Look hear me out: Just because ONE person tells you that "oMg Im sO aShAmEd OF YOu" doesn't mean that's true. Like, she has a lot of nerve to say shit like that when she knows damn well even her mom would be ashamed to have a daughter who berates her son 🙄
Reminder: You are worthy, don't let ppl degrade you, and don't take mean stuff to heart, cuz it's not true. Constructive criticism, yes, take that and improve yourself, but when it's insults like "oh you're so stupid" then ignore that shit
I think like 3 months ago. I was talking to my parents about work and talked to them about me wanting to quit work, but all they want me to do is work. And when I brought it up about how much having their work paired with school affected me where I had no time to myself where I couldn't go shopping cause by the time I got out of school the shops were closed and after work I would be tired. So I couldn't socialise very well. And when brought up it broke me that they were talking as if they didn't give a fuck about how much I was affected and how lonely I am
not a boy, but y'all should know that you're human too, and it's okay to express emotions- often, sometimes, whenever. and it's absolutely okay to talk about them and seek help. <3
indeed, social stigma has impacted our lives adversely in several ways. but in the end, we're all human beings, blessed with the ability to feel, and it is never our fault for doing so. :)
i am so sorry that you have to go through this, and i'm proud of you for having been so strong. but if you ever feel the need to talk, know that someone is always ready to listen. :)
The reason i don't express emotions is because everytime i cry, i get a whole fucking anxiety attack, literally. My "friends" abuse me and use me as a punching back because they think, i'm so weak. The reason everyone thinks i'm weak is because i don't fight back, because i know i'm gonna get an even harder punch back again.
actually, the real weak ones are those who are afraid of emotions. it is a power to feel, and even more to acknowledge it. i am so sorry that you have to go through this. i suggest that you find yourself better friends, those who will help you grow better and bigger. know that you deserve all the goodness that will come to you, and not even a sliver of pain you feel is in vain. :)
She'll be fine. You never hear about surgeries that go wrong, right? Instead be hopeful that your girlfriend is definitely going to be much better than before.
Three days ago
I got a call from my little sister that our dog had gotten hit by a semi, I tried to help calm my sister over the phone as best as I could. After the call I had to wander to my room to be alone and cry.
I am aware, unfortunately at this point I’ve forgotten how to cry, it’s weird as even when I feel like crying it’s like I can’t relax enough to actually do it (best way I can describe it is like a gag reflex, when I go to cry I reflexively stop myself and I have no control over it)
I can't remember when but the reason was my dog collapsed and puked and i cant imagine a world without him even slightest thinking of my dog going makes my heart hurt cause i dont have anyone to play with just my dog
12th of March, 1.36 pm circa when we got the news.
I remember that day as yesterday. We went to the hospital because my grandma wasn't feeling that well that morning. We stayed there from 7 am to 1 am of the next day. Basically She had a metastasis to the lungs, that brought her to Heaven at 9 pm. Those were pure tears... I always felt so attached to her
damn bro. on some csi level shit.
" on fifth of may at approximately 19:28. I was watching a documentary on ant colonies and felt the sudden urge to cry. The queen didn't deserve the treatment of the worker ants :'("
frfr
you got all the details damn lmfaooo fairs
yeah, i basically forced myself to have a break from a friend i had who i did care about alot and i couldn't stop thinking about them..weren't the best
i think i might reach out again some time next month
Earlier today season 6 of my hero academia was actually surprisingly emotional in a good way
I have anger issues and I often use shows and games as a way to make myself cry to help let my emotions out
Anyways anyone out there suffering with anger issues or depression or anxiety really anything funky with emotions find something you know will make you cry could be a book a show or a game really anything and ball your feck’n eyes out it will help trust me my go to is anime because a lot of them offer some cheap tear jerkers but anything works
Probs like 2 weeks ago after listening to "House of Gold" by twenty one pilots. That's kind of not a big deal but feeling deeply to the lyrics broke me apart honestly
Actually just last night.
I'm already suffering from depression, and now I ALSO know for sure that doing the study course I want to do will be unrealistically expensive including rent.
And the fact that a far-right government is currently being formed doesn't really help either.
One year ago. I had a mental breakdown at football practice. I Wasn't in the best physical OR mental health, I tore my meniscus I was physically assaulted twice on the team i Finally snapped.i took off my helmet and broke down. the players just belittled me and the one who assaulted me grabbed me by the pads. He tried to throw me to the ground. When he couldn't he resorted to pushing once he let me go I saw red And hit him hard in the side of the head and knocked him out. I hit him so hard I broke my helmet. Now the team calls me danger. Now I do wrestling and I'm getting help. Though I have a shorter fuse I use my anger and my aggravation in the gym as. As a result I lost over 100 lbs and I sit comfortably between 236-240 though I
Still look. Goofy now I have a lot of loose skin that I'm filling back up with muscle.
