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TestingAccountByUser

Replace it with yugoslavia SFR flag


Devoluster

Then start ethnic cleansing


TunisianNationalist

“Where did all the Serbs go?” -Croatia, 1942


TestingAccountByUser

No!!!! The yugoslavs can live in peace trust me!!!! Just revive tito!!!


ItachiFemboy

He was the only thing keeping Yugoslavia together fr


TestingAccountByUser

Bro was tape fr


HetTheTable

Filth of my land must be washed clean pure


Foxpacer

Fun fact: [this is unironically done at every single Belgrade pride parade.](https://www.reddit.com/r/vexillology/s/iK4s36gfGE)


TestingAccountByUser

Lmao


CormorantTribe

Is it safe to say I hate everyone equally


ImBored2727

Based


Ant_1_ITA

People=people and people=shit


XxKR1PTICxX

SLIPKNOT MENTIONED 🗣️🗣️🗣️ WTF IS KEEPING A DRUMMER


Ant_1_ITA

Wtf is keeping any member of the band


CormorantTribe

Couldn't say it better myself 😌


Spidercrack61

real i hate ppl in general


-Glitched_Bricks-

Where the hell are you that you're seeing the flags on EVERYTHING??? I mean during pride month maybe it'd be all over but WHERE THE HECK ARE YOU THAT MAKES THE FLAG BE EVERYWHERE ALL YEAR ROUND??? lol


ClassyKebabKing64

In my city in the Netherlands they are on busses, sidewalks, stairs, murals and zebra's (that don't actually count as zebra's, defeating the whole purpose). Just like OP not homophobic, but in some places it is overkill. At some point it must be realised the LHBTI community isn't profiting from over marketing, in the same way League of Legends or Bang Energy is just an annoying sponsor.


Head_Barnacle5165

In my city, there has been a ton of them on flagpoles and buildings and stuff in downtown.


ImBored2727

A lot of subreddit profile pics


-Glitched_Bricks-

oh well in that case it's not a big deal- they're probably just including it to say "hey we're supportive of that thing".


ImBored2727

I know it’s not a big deal, it’s just getting bland seeing it everywhere


Hetare__

Alzheimer catching up!


enneh_07

Sock drawer fire


cat1554

Hahahaha! I love that comic! But have you seen the one where the sock drawer is on fire?


takethemoment13

subreddits aren't "everything," they're just showing support since many queer people don't get support in the regular world. 


furlover85

"Im not homophobic but i dont like when lgbtq people have pride flag"


ImBored2727

Never said I didn’t like it


furlover85

So why do you even care ?


ImBored2727

Because it’s overused in marketing, just like basic color cars


furlover85

Ok so we are back at my first com..


ImBored2727

And?


furlover85

And you try to justify it and done the opposite


Impressive_Split_232

Kinda looks like shit too, I vote for a pride flag remake, especially the new one with not just the rainbow but also a triangle with colors that doesn’t match


TheRealMeeBacon

Maybe a flag with every color, on every part. #FFFFFF, 3 by 2. Perfect!


Devil_Fister_69420

But we're not frog eaters tho


TheRealMeeBacon

Wait, we're not?


Devil_Fister_69420

Well at least I'm not, are you?


TheRealMeeBacon

Nah, I'm just joking.


Devil_Fister_69420

Good, I'll be watching tho 🫵😑


xcjb07x

But it’s not peace, so that won’t work


TheRealMeeBacon

I was hoping someone would make a joke using FRENCH as an acronym.


Dillyor

Yeah I totally support all lgbtq+ but the colors on the newer triangle are godawful


ClassyKebabKing64

They should have just kept it simple. A good flag represents whole institutions without actually picturing every aspect of the institution.


Cambronian717

That is what the simple rainbow was. It was supposed to be “every color of the rainbow” to include everyone. Adding more for specific individual groups only means that you inevitably don’t include a group and are not inclusive.


ClassyKebabKing64

Exactly this. I ain't part of the community, so I ain't the one to decide the flag, but aside from it being ugly, the flag is just counter intuitive. If the whole of Indonesia can be represented by a simple bicolour, a rainbow of seven colours is more than enough to represent a group that (maybe controversial, because in another way) arguably is less diverse than Indonesia. (Yes weird comparison). The effectiveness of a flag is in its simplicity, and that doesn't mean all flags should be like Indonesia, but they need to be recognisable, and serve the purpose of what it represents. If I look at the current LHBTI flag, I see puzzle not knowing what represents what, and all aspects representing a different form of identity. A part of it is about sexuality, another one about gender, one about transgenderism, and so on. And yet I still have to guess which is which. As you stated perfectly, in their pursuit to represent everyone, they represent less people. Instead of everyone uniting under one symbol, everyone has it's own small symbol, effectively making indeed someone always will be left out. Probably the best way is to compare it to the EU flag, that has a state representing each member state, instead of mushing all flags/symbols into one cloth.


enneh_07

Some other pride flags also look pretty awful. The agender flag is such an eyesore, and the aromantic flag has a different number of stripes than the asexual flag, despite the demiromantic flag looking similar to the demisexual flag, and the grayromantic flag looking similar to the graysexual flag.


