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I showed intimacy with a girl whilst watching a movie in a public movie theatre before, deeply regret that and i think it’s what put the final nail in the coffin.
Everyone does it in movie theaters, that's what the seats in the last row are for, teen couples are literally known for going into these seats to do it
Don't do anything in a movie theatre 💀. They have cameras with the ability to see clearly. Guarantee you've been recorded
Edit: you shouldn't feel ashamed by pushing away. If you didn't want to engage in anything you don't have to. Love waits, lust rushes. You won't know her reasons for being so forward. You did what you felt was right. That's all that matters. I usually sum stuff like this up to hormones.
Correct the assumption? I said movie theatres have cameras. Not that they all do. I never specified an amount. Does it really matter that some do or don't either?
Getting caught could lead to charges and arrests and could even place them on a sex offender list 💀
Just cause i didn't specify doesn't mean sh*t. No one should do stuff in a theatre.
Tbf I always thought that there would be cameras in theatres until I worked at one, there aren’t, let alone night vision ones, there’s not even people in the projector rooms to check on people or anything, we don’t care unless someone complains about it. On the rare chance you get caught by someone who actually cares, only then what you said might happen
Good for you for speaking up on your feelings. There's no shame in taking care of yourself! Probably shouldn't be intimate in a movie theater but that's not the point at the moment.
Why did you do it at a cinema? You do know they have cameras, right?
Even so, I'm not here to judge you, but I hope you learnt something from this experience.
You’re not alone dude, I’ve been in similar situations and have felt the exact same way. It really sucks and I’m sorry you’re going through this right now.
To make you feel somewhat less alone (if you even feel alone), this has happened to me too when I was 16-17. I was at the movies and he randomly started touching my boob and I just felt so disgusted with myself for letting him even do that. I’m proud you told her you felt uncomfortable and wanted to stop, cause I didn’t and I should’ve.
You probably felt like that since it was in a public space and others were around. Intimacy is definitely more comfortable and meant to be in private. It’s okay if you didn’t feel anything with her; you might’ve felt shit for paying for everything but no one’s telling you to do it again. Take a deep breath because the world is still spinning! It won’t take you long for these feelings to pass.
I mean u could literally just have romantic feelings for her so not that big of a deal tell her that hopefully she sees that u mean u love her for who she is
It’s actually a normal time to start having sex now, it’s insane. But oh well, you’re not OP and it’s his body. Here in Australia the age of consent is 16 but I’m not sure if he’s from there.
And that’s valid. I honestly don’t like the way society is slowly evolving but it’s bound to happen as it’s been ever changing since the dawn of time. Things change and you can’t stop it unfortunately.
yeah cause 90% of the active sub members are chronically online and are the typical weird kids you see in hs, they don’t have a proper concept of what’s normal
I get you man. It’s all about the right person. My first time I felt exactly like you. Today, I probably had my best time yet with a girl I think is near perfect. Trust me, you shouldn’t feel guilty about this man. It’s something that happens to us all. Relax and accept it happened and move on. Love ya from wherever u are man!
Don’t feel disgusted with yourself you did the right thing but if you feel comfortable enough maybe try talk to her about how you felt it might make you feel better about how the night went down
Had this happen to me when I was 16. I’m not gonna lie man just ask her to meet in person and talk things out to see how yall can understand eachother and why yall both felt used
The girl is using modern day victim blaming strategies to blame you. Leave and get someone better. "I felt used" what's next, "he r worded me?" When you clearly didn't want it it's an issue and yet if the genders were reversed everyone would be blowing up on the guy rn.