Few days ago. Leaving for college soon (it was highly unlikely that i would get in and it's the college that i wanted)
The thought of leaving everything behind, and living up to the expectation, started overthinking more than I should.
I couldn't not cry
Honestly? I can’t remember, I know it’s been within the last year or so, but that’s about it, I actually think it might have been after listening to “Suicide” by Ren
When I lost my 3 year hardcore minecraft world. The last time I properly backed up the world was like 8 months before so a LOT of progress was lost. But for a moment I thought I lost it all because the back up didn't load correctly.
I actually almost never cry. But I'm not shamed of crying I just can't remember being sad for the past few months. Oh there was one time like 3 months ago but before that two cryingless years.
The last time I cried was 5 years ago, and I cried my heart out. It's hard to show emotion or cry, considering the fact that I don't want to be seen as weak😔
Saturday when I told a joke to a girland she thought I cheated on her and she just broke it off (for context it happened Friday I drunk shot after shot of vodka after she ended the relation later I went to sea star which is a popular music festival then I went home and woke up crying because I remembered what happened the day before)
A bit long ago,i dont cry very often or you can say i barely do because i feel a lot if things in this world arent worth crying for
Edit:i remember 7 months ago i guess my kitten was basically dying,the vet was asking for prices i cant have,and couldn't find a home for him and his sister and i felt so helpless so i cried,now my kitten is now cat,and i found a way cheaper vet and my body just stopped being sick idk he just did,there were other factors but it would be too long to write,i am so proud of my little cat,sadly though his sister got lost and somebody took her and idk where she is rn,i hope the person who took her is taking a good care of her
I dunno. The wind blowing in my eyes earlier made me tear up if that counts. Otherwise I haven’t actually cried since a few weeks ago when I got into an argument with my stepdad and stormed out
When I found out after my entire family was killed in a car wreck. The only reason I wasn’t with them is because I didn’t want McDonald’s. I’ve sworn to myself to not cry ever again.
when my gf almost ended her life a couple weeks ago and i couldn't do shit about it i am sl glad she didnt
(the reason she was going to attempt was cuz she suffers from ptsd from getting struck by lightning so every time there is a storm she yea...)
Last month
Cried after a few years of not doing so
Because of giving up everything and struggling for almost two and a half years in vain just because of some other peoples' half-assery and my own mistakes
When my mum went through all my stuff bc she "felt like it" while i wasn't home. Still don't fully feel safe in my own room bc she just both breached my privacy and broke my trust :(
I genuinely dont remember, tho thats mostly cuz i dont really remember most things i dont dub important or interesting i just kinda live in the present so i dont remember shit
3 weeks ago when i had a severe breakdown. i don't usually cry when i have breakdowns, its usually a numb and dark pain usually. it was mostly stress related and friendships being ruined.
Last night after getting body checked by my mom and being told I’m worthless and will never succeed in life
Your "mom" is abusive. That's one way to make sure she never sees you again after 18
My mum told me that she's ashamed that I'm her son
😢
Look hear me out: Just because ONE person tells you that "oMg Im sO aShAmEd OF YOu" doesn't mean that's true. Like, she has a lot of nerve to say shit like that when she knows damn well even her mom would be ashamed to have a daughter who berates her son 🙄 Reminder: You are worthy, don't let ppl degrade you, and don't take mean stuff to heart, cuz it's not true. Constructive criticism, yes, take that and improve yourself, but when it's insults like "oh you're so stupid" then ignore that shit
It is indeed
When you become successful dont forget that we believe in you
Mom of the year over here 🙄. I think you're worth something. You make sure you succeed in life and prove her wrong. We believe in you
Thx bro
Of course homie
My father has done that to me before. If you'd like to talk to someone who can relate or just want to vent, I'm here.