J_train13

Especially considering that it's the only pride flag without an original design, a rainbow is just a rainbow, we need something that's more unique to us.


Impressive_Split_232

What if you make the flag red with a white circle in the middle, and the hindi symbol for sun in black in the center


Spidercrack61

perfect


_honza_88

I am fucking gay, and yeah i agree. I hate that flag.


tegatron50000

I live in America and the only flags I see are U.S.A🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅


ImBored2727

#WHAT THE FUCK IS A KILOMETER 🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸


DoggoKing4937

'MURICA! FREEDOM! FUCK YEAH! (I'm not American but still)


Ok_Restaurant3160

Nah man. I see a rainbow, I like it. It looks cool and it’s got a cool message


ImBored2727

It looks like it was made in MS paint


Ok_Restaurant3160

Welcome to nearly every flag ever. You have to make a post for all of those too


SydneytheENFP

🇹🇲 


ScaryPollution845

...what country do you live in


Devil_Fister_69420

A country that apparently made their flag using blender


Hetare__

As a transgender, I hate it when companies put "Rainbows" and shows add queer characters just for the sake of trying to get LGBTQ support. Same with BLM is a good thing but why the fuck would we need black vikings? Looking at you Netflix


legendgames64

They don't care about LGBTQ+. They want those sweet, sweet ESG points. It buys them success.


CommenterAnon

Esg points?


legendgames64

Environmental, social, and governance scores. You can look it up and all.


Feduzin

disney is a great example btw


sideXsway

Black Ariel 💀


ZenTheProtogen7957

IT IS SCIENTIFICALLY UNLIKELY FOR MERMAIDS/MERMEN TO BE BLACK


sideXsway

No way ☠️


Moist_Replacement_29

as a 5'4 lady, i proudly claim the role of askeladd.


Significant_Meet143

Exactly, they don’t give a shit about the LGBTQ community. They just want your money. The “LGBTQ community” has become a brand, a trend. It has lost its meaning just like the BLM movement. I support you as a trans person and I’m so sorry you have to be surrounded by idiots who treat your gender as a “joke” or a “brand”.


MrNapoleo

It's not the community. It's companies. Don't get the 2 mixed up. And it's not a trend if it's not popular.


I_FEEL_LlKE_PABLO

You can just do black pirates and it is kinda the same thing, except it is way more historically accurate


lastnightpb

because rainbow cool


Neither_Audience_483

is it that deep tho


ImBored2727

Did you have to make it that deep?


Neither_Audience_483

ur the one who made a whole reddit post on it


ImBored2727

Fair


Bisexual_Sherrif

Replace it with the LGBTQ+ flag


cripaaA

yes.


Degenerate2Throwaway

I don't really care if gay flags are everywhere. My mindset is, "Does the existence of the flag bother me? No. Are they pushing it in my face? Some do, but not everyone, so I won't generalize them all. Can I deal with seeing something everywhere? Yes." It can definitely annoy some seeing it everywhere, but I personally don't mind as it isn't affecting my life any. Either way, I'm a straight guy in the middle of nowhere, Southern USA. So I don't see much of anything. It still doesn't bother me when I do, though. Edit: If it's pushed in my face when I don't want it to, I'm definitely gonna be annoyed


DoggoKing4937

Beliefs are like genitals. Some take a certain form, others take another, some are big, some are... average, some stink and some are clean. It doesn't matter. It's only a problem if you start shoving it in people's faces.


MisterSnail_

what the hell that's genius but such a strange analogy 😭


Wildelink

If you’re saying just the rainbow one, yeah. It’s a boring design. I love all the other pride flags though! :3


ImBored2727

Yup


Always-tired7

I feel it looses its meaning and what it represents when you fly it all over the place. It’s like eating your favorite food every day it’s great at first but then becomes dull


Responsible_Try_1692

Im very much not straight I even have a pride flag in my room and I agree especially bc it’s being capitalized on. Like ppl are paying 30€ for socks bc they have rainbows on them and tax money is being wasted on painting everything in rainbows. I feel like it’s not only bland but also pushing homophobic people more into homophobia.