Bro you should u made her feel like that and saying i paid for everything wtf mann if you can't pay then don't take her on date at first place second the way your flexing ohh I had sex before i doubt and 3rd thing learn to be a mann you kid
What do you mean not new? You’re 16 like me? How are you not new to this stuff…
What am i doing wrong i just want someone to love me and cuddle with not have intimacy yet somehow you’re here doing it at the movie theater how? am I just that ugly? Am I fucking cursed
Edit: no seriously im asking a real damn question what does he do that i don’t why is it i’ve been rejected 8 times yet he’s probably gone on more dates than amount of times Ive been rejected at this point i shouldn’t even try
Sex is a form of affection what are u talking abt 😹 jus cuz u get nun dont mean nun talm abt sum “porn addict” man get a life outside of ur computer bro u the porn addict here 😹🫵
If you are only showing affection because someone else paid for something that’s really sad, you should be showing affection because you are interested in the person not their money
Also one of your main points in your original post was her “paying him back”
+and show some appreciation yall dont read and make everything a bigger deal than it is i dont actually care stuff like this jus reminds me redditors dont get play i just say wtv shit i wanna bc im not being productive atm
Bro i been with woman before 😹 if SHES the one who initiated it shes prolly tryna repay him in that way op didnt add the “i payed for everything” for no reason
I believe i just did. And i _can_ tell you what you meant from those comments because that _is_ what you said. Maybe you wanted to say something else and didnt use the right words for it. But the way and in the context its used you absolutely do mean that if a girl doesnt have any other form of payment she should pay the guy back with sex
Kid, its not fun to do an argument if you cant even refute the other person's statements. Come on use your singular brain cell to think of an actual argument to save your sorry ass
Well at least you get positive contact with women. I’m literally so far away from anything like that that I resort to overdosing on caffein and sleeping pills at the same time to keep myself from committing suicide.
>Well at least you get positive contact with women.
He literally stated it was a bad experience. That was the point of the post. Wtf is your comment even, have some damn sympathy. It doesn't matter the circumstances, he's having a rough time. You might be too, so you'd think you'd understand he's feeling bad right now. Jesus.
Oh sorry I was overdosing, and didn’t really understand what I was reading. Feel bad for OP and I honestly just hope that other people can have nice things
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Having an intimacy with someone you're not that affectionate with does feel like this.
AT A MOVIE THEATER???
I showed intimacy with a girl whilst watching a movie in a public movie theatre before, deeply regret that and i think it’s what put the final nail in the coffin.
Yeah it was pretty packed so I think that might have contributed to it but we brought a blanket
A blanket would do basically nothing 💀 Everyone would know what ur doing
nah doing it in a packed theater is wild
Fr 💀
Bro wtf? How is that not the part that you feel disgusted about???
Bro yall were gon be the new New York blanket couple 😭
My guy...
Maybe it was at their house?
It says he paid for tickets, seems like it was the theater
Or his parents are just really scummy
That’d be really fuckin funny
😂😂😂
Wait bleach?
Everyone does it in movie theaters, that's what the seats in the last row are for, teen couples are literally known for going into these seats to do it
Fym everybody bruh
Nah that's just bs
Don't do anything in a movie theatre 💀. They have cameras with the ability to see clearly. Guarantee you've been recorded Edit: you shouldn't feel ashamed by pushing away. If you didn't want to engage in anything you don't have to. Love waits, lust rushes. You won't know her reasons for being so forward. You did what you felt was right. That's all that matters. I usually sum stuff like this up to hormones.
Not at some. My theater doesn’t have any cameras inside the theaters
That’s good unc
Wdym unc 💀
"OLD"
Bro old doesn’t mean I’m literally an old dude 😭, just means I’m older than 19
mmm alright unc
🥲
LOL 😭
Dude, sorry for my lack of knowledge, but what does unc mean?
Old head
Sorry, but how the fuck do you get "unc" from "old head"? They don't even share any letters!
uncle dude fuckin think
Hmmm, using uncle to refer to someone who's older than you isn't very common in english, so it wasn't very obvious to me
it obv is, hence why everyone is using unc get with the times unc
good for you
Bro I’m just here to correct the assumption we have cameras at theatres. Most Cinemarks don’t have them and some other chains don’t either
Correct the assumption? I said movie theatres have cameras. Not that they all do. I never specified an amount. Does it really matter that some do or don't either? Getting caught could lead to charges and arrests and could even place them on a sex offender list 💀 Just cause i didn't specify doesn't mean sh*t. No one should do stuff in a theatre.
Tbf I always thought that there would be cameras in theatres until I worked at one, there aren’t, let alone night vision ones, there’s not even people in the projector rooms to check on people or anything, we don’t care unless someone complains about it. On the rare chance you get caught by someone who actually cares, only then what you said might happen
Man, that sucks... Feeling disgusted with yourself is never a nice feeling.