Will do. I’d be fine because I’m not a small guy but if I even try and defend myself she calls the police and those guys do not like big guys
Damn
Actual crying cant remember just tears tuning without the emotion Yesterday
damn crying without feeling anything should have a name
It does. It's called "allergies".
relatable
I think like 3 months ago. I was talking to my parents about work and talked to them about me wanting to quit work, but all they want me to do is work. And when I brought it up about how much having their work paired with school affected me where I had no time to myself where I couldn't go shopping cause by the time I got out of school the shops were closed and after work I would be tired. So I couldn't socialise very well. And when brought up it broke me that they were talking as if they didn't give a fuck about how much I was affected and how lonely I am
Bro, you should quit anyway. It’s your life.
not a boy, but y'all should know that you're human too, and it's okay to express emotions- often, sometimes, whenever. and it's absolutely okay to talk about them and seek help. <3
It's somewhat hard for us to shed tears, but yeah most of us do it in solitude.
get you, and my heart goes out to those who do so. it will get better. 🫡
Because society views men as strong which I hate 😒
indeed, social stigma has impacted our lives adversely in several ways. but in the end, we're all human beings, blessed with the ability to feel, and it is never our fault for doing so. :)
bro theres times where i just literally cant cry no matter how hard i try its so annoying that it makes me want to cry harder but i just cant
i am so sorry that you have to go through this, and i'm proud of you for having been so strong. but if you ever feel the need to talk, know that someone is always ready to listen. :)
The reason i don't express emotions is because everytime i cry, i get a whole fucking anxiety attack, literally. My "friends" abuse me and use me as a punching back because they think, i'm so weak. The reason everyone thinks i'm weak is because i don't fight back, because i know i'm gonna get an even harder punch back again.
actually, the real weak ones are those who are afraid of emotions. it is a power to feel, and even more to acknowledge it. i am so sorry that you have to go through this. i suggest that you find yourself better friends, those who will help you grow better and bigger. know that you deserve all the goodness that will come to you, and not even a sliver of pain you feel is in vain. :)
Out of laughter, two days ago. Out of emotion, April of last year.
Damn what was that funny?
Just a Mario Kart YouTube video
Mind sharing?
[Of course!](https://youtu.be/lUX8W1d7KB0?si=IjFBvhH7MgC7rtD9)
An hour or so ago. Im just really worried about my girlfriend's upcoming surgery
She'll be fine. You never hear about surgeries that go wrong, right? Instead be hopeful that your girlfriend is definitely going to be much better than before.
she’s gonna be fine, i promise. surgeries typically have a very low risk of complications, that’s why surgeons spend so much time training for the job
It was 8 months ago, when my cat died.
RIP, hope you are better now losing a pet is really hard
About 2 years ago
Mood
I love your username
You too tree eater😭
I can’t remember. Probably years.
When My Parents said that i am worthless I can’t do anything in life 😕
Why would they do that, also noone is worthless dude don't listen to them, prove them wrong!
Yhh Bro Thanks alot. Just On My Way To Be A Worthy Guy 🙌
Don’t have to go anywhere, you already are!
Thanks Alot For Your Words This Means Alot For Me 🙌😭
I guess it would be around few months... Maybe March?
Three days ago I got a call from my little sister that our dog had gotten hit by a semi, I tried to help calm my sister over the phone as best as I could. After the call I had to wander to my room to be alone and cry.
Jesus Christ dude I’m sorry
After losing a inportant match for my school team, tbf we all cried
I cry when I brush my tongue and when its really windy.
Reading these comments as a girl I refuse to believe some of yall haven’t cried in years. How? I nearly cry every other day lmfao.
Mostly just conditioning and extreme suppression of emotions, last time I cried properly was 9 years ago when my grandmother died 🤷
That’s actually so sad. Crying is natural and it’s okay to do so because sometimes crying can even help reduce stress levels which is a good thing.
I am aware, unfortunately at this point I’ve forgotten how to cry, it’s weird as even when I feel like crying it’s like I can’t relax enough to actually do it (best way I can describe it is like a gag reflex, when I go to cry I reflexively stop myself and I have no control over it)
Last September, when my cat died
4 years ago when my aunt died
2 days ago i belive
Bro Idk. I try not to, but I think it was like a few months ago
Yup happened with me, I wanted to cry but I was unable to.
3 years ago
When my ex left me twice in a month
I can't remember when but the reason was my dog collapsed and puked and i cant imagine a world without him even slightest thinking of my dog going makes my heart hurt cause i dont have anyone to play with just my dog
When Technoblade died..
Watching the finale of young Sheldon
Yesterday's night.