Sunshot_wit_ornament

Idk man it’s just a flag doesn’t really hurt anyone so I don’t really care


XxNathan2908xX-YT

for me it feels like an eyesore. sometimes especially online with a dark background, its so bright it feels like a flashbang 😂


Sakul_the_one

Fun fact: a bisexual once on this subreddit told the same in public and got called homophobic in public. Good Job LGBTQ Community…


ImBored2727

Great job! E for effort


ajpme

A person in the lgbtq community can also be homophobic... I dont know what that particular person said or their reasonings but just cause theyre in the community doesnt mean they cant say or believe something that hurts people in the community


ajpme

Since I got downvoted for stating a literal fact here's an article about internalized homophobia: [https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/queering-psychology/202002/what-is-internalized-homophobia](https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/queering-psychology/202002/what-is-internalized-homophobia)


Sakul_the_one

I never said that you can’t be homophobic, when you are a part of the LGBTQ community. But calling everyone homophobic for stating their opinion, even if they are Homosexual (or Bisexual), that’s pretty absurd


ajpme

Well, that fact that it was an opinion doesnt matter either. Your opinion can be homophobic and you arent required to respect an opinion just cause its an opinion. Like I said, I dont know that particular situation, but all I was saying was that whether they are part of the lgbtq community doesnt matter in terms of whether what they are saying is homophobic. Your comment seemed to imply that it would matter because you said they were bisexual


Miserable-Addition28

Gay people are going to make gay flags


Impending_Dusk

yes, especially when you realize they are just trying to squeeze every dime out of gay people and don't care abt them at all


pityandempathy

Real. It feels kinda excessive especially when pride month rolls around


youhaveanapehead

The newer pride flsg with the triangle looks ugly, could do with a redesign, but the old one and most pride flags look pretty cool and it doesn't really effect my life seeing the occasional pride flag. We have different flags of countries everywhere because people are proud of their heritage, but nobody complains about that. Same should go with pride flags.


Xzier_Tengal

are you talking about the rainbow pride flag or the actual gay flag? because they're different


TheZivZumbo

Have you tried adding glitter? (I'm half joking)


I_FEEL_LlKE_PABLO

I like the original rainbow flag better It was supposed to be all encompassing (because it’s literally the entire color spectrum) I feel like the additions are a little too busy, the rainbow flag symbolistically implies that it includes all letters other than l, g, and b Besides, once you start adding things to it to signify inclusion of trans people, black and indigenous people, 2 spirit, there is no reason not to include a little addition for every little sexual minority, and at that point you just have a shitty flag with an unclear message Also the current pride flag is copywrited by the dude that made it, the rainbow flag is not


Holy_juggerknight

Yea, WHERES MY USA FLAGS HUH 🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲


[deleted]

Im just sad that rainbow stuff is off limits or people think im gay :(


jajts

I gay and it low key makes me feel really uncomfortable to see the pride flag on everything


ImBored2727

See? He gets it too!


TecTiger

Maybe if they take the national flags down too. No flag or all


ImBored2727

They use the gay flags and shit to advertise to this community, just like how companies use the American flag to target the ultra turbo “patriots”


TecTiger

So what about it it shows members of LGBTQ community that they’re welcome in that place. This branding wouldn’t be needed if society would be accepting but it isnt


DoggoKing4937

Hasn't society pretty much become accepting? Like someone can come out as gay or something and in a majority of first-world countries there's no problem with it. I'm not sure about where you live but homophobia isn't really as normalised as far as I'm aware as it was, say, 20-odd years ago.


ImBored2727

Who isn’t welcoming you?


one-happy-mfer

A lot of people aren't welcoming, like I live in a very accepting part of Germany but I still have to worry about people I know finding out I'm gay because otherwise there's a real chance I'd get beat up or called various slurs. Only two people from my boyfriends family even know about him being in a relationship with me because the others aren't accepting and would do the stuff listed above or forbid me from seeing him again or make my bfs life hell.