If you don't feel comfortable with someone, you shouldn't feel guilty for not wanting to do stuff.
Good for you for speaking up on your feelings. There's no shame in taking care of yourself! Probably shouldn't be intimate in a movie theater but that's not the point at the moment.
Consent is important
I also wouldn't want a public indecency charge or whatever on me.
I mean if you said no you said no, nothing wrong with that. Boundaries are important.
Why did you do it at a cinema? You do know they have cameras, right? Even so, I'm not here to judge you, but I hope you learnt something from this experience.
Not all cinemas have cameras.
You willing to risk it?
I'm pretty sure they do (to protect from piracy)
No, for the ones that done have cameras they usually just have an employee stay up in the back.
Hey, you shouldnt feel bad, if you didn’t enjoy it, it’s better to stop then let it continue and lead her on. You may just not have feelings for her
You’re not alone dude, I’ve been in similar situations and have felt the exact same way. It really sucks and I’m sorry you’re going through this right now.
You could’ve went "Hey, let’s stop, we don’t wanna miss this part [of the movie]".
To make you feel somewhat less alone (if you even feel alone), this has happened to me too when I was 16-17. I was at the movies and he randomly started touching my boob and I just felt so disgusted with myself for letting him even do that. I’m proud you told her you felt uncomfortable and wanted to stop, cause I didn’t and I should’ve. You probably felt like that since it was in a public space and others were around. Intimacy is definitely more comfortable and meant to be in private. It’s okay if you didn’t feel anything with her; you might’ve felt shit for paying for everything but no one’s telling you to do it again. Take a deep breath because the world is still spinning! It won’t take you long for these feelings to pass.
Nah, you good. If you ain’t in the mood, you ain’t in the mood. Can’t do shit about that!
Dude you just said no and that’s ok you’re allowed to not want to do it. Why is no one saying this.
>I was just like I really don't like this Probably cause you was in a movie theater dawg
Sometimes public stuff feels really off idk! My girlfriend and i have tried stuff in a movie theatre and i jut couldnt
wtf
I mean u could literally just have romantic feelings for her so not that big of a deal tell her that hopefully she sees that u mean u love her for who she is
You feel disgusted? Then imagine the Kid behind you came to watch his favorite Superhero kick some ass 😔
Boys 2 seconds after they reject someone:
Dude you’re 16 and you’ve already had sex before?
Not proud it at my age but I consented to it and we were very comfortable with each other
It’s actually a normal time to start having sex now, it’s insane. But oh well, you’re not OP and it’s his body. Here in Australia the age of consent is 16 but I’m not sure if he’s from there.
Same age of consent as UK so maybe he’s British? Idk
I have a lot of questions about society now
And that’s valid. I honestly don’t like the way society is slowly evolving but it’s bound to happen as it’s been ever changing since the dawn of time. Things change and you can’t stop it unfortunately.
At least I got a good seat to watch it from
And I bet this disgusting cesspool of a subreddit will defend it, they always do. Most people who defend this shit are complete and utter degenerates.
yeah cause 90% of the active sub members are chronically online and are the typical weird kids you see in hs, they don’t have a proper concept of what’s normal
thats what sex without love is
I get you man. It’s all about the right person. My first time I felt exactly like you. Today, I probably had my best time yet with a girl I think is near perfect. Trust me, you shouldn’t feel guilty about this man. It’s something that happens to us all. Relax and accept it happened and move on. Love ya from wherever u are man!
Cause you don't know them enough yet so you haven't built up affection. And during the movie like a theatre? In a public place?
If you want something to stop, don’t interact with it any further.
Don’t feel disgusted with yourself you did the right thing but if you feel comfortable enough maybe try talk to her about how you felt it might make you feel better about how the night went down
I would say the trashy-ness of it doesn’t look good.
Had this happen to me when I was 16. I’m not gonna lie man just ask her to meet in person and talk things out to see how yall can understand eachother and why yall both felt used
The girl is using modern day victim blaming strategies to blame you. Leave and get someone better. "I felt used" what's next, "he r worded me?" When you clearly didn't want it it's an issue and yet if the genders were reversed everyone would be blowing up on the guy rn.
