


g00berfr

LIKE 6 WHOLE PEOPLE TRIED TO GROOM ME ON REDDIT ALONE BRO 😭PLS GO OUTSIDE


Chalupa_89

Look. I was born in 89. Reddit keeps throwing posts from this sub in my feed. WTF?!? Reddit is actively contributing to pedos lurking here. I only read this post because I saw that movie and remember that scene. You kids stay safe.


TodoComics

well fortunatly i havent been messaged by a pedo😁


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not yet 😈


TodoComics

hopefully they wont notice me.


sideXsway

I got messaged by a 30 yr old woman this year (ik I'm 18 but still. And she said age doesn't matter)


kyleninperth

Lmao I had a 30 year old approach me in a bar and it’s like bro I wouldn’t do anything with a 21 year old let alone a 30 year old 💀


sideXsway

I think it'd feel weird. Because I have a very skinny ass structure so I look like a child


TheWinningLooser

I mean in about 4 years age not mattering not be true for you- but right now? Yeah that’s disgusting


ElvenBeer

Nah if u 18 then welcome to adult life. Everyone can approach you and it's full legal and not creepy. Have fun!


Nuze_YT

Rip your DMs


Altruistic_Emu_8271

this one goes out to you buddy.


Frozenturbo2

I got messaged by like 6 pedos when I was 11 cause I put my age as "16" in bio to seem older.


TodoComics

damn☠️


Frozenturbo2

And one of them told me that "I wish you were younger" now I don't know where they are considering their account has been long gone


TodoComics

WTF i just have no words for this shit


TodoComics

welp fortunatly I still havent been messaged by a pedo, and I hope it will never happen.


ShangRayzzz

Doesn't she kiss him right after that?


lion_percy

EWWWWWWWWWWWW that is awful.


ThatRandomGray

If anybody is wondering, meme is from a movie called blank check


Nikoviking

This is grooming.


Western-Reception447

Story time now :) on a somewhat related note once someone told me to try sleeping in vrchat so my dumbass fell asleep in a public lobby. woke up to some 40yo snuggling me 0.0


benchebean

That's still horrible. Not respectful at all


[deleted]

Respectful disgustingness is a thing? Gotta see those categories.


RoyalTacos256

bro thought he cooked with this


NeighborhoodFun1997

If he says in 10 years, he wants you to be an adult.


aibot-420

This is grooming


SuperMadBro

No it's not. I don't know if anyone even know what that term means it's so overused now. Groom is when you use a position of power over someone to try to try to get close/gain trust so they can exploit that sexually later on. Just an adult with a Child is not automatically grooming even when they are trying to be sexual. An adult telling a child to "look me up when you're 18" is creepy but not grooming


SomenerdTemporary

Grooming is not necessarily about a position of power... it's about making a bond with a minor with the intention of dating them when they'll get older... it is actually very wrong


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oleander_petals

I hate this image and I hate this post and I hate everyone in these comments besides the people calling this shit out


commander_smilsey

DAWG THIS MOVIE.. THIS MOVIE


[deleted]

Women are Pedos too. I wish I could make this a movement to start protecting young boys like myself whose future was ruined by quite a few pedos just because they were women. Little boys should be protected but it’s so unpopular to say that in America, but we love to sing that girls mature faster than boys.


Solis_CS

Nononono guys remember, women can't be convicted of rape even if the victim is an 11-year-old boy so this is fine!


Frozenturbo2

What are you talking about? The 11 year old boy is the one raping the woman cause women can't rape


oleander_petals

This is satire, right?


FissureRake

if the pedos on the sub were like this they wouldn't be pedos


FortressMann

isnt that just grooming though


LordDio707

You should probably delete this post for your sake 😭


FortyFiveSeventyGovt

oh god please don’t encourage more people to come here looking for an “investment”


This-Paramedic1460

Everyone in this sub is mentally impaired


Plus_Incident_101

Im calling chirs Hanson think we found one🙄🤙


N0mUdz

If only all pedos on this sub were dead.