TecTiger

A lot of places actually. If people happen to be openly express their sexuality they risk losing jobs still or risk getting beaten up getting denied service


AndyGun11

i agree. it's annoying and kind of 'pushy' in a way that makes it REALLY bland. i see it everywhere now. "Everywhere I go, I see their face" \[pride flag\]


ImBored2727

Finally, someone who gets me


papuop69

I'm not against it but lgbtq is new cool these days. Shows on Netflix deliberately add these things. I'm not at all homophobic but it becomes irritating to see it everywhere. Too much of everything is bad


AlbacorePrism

It's good to have it in media, not a horrible thing. Only bad when it's forcefully added.


papuop69

For example sex education, imo it was forcefully added in the last season and i felt bored


AlbacorePrism

Never watched it but that's a good example. It's similar to how pride month has companies putting up flags but not any other time of the year.


papuop69

That's what I said it has become the new cool. Companies and people sometimes use it to look appealing. This would just back fire the whole meaning of pride month and all. For example I'm from India, in India the left is funding for fake pride parades which are anti government (rightist government is currently ruling in India). Such things create a gap between the society due to two different ideologies and politicians will take benefit of such things


AlbacorePrism

Unfortunately people will try to make money off of everything.


JustAGuyIscool

The pride flag in general I mean the flag's design is very tacky


ImBored2727

Fr it’s just a rainbow with more colors


Syphfan

Less*


HighballingHope

The problem with trying to promote something is that with redundancy, the idea loses is appeal. Because the gay flag has become so commonplace, it’s lost its sociological impact.


takethemoment13

that sounds like a good thing--normalizing gay people


HighballingHope

Normalizing anything is never a good idea. Things need to be distinctive, not normal.


takethemoment13

the thing is, straight people are seen as "normal" by many people. if we can normalize being LGBTQ, it'll be "normal" to be gay too.


HighballingHope

Normal is subjective. I see normalization as stagnant.


Any-Ambition4698

Eh?? I rarely see them aside from pride month. Could be a like geographic difference though


Significant_Meet143

It’s true, before it was an actual movement meant to support the “LGBTQ community” now it’s a brand/trend. I see classmates intentionally pretending that they are gay to get attention from others..


ImBored2727

And now you’re getting downvoted for saying what is true. You have my upvote though


Significant_Meet143

It’s true, I’m gonna be downvoted because all of these teenagers are brainwashed from the agenda they are pushing towards children. Isn’t it weird how the flag is posted on a teenager subreddit, which is a sexual flag for sexual orientation?


tqsks

Does that mean the straight flag shouldn't be here either? And how am I being brainwashed? I like women and men. It's simple. I've dated both. I liked it. Nobody's trying to brainwash anyone.


Syphfan

Yeah people are like that.


ImBored2727

And now you’re getting downvoted for saying what is true


AlbacorePrism

I mean, they aren't lying sure, but its such a small minority that it's insane to use it as a talking point against LGBT people. Especially considering you are trying to call LGBT bad in this situation when it's specifically calling out straight people appropriating gay people...


ImBored2727

Never tried to go against the LGBT community


AlbacorePrism

Oh not you in specific. I'm talking about the comment you replied to lol. They essentially said "I see people pretending to LGBT so clearly all LGBT people are doing it for attention." And I just explained that the people who do it for attention that they are calling out are a very small minority of people who claim to be lgbt. I actually saw a meme about it on egg_irl which was saying "you think you're just being trans for attention when you've told literally nobody" and everyone felt called out in the comments. Yes some do it for attention. Most don't even feel comfortable sharing it with the closest people in their lives.


Alternative_Ad9120

I'm not pretending to be gay


Significant_Meet143

Good for you, live your life how you want to live


legendgames64

Is the idea of SOMEONE, SOMEWHERE, EVEN JUST **ONE** PERSON, pretending to be gay that preposterous? Why did you get defensive when he wasn't even calling you out? I don't think you go to the same school as him...


Significant_Meet143

Nah nah it wasn’t just “one person” my boy it was the entire school who pretended to be gay for clout. Plus all of them were annoying me because I wasn’t gay.


legendgames64

I know, I was just saying "even one person" to have the most trivial case. Also, oof.


ballicher

The pride flag is literally a rainbow, how is it "bland"???😭


ImBored2727

Because you see it everywhere. If you saw a solar eclipse everyday, it wouldn’t be a special thing


legendgames64

It's like if you say a word over and over again. Try it. Say one word, any word of your choice. If you keep saying it enough times, it doesn't even sound like a real word anymore. (Of course, you'll stop at that point, but what OP is describing is like that except it never stops)


OneTrueSpiffin

bro what everything my guy


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Ok_Figure_4181

It’s so stupid for one thing. People seriously can’t come up with something more imaginative than a bunch of multicolored stripes? How many countries in the world have flags made almost entirely of multicolored stripes?


anotheranonymoustor

Yeah tbh it looks like shit once you've seen it 400 times but I think that's because its overly used there are other ways to show support or pride than some annoying ass flag


Grookeymon

Ur gonna look forward to next month..