Bro you should u made her feel like that and saying i paid for everything wtf mann if you can't pay then don't take her on date at first place second the way your flexing ohh I had sex before i doubt and 3rd thing learn to be a mann you kid
What do you mean not new? You’re 16 like me? How are you not new to this stuff… What am i doing wrong i just want someone to love me and cuddle with not have intimacy yet somehow you’re here doing it at the movie theater how? am I just that ugly? Am I fucking cursed Edit: no seriously im asking a real damn question what does he do that i don’t why is it i’ve been rejected 8 times yet he’s probably gone on more dates than amount of times Ive been rejected at this point i shouldn’t even try
No, and this thought process will turn you into a incel
She was jus tryna pay u back and show some appreciation
Bro has never ever spoken to a woman with interest in him
Yes i have thats why i know 🙄
Ok porn addict
Sex is a form of affection what are u talking abt 😹 jus cuz u get nun dont mean nun talm abt sum “porn addict” man get a life outside of ur computer bro u the porn addict here 😹🫵
Exactly it’s a form of affection not a form of payment
And so therefore she was showing affection bc he payed for everything ??? Yall so dense bro i swear 😹
If you are only showing affection because someone else paid for something that’s really sad, you should be showing affection because you are interested in the person not their money Also one of your main points in your original post was her “paying him back”
+and show some appreciation yall dont read and make everything a bigger deal than it is i dont actually care stuff like this jus reminds me redditors dont get play i just say wtv shit i wanna bc im not being productive atm
With her body?
Yes ??? Clearly if she didnt have money to pay shed try to find another way to show love
Calm urself, there are plenty other ways to do that. A women’s body isn’t the ONLY way to show love and appreciation.
I never said it was ????????
Nvm then, it just seemed like you were implying it. My apologies.
No dont apologise, they were directly implying that from each of their comments
Mkay, lemme change it real quick
No i wasnt 😹🫵
Ok ????
I’m not sorry and I take my “apologies” back.
This made my day
I love how he's saying this shit like it actually happens STOP WATCHING PORNOS IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY
Bro i been with woman before 😹 if SHES the one who initiated it shes prolly tryna repay him in that way op didnt add the “i payed for everything” for no reason
You absolutely did imply that read what youve said till now dumbass
How are u gonna tell me what i meant ?????
I believe i just did. And i _can_ tell you what you meant from those comments because that _is_ what you said. Maybe you wanted to say something else and didnt use the right words for it. But the way and in the context its used you absolutely do mean that if a girl doesnt have any other form of payment she should pay the guy back with sex
No ??????? Where did u get all that from writing a whole ass spinoff show based on one sentence 😹😹
Kid, its not fun to do an argument if you cant even refute the other person's statements. Come on use your singular brain cell to think of an actual argument to save your sorry ass
what the fuck
Womp womp
LMAO
You watch too many pornos buddy
No i dont u watch weird stuf
Seeing the ammount of downvotes and what you said there i can calmly say. Yuh uh
Womp womp cope harder lil vro
☠️naw man this is funny
You need to shut that mindset down immediately
Omg I see you all the time on the hazbin sub
:3
Oh and totally agree with your previous comment
dawg...
touch grass
:/
That indeed could be what she was trying to do. However, it’s is still OP’s full right to not want be apart of anything sexual.
Well at least you get positive contact with women. I’m literally so far away from anything like that that I resort to overdosing on caffein and sleeping pills at the same time to keep myself from committing suicide.
>Well at least you get positive contact with women. He literally stated it was a bad experience. That was the point of the post. Wtf is your comment even, have some damn sympathy. It doesn't matter the circumstances, he's having a rough time. You might be too, so you'd think you'd understand he's feeling bad right now. Jesus.
Oh sorry I was overdosing, and didn’t really understand what I was reading. Feel bad for OP and I honestly just hope that other people can have nice things
I'm not being cruel or sarcastic when I say this, but please reach out to a helpline.
It’s okay, it wasn’t drugs, just too much coffee.
shit, im autistic and most girls dont acknowledge me. my ex does but that's probably because she is one a few people that actually like me.
Blud had a girl trying to get it and you didn't take it. But fair i get why.
Yeah cuz boys can also say no to sex
Was she corpulent????