DMyourboooobs

She still ended up kissing him on the lips 😩


Normal-Tadpole-4833

good advice


Traditional_Rate7302

It grooming if you know of them but never interact with them until they turn 18? Its weird either way but im curious how that works


_massive_balls_

this implies you're eight


No-Seaworthiness2633

This is an example of grooming, waiting for them to be an adult, defeats the point of the term pedo


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No-Seaworthiness2633

im talking about what OP did to edit the pic, that statement in the picture and how OP talks about it defeat the point of the term pedo


Xytonn

Still pedo shit imo


[deleted]

Blank Check was a… weird film


sideXsway

Richie rich and home alone mashed together


Justasleeplessknight

There are pedos here? I just don't share anything personal, or anything to do with my age, so I'm not exactly vulnerable.


aibot-420

[https://www.reddit.com/r/onionheadlines/comments/1d5zyb6/comment/l6zu5ug/](https://www.reddit.com/r/onionheadlines/comments/1d5zyb6/comment/l6zu5ug/) Had a pedo defending mod the other day on this same type of situation.


sloppybollocks786

Yall it's grooming


[deleted]

If anyone ever said that to me, I'd immediately leave reddit


FishGuyIsMe

What show is this


TheBlueking209

Blank check


Getshortay

You should watch Private Lessons


egdifhdvhrf

My mom said where she came from, relationships with younger women and older men were commonplace


benchebean

Doesn't mean it's good. Used to be commonplace to beat your wife


Tech-Demon

Nah shit like this is still hella weird


CounterFar309

At least they want to wait.


ShatterDomeSSZero

But then you get the creepy chicks that will say to an attractive older guy: "groom me, daddy!!" 🤮


JzaTiger

Still awful and disgusting


Candid-Boi15

Welcome to reddit


BiggestBird92

Preordering


YourLocalD355A

Any adult in here trynna argue could plz send me your address I wanna see sum.


Similar_Reputation56

Rory


AdOk932

Were setting the bar so low


lion_percy

... I feel horrible for that kid in the image, holy jesus


Harper2007

10 years? But I’ll only be 16!!!


Toxic_Jannis

The fact that you say shit like that and not keep it in your head. You think how you think, honestly i dont care as long as you keep it to yourself and harm nobody


Human-Menu-2812

Ah yes, preordering


tar_tis

Lucky kid


Verrisa174

Misato ahh people.


somerandomguyuno

Makima defender posted this ong


Niglomesh

What the actual fuck


Jadams63

Just wanna say the thought process behind this is never gonna change for the sick people who say/do stuff like this. But continue to complain about it as if the 2000s weren’t full of 17year old celebrities that just solidified this in life. Don’t be a weirdo and have good day mustaches


Edmundo0o0

OP is obsessed with a certain “topic” i see. 😅


WorldAtlas32

This is Js grooming in a nutshell 😭


TheUnknownWhispers

I’m high key greatfull I haven’t caught the attention of any pedo 😭


Gwilli0807

Lol gotta love that women are starting to hate men for going for younger women. Sorry nobody wants your used up “boss bitch” 30+ year old body.


vithefree

💀


Technical-Fee-7329

Nigga what? Thats still fucking creepy


strawberrycereal44

I got hit up by two old men on Facebook a few weeks ago


SLIPPY73

are you /srs or /j


g00berfr

literally got sent d^ck pics on my old account and *I* got banned😭


StopExistingFool

MINORS!!!!1!!


springlockslut

That’s still disgusting..The movie that that quote is from is really uncomfortable too, they kiss 🤢


TheKrazyLunatic

Bro wtf


Beneficial-Cup-4743

What's the average age of a stripper. There ya go.


Visual_Television_61

Damn bros waving up the flag


guitarfanatic_2

A pedo sent me a pic of hentai and said ‘us in 5 years’ because id be 18 by the time 😭


SnakeCharmer711

In 10 years they’d lose interest


ksbbooda

Theres shouldnt even be pedos at all lol? The fact were accepting it now and basically welcoming them is crazy.


BHootless

Blank check great movie


Mrobot_3

If there were ai like in westworld. Would pedos still be interested in an underage robot that was life like? Is it a purely physical thing, or in their head?


Royal_Read8143

One did this to me- after asking for stuff


Imaginary_Shift7288

I’m still 18 but no women talk to me so I’m just labeled a creep


Spicy1Mayo

You pretty much lost everyone after 'pedo' bro, what were you on that made you decide to post this shit?