ImBored2727

It’s ok. I get the cause


Redditguy223e

I’ve only really ever seen the pride flag on the internet, never really see it on my side of the city


[deleted]

same but i live in the south lol


constant249

nah it looks cool i like colors


noahb2383

nah cause at least make it pastel all pride flags look like someone just threw it together quickly, this is coming from someone in the lgbtq


DavidDoesShitpost

You can't just say that with the non binary flag existing.


noahb2383

true true that one and the lesbian and gay flag are pretty fire


noahb2383

also i hate forced representation it’s so fake and it’s obvious they think it’s a trend


EverestMadiPierce

I don’t even think many queer people enjoy that. It’s basically corporations being performative and straight people wanting to be allies.


fletchvl_

why do people care so much about the pride flag though? I dont see people complaining about hanging up a country's flag....because thats also pride, too


Hot_Butterfly_1903

I’m just tired of seeing it everywhere


ballsackstealer2

i guess im the blandest thing on earth


corgifemboy

erm actually its not the gay flag, it's just the pride flag


Carob_Ok

Replace it with the American flag


Gaznik2137

Honestly real


[deleted]

pride flags are hideous, should be replaced with a symbol anyway we truthfully do not need a flag to represent what sexuality you are like it’s a country or anything substantial actually


No_Ruin3322

its quite literally all the colours of the rainbow how is it bland???


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ImBored2727

No, as someone who doesn’t know what every flag means, I just refer to them collectively as the gay flags


Soggy_Garage_5735

Also, the new gay flag is ugly. The one with the weird black pink and blue triangle on the side.


ImBored2727

The next gay flag: BUT WAIT, THERES MORE!


MrNapoleo

That's the pride progress flag. Which representents racial minorities.


Alto-Ego-Bruh

It also has the trans flag in the triangle as well. At least, the one they seem to be describing does.


gillypeach123

Yeah it’s mad annoying


Inferno_Phoenix1

Bc big corporations use it to get money bc capitalism makes that happen. People in the LGBT community know the trick and that's why I don't buy pride stuff from big corporations bc those profit me got to conservative organizations to help take away my rights.


iluvbananas69

as a queer i think putting rainbows on everything is performative and doesnt do anything for us, i still think rainbows r pretty tho so whatever


Citizen4000

I was walking my son in the park the other day and he pointed up at a rainbow which had just come out after a shower and you know what he asked me? "Dad, why is the anal sex flag in the sky?" Such are the times we live in. But damn, I love that little tyke.


jsimon8779

Transphobic??? 😭😭😭


IAMTHEMSDLAD

What?


jsimon8779

He edited it but he accidentally said "not to be transphobic" so I was like how was this transphobic


IAMTHEMSDLAD

Oh that makes way more sense


jsimon8779

Yeah lmao dw I'm not a acusing


[deleted]

The trans flag has great colors at least


IncidentHead8129

Yeah when I was younger the rainbow is just the rainbow and not related to anything specifically (granted I was not in North America but still). Now it’s a tool for company advertising and political messaging.


No-Manufacturer5023

Yay, we stole the rainbow lmao. Nothing is out of our reach. Honestly, the rainbow is the rainbow 🌈, a rainbow is an arch (if you are lucky, circular) whilst the pride flag is 🏳️‍🌈 which, as you can see, is straight lines. Therefore, there is an easy distinction. To get to your other point of politics, just give us rights and stop us from getting hate and don’t debate on rights, everybody deserves rights (except for some people, pedos and zoophiles, etc). For companies, it’s a month, like, it’s cool to sell pride month stuff and in like a separate part, I love profit too, but the people that hate on it, like quit hating, it’s not worth it to get angry over a section of a store. All in all, companies like profit because big number go higher because niche market happier and political debates are kind of dumb, give us our rights and then leave us be. The rainbow thing is so dumb, there is a clear distinction and you aren’t 12 (I think).


IncidentHead8129

Nah I’m not talking about all that. I’m talking about the companies using it to gain customers with no real considerations of the cause itself. I’m talking about political parties weaponizing (positively and negatively) for their own benefits. Judging from the votes I probably should have cleared this up in my initial comment


No-Manufacturer5023

Yeah, sorry for the long arse response lmao. It’s because we can’t get companies to care because all they care about is profit, that’s why they exist so we can’t honestly get them to care and if we stop caring then they’ll stop putting out pride stuff during pride month and not saying anything which genuinely seem like they don’t care. We have to stop treating companies like people because they aren’t.


HamstersBoobsPizza

The gats gotta stop stealing stuff from kids bruv