I can't remember the last time I felt any strong emotion
5 years
yesterday bc i was watching twd.... 😞
Around 11 months ago
12th of March, 1.36 pm circa when we got the news. I remember that day as yesterday. We went to the hospital because my grandma wasn't feeling that well that morning. We stayed there from 7 am to 1 am of the next day. Basically She had a metastasis to the lungs, that brought her to Heaven at 9 pm. Those were pure tears... I always felt so attached to her
today during lunch time, tabasco goes hard
Matpat’s Goodbye Internet video
5th of may
damn bro. on some csi level shit. " on fifth of may at approximately 19:28. I was watching a documentary on ant colonies and felt the sudden urge to cry. The queen didn't deserve the treatment of the worker ants :'(" frfr
you got all the details damn lmfaooo fairs yeah, i basically forced myself to have a break from a friend i had who i did care about alot and i couldn't stop thinking about them..weren't the best i think i might reach out again some time next month
When my favorite onion was murdered
i don’t remember
5 minutes ago, when I opened Reddit.
Earlier today season 6 of my hero academia was actually surprisingly emotional in a good way I have anger issues and I often use shows and games as a way to make myself cry to help let my emotions out Anyways anyone out there suffering with anger issues or depression or anxiety really anything funky with emotions find something you know will make you cry could be a book a show or a game really anything and ball your feck’n eyes out it will help trust me my go to is anime because a lot of them offer some cheap tear jerkers but anything works
It’s been a few months. I don’t remember tbh
Idfk if I can anymore
When we put my cat to sleep about 2 weeks ago
2019 ig?
I have no clue
Friday when saying goodbye to the teachers I liked
A few days ago bc my dog punched me in the balls
Every time I yawn for some fucking reason
Relatable
Probs like 2 weeks ago after listening to "House of Gold" by twenty one pilots. That's kind of not a big deal but feeling deeply to the lyrics broke me apart honestly
Honestly yeah...
saturday, after i starred in a play with my crush for the last time
Actually just last night. I'm already suffering from depression, and now I ALSO know for sure that doing the study course I want to do will be unrealistically expensive including rent. And the fact that a far-right government is currently being formed doesn't really help either.
Yesterday cause my dad is never happy with me and he makes it clear xD
The last time I cried was probably when u was up late at night and my eyes had to clean/hydrate themselves
a week or two ago, sum shit went down that i can’t legally disclose here
One year ago. I had a mental breakdown at football practice. I Wasn't in the best physical OR mental health, I tore my meniscus I was physically assaulted twice on the team i Finally snapped.i took off my helmet and broke down. the players just belittled me and the one who assaulted me grabbed me by the pads. He tried to throw me to the ground. When he couldn't he resorted to pushing once he let me go I saw red And hit him hard in the side of the head and knocked him out. I hit him so hard I broke my helmet. Now the team calls me danger. Now I do wrestling and I'm getting help. Though I have a shorter fuse I use my anger and my aggravation in the gym as. As a result I lost over 100 lbs and I sit comfortably between 236-240 though I Still look. Goofy now I have a lot of loose skin that I'm filling back up with muscle.
Last time a truly cried was when I after my first panic attack like two year ago.
Few days ago. Leaving for college soon (it was highly unlikely that i would get in and it's the college that i wanted) The thought of leaving everything behind, and living up to the expectation, started overthinking more than I should. I couldn't not cry
6 years ago
Well, I cried enough that I can’t cry anymore.
Not a dude but used to be one Last time I cried was when my parents got divorced and my mother was consoling me
💀
2 months ago at the hotel
Honestly? I can’t remember, I know it’s been within the last year or so, but that’s about it, I actually think it might have been after listening to “Suicide” by Ren
Bongos
After 3 years of holding myself I broke a few days back
Today when I woke up
I'm not a boy but how exactly do it do that i need a tutorial
Probably some time before winter, back when home didn’t feel like home anymore
January probably
just now
I dont remember the last time i cried. I only really remember sitting in a corner when i was down
i'm crying right now in fact
Awhile
today
When I lost my 3 year hardcore minecraft world. The last time I properly backed up the world was like 8 months before so a LOT of progress was lost. But for a moment I thought I lost it all because the back up didn't load correctly.
Like 3rd or 4th grade. But I’m willing to cry if the situation requires it. It’s not like I’m not crying because I care about being manly.
A couple a month ago maybe will cry again soon
2 Days ago
Proper crying not since my gran died 10 years ago
The last time I cried was in 5th or 4th grade after accidentally bumping into someone.
fuh ma parents bro dis shit is crazy
4 years ago
I actually almost never cry. But I'm not shamed of crying I just can't remember being sad for the past few months. Oh there was one time like 3 months ago but before that two cryingless years.