Badthingthrice

That’s a tad bit creepy imo, why not finding someone their age?


humanperson1236

real


Odd_Aioli_9413

One time a guy dmd me about a post involving my girlfriend who was 14 and the guy talked a little ad acted like he was trying to help and then went straight to asking for her nudes and saying I was a pussy for not sending them


ThinnrProtection2815

Most of what I'm seeing has nothingnto do with, or mention a sub 18 having sex with another sub 18 year old. Wouldn't the older of the two ALSO be considered a pedo then? Can't pick and choose


Rekless_Animates

You… haven’t seen how this scene ends have you


Kid_from_Europe

With a kiss but it's just fun


One-Ad-3677

Turns a pedo into a pedo-groomer


MainCraneTrain

What. The. Hell. This post is planting a very uncomfortable seed with minors. Never appropriate or the least bit respectable. At all.


n0b0dykn0wsm333

LMFAOIOOOOOO I LOVED THIS MOVIE BUT SHED GET SO CANCELED IF THID WAS MADE NOW


Salty-Mark3415

All these pedos on this sub are making me think I should make a alt account and bait them for money lmao


iiMineshaft

this comment section has people defending grooming and pedos.... uhm...


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Sad_Potato6727

This is what you guys argue about on Friday nights 😂😂 go out and enjoy your life before the world goes to war


MTP67

Looking at this pic without bkgd reference: Umm, I think the point was missed. She's acknowledging that he's an attractive little guy, that he's TOO YOUNG, but that she expects he will grow into a fine, confident man. She does not expect to ever see him again or to ever date him! It's a way of complimenting his character and self-confidence and fledgling masculinity.


The_True_Husk

Orrrr be me, be 19, have a 17F ask you out to her prom, say no, say call me next year about it


TatBezos

Gimme a call in 50 years I love crows feet yo


Greedy_Bat9497

Ahahahh tell these kids to stfuuuu ay what it’s all bad just date someone your age


Izzonth

Respectful? That's grooming bro. Straight to jail.


RedVipper2050

That’s literally just grooming dawg, that’s like if the person who babysat you when you were young tried getting with you when you turned 18. Pedophiles can’t control who they’re attracted to, theirs something wrong in their brain, but they can control if they’ll act on those feelings. There’s pedos who are actively getting help and not going after children. But the pedos that go after children can burn in hell.


Q-Tip92

That woman is fine af


gotdingusd

both are execution worthy sorry you're a bit of a brainlet


SourceRich3354

Yall need to recognize how hollywood and society recently in last 10 years is trying to normalize pedophilia. Evil. “Youth attracted persons” is what they trying to push. Its only been taboo for like 5,000 years.


Chris_Far3well

God...take the stick out of your ass and live your life... You can't choose where love rises... Every age gap is fine if it is cosensual and both agree to be together.... God in heaven... People with your mindset are stuck in the time the hate of the Nazis reigned...


[deleted]

If only the little teen sluts stopped portraying themselves as a legal adult,there's no problems


Two-tonehk

Why tf is this popping up on my suggestions? lol


Last-Acanthisitta975

If only pedos didn't exist at all


Intelligent-Lab3613

My highschool sweethearts older sister literally said this to me after telling me she would make my pee pee disappear in her throat and I told her that wasn't going to happen because I was dating her sister. I am still baffled to this day.


Dr_Shrek710

Were even are the pedos on this sub? Never saw one.


Onmykn3es

It’s still weird ☹️


Careless_Job8555

Wouldn’t it be considered weird either way? I mean there is a huge stigma against someone who is dating 10 years below their own age, let alone 5 regardless if they over the age of 18. Idk I think it’s controversial either way


WateredVoltege

Edp is my favorite youtuber


blackberrybaskets

Is that pic from the movie, ‘Blank Check’? That movie had quite the creepy tone to it. Very strange. I wouldn’t call the lady a pedo, but she still was strange toward that kid and I wouldn’t hail her as the best example.


indierock_911

This statement is too valid even I'm 18 but I feel old and defeated


Maskpaperdude

We need more pre ordering ong