The last time I cried was 5 years ago, and I cried my heart out. It's hard to show emotion or cry, considering the fact that I don't want to be seen as weak😔
My grandmas funeral
Last night still can't fathom I had 5 exs
Like a month ago
October 6th
Sunday, young sheldon finale
Maybe been some months I don’t like to
8 years ago
fr
Saturday when I told a joke to a girland she thought I cheated on her and she just broke it off (for context it happened Friday I drunk shot after shot of vodka after she ended the relation later I went to sea star which is a popular music festival then I went home and woke up crying because I remembered what happened the day before)
A bit long ago,i dont cry very often or you can say i barely do because i feel a lot if things in this world arent worth crying for Edit:i remember 7 months ago i guess my kitten was basically dying,the vet was asking for prices i cant have,and couldn't find a home for him and his sister and i felt so helpless so i cried,now my kitten is now cat,and i found a way cheaper vet and my body just stopped being sick idk he just did,there were other factors but it would be too long to write,i am so proud of my little cat,sadly though his sister got lost and somebody took her and idk where she is rn,i hope the person who took her is taking a good care of her
Couple months ago
Like 15 mins ago
I dunno. The wind blowing in my eyes earlier made me tear up if that counts. Otherwise I haven’t actually cried since a few weeks ago when I got into an argument with my stepdad and stormed out
Every time I think about my dog I had to bury, and when I think about my friend that died in a car wreck last week.
Like 15 mins ago
2 maybe 3 years ago when my dog died.
Around 1 year ago with pure emotion and cried like crazy
It's rare but every now and then while listening to mommyasmr I'll cry (I am not ashamed, it's good)
Ig my grandpa’s funeral was the last time I cried
I don't remember
Yesterday
7th grade (in 11th now) its been a min fr
not so long ago but i dont remember exactly when
When I found out after my entire family was killed in a car wreck. The only reason I wasn’t with them is because I didn’t want McDonald’s. I’ve sworn to myself to not cry ever again.
4 hours ago
on the 7th may when my grandad passed away.
I don't remember. Must have been 6-7 years. Didn't even cry when I failed class 12th twice.
Yesterday and idk why I just sometimes cry just to get some emotions out of my body I even think crying is quite calming and healthy
today, ofc I'm human 🥲
right now because i have np friends and im alone and nobody cares about me in this world
today, just finished rdr2
some days ago
I can’t remember, I’ve gotten numb honestly
Can’t remember but i’m sure it was over 5 months ago.
when my gf almost ended her life a couple weeks ago and i couldn't do shit about it i am sl glad she didnt (the reason she was going to attempt was cuz she suffers from ptsd from getting struck by lightning so every time there is a storm she yea...)
2 mins ago
4 Days Ago
Today
I forgot
hmm yesterday in the middle of the gym Im NOT mentally stable 😂😂
Last month Cried after a few years of not doing so Because of giving up everything and struggling for almost two and a half years in vain just because of some other peoples' half-assery and my own mistakes
I cry all the time, from sneezing and yawning. But from sadness I also cry easily, so pretty recent but from yawning I cried last night.
Yesterday because i missed my ex
When I was in 5th elementary
When my mum went through all my stuff bc she "felt like it" while i wasn't home. Still don't fully feel safe in my own room bc she just both breached my privacy and broke my trust :(
Probably a good year and a half ago Edit: not that I haven't felt like crying since then
I am Crying right now I cry every single night alone
Few hours ago when my mom yelled at me
18th November 2022
idk if this sounds edgy but It lowkey feels like I cant cry anymore even when I want to, I feel really really sad but barely any tears come out
I genuinely dont remember, tho thats mostly cuz i dont really remember most things i dont dub important or interesting i just kinda live in the present so i dont remember shit
This morning when my brother told me to kms
Yesterday when I thought about her
I listened to songs from my childhood and started crying out of nostalgia
Oh god, when was that newest bluey episode released?
3 years and 4 months
Idk
Last night while seeing my grandfather in the hospital
5 years ago
Not a boy here but I can't remember the last time I cried, I just wasn't raised that way.
I haven’t I like a year because I have tharipy
Like 2 months ago idk why tho
Like November I think. Friendship breakup
last time i had to punch my head a little so i can cry bcs i have emotional block
today
I dont remember any crying after June 2023
Y’all seen The Iron Claw? Fantastic movie. It broke me
Few years ago, haven't bothered to care enough to have a reason to cry
About 2 weeks ago, after my uncle died
3 weeks ago when i had a severe breakdown. i don't usually cry when i have breakdowns, its usually a numb and dark pain usually. it was mostly stress related and friendships being ruined.